@AL4813
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Tell her thank you but you dont feel a connection
"We’ve been somewhat dating for a few weeks now and it’s truly amazing...."
".... how just alike she is to a previous Venus in Capricorn woman"
That was a good start, Al....followed by a surprising let down...
Cap venus or not (what's her sun sign...Aqua?), your dating seems to be lacking something you need or want. It's not just her favourite topic (career and money) that's bothering you. From what you wrote, I sense that you don't even like this person very much. You have enjoyed the challenge of getting her to warm up to you, but after several weeks of failing to do so, maybe it's time to admit defeat.
Weird. I love that placement on a person
Posted by BellabebeI’m not detached? The real thing is in this society you can’t be under your s/o 24hrs a day YOU HAVE TO HAVE A JOB are you clear? 😒
Lol I understand about jobs, careers.. everyone has them, I have a great career going for myself and I’m happy in it... but I don’t feel the need to have to put it above everything else, my job will be there.
It could be worse, she could have Moon in Cap too 😬🌚
Posted by dilettante🙄 what is this nonsense
this is some yahoo answers ass bullshit
I think tf not
Posted by nanorobotI love capricorn venus. What is the sun and moon? I remember your posts about your scorpio ex wife.
It sounds like you already made up your mind that you aren't interested though, so it's probably best to let this one go.
The relationship with my scorp ex was whew lol, one of emptiness yet a powerful union, Leo and Scorpio after all. It just seemed too dark, hell she even told me that I was too friendly with people 😂.
As for this new lady, she’s an Aquarius sun/Virgo moon. I know I probably need to just say I’m not interested but the Leo in me can’t say no lol, ugh Leo problems.
Posted by nanorobotI love capricorn venus. What is the sun and moon? I remember your posts about your scorpio ex wife.
It sounds like you already made up your mind that you aren't interested though, so it's probably best to let this one go.
I am surprised about what ta fuck FOR he posted it? 🤷♀️
Posted by GemitatiPosted by nanorobotI love capricorn venus. What is the sun and moon? I remember your posts about your scorpio ex wife.
It sounds like you already made up your mind that you aren't interested though, so it's probably best to let this one go.
I am surprised about what ta fuck FOR he posted it? 🤷♀️
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Probably because I haven’t made up my mind? Otherwise I wouldn’t be posting🤔🙄
Posted by AL4813Posted by GemitatiPosted by nanorobotI love capricorn venus. What is the sun and moon? I remember your posts about your scorpio ex wife.
It sounds like you already made up your mind that you aren't interested though, so it's probably best to let this one go.
I am surprised about what ta fuck FOR he posted it? 🤷♀️
Probably because I haven’t made up my mind? Otherwise I wouldn’t be posting🤔🙄
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You would. And you did. Common...
This is bullshit that it’s about cap Venus women. Yes career is important but so is family.. it’s just a balance that’s all. I want affection too just not to be smothered. Plus last I checked significant other is part of the family 🤦♀️
I should go for it even though my my Venus is in Gemini?
My chart:
Leo sun
Sag moon
Aries mars
Cancer mercury
Gemini venus
Aries rising
I mean I know our style differs greatly BUT I LOVE A CHALLENGE!! A GOOD BATTLE!!😜😈😈😁 the thrill of conquering this difficult obstacle is too much to resist.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by AL4813I should go for it even though my my Venus is in Gemini?
My chart:
Leo sun
Sag moon
Aries mars
Cancer mercury
Gemini venus
Aries rising
I mean I know our style differs greatly BUT I LOVE A CHALLENGE!! A GOOD BATTLE!!😜😈😈😁 the thrill of conquering this difficult obstacle is too much to resist.
Do it!!!!
Awesome... you guys are so incompatible, but that makes it even more fun!!😂🤣👍🏼👍🏼
Ok... I bet on you falling for her FIRST!!! 😝😝😝😝😝😝😝
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Hmmmm well she’s the one initiating, that Venus cap and cardinal energy there eh... I learned a ton while with my ex wife who has cap in Venus... the need for independence... sort of an interdependence style of love. I’ll give this one a shot and put what I’ve learned to use... I value commitment and long term relationships, family and home, only thing I take from Venus in Gemini is that I am playful in relationships and very spontaneous but no way do I sleep around.. too many diseases going around to be doing all of that... so I’ll give this cold hearted and detached yet persistent woman a shot.... plus she swallows... can’t let this one go that easily.
Posted by Sag898Weird. I love that placement on a person
Me too. I find them to be pretty passionate and not boring AT ALL.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Sag898Weird. I love that placement on a person
Me too. I find them to be pretty passionate and not boring AT ALL.
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Same. I love most cap placements for that. Solidness
am Leo dom with a Gem Venus also, and am with a Cap Moon/Merc/Venus lol....it grounds her Sag Sun for sure, and she is all about her business, loves to work, and very successful in her field...I find it really attractive, but yeah there are challenges....main thing I've learned with a gem venus, is I have to be the one to let my partner know if I'm feeling bored...she just simply does not need as much stimulation as I do....I can't expect her to read my mind, and communication is actually my strong suit, so its on me entirely....
and if I let her know I'm bored, she's always down to switch modes...down for whatever really....I don't find her cold/detached once engaged though, just more immersed and aloof when in her work....I have a lot of side-hobbies/projects so that works for me and I prefer it over clingy/always needing attention....as far as passion goes, best sexual chemistry I've had and I always have good chem. with any Aqua placement opp. my Leo placements....I'm Leo Mars she's Aqua Mars, and have found the same with Aqua Moon.....she has a super high sex drive, and is really freaky and passionate in the bedroom; I have zero complaints there....
Posted by bumboklattYes my capricorn venus
Go do this go do that in a borat voice
lol
Posted by Metatronam Leo dom with a Gem Venus also, and am with a Cap Moon/Merc/Venus lol....it grounds her Sag Sun for sure, and she is all about her business, loves to work, and very successful in her field...I find it really attractive, but yeah there are challenges....main thing I've learned with a gem venus, is I have to be the one to let my partner know if I'm feeling bored...she just simply does not need as much stimulation as I do....I can't expect her to read my mind, and communication is actually my strong suit, so its on me entirely....
and if I let her know I'm bored, she's always down to switch modes...down for whatever really....I don't find her cold/detached once engaged though, just more immersed and aloof when in her work....I have a lot of side-hobbies/projects so that works for me and I prefer it over clingy/always needing attention....as far as passion goes, best sexual chemistry I've had and I always have good chem. with any Aqua placement opp. my Leo placements....I'm Leo Mars she's Aqua Mars, and have found the same with Aqua Moon.....she has a super high sex drive, and is really freaky and passionate in the bedroom; I have zero complaints there....
Sounds familiar 😁 I’m sag sun, aqua moon, cap merc/Venus/mars. An ex was Gem Venus and I do well with Leo suns/mars too. Lots of chemistry with those placements.
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Good morning ladies and gentlemen. Once again I find a Venus in Capricorn lady interested. We’ve been somewhat dating for a few weeks now and it’s truly amazing how just alike she is to a previous Venus in Capricorn woman I was married to, so having said that I’m not sure if I want to proceed any further with her lol.
Being with a Venus in Capricorn person is to learn to accept they treat relationships like a business transaction. Also accepting they are very cold and detached individuals.. I think having Capricorn in Venus is a bad spot to have it in if you’re looking for a committed long term relationship. They are the type to put profession over everything relationship but still expect 100% devotion from their partner.
The word is they are loyal and devoted but we all know in business there’s no such thing as loyalty. I only believe she’s interested in me because I’ve been focused primarily on my work and school and laid out the goals I’m leaning toward. I naturally am a romantic/expressive type, and I know caps don’t really like that type of stuff.
I’m just not sure if I’m ready to get serious with someone again who’s going to be boring and only want to focus on the profession and money, I know that’s important as well but jeez live a little lol.