@Luny7
8 Years
Venus in Gemini
Venus in Gemini Meaning and Traits
Venus in Gemini is associated with intellectual curiosity, social versatility, and a love for communication. While some see it as flighty or inconsistent, others find it charming and adaptable. This placement encourages lively interactions and mental stimulation in relationships, making it ideal for those who value variety and intellectual connection.
Venus in Gemini is a curse, let me repeat, it is a CURSE !
For the person who has the placement, and the person who falls in love with them, for both !
If you ask someone with Venus in Gemini they will tell you why.
1. They cannot commit.
2. Even when they commit, they flirt/cheat behind your back (casual flirting/sex).
3. Possessive, and take it very seriously when you flirt with someone.
4. Once they know they have your attention, their interest in you starts to fade.
Posted by nakedgirlavalanche
why?
I like ViG
Posted by c0mrade
If you ask someone with Venus in Gemini they will tell you why.
1. They cannot commit.
2. Even when they commit, they flirt/cheat behind your back (casual flirting/sex).
3. Possessive, and take it very seriously when you flirt with someone.
4. Once they know they have your attention, their interest in you starts to fade.
Posted by nakedgirlavalanche
why?
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Not all
Is this a good match for aqua venus?
Of course, not everyone.
If you have other signs which could balance the flighty nature, then it is good.
But think of someone who has other placements also bit flighty... !!!
Posted by Luny7
Not all
My boyfriend and I both have this placement.
I enjoy intellectuals and witty conversations.
That's attractive to me.
I do have a wandering eye but the Taurus sun keeps me in relationships.
Posted by c0mrade
If you ask someone with Venus in Gemini they will tell you why.
1. They cannot commit.
2. Even when they commit, they flirt/cheat behind your back (casual flirting/sex).
3. Possessive, and take it very seriously when you flirt with someone.
4. Once they know they have your attention, their interest in you starts to fade.
Posted by nakedgirlavalanche
why?
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In my youth all the above was true.
I have defiently evolved and after heartbreak I have changed my ways.
Not just Taurus Sun, thanks to your Virgo moon too! Sadly, I have a Leo Moon.
But it is good to know that we evolve after a few hard lessons.
Posted by Boots1313
In my youth all the above was true.
I have defiently evolved and after heartbreak I have changed my ways.
Posted by c0mrade
Not just Taurus Sun, thanks to your Virgo moon too! Sadly, I have a Leo Moon.
But it is good to know that we evolve after a few hard lessons.
Posted by Boots1313
In my youth all the above was true.
I have defiently evolved and after heartbreak I have changed my ways.
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Yes it's a conscious effort tho. I still have my.mkments of weakness, I get lonely, but the risk is not worth it. Karma is a bitch.
I'd rather now work on what's wrong in my relationship then seeks another or entertain someone else
Posted by Boots1313
Posted by c0mrade
Not just Taurus Sun, thanks to your Virgo moon too! Sadly, I have a Leo Moon.
But it is good to know that we evolve after a few hard lessons.
Posted by Boots1313
In my youth all the above was true.
I have defiently evolved and after heartbreak I have changed my ways.
Yes it's a conscious effort tho. I still have my.mkments of weakness, I get lonely, but the risk is not worth it. Karma is a bitch.
I'd rather now work on what's wrong in my relationship then seeks another or entertain someone else
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I think my cancer mars also gets emotional and keeps me from getting bored once I have someone's attention. Becasue I crave stability and mushiness
I'm not good at reading aspects no idea what they mean...
I have Moon square Venus
Venus conjuct Jupiter
Venus square asc. Node
Anyone wanna enlighten me?
TL;DR....glad I have this placement....too much fixed energy in my chart as it is, helps me get in and out of entanglments much easier than I would otherwise....ways I'd describe myself in relationships, some contrary to things stated in thread:
- not overly concerned about the superficial - minds and hearts are more interesting to me than ass & tits. I've fallen in love just thru convo, and if that happened, like if I were to meet someone online for instance and in person underneath the filters and camera angles, she's not 1/2 as hot as her selfies, I wouldn't mind....probably even feel relieved on some level. Cute looks are enough for me. Cuteness as a personality trait I'm learning, is extremely powerful over me, as is humor and charm. Prefer this over chicks who try hard to act sexy/seducitve/overly raunchy, etc. Mental connection is almost everything to me. Looks fade. We'll all get ugly eventually - or at least be past our prime for several decades.
- I feel I'm very adaptable and can understand/experience different perspectives, more so as I age, and I enjoy that. I can be in love with 5 people, or just 1, could marry an Amish chick and bang through a hole in a sheet, or do ritualistic orgies at Bohemian Grove in Baphomet suits - whatever floats your little man in the boat as long as we set ground rules/expectations. The thinner we spread our affections, the less depth we'll have w/each other, but there's advantages to that also IMO. Have grown more than a little weary of the heavy/obsessive relationships that I'm traditionally drawn to....
- Have had my hoe-ish phases like anyone but I don't sleep around, can easily be faithful to one person when in love, without straying, and have done it for yrs. If the expectation is singular devotion though, I'll expect that from you and be extremely jealous if you deviate from it. Equality/balance are important to me. I can tolerate a wandering eye somewhat. Its natural - physical atraction can't be avoided. If its a constant thing though, I'll assume I just am not doing it for you, and I'll lose interest myself as we're not a good fit. Worse, if you flaunt it/throw it in my face to push my buttons bc you're a gamer (very common IME), I won't take you seriously, my eye will wander far and wide, my heart will follow shortly, and eventually so will my penus. Several relationships have gone this way in early phases in the latter 1/2 of my life. Have no tolerance for infidelity having been cheated on, so we're basically in an open relationship if that's the message I'm getting. I'll enjoy that too (see above on being adaptable). I make that very clear in a relationship so if you still go that route, you're probably lowkey into cuckoldry, and I'm here to help....
- I get bored easily and boredom is death - need someone I can talk to, prefer bookish types, someone analytical who I can carry on more of a philosophical conversation with. Mesh well intellectually with Libras, Scorps, Sags, Gems, and Virgos. Aquas are weird but I like them more as I age. Communication is key for me and any healthy relationship IMO, so if you are the type that can't talk through emotions, it won't work, I'll lose interest....I make it clear at every stage if this is happening. I love creative types also. What can we teach each other, create, or learn alongside one another, etc.? Key themes for me. I don't like stagnant relationships.
- Misc.- I change a lot, and contradict myself often. IMO, its not necessarily a contradiction if I don't feel the same way on any particular day. I need lots of freedom and alone time, rotate many different hobbies, etc., but I am ok with some clinginess as long as it isn't oppressive. I'm flirtatious with the opposite sex I've been told by all my SO's (who are always jealous types), but irl its through innocent humor, never sexual, not even innuendo as I consider it disrespectful. I like having a circle of close friends that is like family, and bringing my partner into that - game nights, going out together, but also vacationing...I talk too much, have trouble being concise obviously...especially when I have too much coffee....
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unhid it....
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Posted by c0mrade
If you ask someone with Venus in Gemini they will tell you why.
1. They cannot commit.
2. Even when they commit, they flirt/cheat behind your back (casual flirting/sex).
3. Possessive, and take it very seriously when you flirt with someone.
4. Once they know they have your attention, their interest in you starts to fade.
Posted by nakedgirlavalanche
why?
This all sounds like Leo moon and Taurus sun in your case
Taurus and Leo moon is possessive
Leo moon is flirtatious
Leo moon gets bored very easily
So does Gemini Venus
Your chart is just too hot for a healthy long-term commitment
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I don't get bored easily or really flirt with my Leo moon but my Venus is in retro as well...so maybe that's why.
Posted by Metatron
Posted by Boots1313
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unhid it....
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Yoire awesome 😀
Thank ya!
I always dig your responses.
Posted by Black-Mamba
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Posted by Black-Mamba
Posted by c0mrade
If you ask someone with Venus in Gemini they will tell you why.
1. They cannot commit.
2. Even when they commit, they flirt/cheat behind your back (casual flirting/sex).
3. Possessive, and take it very seriously when you flirt with someone.
4. Once they know they have your attention, their interest in you starts to fade.
Posted by nakedgirlavalanche
why?
This all sounds like Leo moon and Taurus sun in your case
Taurus and Leo moon is possessive
Leo moon is flirtatious
Leo moon gets bored very easily
So does Gemini Venus
Your chart is just too hot for a healthy long-term commitment
I don't get bored easily or really flirt with my Leo moon but my Venus is in retro as well...so maybe that's why.
its not that i get bored easily, but i can get bored of someone, if they're not mentally stimulating or interesting
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I gotcha...then if that's the case, yes I can be the same way
Posted by c0mrade
Not just Taurus Sun, thanks to your Virgo moon too! Sadly, I have a Leo Moon.
But it is good to know that we evolve after a few hard lessons.
Posted by Boots1313
In my youth all the above was true.
I have defiently evolved and after heartbreak I have changed my ways.
sadly for leo moon ?
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Posted by Metatron
TL;DR....glad I have this placement....too much fixed energy in my chart as it is, helps me get in and out of entanglments much easier than I would otherwise....ways I'd describe myself in relationships, some contrary to things stated in thread:
- not overly concerned about the superficial - minds and hearts are more interesting to me than ass & tits. I've fallen in love just thru convo, and if that happened, like if I were to meet someone online for instance and in person underneath the filters and camera angles, she's not 1/2 as hot as her selfies, I wouldn't mind....probably even feel relieved on some level. Cute looks are enough for me. Cuteness as a personality trait I'm learning, is extremely powerful over me, as is humor and charm. Prefer this over chicks who try hard to act sexy/seducitve/overly raunchy, etc. Mental connection is almost everything to me. Looks fade. We'll all get ugly eventually - or at least be past our prime for several decades.
- I feel I'm very adaptable and can understand/experience different perspectives, more so as I age, and I enjoy that. I can be in love with 5 people, or just 1, could marry an Amish chick and bang through a hole in a sheet, or do ritualistic orgies at Bohemian Grove in Baphomet suits - whatever floats your little man in the boat as long as we set ground rules/expectations. The thinner we spread our affections, the less depth we'll have w/each other, but there's advantages to that also IMO. Have grown more than a little weary of the heavy/obsessive relationships that I'm traditionally drawn to....
- Have had my hoe-ish phases like anyone but I don't sleep around, can easily be faithful to one person when in love, without straying, and have done it for yrs. If the expectation is singular devotion though, I'll expect that from you and be extremely jealous if you deviate from it. Equality/balance are important to me. I can tolerate a wandering eye somewhat. Its natural - physical atraction can't be avoided. If its a constant thing though, I'll assume I just am not doing it for you, and I'll lose interest myself as we're not a good fit. Worse, if you flaunt it/throw it in my face to push my buttons bc you're a gamer (very common IME), I won't take you seriously, my eye will wander far and wide, my heart will follow shortly, and eventually so will my penus. Several relationships have gone this way in early phases in the latter 1/2 of my life. Have no tolerance for infidelity having been cheated on, so we're basically in an open relationship if that's the message I'm getting. I'll enjoy that too (see above on being adaptable). I make that very clear in a relationship so if you still go that route, you're probably lowkey into cuckoldry, and I'm here to help....
- I get bored easily and boredom is death - need someone I can talk to, prefer bookish types, someone analytical who I can carry on more of a philosophical conversation with. Mesh well intellectually with Libras, Scorps, Sags, Gems, and Virgos. Aquas are weird but I like them more as I age. Communication is key for me and any healthy relationship IMO, so if you are the type that can't talk through emotions, it won't work, I'll lose interest....I make it clear at every stage if this is happening. I love creative types also. What can we teach each other, create, or learn alongside one another, etc.? Key themes for me. I don't like stagnant relationships.
- Misc.- I change a lot, and contradict myself often. IMO, its not necessarily a contradiction if I don't feel the same way on any particular day. I need lots of freedom and alone time, rotate many different hobbies, etc., but I am ok with some clinginess as long as it isn't oppressive. I'm flirtatious with the opposite sex I've been told by all my SO's (who are always jealous types), but irl its through innocent humor, never sexual, not even innuendo as I consider it disrespectful. I like having a circle of close friends that is like family, and bringing my partner into that - game nights, going out together, but also vacationing...I talk too much, have trouble being concise obviously...especially when I have too much coffee....
Yes, bookish types, intellectual conversations, creative types, more philosophy, it all rings true.
Posted by Luny7
Posted by Metatron
TL;DR....glad I have this placement....too much fixed energy in my chart as it is, helps me get in and out of entanglments much easier than I would otherwise....ways I'd describe myself in relationships, some contrary to things stated in thread:
- not overly concerned about the superficial - minds and hearts are more interesting to me than ass & tits. I've fallen in love just thru convo, and if that happened, like if I were to meet someone online for instance and in person underneath the filters and camera angles, she's not 1/2 as hot as her selfies, I wouldn't mind....probably even feel relieved on some level. Cute looks are enough for me. Cuteness as a personality trait I'm learning, is extremely powerful over me, as is humor and charm. Prefer this over chicks who try hard to act sexy/seducitve/overly raunchy, etc. Mental connection is almost everything to me. Looks fade. We'll all get ugly eventually - or at least be past our prime for several decades.
- I feel I'm very adaptable and can understand/experience different perspectives, more so as I age, and I enjoy that. I can be in love with 5 people, or just 1, could marry an Amish chick and bang through a hole in a sheet, or do ritualistic orgies at Bohemian Grove in Baphomet suits - whatever floats your little man in the boat as long as we set ground rules/expectations. The thinner we spread our affections, the less depth we'll have w/each other, but there's advantages to that also IMO. Have grown more than a little weary of the heavy/obsessive relationships that I'm traditionally drawn to....
- Have had my hoe-ish phases like anyone but I don't sleep around, can easily be faithful to one person when in love, without straying, and have done it for yrs. If the expectation is singular devotion though, I'll expect that from you and be extremely jealous if you deviate from it. Equality/balance are important to me. I can tolerate a wandering eye somewhat. Its natural - physical atraction can't be avoided. If its a constant thing though, I'll assume I just am not doing it for you, and I'll lose interest myself as we're not a good fit. Worse, if you flaunt it/throw it in my face to push my buttons bc you're a gamer (very common IME), I won't take you seriously, my eye will wander far and wide, my heart will follow shortly, and eventually so will my penus. Several relationships have gone this way in early phases in the latter 1/2 of my life. Have no tolerance for infidelity having been cheated on, so we're basically in an open relationship if that's the message I'm getting. I'll enjoy that too (see above on being adaptable). I make that very clear in a relationship so if you still go that route, you're probably lowkey into cuckoldry, and I'm here to help....
- I get bored easily and boredom is death - need someone I can talk to, prefer bookish types, someone analytical who I can carry on more of a philosophical conversation with. Mesh well intellectually with Libras, Scorps, Sags, Gems, and Virgos. Aquas are weird but I like them more as I age. Communication is key for me and any healthy relationship IMO, so if you are the type that can't talk through emotions, it won't work, I'll lose interest....I make it clear at every stage if this is happening. I love creative types also. What can we teach each other, create, or learn alongside one another, etc.? Key themes for me. I don't like stagnant relationships.
- Misc.- I change a lot, and contradict myself often. IMO, its not necessarily a contradiction if I don't feel the same way on any particular day. I need lots of freedom and alone time, rotate many different hobbies, etc., but I am ok with some clinginess as long as it isn't oppressive. I'm flirtatious with the opposite sex I've been told by all my SO's (who are always jealous types), but irl its through innocent humor, never sexual, not even innuendo as I consider it disrespectful. I like having a circle of close friends that is like family, and bringing my partner into that - game nights, going out together, but also vacationing...I talk too much, have trouble being concise obviously...especially when I have too much coffee....
Yes, bookish types, intellectual conversations, creative types, more philosophy, it all rings true.
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I wonder how does Venus Gemini relates to venus in Scorpio. The key is a communication, which Scorps. Lack
I guess our charts are almost identical - my Mars in Cancer as well. Are you by any chance 1989 born?
Posted by Boots1313
I think my cancer mars also gets emotional and keeps me from getting bored once I have someone's attention. Becasue I crave stability and mushiness
Thank you Mamba, that was very reassuring. lol
Posted by Black-Mamba
This all sounds like Leo moon and Taurus sun in your case
Taurus and Leo moon is possessive
Leo moon is flirtatious
Leo moon gets bored very easily
So does Gemini Venus
Your chart is just too hot for a healthy long-term commitment
Posted by c0mrade
I guess our charts are almost identical - my Mars in Cancer as well. Are you by any chance 1989 born?
Posted by Boots1313
I think my cancer mars also gets emotional and keeps me from getting bored once I have someone's attention. Becasue I crave stability and mushiness
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Yes, 1989. my bfs chart is similar too. but he's 1991. He's missing that cap clusterfuck
Is it bad I always prefer to first give out the bad traits of all placements? or am I filled with too much self hatred and negativity? lol
Romantically speaking, Leo moon can be very generous and sincere if they think they found the true love. A lot of fun, genuine, and make good friends at work.
🙂
Posted by Luny7
cOmrade any thoughts about Leo moon?
Venus in Capricorn and us hit it off right off the bat! What's your bf Venus/Mars?
Posted by Boots1313
Yes, 1989. my bfs chart is similar too. but he's 1991. He's missing that cap clusterfuck
Posted by c0mrade
Venus in Capricorn and us hit it off right off the bat! What's your bf Venus/Mars?
Posted by Boots1313
Yes, 1989. my bfs chart is similar too. but he's 1991. He's missing that cap clusterfuck
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He's gem Venus and cancer mars as well.
Sun Taurus, moon Libra, merc aries, Jupiter leo
Posted by c0mrade
Is it bad I always prefer to first give out the bad traits of all placements? or am I filled with too much self hatred and negativity? lol
Romantically speaking, Leo moon can be very generous and sincere if they think they found the true love. A lot of fun, genuine, and make good friends at work.
🙂
Posted by Luny7
cOmrade any thoughts about Leo moon?
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My best friend is leo moon, she's annoyed the fuck out of me and is such an embarrassment when we go out.
That might just be the alcoholism tho...
Posted by Boots1313
My best friend is leo moon, she's annoyed the fuck out of me and is such an embarrassment when we go out.
That might just be the alcoholism tho...
We turn into these freaks once alcohol is inside us, we go fucking crazy!!! (but only with the right set of friends, otherwise, we know how to turn it down)
Only others with equal craziness can cope with this (probably other Leos, Pisces, Gemini)
Posted by c0mrade
Posted by Boots1313
My best friend is leo moon, she's annoyed the fuck out of me and is such an embarrassment when we go out.
That might just be the alcoholism tho...
We turn into these freaks once alcohol is inside us, we go fucking crazy!!! (but only with the right set of friends, otherwise, we know how to turn it down)
Only others with equal craziness can cope with this (probably other Leos, Pisces, Gemini)
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Yeah my earth placements can't handle it.
Posted by Boots1313
Posted by c0mrade
Venus in Capricorn and us hit it off right off the bat! What's your bf Venus/Mars?
Posted by Boots1313
Yes, 1989. my bfs chart is similar too. but he's 1991. He's missing that cap clusterfuck
He's gem Venus and cancer mars as well.
Sun Taurus, moon Libra, merc aries, Jupiter leo
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Any thoughts on this @c0mrade
Separation after 20 years of marriage must've been very hard on you both. It is exactly for this reason ( or for this fear) I am non-committal. Even paranoid about getting married and settling down...
Posted by RooSagicorn
My ex husband has a Gemini Venus. I didn’t really think this sounded like him at first. But really I guess it is except with me. I was really his first serious relationship at 26. Otherwise it was a bunch of flings. We were together 20 years though, married& kids. Now he’s been with the same woman for 4 years but very noncommittal.
I've not dated other Tauruses, so I really can't tell how it's like to date someone with Libra moon. But I've known people with Sun Taurus/Moon Libra; they are very likable with an amicable personality. They generally fall for a Capricorn though... lol
How's it going between you two?
Posted by Boots1313
Any thoughts on this @c0mrade
Yes, I know it is stupid.
Posted by Black-Mamba
that just sounds ridiculously stupid
Posted by c0mrade
I've not dated other Tauruses, so I really can't tell how it's like to date someone with Libra moon. But I've known people with Sun Taurus/Moon Libra; they are very likable with an amicable personality. They generally fall for a Capricorn though... lol
How's it going between you two?
Posted by Boots1313
Any thoughts on this @c0mrade
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He's only dated aquas before I. And he seems to be attracted to air signs. We get a long well, fell for each other very quick. I think he's my "soulmate", a bit of a power struggle. I'm clingy and codependent which doesn't really bother him, but it makes me annoyed with myself. We fight often, but we love harder and we always communicate and compromise. If say the most adult and mature relationship I've been in. Plus we have a lot in common. We just really seem to understand each other. Also we laugh a lot and I think that's important.
I have Venus in Gemini. I'll admit when I was younger in my teens, I thought committed relationships were a joke, especially at that age. Obviously as I got older, I realized I do enjoy being committed to one person & person only. I'm not possessive, only a little territorial and that's with bf (He's a Gem), and with best friends at times. Nothing psychotic on my end, just my emotions get the best of me. Other than that; I'm faithful & loyal AF 🙂
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Posted by nakedgirlavalanche
Posted by Antiochus
There is no bad sign for Venus. Venus can be good in any sign.
There are however bad aspects to it. Venuc conjunct can be pretty devastating but might add much needed stability to a Gemini Venus.
The only really bad Venus is a retrograde Venus.
my venus in retro, what it mean?
Plainly: trouble with relationships, expressing love/feelings, takes love and relationships very seriously, tends to feel deep, unable to love yourself
That's it on the top of my head.
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"Plainly: trouble with relationships, expressing love/feelings, takes love and relationships very seriously, tends to feel deep, unable to love yourself"
Ugh can totally relate to this. Gem guy I'm dating also has venus retro in gem... sounds like him to a T lol
Posted by nanobot
We're just a bunch of good fer nothin cheating heauxs
Yes. Good.
Know your place lol
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Hi guys, anyone with a Venus in Gemini? Seems it gets pretty bad reputation, being flighty , unstable, is it really bad placement to have?
Some People I met with this Venus were the opposite, intellectual, unique.
What you think? ♊