How can I help my boyfriend

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He's a Leo and I'm a Saggie. We've been dating for around 5 months and I've never wanted to meddle in his issues in case it could cause problems in our relationship. However, since we were all in a friend group together before the changed status, its difficult to separate love life and friends since its very much connected. From what I know of Leo men, they can be pretty stubborn in terms of how they view things and can be very hard to convince (from experience). I've only noticed how his personality can really effect our relationship and the people we are friends with. Just last night, we were all in a voice call, but when two other friends came in they only greeted everyone except him (from what he told me it happened a few times) . If I solely base it on the fact that Leos hate being ignored, not respected (intentional or unintentional) or receive the attention they need, they may feel quite offended and get mad. This honestly really concerns me especially when he said harsh words about how they are all rude people and doesn't want to contact them again (we are all in the same institute). If they ignored him (like I said, even if its unintentionally) then he will as well. I tried everything I could by trying to convince him that he shouldn't think too much/ they probably just didn't think much of it. I really wanted to say he shouldn't make a fuss over a small matter like this, but I was too chicken in case I hurt his ego and make it even worse. As of now, he's not as active in the group chat nor talking as much, and I know he's holding his emotions in, but I really don't want this friendship to break off since I'm in a really awkward position. None of the others know he's disappointed and becoming colder with them. Is there any way for me to hold this friendship together or how to convince him to turn his view on the situation for the better? Please help.