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Moons: Leo, Libra, Aries, Gemini

Venus: Sag, Leo and Gemini

Can’t be trusted as they get bored easily and likes shiny new toys. Green pastures complex is off the charts. Too bad that I really like Leo Venus placement
true. the green pasture complex has many people chasing illusions and fantasies, leaving them perpetually unfulfilled.
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People are too juvenile and fantastical to understand that we are all getting old and the idea is to build with someone for the worst days (sickness, health issues, financial troubles and overall adversity). For the good, you’ll always have people around, but it’s the bad times, that you want to build for.
wish more people thought like you.



it's so easy to find people who will be around during the good times. it's like the easiest thing in the world. what's more rare is finding someone who will be there during the difficult times. and also being someone who will be there through someone else's difficult time.



i'm a firm believer in the law of attraction and if you're the type of person who is serious about relationships, universe will send you someone who is serious too. someone can fool themselves and think they're ready for a ride or die, through thick and thin type relationship but you can't fool the universe. the universe will pick up on whether you're actually serious or not and your reality will reflect that.



my s/o and i, we've both had health issues, family drama, hardships in the past but we were there for each other. tying knot in november.

Yep, a rare mind indeed. I know that one day I’ll find someone similar and I’m also aware that it would take long given how rare the ideology is.



I’m happy that you found someone who endured trials and tribulations with you and vice versa, which truly strengthen a relationship and reveal the true character of a person.

i wouldn’t tell myself it will take long.

law of attraction, remember?

as someone who dislikes uncertainty and wasting time (i’m an aries so i naturally hate taking unnecessary detours towards my goal), i remember doing whatever i could to shorten the process of finding genuine love. i knew what i wanted right from the get go and never remotely entertained anything that wasn’t what i wanted. at the same time though, i’m aware that no one is the complete package (not even myself) so i’m pretty darn forgiving towards people’s minor/trivial flaws but i always made sure the other person had the non-negotiables such as a pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that.


your dreams will turn into reality quicker when you’re not putting out contradictory energy into the universe. for example, someone who says they wanna become financially well off but they’re watching Netflix all day instead of looking for ways to make money etc


or someone who says they want true, genuine, enduring love but they’re still entertaining flakey, indecisive weirdos.


these are some examples of people acting contradictory.


you’re gonna be okay because you’re smart.

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Spot on! Everything you said, I’m the same way!!! I don’t entertain pointless prospects and keep myself emotionally available for the right person. I keep my eyes, ears open because I can meet the right person anywhere and I observe people closely. I look for the exact same thing you mentioned above “ pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that” and refuse to entertain anyone with non-negotiable qualities/traits.


When I said that it will take long, it’s because people who think like us are rare. Most people do entertain useless prospects as placeholders or they’re seeking love while hung up over someone else (emotionally unavailable) or their priorities in a partnership are superficial.
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meanwhile, some women still hung up on unavailables dudes who have affairs with single moms via emails when they already have a toddler together.

standards.
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Moons: Leo, Libra, Aries, Gemini

Venus: Sag, Leo and Gemini

Can’t be trusted as they get bored easily and likes shiny new toys. Green pastures complex is off the charts. Too bad that I really like Leo Venus placement
true. the green pasture complex has many people chasing illusions and fantasies, leaving them perpetually unfulfilled.
click to expand
People are too juvenile and fantastical to understand that we are all getting old and the idea is to build with someone for the worst days (sickness, health issues, financial troubles and overall adversity). For the good, you’ll always have people around, but it’s the bad times, that you want to build for.
wish more people thought like you.



it's so easy to find people who will be around during the good times. it's like the easiest thing in the world. what's more rare is finding someone who will be there during the difficult times. and also being someone who will be there through someone else's difficult time.



i'm a firm believer in the law of attraction and if you're the type of person who is serious about relationships, universe will send you someone who is serious too. someone can fool themselves and think they're ready for a ride or die, through thick and thin type relationship but you can't fool the universe. the universe will pick up on whether you're actually serious or not and your reality will reflect that.



my s/o and i, we've both had health issues, family drama, hardships in the past but we were there for each other. tying knot in november.

Yep, a rare mind indeed. I know that one day I’ll find someone similar and I’m also aware that it would take long given how rare the ideology is.



I’m happy that you found someone who endured trials and tribulations with you and vice versa, which truly strengthen a relationship and reveal the true character of a person.

i wouldn’t tell myself it will take long.

law of attraction, remember?

as someone who dislikes uncertainty and wasting time (i’m an aries so i naturally hate taking unnecessary detours towards my goal), i remember doing whatever i could to shorten the process of finding genuine love. i knew what i wanted right from the get go and never remotely entertained anything that wasn’t what i wanted. at the same time though, i’m aware that no one is the complete package (not even myself) so i’m pretty darn forgiving towards people’s minor/trivial flaws but i always made sure the other person had the non-negotiables such as a pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that.


your dreams will turn into reality quicker when you’re not putting out contradictory energy into the universe. for example, someone who says they wanna become financially well off but they’re watching Netflix all day instead of looking for ways to make money etc


or someone who says they want true, genuine, enduring love but they’re still entertaining flakey, indecisive weirdos.


these are some examples of people acting contradictory.


you’re gonna be okay because you’re smart.

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Spot on! Everything you said, I’m the same way!!! I don’t entertain pointless prospects and keep myself emotionally available for the right person. I keep my eyes, ears open because I can meet the right person anywhere and I observe people closely. I look for the exact same thing you mentioned above “ pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that” and refuse to entertain anyone with non-negotiable qualities/traits.


When I said that it will take long, it’s because people who think like us are rare. Most people do entertain useless prospects as placeholders or they’re seeking love while hung up over someone else (emotionally unavailable) or their priorities in a partnership are superficial.

meanwhile, some women still hung up on unavailables dudes who have affairs with single moms via emails when they already have a toddler together.

standards.
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See! This is how most people are. My ex’s love history was comprised of nexus of rebound relationships because dude didn’t know how to be single. Emotional availability and not have some loser/virtual man live in your mind rent free is such a benefit not be thrown away for a subpar romantic prospect. People ought to keep it for a worthy prospect.
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Posted by aquarius09
Moons: Leo, Libra, Aries, Gemini

Venus: Sag, Leo and Gemini

Can’t be trusted as they get bored easily and likes shiny new toys. Green pastures complex is off the charts. Too bad that I really like Leo Venus placement
true. the green pasture complex has many people chasing illusions and fantasies, leaving them perpetually unfulfilled.
click to expand
People are too juvenile and fantastical to understand that we are all getting old and the idea is to build with someone for the worst days (sickness, health issues, financial troubles and overall adversity). For the good, you’ll always have people around, but it’s the bad times, that you want to build for.
wish more people thought like you.



it's so easy to find people who will be around during the good times. it's like the easiest thing in the world. what's more rare is finding someone who will be there during the difficult times. and also being someone who will be there through someone else's difficult time.



i'm a firm believer in the law of attraction and if you're the type of person who is serious about relationships, universe will send you someone who is serious too. someone can fool themselves and think they're ready for a ride or die, through thick and thin type relationship but you can't fool the universe. the universe will pick up on whether you're actually serious or not and your reality will reflect that.



my s/o and i, we've both had health issues, family drama, hardships in the past but we were there for each other. tying knot in november.

Yep, a rare mind indeed. I know that one day I’ll find someone similar and I’m also aware that it would take long given how rare the ideology is.



I’m happy that you found someone who endured trials and tribulations with you and vice versa, which truly strengthen a relationship and reveal the true character of a person.

i wouldn’t tell myself it will take long.

law of attraction, remember?

as someone who dislikes uncertainty and wasting time (i’m an aries so i naturally hate taking unnecessary detours towards my goal), i remember doing whatever i could to shorten the process of finding genuine love. i knew what i wanted right from the get go and never remotely entertained anything that wasn’t what i wanted. at the same time though, i’m aware that no one is the complete package (not even myself) so i’m pretty darn forgiving towards people’s minor/trivial flaws but i always made sure the other person had the non-negotiables such as a pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that.


your dreams will turn into reality quicker when you’re not putting out contradictory energy into the universe. for example, someone who says they wanna become financially well off but they’re watching Netflix all day instead of looking for ways to make money etc


or someone who says they want true, genuine, enduring love but they’re still entertaining flakey, indecisive weirdos.


these are some examples of people acting contradictory.


you’re gonna be okay because you’re smart.

click to expand

Spot on! Everything you said, I’m the same way!!! I don’t entertain pointless prospects and keep myself emotionally available for the right person. I keep my eyes, ears open because I can meet the right person anywhere and I observe people closely. I look for the exact same thing you mentioned above “ pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that” and refuse to entertain anyone with non-negotiable qualities/traits.


When I said that it will take long, it’s because people who think like us are rare. Most people do entertain useless prospects as placeholders or they’re seeking love while hung up over someone else (emotionally unavailable) or their priorities in a partnership are superficial.


meanwhile, some women still hung up on unavailables dudes who have affairs with single moms via emails when they already have a toddler together.


standards.

See! This is how most people are. My ex’s love history was comprised of nexus of rebound relationships because dude didn’t know how to be single. Emotional availability and not have some loser/virtual man live in your mind rent free is such a benefit not be thrown away for a subpar romantic prospect. People ought to keep it for a worthy prospect.
click to expand



but sometimes i feel like most men and women are both delusional in their own way anyhow. women always expecting dudes to magically change for them even tho they show very little to no interest.

meanwhile, a man can be barely employed, middle-aged, barely paying child support, have a receding hairline, with a string of failed relationships with maybe one long-term one that dumped them for greener pastures yet whom they consider the 'big love' of their lives YET still think they're doing so much better than these women with a couple of bad dates.
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Moons: Leo, Libra, Aries, Gemini

Venus: Sag, Leo and Gemini

Can’t be trusted as they get bored easily and likes shiny new toys. Green pastures complex is off the charts. Too bad that I really like Leo Venus placement
true. the green pasture complex has many people chasing illusions and fantasies, leaving them perpetually unfulfilled.
click to expand
People are too juvenile and fantastical to understand that we are all getting old and the idea is to build with someone for the worst days (sickness, health issues, financial troubles and overall adversity). For the good, you’ll always have people around, but it’s the bad times, that you want to build for.
wish more people thought like you.



it's so easy to find people who will be around during the good times. it's like the easiest thing in the world. what's more rare is finding someone who will be there during the difficult times. and also being someone who will be there through someone else's difficult time.



i'm a firm believer in the law of attraction and if you're the type of person who is serious about relationships, universe will send you someone who is serious too. someone can fool themselves and think they're ready for a ride or die, through thick and thin type relationship but you can't fool the universe. the universe will pick up on whether you're actually serious or not and your reality will reflect that.



my s/o and i, we've both had health issues, family drama, hardships in the past but we were there for each other. tying knot in november.

Yep, a rare mind indeed. I know that one day I’ll find someone similar and I’m also aware that it would take long given how rare the ideology is.



I’m happy that you found someone who endured trials and tribulations with you and vice versa, which truly strengthen a relationship and reveal the true character of a person.

i wouldn’t tell myself it will take long.

law of attraction, remember?

as someone who dislikes uncertainty and wasting time (i’m an aries so i naturally hate taking unnecessary detours towards my goal), i remember doing whatever i could to shorten the process of finding genuine love. i knew what i wanted right from the get go and never remotely entertained anything that wasn’t what i wanted. at the same time though, i’m aware that no one is the complete package (not even myself) so i’m pretty darn forgiving towards people’s minor/trivial flaws but i always made sure the other person had the non-negotiables such as a pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that.


your dreams will turn into reality quicker when you’re not putting out contradictory energy into the universe. for example, someone who says they wanna become financially well off but they’re watching Netflix all day instead of looking for ways to make money etc


or someone who says they want true, genuine, enduring love but they’re still entertaining flakey, indecisive weirdos.


these are some examples of people acting contradictory.


you’re gonna be okay because you’re smart.

click to expand

Spot on! Everything you said, I’m the same way!!! I don’t entertain pointless prospects and keep myself emotionally available for the right person. I keep my eyes, ears open because I can meet the right person anywhere and I observe people closely. I look for the exact same thing you mentioned above “ pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that” and refuse to entertain anyone with non-negotiable qualities/traits.


When I said that it will take long, it’s because people who think like us are rare. Most people do entertain useless prospects as placeholders or they’re seeking love while hung up over someone else (emotionally unavailable) or their priorities in a partnership are superficial.



meanwhile, some women still hung up on unavailables dudes who have affairs with single moms via emails when they already have a toddler together.



standards.


See! This is how most people are. My ex’s love history was comprised of nexus of rebound relationships because dude didn’t know how to be single. Emotional availability and not have some loser/virtual man live in your mind rent free is such a benefit not be thrown away for a subpar romantic prospect. People ought to keep it for a worthy prospect.

but sometimes i feel like most men and women are both delusional in their own way anyhow. women always expecting dudes to magically change for them even tho they show very little to no interest.

meanwhile, a man can be barely employed, middle-aged, barely paying child support, have a receding hairline, with a string of failed relationships with maybe one long-term one that dumped them for greener pastures yet whom they consider the 'big love' of their lives YET still think they're doing so much better than these women with a couple of bad dates.
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Both men and women in majority are fantasists because they grow up on some idealistic narrative. This is why I’m so anti-fantasy feeding upbringing. It stunts a person’s mental growth. This is where belief in religion stems from too. If I had kids I would never expose them to anything mystical or mythical like Disney, religious stories of super heroes, marvel comics Santa, and tooth fairy etc. Makes a person delusional from childhood well into adulthood. You’re crippled and so dependent on believing something quixotic that appeals to your fantasy.
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Moons: Leo, Libra, Aries, Gemini

Venus: Sag, Leo and Gemini

Can’t be trusted as they get bored easily and likes shiny new toys. Green pastures complex is off the charts. Too bad that I really like Leo Venus placement
true. the green pasture complex has many people chasing illusions and fantasies, leaving them perpetually unfulfilled.
click to expand
People are too juvenile and fantastical to understand that we are all getting old and the idea is to build with someone for the worst days (sickness, health issues, financial troubles and overall adversity). For the good, you’ll always have people around, but it’s the bad times, that you want to build for.
wish more people thought like you.



it's so easy to find people who will be around during the good times. it's like the easiest thing in the world. what's more rare is finding someone who will be there during the difficult times. and also being someone who will be there through someone else's difficult time.



i'm a firm believer in the law of attraction and if you're the type of person who is serious about relationships, universe will send you someone who is serious too. someone can fool themselves and think they're ready for a ride or die, through thick and thin type relationship but you can't fool the universe. the universe will pick up on whether you're actually serious or not and your reality will reflect that.



my s/o and i, we've both had health issues, family drama, hardships in the past but we were there for each other. tying knot in november.

Yep, a rare mind indeed. I know that one day I’ll find someone similar and I’m also aware that it would take long given how rare the ideology is.



I’m happy that you found someone who endured trials and tribulations with you and vice versa, which truly strengthen a relationship and reveal the true character of a person.

i wouldn’t tell myself it will take long.

law of attraction, remember?

as someone who dislikes uncertainty and wasting time (i’m an aries so i naturally hate taking unnecessary detours towards my goal), i remember doing whatever i could to shorten the process of finding genuine love. i knew what i wanted right from the get go and never remotely entertained anything that wasn’t what i wanted. at the same time though, i’m aware that no one is the complete package (not even myself) so i’m pretty darn forgiving towards people’s minor/trivial flaws but i always made sure the other person had the non-negotiables such as a pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that.


your dreams will turn into reality quicker when you’re not putting out contradictory energy into the universe. for example, someone who says they wanna become financially well off but they’re watching Netflix all day instead of looking for ways to make money etc


or someone who says they want true, genuine, enduring love but they’re still entertaining flakey, indecisive weirdos.


these are some examples of people acting contradictory.


you’re gonna be okay because you’re smart.

click to expand

Spot on! Everything you said, I’m the same way!!! I don’t entertain pointless prospects and keep myself emotionally available for the right person. I keep my eyes, ears open because I can meet the right person anywhere and I observe people closely. I look for the exact same thing you mentioned above “ pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that” and refuse to entertain anyone with non-negotiable qualities/traits.


When I said that it will take long, it’s because people who think like us are rare. Most people do entertain useless prospects as placeholders or they’re seeking love while hung up over someone else (emotionally unavailable) or their priorities in a partnership are superficial.
click to expand



entertaining useless prospects is actually a risky move.

the right ones (the kinda people you really want) will see you with the wrong ones and make assumptions about your character.

the right ones are gonna see you being a hot mess and decide not to approach you altogether.

you’re basically blowing any chance you could’ve had with the right one.

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Moons: Leo, Libra, Aries, Gemini

Venus: Sag, Leo and Gemini

Can’t be trusted as they get bored easily and likes shiny new toys. Green pastures complex is off the charts. Too bad that I really like Leo Venus placement
true. the green pasture complex has many people chasing illusions and fantasies, leaving them perpetually unfulfilled.
click to expand
People are too juvenile and fantastical to understand that we are all getting old and the idea is to build with someone for the worst days (sickness, health issues, financial troubles and overall adversity). For the good, you’ll always have people around, but it’s the bad times, that you want to build for.
wish more people thought like you.



it's so easy to find people who will be around during the good times. it's like the easiest thing in the world. what's more rare is finding someone who will be there during the difficult times. and also being someone who will be there through someone else's difficult time.



i'm a firm believer in the law of attraction and if you're the type of person who is serious about relationships, universe will send you someone who is serious too. someone can fool themselves and think they're ready for a ride or die, through thick and thin type relationship but you can't fool the universe. the universe will pick up on whether you're actually serious or not and your reality will reflect that.



my s/o and i, we've both had health issues, family drama, hardships in the past but we were there for each other. tying knot in november.

Yep, a rare mind indeed. I know that one day I’ll find someone similar and I’m also aware that it would take long given how rare the ideology is.



I’m happy that you found someone who endured trials and tribulations with you and vice versa, which truly strengthen a relationship and reveal the true character of a person.

i wouldn’t tell myself it will take long.

law of attraction, remember?

as someone who dislikes uncertainty and wasting time (i’m an aries so i naturally hate taking unnecessary detours towards my goal), i remember doing whatever i could to shorten the process of finding genuine love. i knew what i wanted right from the get go and never remotely entertained anything that wasn’t what i wanted. at the same time though, i’m aware that no one is the complete package (not even myself) so i’m pretty darn forgiving towards people’s minor/trivial flaws but i always made sure the other person had the non-negotiables such as a pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that.


your dreams will turn into reality quicker when you’re not putting out contradictory energy into the universe. for example, someone who says they wanna become financially well off but they’re watching Netflix all day instead of looking for ways to make money etc


or someone who says they want true, genuine, enduring love but they’re still entertaining flakey, indecisive weirdos.


these are some examples of people acting contradictory.


you’re gonna be okay because you’re smart.

click to expand

Spot on! Everything you said, I’m the same way!!! I don’t entertain pointless prospects and keep myself emotionally available for the right person. I keep my eyes, ears open because I can meet the right person anywhere and I observe people closely. I look for the exact same thing you mentioned above “ pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that” and refuse to entertain anyone with non-negotiable qualities/traits.


When I said that it will take long, it’s because people who think like us are rare. Most people do entertain useless prospects as placeholders or they’re seeking love while hung up over someone else (emotionally unavailable) or their priorities in a partnership are superficial.


entertaining useless prospects is actually a risky move.

the right ones (the kinda people you really want) will see you with the wrong ones and make assumptions about your character.

the right ones are gonna see you being a hot mess and decide not to approach you altogether.

you’re basically blowing any chance you could’ve had with the right one.

click to expand



Absolutely! Another downside to entertaining useless prospect. However, a lot of serial monogamist pull this while wholeheartedly believing that they could catch a good prospect while they have a live-in placeholder. LOL. I don’t know how they see that playing out. Obviously undermining the intellect of their ideal prospect thinking that they won’t catch on to the fact that they have someone in their life.
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Moons: Leo, Libra, Aries, Gemini

Venus: Sag, Leo and Gemini

Can’t be trusted as they get bored easily and likes shiny new toys. Green pastures complex is off the charts. Too bad that I really like Leo Venus placement

true. the green pasture complex has many people chasing illusions and fantasies, leaving them perpetually unfulfilled.
click to expand

People are too juvenile and fantastical to understand that we are all getting old and the idea is to build with someone for the worst days (sickness, health issues, financial troubles and overall adversity). For the good, you’ll always have people around, but it’s the bad times, that you want to build for.

wish more people thought like you.


it's so easy to find people who will be around during the good times. it's like the easiest thing in the world. what's more rare is finding someone who will be there during the difficult times. and also being someone who will be there through someone else's difficult time.


i'm a firm believer in the law of attraction and if you're the type of person who is serious about relationships, universe will send you someone who is serious too. someone can fool themselves and think they're ready for a ride or die, through thick and thin type relationship but you can't fool the universe. the universe will pick up on whether you're actually serious or not and your reality will reflect that.


my s/o and i, we've both had health issues, family drama, hardships in the past but we were there for each other. tying knot in november.
Yep, a rare mind indeed. I know that one day I’ll find someone similar and I’m also aware that it would take long given how rare the ideology is.


I’m happy that you found someone who endured trials and tribulations with you and vice versa, which truly strengthen a relationship and reveal the true character of a person.
i wouldn’t tell myself it will take long.

law of attraction, remember?

as someone who dislikes uncertainty and wasting time (i’m an aries so i naturally hate taking unnecessary detours towards my goal), i remember doing whatever i could to shorten the process of finding genuine love. i knew what i wanted right from the get go and never remotely entertained anything that wasn’t what i wanted. at the same time though, i’m aware that no one is the complete package (not even myself) so i’m pretty darn forgiving towards people’s minor/trivial flaws but i always made sure the other person had the non-negotiables such as a pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that.

your dreams will turn into reality quicker when you’re not putting out contradictory energy into the universe. for example, someone who says they wanna become financially well off but they’re watching Netflix all day instead of looking for ways to make money etc

or someone who says they want true, genuine, enduring love but they’re still entertaining flakey, indecisive weirdos.

these are some examples of people acting contradictory.

you’re gonna be okay because you’re smart.

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Spot on! Everything you said, I’m the same way!!! I don’t entertain pointless prospects and keep myself emotionally available for the right person. I keep my eyes, ears open because I can meet the right person anywhere and I observe people closely. I look for the exact same thing you mentioned above “ pure heart with good intentions, wholesome values, a stable head on their shoulders, high problem solving skills (cuz life is about solving one problem after another in a way) , can self-reflect (aware of their shortcomings as well as their strengths) and things like that” and refuse to entertain anyone with non-negotiable qualities/traits.

When I said that it will take long, it’s because people who think like us are rare. Most people do entertain useless prospects as placeholders or they’re seeking love while hung up over someone else (emotionally unavailable) or their priorities in a partnership are superficial.

entertaining useless prospects is actually a risky move.


the right ones (the kinda people you really want) will see you with the wrong ones and make assumptions about your character.


the right ones are gonna see you being a hot mess and decide not to approach you altogether.


you’re basically blowing any chance you could’ve had with the right one.

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Absolutely! Another downside to entertaining useless prospect. However, a lot of serial monogamist pull this while wholeheartedly believing that they could catch a good prospect while they have a live-in placeholder. LOL. I don’t know how they see that playing out. Obviously undermining the intellect of their ideal prospect thinking that they won’t catch on to the fact that they have someone in their life.
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the way i see it, if you treat love like a joke, it’s also gonna treat you like a joke too. we ultimately reap what we sow. i would avoid anyone who is always full of excuses. you know, those “nothing is ever my fault” type of people. you wanna stay far away from those ones lol also, if a dude is serious about you and has nothing to hide, he will try and make you a part of his daily routines and send you reassuring texts without you having to ask. when any issues come up, he’ll be like “let’s fix it together.”
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Are you someone who thrives on variety and options in their placements? Look no further! Our diverse range of placement opportunities offers a plethora of choices to match your preferences and skills. Whether you prefer a dynamic office environment, outdoor settings, or remote work, we have options that cater to your unique interests and needs. Explore the versatility of our placements and discover the perfect fit for your career journey."
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Posted by serenidad
one of my best friends (a virgo) used my shower yesterday and he told me i had way too much stuff out and that my bathroom looked cluttered.

he was like, “who the hell has six shower gels out at the same time?” 😅

he couldn’t understand why someone needed more than one out ?

i told him it’s because i don’t like using the same one every single day. and he was like, “why? just finish using one and then open another one. or your bathroom’s gonna be full of half-used bottles taking up unnecessary space.”

my s/o (sag) doesn’t mind that i have so many shower gels out since he has his own area and could care less what i do with mine. lol 😅. he even laughs about it. i try to keep all my stuff within my area, but i can understand how this would annoy certain people. 😅

i also noticed that i always need several different jams for my toast in the morning. (strawberry, blueberry, apricot, peach, fig jam just to name a few that’s currently in the fridge lol 😂 etc) also need a wide variety of teas. i get bored drinking the same tea, coffee all the time. s/o thinks nothing of it. to him, it’s just another day in the life of living with me 😅

i guess my question is,

i was wondering if there are specific placements in one’s natal chart that gravitate towards wanting variety ??

i have a gemini moon and gemini mars but i don’t find myself wanting variety in love and relationships for example…i don’t want a variety of lovers or be in an open relationship or anything crazy like that 😅. i wanna stay with one person and lead a drama-free, peaceful life 😅(venus in taurus). basically, i only want variety when it comes to everyday, trivial stuff like soaps, jams, music, movie genres, restaurants to eat at etc

can anyone else sorta relate?

what placements in your chart do you think are making you crave variety? and why?

my guess would be

signs that are filled with curiosity such as gemini, sag, aquarius placements ? possibly aries placements because they tend to look for stimulation a lot.

or any placements that tend to dislike the mundane / conventional?

does mutable energy crave more variety than fixed or cardinal energy or? (it’s most likely not that simple but just like in general?)

exhibit A: the incriminating shower gels lol 😂




I am a Gemini Moon, Mars, and Saturn... and all the signs you mentioned, lol... Aries Sun, Venus Aqua, Sag Neptune. I have lots of bodywashes, soaps, bath salts, perfumes, and lotions... way more than you posted. I have a linen closet for most of it.

Buffets are my favorite places to eat because I like lotsa choices.
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Are you someone who thrives on variety and options in their placements? Look no further! Our diverse range of placement opportunities offers a plethora of choices to match your preferences and skills. Whether you prefer a dynamic office environment, outdoor settings, or remote work, we have options that cater to your unique interests and needs. Explore the versatility of our placements and discover the perfect fit for your career journey."


is this a bot or something ?

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Idk if I believe in karma or reaping what you sow yadda yadda blah blah blah

I instead believe that life is a crapshoot and there is no rhyme or reason what comes to you and doesn’t. It’s not even luck, it is, what it is.

I remember this scene out of Clash of the Titans where Zeus and Hera are playing chess with the humans.

It’s all a game


i think some events are random and have no logical or rational meaning or reasoning behind it.

freak accidents like that bloomingdale library attack for example. an innocent girl that was on her way to return some library books was raped and beaten by a psycho who just so happened to see her there. the victim was left blind and permanently paralyzed/disabled for life.

many many cases like this happening everyday that make no logical or rational sense.

no one’s life improved, nothing was reformed or achieved, no epiphany happened in anyone, nothing good came out of any of it.

i used to wrack my brain trying to make sense of stuff like this but it literally led nowhere and i got bored asking questions that had no answers.

religious people who are convinced these freak accidents happen for a reason (that it was “god’s will” or however they wanna interpret it) most likely wouldn’t be saying the same things if the victim was their own daughter. they wouldn’t be as nonchalant about it as they are now. they would be singing a very different tune.



with that said, i do believe some things are very much within our control. like, who we choose to associate/interact with. (aside from family members we have to interact with whether we like it or not)

many people create their own misery by diving into things that they know won’t end well for them, willingly overlooking red flags in people, making excuses for why certain things are the way they are.

i once read a quote somewhere

“many people think they’re fighting demons but the whole time, it’s just accountability.”

and this one

“if someone wastes 10 minutes of your time, 8 minutes is your fault.”

these really hit me like a ton of bricks and snapped me out of any victim mentality.
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Posted by serenidad
one of my best friends (a virgo) used my shower yesterday and he told me i had way too much stuff out and that my bathroom looked cluttered.
he was like, “who the hell has six shower gels out at the same time?” 😅
he couldn’t understand why someone needed more than one out ?
i told him it’s because i don’t like using the same one every single day. and he was like, “why? just finish using one and then open another one. or your bathroom’s gonna be full of half-used bottles taking up unnecessary space.”
my s/o (sag) doesn’t mind that i have so many shower gels out since he has his own area and could care less what i do with mine. lol 😅. he even laughs about it. i try to keep all my stuff within my area, but i can understand how this would annoy certain people. 😅
i also noticed that i always need several different jams for my toast in the morning. (strawberry, blueberry, apricot, peach, fig jam just to name a few that’s currently in the fridge lol 😂 etc) also need a wide variety of teas. i get bored drinking the same tea, coffee all the time. s/o thinks nothing of it. to him, it’s just another day in the life of living with me 😅
i guess my question is,
i was wondering if there are specific placements in one’s natal chart that gravitate towards wanting variety ??
i have a gemini moon and gemini mars but i don’t find myself wanting variety in love and relationships for example…i don’t want a variety of lovers or be in an open relationship or anything crazy like that 😅. i wanna stay with one person and lead a drama-free, peaceful life 😅(venus in taurus). basically, i only want variety when it comes to everyday, trivial stuff like soaps, jams, music, movie genres, restaurants to eat at etc
can anyone else sorta relate?
what placements in your chart do you think are making you crave variety? and why?
my guess would be
signs that are filled with curiosity such as gemini, sag, aquarius placements ? possibly aries placements because they tend to look for stimulation a lot.
or any placements that tend to dislike the mundane / conventional?
does mutable energy crave more variety than fixed or cardinal energy or? (it’s most likely not that simple but just like in general?)
exhibit A: the incriminating shower gels lol 😂


I am a Gemini Moon, Mars, and Saturn... and all the signs you mentioned, lol... Aries Sun, Venus Aqua, Sag Neptune. I have lots of bodywashes, soaps, bath salts, perfumes, and lotions... way more than you posted. I have a linen closet for most of it.

Buffets are my favorite places to eat because I like lotsa choices.
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you’re me lol 😂 aries sun, gem moon, gem mars here

i used to love hotel buffets lol 😂 i can never eat as much as i think i can though. i’m usually more excited *before* going in lol 😅



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Posted by serenidad
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Posted by serenidad
one of my best friends (a virgo) used my shower yesterday and he told me i had way too much stuff out and that my bathroom looked cluttered.
he was like, “who the hell has six shower gels out at the same time?” 😅
he couldn’t understand why someone needed more than one out ?
i told him it’s because i don’t like using the same one every single day. and he was like, “why? just finish using one and then open another one. or your bathroom’s gonna be full of half-used bottles taking up unnecessary space.”
my s/o (sag) doesn’t mind that i have so many shower gels out since he has his own area and could care less what i do with mine. lol 😅. he even laughs about it. i try to keep all my stuff within my area, but i can understand how this would annoy certain people. 😅
i also noticed that i always need several different jams for my toast in the morning. (strawberry, blueberry, apricot, peach, fig jam just to name a few that’s currently in the fridge lol 😂 etc) also need a wide variety of teas. i get bored drinking the same tea, coffee all the time. s/o thinks nothing of it. to him, it’s just another day in the life of living with me 😅
i guess my question is,
i was wondering if there are specific placements in one’s natal chart that gravitate towards wanting variety ??
i have a gemini moon and gemini mars but i don’t find myself wanting variety in love and relationships for example…i don’t want a variety of lovers or be in an open relationship or anything crazy like that 😅. i wanna stay with one person and lead a drama-free, peaceful life 😅(venus in taurus). basically, i only want variety when it comes to everyday, trivial stuff like soaps, jams, music, movie genres, restaurants to eat at etc
can anyone else sorta relate?
what placements in your chart do you think are making you crave variety? and why?
my guess would be
signs that are filled with curiosity such as gemini, sag, aquarius placements ? possibly aries placements because they tend to look for stimulation a lot.
or any placements that tend to dislike the mundane / conventional?
does mutable energy crave more variety than fixed or cardinal energy or? (it’s most likely not that simple but just like in general?)
exhibit A: the incriminating shower gels lol 😂

I am a Gemini Moon, Mars, and Saturn... and all the signs you mentioned, lol... Aries Sun, Venus Aqua, Sag Neptune. I have lots of bodywashes, soaps, bath salts, perfumes, and lotions... way more than you posted. I have a linen closet for most of it.
Buffets are my favorite places to eat because I like lotsa choices.

you’re me lol 😂 aries sun, gem moon, gem mars here

i used to love hotel buffets lol 😂 i can never eat as much as i think i can though. i’m usually more excited *before* going in lol 😅



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Amazing.

I too love hotel buffets the most... so much that I will choose a hotel based on that fact almost alone. Nor can I eat that much. I just want choices. I can usually get in a plate really. I push it a little with a second.

I bet we have more things in common.
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I have a pretty fixed chart. I'm the type that keeps one of pretty much everything till it runs out, and I need to get something new. Like I literally have 1 pair of good shoes, and one pair of work shoes. When they get old or dirty, I throw them away and get new. Same with body wash. Though I do change up my shampoo and conditioner when the bottle runs out. I never use the same brand in a row. I got to keep my hair perfect, and the same exact shampoo and conditioner is bad for hair.

At the same time I don't think I would really call someone out for having a variety of stuff. Unless it was like, crazy. Even then it wouldn't really bother me. As much as I rant and act dramatic here, I'm a actually a pretty simple man. For me it just makes sense to use one type of body wash, then when that one gets low, I buy a new one. I actually like the idea of people who like variety. To me it just sounds creative and interesting.
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Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by serenidad
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Posted by serenidad
one of my best friends (a virgo) used my shower yesterday and he told me i had way too much stuff out and that my bathroom looked cluttered.
he was like, “who the hell has six shower gels out at the same time?” 😅
he couldn’t understand why someone needed more than one out ?
i told him it’s because i don’t like using the same one every single day. and he was like, “why? just finish using one and then open another one. or your bathroom’s gonna be full of half-used bottles taking up unnecessary space.”
my s/o (sag) doesn’t mind that i have so many shower gels out since he has his own area and could care less what i do with mine. lol 😅. he even laughs about it. i try to keep all my stuff within my area, but i can understand how this would annoy certain people. 😅
i also noticed that i always need several different jams for my toast in the morning. (strawberry, blueberry, apricot, peach, fig jam just to name a few that’s currently in the fridge lol 😂 etc) also need a wide variety of teas. i get bored drinking the same tea, coffee all the time. s/o thinks nothing of it. to him, it’s just another day in the life of living with me 😅
i guess my question is,
i was wondering if there are specific placements in one’s natal chart that gravitate towards wanting variety ??
i have a gemini moon and gemini mars but i don’t find myself wanting variety in love and relationships for example…i don’t want a variety of lovers or be in an open relationship or anything crazy like that 😅. i wanna stay with one person and lead a drama-free, peaceful life 😅(venus in taurus). basically, i only want variety when it comes to everyday, trivial stuff like soaps, jams, music, movie genres, restaurants to eat at etc
can anyone else sorta relate?
what placements in your chart do you think are making you crave variety? and why?
my guess would be
signs that are filled with curiosity such as gemini, sag, aquarius placements ? possibly aries placements because they tend to look for stimulation a lot.
or any placements that tend to dislike the mundane / conventional?
does mutable energy crave more variety than fixed or cardinal energy or? (it’s most likely not that simple but just like in general?)
exhibit A: the incriminating shower gels lol 😂

I am a Gemini Moon, Mars, and Saturn... and all the signs you mentioned, lol... Aries Sun, Venus Aqua, Sag Neptune. I have lots of bodywashes, soaps, bath salts, perfumes, and lotions... way more than you posted. I have a linen closet for most of it.
Buffets are my favorite places to eat because I like lotsa choices.
you’re me lol 😂 aries sun, gem moon, gem mars here
i used to love hotel buffets lol 😂 i can never eat as much as i think i can though. i’m usually more excited *before* going in lol 😅


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Amazing.

I too love hotel buffets the most... so much that I will choose a hotel based on that fact almost alone. Nor can I eat that much. I just want choices. I can usually get in a plate really. I push it a little with a second.

I bet we have more things in common.
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i bet we do lol

i’m still trying to figure out why us gemini moons/mars insist on doing many tasks simultaneously when we know darn well we’re so forgetful? 😂 or maybe it’s just me i dunno ?? 😂

for example, we might start cooking, laundry, vacuuming the house, start a little DIY project, listen to a podcast , research something online all at the same time and somehow forget about the wet laundry in the washing machine lol 😂 like 2 hours later, we’re like “oh wait, the laundry!” lol
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I have a pretty fixed chart. I'm the type that keeps one of pretty much everything till it runs out, and I need to get something new. Like I literally have 1 pair of good shoes, and one pair of work shoes. When they get old or dirty, I throw them away and get new. Same with body wash. Though I do change up my shampoo and conditioner when the bottle runs out. I never use the same brand in a row. I got to keep my hair perfect, and the same exact shampoo and conditioner is bad for hair.

At the same time I don't think I would really call someone out for having a variety of stuff. Unless it was like, crazy. Even then it wouldn't really bother me. As much as I rant and act dramatic here, I'm an actually a pretty simple man. For me it just makes sense to use one type of body wash, then when that one gets low, I buy a new one. I actually like the idea of people who like variety. To me it just sounds creative and interesting.




as a leo, you gotta keep that lion’s mane looking majestic 😂 most of the leo dudes i know have nice, luscious hair and even the ones that don’t, always look dressed to the nines. they know what looks good on themselves.

i’ve seen you post pics before too. your hair was on point, man! 😂

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also, using something until it gets old and worn out is good (your shoes and stuff). 🙂 it shows that you respect your belongings.
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one of my best friends (a virgo) used my shower yesterday and he told me i had way too much stuff out and that my bathroom looked cluttered.
he was like, “who the hell has six shower gels out at the same time?” 😅
he couldn’t understand why someone needed more than one out ?
i told him it’s because i don’t like using the same one every single day. and he was like, “why? just finish using one and then open another one. or your bathroom’s gonna be full of half-used bottles taking up unnecessary space.”
my s/o (sag) doesn’t mind that i have so many shower gels out since he has his own area and could care less what i do with mine. lol 😅. he even laughs about it. i try to keep all my stuff within my area, but i can understand how this would annoy certain people. 😅
i also noticed that i always need several different jams for my toast in the morning. (strawberry, blueberry, apricot, peach, fig jam just to name a few that’s currently in the fridge lol 😂 etc) also need a wide variety of teas. i get bored drinking the same tea, coffee all the time. s/o thinks nothing of it. to him, it’s just another day in the life of living with me 😅
i guess my question is,
i was wondering if there are specific placements in one’s natal chart that gravitate towards wanting variety ??
i have a gemini moon and gemini mars but i don’t find myself wanting variety in love and relationships for example…i don’t want a variety of lovers or be in an open relationship or anything crazy like that 😅. i wanna stay with one person and lead a drama-free, peaceful life 😅(venus in taurus). basically, i only want variety when it comes to everyday, trivial stuff like soaps, jams, music, movie genres, restaurants to eat at etc
can anyone else sorta relate?
what placements in your chart do you think are making you crave variety? and why?
my guess would be
signs that are filled with curiosity such as gemini, sag, aquarius placements ? possibly aries placements because they tend to look for stimulation a lot.
or any placements that tend to dislike the mundane / conventional?
does mutable energy crave more variety than fixed or cardinal energy or? (it’s most likely not that simple but just like in general?)
exhibit A: the incriminating shower gels lol 😂

I am a Gemini Moon, Mars, and Saturn... and all the signs you mentioned, lol... Aries Sun, Venus Aqua, Sag Neptune. I have lots of bodywashes, soaps, bath salts, perfumes, and lotions... way more than you posted. I have a linen closet for most of it.
Buffets are my favorite places to eat because I like lotsa choices.
you’re me lol 😂 aries sun, gem moon, gem mars here
i used to love hotel buffets lol 😂 i can never eat as much as i think i can though. i’m usually more excited *before* going in lol 😅

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Amazing.
I too love hotel buffets the most... so much that I will choose a hotel based on that fact almost alone. Nor can I eat that much. I just want choices. I can usually get in a plate really. I push it a little with a second.
I bet we have more things in common.

i bet we do lol

i’m still trying to figure out why us gemini moons/mars insist on doing many tasks simultaneously when we know darn well we’re so forgetful? 😂 or maybe it’s just me i dunno ?? 😂

for example, we might start cooking, laundry, vacuuming the house, start a little DIY project, listen to a podcast , research something online all at the same time and somehow forget about the wet laundry in the washing machine lol 😂 like 2 hours later, we’re like “oh wait, the laundry!” lol

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Me too...all the time. Mine would be forgetting food I'm cooking on the stove, particularly rice. Always cooking rice.. Went to take the dog out with a pot of rice on high. And yes, laundry too but that's not a big deal. I'll remember when I remember lol. Or, my husband will need to use the wash and put in the dryer for me...and most time fold it too. I left some towels in a basket for two weeks.

I want to reupholster my kitchen table seats. I'm afraid I won't finish even though I know I will. And, I can't decide on a fabric.
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Posted by serenidad
one of my best friends (a virgo) used my shower yesterday and he told me i had way too much stuff out and that my bathroom looked cluttered.
he was like, “who the hell has six shower gels out at the same time?” 😅
he couldn’t understand why someone needed more than one out ?
i told him it’s because i don’t like using the same one every single day. and he was like, “why? just finish using one and then open another one. or your bathroom’s gonna be full of half-used bottles taking up unnecessary space.”
my s/o (sag) doesn’t mind that i have so many shower gels out since he has his own area and could care less what i do with mine. lol 😅. he even laughs about it. i try to keep all my stuff within my area, but i can understand how this would annoy certain people. 😅
i also noticed that i always need several different jams for my toast in the morning. (strawberry, blueberry, apricot, peach, fig jam just to name a few that’s currently in the fridge lol 😂 etc) also need a wide variety of teas. i get bored drinking the same tea, coffee all the time. s/o thinks nothing of it. to him, it’s just another day in the life of living with me 😅
i guess my question is,
i was wondering if there are specific placements in one’s natal chart that gravitate towards wanting variety ??
i have a gemini moon and gemini mars but i don’t find myself wanting variety in love and relationships for example…i don’t want a variety of lovers or be in an open relationship or anything crazy like that 😅. i wanna stay with one person and lead a drama-free, peaceful life 😅(venus in taurus). basically, i only want variety when it comes to everyday, trivial stuff like soaps, jams, music, movie genres, restaurants to eat at etc
can anyone else sorta relate?
what placements in your chart do you think are making you crave variety? and why?
my guess would be
signs that are filled with curiosity such as gemini, sag, aquarius placements ? possibly aries placements because they tend to look for stimulation a lot.
or any placements that tend to dislike the mundane / conventional?
does mutable energy crave more variety than fixed or cardinal energy or? (it’s most likely not that simple but just like in general?)
exhibit A: the incriminating shower gels lol 😂

I am a Gemini Moon, Mars, and Saturn... and all the signs you mentioned, lol... Aries Sun, Venus Aqua, Sag Neptune. I have lots of bodywashes, soaps, bath salts, perfumes, and lotions... way more than you posted. I have a linen closet for most of it.
Buffets are my favorite places to eat because I like lotsa choices.
you’re me lol 😂 aries sun, gem moon, gem mars here
i used to love hotel buffets lol 😂 i can never eat as much as i think i can though. i’m usually more excited *before* going in lol 😅

click to expand
Amazing.
I too love hotel buffets the most... so much that I will choose a hotel based on that fact almost alone. Nor can I eat that much. I just want choices. I can usually get in a plate really. I push it a little with a second.
I bet we have more things in common.

i bet we do lol

i’m still trying to figure out why us gemini moons/mars insist on doing many tasks simultaneously when we know darn well we’re so forgetful? 😂 or maybe it’s just me i dunno ?? 😂

for example, we might start cooking, laundry, vacuuming the house, start a little DIY project, listen to a podcast , research something online all at the same time and somehow forget about the wet laundry in the washing machine lol 😂 like 2 hours later, we’re like “oh wait, the laundry!” lol



Me too...all the time. Mine would be forgetting food I'm cooking on the stove, particularly rice. Always cooking rice.. Went to take the dog out with a pot of rice on high. And yes, laundry too but that's not a big deal. I'll remember when I remember lol. Or, my husband will need to use the wash and put in the dryer for me...and most time fold it too. I left some towels in a basket for two weeks.

I want to reupholster my kitchen table seats. I'm afraid I won't finish even though I know I will. And, I can't decide on a fabric.
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😂 that’s hilarious that you took the dog out while the rice was cooking on the stove 😂 lol

i’ve burnt soups before (forgot i was even making soup lmaoo ) 😂 lol

your husband is a virgo, right? (i remember you mentioning it somewhere) i swear every aries needs a virgo to pick up our slacks 😂 my best friend is a virgo too and he has taught me sooo much about organization and efficient ways to do chores lol

hope you decide on a good fabric design for your kitchen table seats! choose something you won’t get bored of! something bright and cheerful? something that makes you feel happy every time you walk into the kitchen 🙂