Moon conj Lilith in sinastry

As most astrology lovers, I know that Venus conj Lilith is often considered as the worst sinastry aspect.

At the same time, there is also Moon conj Lilith aspect which is said to be not very fortunate as well, but actually it is sort of light version of the aspect mentioned above.

What do you think? Have you ever felt that the aspect was not serving you well if you had it with your partner?

asteroid or dark moon?

Why?

Posted by peachy06

Looooooove it

Dark Moon.

Posted by rabidtalker

asteroid or dark moon?

I have it with my Leo friend...his aqua moon conjunct my aqua Lilith. As friends we are great, as "lovers" there was this weird aloofness/freaked out over loss of freedom (especially me) but also strong push/pull (we also have my Pluto sextile or trine to his Venus and my Pluto conjunct his ASC). I was really into him at first as he was me but I think there was something about me that freaked him out... he'll never admit lol. Anyway, he couldn't stay away tho..he wonder off, find other gfs, they'd break up and he'd be back and we did this back n forth for a while till he flipped my switch...now I feel nothing but friendship for him and he's been trying to become more with me for a while but I won't budge on it lol. I'm actually super proud of him...he went a whole year with no gf...he recently met someone tho and I'm happy for him and hope this one works out. Even tho I don't feel that way about him...I'd still get possessive and territorial over him (first time I haven't)...he does me too...it's a Leo thing lol. We also have a sun/moon conjunction 🙄

Do you mean black moon Lilth?

It's a really powerful aspect when activated. Like all aspects depends on the disposition of the people involved though.

As the planet person, Venus in libra sextile mars, eros, psyche and Neptune, I felt a intense desire that scared me for a long while. It's because of her I have researched and explored the lilth placement a ridiculous amount of time.

There really isn't much out there but I can say for sure Lilth acts like a ​combination of moon/pluto with a karmic twist. Negative or shallow unhealthy expressions of the sign will get a strong reaction from the Lilth person. A trigger for the person.

At the same time the Lilth person will receive karmic retribution( A Reality Check) for violating those same principles. These 2 points is why I say it depends on the disposition of the people involved.

A grain of salt though, it may not be as extreme as it was for her and me because our synastry is fucking nuts. A astrologer would have a field day with the aspects we have in play. To top it off she has Lilth conjunct moon, eros, & psyche and sextile Venus mars but square Sun and mercury in cancer. Giving her split nature from lack of understanding. I tried to help her out by pointing out what is bothering her and point out her triggers but she but refuses to listen to me. To top it off she has very poor choice in company causing herself a lot of pain and drama. Her Lilth is in Libra....She really is a amazing woman it hurts to see her becoming bitter over the years. Fucking stubborn woman.

Yet I am still 100% about my assessment of Lilth after interacting with her and observing other people's chart with Lilth and getting to know them as well. Lilth is my favorite placement and really powerful source of inspiration and energy in a woman if you learn to tap into it properly. It works a bit different with men but the same thing can be said too. It doesn't deserve it's bad reputation at all.