@Emhendo
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Aspects/ Placements/ Houses/ Signs That are Hard To Befriend
Scorpio moons in general. They’re very guarded.
Moon Pluto
Scorpio moon
Aqua moon (emotionally elusive)
Capricorn (cautious)
Scorpio moons in general. They’re very guarded.
What exactly does it mean to be guarded? I only ask because (true story) I've been recently told I seem guarded.
In general it's fire signs for me. They're too fast, extroverted, talkative (won't shut the hell up), too fired up = too energetic, sassy at the mouth and most importantly I gots no fire in my chart nor in me. This in general makes me an unmotivated person which some people might find hard to get along with me.
If they are hard to befriend then I don't know their chart because they aren't in my life. I'm too old and too tired to give that much effort and energy to new people. I have enough on my plate maintaining existing friendships.
I'm also 100% ok with someone being an acquaintance. We don't need to be besties. I take people for where they are atm and meet the effort given.
If they are hard to befriend then I don't know their chart because they aren't in my life. I'm too old and too tired to give that much effort and energy to new people. I have enough on my plate maintaining existing friendships.
I'm also 100% ok with someone being an acquaintance. We don't need to be besties. I take people for where they are atm and meet the effort given.
I agree or whatever, but you missed the assignment as usual.
It’s just an astrological theory, you don’t have to know these people. Just what do you think what in a chart would make such a person.
Me. No new friends.
Usually fellow air signs. Their language is lot of talk but not a lot of action. That's why they have to have fire and earth in their chart for us to have some common ground. Also the women with lot of air and water like to be dominated.
I agree about being hard to befriend (I fall into that category - sun moon rising gem, lib, aqua) both about talk and no action anndd the like to be dominated part.
I love when my mind is played with and then followed with action. My action used to be something else - used to act first when quite young but was turned around by the Mr. His talk, his demand changed my love language
The toughest people for me to get to know were the ones that have air element. And that is simply because I have zero air in my chart.
Pluto Libra for me doesn't really count.
Did you atleast try?
The toughest people for me to get to know were the ones that have air element. And that is simply because I have zero air in my chart.
Pluto Libra for me doesn't really count.
Me too, I have third house stellium though so can feel like introverted Gemini.
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Still an honorary gem, I say
The toughest people for me to get to know were the ones that have air element. And that is simply because I have zero air in my chart.
Pluto Libra for me doesn't really count.
Did you atleast try?
Of course! But if somebody is heavily air, I tend to not get close on purpose. We work on different frequencies entirely.
Since I have technically started a new job, with new faces, I don't really know everybody's chart around me yet.
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Fair enough
Scorpio moons in general. They’re very guarded.
What exactly does it mean to be guarded? I only ask because (true story) I've been recently told I seem guarded.
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Guarded as in very cautious in opening themselves up easily. I am like this as well with my tight moon sq pluto. It’s common among Hades moons.
Scorpio moons in general. They’re very guarded.
What exactly does it mean to be guarded? I only ask because (true story) I've been recently told I seem guarded.
Guarded as in very cautious in opening themselves up easily. I am like this as well with my tight moon sq pluto. It’s common among Hades moons.
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Oh well that's good to know some people in my daily life can see I'm closed up. I thought you been gonna come back with some horrid news like that's a sign of being a killer or something.
The toughest people for me to get to know were the ones that have air element. And that is simply because I have zero air in my chart.
Pluto Libra for me doesn't really count.
Did you atleast try?
Of course! But if somebody is heavily air, I tend to not get close on purpose. We work on different frequencies entirely.
Since I have technically started a new job, with new faces, I don't really know everybody's chart around me yet.
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funny reading this cuz I actually seem to have that magnetic pull when it comes to water signs in general. I do have have earth placements tho lol.
Air moons I have trouble with, which is funny since I am one. I get along with other fire signs best, since I understand the energy & they tend to understand me better, and don’t have desire to change me. Air suns the biggest thing I don’t like is they don’t tend to let me be me. Water suns I enjoy talking to, but not relationships and friendships can be difficult long term. They want more emotion from me and they seem whiny to me. My emotions seem to come in spurts, but I do like deep discussions not just surface. Surface annoys me. I’m a bunch of opposites sometimes lol. So befriending people? I don’t try. Let things click and if it works it does, otherwise it’s too much effort. I’d say my best friends these days is an Aries woman, a Leo guy, and a Scorpio woman ironically .. sometimes we need space.
To be honest I have grown not caring about putting efforts to befriend someone. So I don't know which placements are guarded or not. I think generally, ppl nowadays are guarded simply because there are too many shits going on in this world.
Also, I am not a social individual to begin with.
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