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So, all of my life plans are somehow tied to having a life with someone, like everything else will automatically fall into piece. For example, there is a man I like who is not interested in my existence, and he lives in a nice big city. Here I am dreaming of living and working there, being in a relationship, and even though I could, I somehow never think about moving myself...it's like if I don't have a relationship, I don't exist. I am very confused. So far I know it's my 7th House Sun in Aries, Libra Rising and Pisces Venus...but I can't believe it's this intense. I feel as though I am missing out on my own life because of infatuation, love, romance, relationships and I can't help myself 😬🤦‍♀️ I'll post my chart if someone can tell me wtc is wrong with me?

https://imgur.com/a/5p3ldBq
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So, all of my life plans are somehow tied to having a life with someone, like everything else will automatically fall into piece. For example, there is a man I like who is not interested in my existence, and he lives in a nice big city. Here I am dreaming of living and working there, being in a relationship, and even though I could, I somehow never think about moving myself...it's like if I don't have a relationship, I don't exist. I am very confused. So far I know it's my 7th House Sun in Aries, Libra Rising and Pisces Venus...but I can't believe it's this intense. I feel as though I am missing out on my own life because of infatuation, love, romance, relationships and I can't help myself 😬🤦‍♀️ I'll post my chart if someone can tell me wtc is wrong with me?

https://imgur.com/a/5p3ldBq


Have you ever dated?
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So, all of my life plans are somehow tied to having a life with someone, like everything else will automatically fall into piece. For example, there is a man I like who is not interested in my existence, and he lives in a nice big city. Here I am dreaming of living and working there, being in a relationship, and even though I could, I somehow never think about moving myself...it's like if I don't have a relationship, I don't exist. I am very confused. So far I know it's my 7th House Sun in Aries, Libra Rising and Pisces Venus...but I can't believe it's this intense. I feel as though I am missing out on my own life because of infatuation, love, romance, relationships and I can't help myself 😬🤦‍♀️ I'll post my chart if someone can tell me wtc is wrong with me?

https://imgur.com/a/5p3ldBq

Have you ever dated?
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I've had two very long relationships, one with a Capricorn, the other with a Scorpio. Naah, I only have flings or relationships.
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So, all of my life plans are somehow tied to having a life with someone, like everything else will automatically fall into piece. For example, there is a man I like who is not interested in my existence, and he lives in a nice big city. Here I am dreaming of living and working there, being in a relationship, and even though I could, I somehow never think about moving myself...it's like if I don't have a relationship, I don't exist. I am very confused. So far I know it's my 7th House Sun in Aries, Libra Rising and Pisces Venus...but I can't believe it's this intense. I feel as though I am missing out on my own life because of infatuation, love, romance, relationships and I can't help myself 😬🤦‍♀️ I'll post my chart if someone can tell me wtc is wrong with me?

https://imgur.com/a/5p3ldBq

Have you ever dated?

I've had two very long relationships, one with a Capricorn, the other with a Scorpio. Naah, I only have flings or relationships.
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Is this yea or no? If you talk like this in real life - THATS maybe a problem. 🤔
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Sun in 7

Moon in 4

Venus in Pisces

Maybe you yearn for romance/partnership and a home/children?

Yeah I am very bipolar. I am very ambitious career wise and a workaholic. I know what I like and where my interests lie, and this logical me is at wars with my emotional me. My profession is a calling so my life and philosophy is connected to it, and I simply fall in love with a soul which is in a way connected to mine...don't know how to put this...I am not happy without a mate but I am also not happy being in a relationship without being super productive.

I have started getting interested in Astrology in order to understand myself and believe me, I've been in therapy for years and no psychiatrist explained me to me like Astrology does...that's why I post my chart and ask for insight because I want to learn and by being here I see how complex the matter is.
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So, all of my life plans are somehow tied to having a life with someone, like everything else will automatically fall into piece. For example, there is a man I like who is not interested in my existence, and he lives in a nice big city. Here I am dreaming of living and working there, being in a relationship, and even though I could, I somehow never think about moving myself...it's like if I don't have a relationship, I don't exist. I am very confused. So far I know it's my 7th House Sun in Aries, Libra Rising and Pisces Venus...but I can't believe it's this intense. I feel as though I am missing out on my own life because of infatuation, love, romance, relationships and I can't help myself 😬🤦‍♀️ I'll post my chart if someone can tell me wtc is wrong with me?

https://imgur.com/a/5p3ldBq

Have you ever dated?

I've had two very long relationships, one with a Capricorn, the other with a Scorpio. Naah, I only have flings or relationships.

Is this yea or no? If you talk like this in real life - THATS maybe a problem. 🤔
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If you manage in real life, I am safe.
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So, all of my life plans are somehow tied to having a life with someone, like everything else will automatically fall into piece. For example, there is a man I like who is not interested in my existence, and he lives in a nice big city. Here I am dreaming of living and working there, being in a relationship, and even though I could, I somehow never think about moving myself...it's like if I don't have a relationship, I don't exist. I am very confused. So far I know it's my 7th House Sun in Aries, Libra Rising and Pisces Venus...but I can't believe it's this intense. I feel as though I am missing out on my own life because of infatuation, love, romance, relationships and I can't help myself 😬🤦‍♀️ I'll post my chart if someone can tell me wtc is wrong with me?

https://imgur.com/a/5p3ldBq

Have you ever dated?

I've had two very long relationships, one with a Capricorn, the other with a Scorpio. Naah, I only have flings or relationships.

Is this yea or no? If you talk like this in real life - THATS maybe a problem. 🤔

If you manage in real life, I am safe.
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True. Except I…MANAGE!
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I can 100% relate I spent like 35 years of my life, not really having a direction or vision for my future. I thought whatever that is I will create it with whatever partner I have. I really wasn't motivated to create or pursue any dreams of my own, I was just floating around trying to figure out wtf life was.

I wasn't until I got pregnant by a completely unreliable man, that I went fuck it... I don't need this shit. And I answered really important questions for myself like "wtf do you want your life to look like?"

Honestly I still have an external force motivating me (my kid), but I've answered the question and I'm building it one day at a time.
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So, all of my life plans are somehow tied to having a life with someone, like everything else will automatically fall into piece. For example, there is a man I like who is not interested in my existence, and he lives in a nice big city. Here I am dreaming of living and working there, being in a relationship, and even though I could, I somehow never think about moving myself...it's like if I don't have a relationship, I don't exist. I am very confused. So far I know it's my 7th House Sun in Aries, Libra Rising and Pisces Venus...but I can't believe it's this intense. I feel as though I am missing out on my own life because of infatuation, love, romance, relationships and I can't help myself 😬🤦‍♀️ I'll post my chart if someone can tell me wtc is wrong with me?

https://imgur.com/a/5p3ldBq

Have you ever dated?

I've had two very long relationships, one with a Capricorn, the other with a Scorpio. Naah, I only have flings or relationships.

Is this yea or no? If you talk like this in real life - THATS maybe a problem. 🤔

If you manage in real life, I am safe.

True. Except I…MANAGE!

Gurl why you using a pic from the 70s?
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Catfishing never goes out of style . People lets not bash her looks because odds are good that's not even her and some ones grams doesn't deserve to get looks shamed on dxp.
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Might not be reassuring but according to red pill theory it isn't a you but a general thing.

Jokes aside, do you want to be in a relationship with the dude or do you want to be in a relationship in general?

Do you want children?

I don't know if I want to be in a relationship with him if it were possible because I am very complicated and with a lot of issues. Don't know if I'd like to bring that into his life. Also, I don't know how I'd feel because he is super important and accomplished. All I do know is that I really enjoyed myself with him and that the energy felt right. I rarely like anyone...about children I don't know...biology says one thing, logic another...
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So, all of my life plans are somehow tied to having a life with someone, like everything else will automatically fall into piece. For example, there is a man I like who is not interested in my existence, and he lives in a nice big city. Here I am dreaming of living and working there, being in a relationship, and even though I could, I somehow never think about moving myself...it's like if I don't have a relationship, I don't exist. I am very confused. So far I know it's my 7th House Sun in Aries, Libra Rising and Pisces Venus...but I can't believe it's this intense. I feel as though I am missing out on my own life because of infatuation, love, romance, relationships and I can't help myself 😬🤦‍♀️ I'll post my chart if someone can tell me wtc is wrong with me?

https://imgur.com/a/5p3ldBq

Have you ever dated?

I've had two very long relationships, one with a Capricorn, the other with a Scorpio. Naah, I only have flings or relationships.

Is this yea or no? If you talk like this in real life - THATS maybe a problem. 🤔

If you manage in real life, I am safe.

True. Except I…MANAGE!

Gurl why you using a pic from the 70s?
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Because soon after this pic was taken I’ve met

My Husband…

It’s 1991 and WHY are you TAKING pictures with mask on? It’s utterly retarded…🤔
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Might not be reassuring but according to red pill theory it isn't a you but a general thing.

Jokes aside, do you want to be in a relationship with the dude or do you want to be in a relationship in general?

Do you want children?

I don't know if I want to be in a relationship with him if it were possible because I am very complicated and with a lot of issues. Don't know if I'd like to bring that into his life. Also, I don't know how I'd feel because he is super important and accomplished. All I do know is that I really enjoyed myself with him and that the energy felt right. I rarely like anyone...about children I don't know...biology says one thing, logic another...

Do you think you can even be in a relationship?
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I know I'd like to be, but luckily that's not an option in reality
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Op maybe this is something everyone goes through... in some form.

I spent most of my childhood wanting to have financial freedom. Prioritized my career and spent the last 15 years striving towards that. Now all I care about is quality of life and how I can work less. Been turning down projects and rush jobs cause I no longer want to do the 70hr work weeks... give me my weekends back.

There are people who get locked down in relationships and are just waiting for their kids to be grown so they can leave and act out their 20s in their 40s. While your on the outside looking in wanting what they have they are looking at you envying your freedom.
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Op maybe this is something everyone goes through... in some form.

I spent most of my childhood wanting to have financial freedom. Prioritized my career and spent the last 15 years striving towards that. Now all I care about is quality of life and how I can work less. Been turning down projects and rush jobs cause I no longer want to do the 70hr work weeks... give me my weekends back.

There are people who get locked down in relationships and are just waiting for their kids to be grown so they can leave and act out their 20s in their 40s. While your on the outside looking in wanting what they have they are looking at you envying your freedom.


Your moms cougaring really fucked you up haven’t it? 🤔oy vey…
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Op maybe this is something everyone goes through... in some form.

I spent most of my childhood wanting to have financial freedom. Prioritized my career and spent the last 15 years striving towards that. Now all I care about is quality of life and how I can work less. Been turning down projects and rush jobs cause I no longer want to do the 70hr work weeks... give me my weekends back.

There are people who get locked down in relationships and are just waiting for their kids to be grown so they can leave and act out their 20s in their 40s. While your on the outside looking in wanting what they have they are looking at you envying your freedom.

Your moms cougaring really fucked you up haven’t it? 🤔oy vey…
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You need some pasta. I can tell your hangry.
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Op maybe this is something everyone goes through... in some form.

I spent most of my childhood wanting to have financial freedom. Prioritized my career and spent the last 15 years striving towards that. Now all I care about is quality of life and how I can work less. Been turning down projects and rush jobs cause I no longer want to do the 70hr work weeks... give me my weekends back.

There are people who get locked down in relationships and are just waiting for their kids to be grown so they can leave and act out their 20s in their 40s. While your on the outside looking in wanting what they have they are looking at you envying your freedom.

Your moms cougaring really fucked you up haven’t it? 🤔oy vey…

You need some pasta. I can tell your hangry.
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I applaud you for having nerves to always reply to her in a decent manner.
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It’s not you or your chart. Society does a really good job of making people feel like their life and/or accomplishments don’t mean much if they don’t also have a partner who appears to love them because it’s obviously just so sad to see someone go home at the end of the day just to be all alone (maybe with some cats or dogs that are seen as filling some empty void). But regardless of all that, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being a hopeless romantic. Love and partnership can be a beautiful thing as long as it enhances your life. You are either going to continue to live in your head or go out and actually do something about it. What is holding you back from doing the latter? Rejection? Insecurity? Work/life balance? Whatever it is, there’s a solution to everything.
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Sun in 7

Moon in 4

Venus in Pisces

Maybe you yearn for romance/partnership and a home/children?

Yeah I am very bipolar. I am very ambitious career wise and a workaholic. I know what I like and where my interests lie, and this logical me is at wars with my emotional me. My profession is a calling so my life and philosophy is connected to it, and I simply fall in love with a soul which is in a way connected to mine...don't know how to put this...I am not happy without a mate but I am also not happy being in a relationship without being super productive.

I have started getting interested in Astrology in order to understand myself and believe me, I've been in therapy for years and no psychiatrist explained me to me like Astrology does...that's why I post my chart and ask for insight because I want to learn and by being here I see how complex the matter is.
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How old are you? I say that because I think we go through stages in life. I think that you shouldn’t be in a relationship unless it’s good for you. That means someone who can handle the bipolar, whose on board with your career and supportive instead of selfish.

I get it.. I like being in relationships, have been in ones most of my life. However, the last few years have been about me seeing I need to do what’s best for me & my life and that isn’t necessarily being in a relationship. It might be with the right person… and that’s not about a list, & they should be a good match but about what’s reality in how compatible you are. Astrology can help with that, but isn’t always the answer.
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Might not be reassuring but according to red pill theory it isn't a you but a general thing.

Jokes aside, do you want to be in a relationship with the dude or do you want to be in a relationship in general?

Do you want children?

I don't know if I want to be in a relationship with him if it were possible because I am very complicated and with a lot of issues. Don't know if I'd like to bring that into his life. Also, I don't know how I'd feel because he is super important and accomplished. All I do know is that I really enjoyed myself with him and that the energy felt right. I rarely like anyone...about children I don't know...biology says one thing, logic another...

Do you think you can even be in a relationship?

I know I'd like to be, but luckily that's not an option in reality

Why?
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Because the feelings are not mutual
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Sun in 7

Moon in 4

Venus in Pisces

Maybe you yearn for romance/partnership and a home/children?

Yeah I am very bipolar. I am very ambitious career wise and a workaholic. I know what I like and where my interests lie, and this logical me is at wars with my emotional me. My profession is a calling so my life and philosophy is connected to it, and I simply fall in love with a soul which is in a way connected to mine...don't know how to put this...I am not happy without a mate but I am also not happy being in a relationship without being super productive.

I have started getting interested in Astrology in order to understand myself and believe me, I've been in therapy for years and no psychiatrist explained me to me like Astrology does...that's why I post my chart and ask for insight because I want to learn and by being here I see how complex the matter is.

How old are you? I say that because I think we go through stages in life. I think that you shouldn’t be in a relationship unless it’s good for you. That means someone who can handle the bipolar, whose on board with your career and supportive instead of selfish.

I get it.. I like being in relationships, have been in ones most of my life. However, the last few years have been about me seeing I need to do what’s best for me & my life and that isn’t necessarily being in a relationship. It might be with the right person… and that’s not about a list, & they should be a good match but about what’s reality in how compatible you are. Astrology can help with that, but isn’t always the answer.
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I am 32, and thank you, your reply is very insightful, but I do believe that a Natal charts represents our Astral DNA, which doesn't mean that there is no place for mutations called free will. For example I have no Gemini in my chart, and I lack that kind of energy, but am not attracted to it...a Gemini induced person has a totally different outlook on life, behaves differently and so on, so I do feel that my aspects play a part in me being who I am...
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I knew someone with same Sun and moon combo as yours . She was hung on this Scorpio Sun , cap moon guy for years. All that she did was waste so many years on him .

Were they in a relationship or was it an infatuation/obsession?

They were married . Initially he was into her but after 2-3 years he started cheating . There came a time when he also told her that he wants out but she would somehow not give up. Things just got worst and it never worked. They are divorced now but even after that she said once that she wants a guy who has similar qualities as him. Yes she didn’t mean cheating and abuse but still I am surprised she may want anything like him .
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That sounds like a terrible marriage. I just talked to this older Scorpio guy who left a wife and 3 children for a much younger woman. He is a family friend and my mom warned me never ever to be alone with him! 😳

Mom knows best!

As far as being attracted to the same energy, I mean I get it. It’s like me and my ex Leo. Although he didn’t cheat on me or anything like that. But I feel cheated by him in other ways. I for sure would not lose as much time on someone like that this time around. Even if we were married. I guess I became stronger but also colder.
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So, all of my life plans are somehow tied to having a life with someone, like everything else will automatically fall into piece. For example, there is a man I like who is not interested in my existence, and he lives in a nice big city. Here I am dreaming of living and working there, being in a relationship, and even though I could, I somehow never think about moving myself...it's like if I don't have a relationship, I don't exist. I am very confused. So far I know it's my 7th House Sun in Aries, Libra Rising and Pisces Venus...but I can't believe it's this intense. I feel as though I am missing out on my own life because of infatuation, love, romance, relationships and I can't help myself 😬🤦‍♀️ I'll post my chart if someone can tell me wtc is wrong with me?

https://imgur.com/a/5p3ldBq

Chart is life path, not necessary you.

I will say when it cones to placements you are missing quite a lot. Care to dm birth details?
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So, all of my life plans are somehow tied to having a life with someone, like everything else will automatically fall into piece. For example, there is a man I like who is not interested in my existence, and he lives in a nice big city. Here I am dreaming of living and working there, being in a relationship, and even though I could, I somehow never think about moving myself...it's like if I don't have a relationship, I don't exist. I am very confused. So far I know it's my 7th House Sun in Aries, Libra Rising and Pisces Venus...but I can't believe it's this intense. I feel as though I am missing out on my own life because of infatuation, love, romance, relationships and I can't help myself 😬🤦‍♀️ I'll post my chart if someone can tell me wtc is wrong with me?

https://imgur.com/a/5p3ldBq

Chart is life path, not necessary you.

I will say when it cones to placements you are missing quite a lot. Care to dm birth details?
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with pleasure, just send me a message because I am not sure how it goes