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Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way beforeclick to expand
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.click to expand
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.
Posted by Amourr
This is why I always have a backup plan and a backup plan for the backup plan. It helps you not care when things like this happen.
I don't use friends like this though.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.click to expand
Yeah I get the analogy, but it's hard to study for a test without the knowledge of the right exam material.
You guys have been doing this vague dance of you knowing she's straight and curious and her knowing you are fully capable of liking her as a women but not making a confident move towards her. So it's moving super slow and just staying in a safe zone. I guess soon enough someone will admit something and see where it ends up.
You guys aren't even in a relationship and are having relationship problems! 😆
Posted by emeraldgem
@saggurl88 - GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY HEAD.....😝
I'm about to steal her girl in a minute!!! 😆
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
That's not true at all. I'm incredibly sensitive to any feedback like that. I'd probably react apologetically or angrily, depending on if I felt it was warranted.click to expand
I'm assuming she's a typical Gemini- You are in a category of your own with that moon of yours! 😛 And I would think if she had your moon, they would probably have a better understanding of each other then what's currently gong on.
Pisces placements get Pisces placements very easily.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.click to expand
Dang, this is 100% truth!! Most can't handle it but boy words, can be just that, words. Lmao
We persevere for what we want!! 😜
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.
Yeah I get the analogy, but it's hard to study for a test without the knowledge of the right exam material.
You guys have been doing this vague dance of you knowing she's straight and curious and her knowing you are fully capable of liking her as a women but not making a confident move towards her. So it's moving super slow and just staying in a safe zone. I guess soon enough someone will admit something and see where it ends up.
You guys aren't even in a relationship and are having relationship problems! 😆click to expand
this going to sound really shitty but I had the right exam material to study...because I have had gemini male friends in the past. my uncle was is also a gemini...and I have friends who also have gemini fathers.
I know the sign/values of the sign very well
prone to boredom
not self reflective
not consistent
loves the chase etc....
biased me......not trying to be open minded would have literally just never followed through with any of her invitation because I am not interested in making superficial friends/contacts....or wasting time...which is what I assume she was trying to do even last year..when she was trying to hang. my prejudgement /bias was she just wanted to have an ethnic friend/ally to prove that she was radical/down for the cause in acadamia.
but I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt.
but I was right sign wise and culture wise we were incompatible from the very start.
Posted by WateryGemPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
Dang, this is 100% truth!! Most can't handle it but boy words, can be just that, words. Lmao
We persevere for what we want!! 😜click to expand
I actually love how thick skinned most Geminis are 😆 I can say whatever I want and they don't even care and just bypass it and still go after what they want lol They have strong bounce back tendencies. They will say whats on their mind, but they remain unbothered by it and just keep persevering.
I wish I was more like this instead of the crybaby that I am who runs and hides when hurt. 😆
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.
Yeah I get the analogy, but it's hard to study for a test without the knowledge of the right exam material.
You guys have been doing this vague dance of you knowing she's straight and curious and her knowing you are fully capable of liking her as a women but not making a confident move towards her. So it's moving super slow and just staying in a safe zone. I guess soon enough someone will admit something and see where it ends up.
You guys aren't even in a relationship and are having relationship problems! 😆
this going to sound really shitty but I had the right exam material to study...because I have had gemini male friends in the past. my uncle was is also a gemini...and I have friends who also have gemini fathers.
I know the sign/values of the sign very well
prone to boredom
not self reflective
not consistent
loves the chase etc....
biased me......not trying to be open minded would have literally just never followed through with any of her invitation because I am not interested in making superficial friends/contacts....or wasting time...which is what I assume she was trying to do even last year..when she was trying to hang. my prejudgement /bias was she just wanted to have an ethnic friend/ally to prove that she was radical/down for the cause in acadamia.
but I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt.
but I was right sign wise and culture wise we were incompatible from the very start.click to expand
I mean all this is true. Everyone gets bored of someone when they aren't interested in them and the other person won't let go and keeps coming around. This is how lots of women are and how they get confused with flighty, inconsistent behavior.
You have a Gemini that is being very consistent with you, especially in he communication department, she's also been consistent with inviting you over, but you had plans. I seriously don't see a big issue here.
You should have this conversation with her. As airy and bubbly/friendly that they are, they do have intellectual depth. She will be able to let you know whats going on with a conversation this direct, she'll probably be thankful for it. She may be just as confused as you are.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.
You do not sound like someone talking about a friend or a casual hookup. I think you need to be clearer about your intentions and the language you use. I'm surprised that you're this hurt from what you've written about it previously.click to expand
it's because this experience mirrors the relationship I have with my university/ department.
I see this whole last month as a great metaphor for my experience at my Ivy League institution.
I was told about the evils of the Ivy League /higher ed institutions
I wanted to believe them not to be true ...especially in my department
I applied ...got in...invested time effort and money
and got treated poorly...because the evils were true.
...especially in my department...my department in theory should be way more radical than it actually is.
I dropped a class for example this semester because a professor talked about slavery in Latin America as if the slaves had greater agency...almost as if they were going on a cruise. he referred to one slave as being " so well traveled" .
she's someone in my department who is well respected...whom reached out to me saying how she felt the same/ was frustrated with my department for similar reasons.
I felt less like a pariah/intellectually alienated for a little while because I thought she was sincere....or at least I deeply wanted her to be.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.
Yeah I get the analogy, but it's hard to study for a test without the knowledge of the right exam material.
You guys have been doing this vague dance of you knowing she's straight and curious and her knowing you are fully capable of liking her as a women but not making a confident move towards her. So it's moving super slow and just staying in a safe zone. I guess soon enough someone will admit something and see where it ends up.
You guys aren't even in a relationship and are having relationship problems! 😆
this going to sound really shitty but I had the right exam material to study...because I have had gemini male friends in the past. my uncle was is also a gemini...and I have friends who also have gemini fathers.
I know the sign/values of the sign very well
prone to boredom
not self reflective
not consistent
loves the chase etc....
biased me......not trying to be open minded would have literally just never followed through with any of her invitation because I am not interested in making superficial friends/contacts....or wasting time...which is what I assume she was trying to do even last year..when she was trying to hang. my prejudgement /bias was she just wanted to have an ethnic friend/ally to prove that she was radical/down for the cause in acadamia.
but I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt.
but I was right sign wise and culture wise we were incompatible from the very start.
I mean all this is true. Everyone gets bored of someone when they aren't interested in them and the other person won't let go and keeps coming around. This is how lots of women are and how they get confused with flighty, inconsistent behavior.
You have a Gemini that is being very consistent with you, especially in he communication department, she's also been consistent with inviting you over, but you had plans. I seriously don't see a big issue here.
You should have this conversation with her. As airy and bubbly/friendly that they are, they do have intellectual depth. She will be able to let you know whats going on with a conversation this direct, she'll probably be thankful for it. She may be just as confused as you are.click to expand
lol disagree.
I have come up with this theory that you are actually trolling me/have been this whole time. haha
giving me the opposite of what I should do.lol
honestly my instinct was to do the opposite of what you advised most times...not to try to get with her...but to protect myself/not waste time.
I've been burned a lot of former friends....the takeaway /what made me angry was that I just felt like I wasted so much time with these people who were just fake at the end of the day.
I feel the same way about my university.....I got burnt badly here.
Disillusionment is one of the worst feeling I think.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
That's not true at all. I'm incredibly sensitive to any feedback like that. I'd probably react apologetically or angrily, depending on if I felt it was warranted.
I'm assuming she's a typical Gemini- You are in a category of your own with that moon of yours! 😛 And I would think if she had your moon, they would probably have a better understanding of each other then what's currently gong on.
Pisces placements get Pisces placements very easily.
Yeah, I guess. Taurus Venus too. I take such things seriously.click to expand
what's your moon in?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.
Yeah I get the analogy, but it's hard to study for a test without the knowledge of the right exam material.
You guys have been doing this vague dance of you knowing she's straight and curious and her knowing you are fully capable of liking her as a women but not making a confident move towards her. So it's moving super slow and just staying in a safe zone. I guess soon enough someone will admit something and see where it ends up.
You guys aren't even in a relationship and are having relationship problems! 😆
this going to sound really shitty but I had the right exam material to study...because I have had gemini male friends in the past. my uncle was is also a gemini...and I have friends who also have gemini fathers.
I know the sign/values of the sign very well
prone to boredom
not self reflective
not consistent
loves the chase etc....
biased me......not trying to be open minded would have literally just never followed through with any of her invitation because I am not interested in making superficial friends/contacts....or wasting time...which is what I assume she was trying to do even last year..when she was trying to hang. my prejudgement /bias was she just wanted to have an ethnic friend/ally to prove that she was radical/down for the cause in acadamia.
but I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt.
but I was right sign wise and culture wise we were incompatible from the very start.
I mean all this is true. Everyone gets bored of someone when they aren't interested in them and the other person won't let go and keeps coming around. This is how lots of women are and how they get confused with flighty, inconsistent behavior.
You have a Gemini that is being very consistent with you, especially in he communication department, she's also been consistent with inviting you over, but you had plans. I seriously don't see a big issue here.
You should have this conversation with her. As airy and bubbly/friendly that they are, they do have intellectual depth. She will be able to let you know whats going on with a conversation this direct, she'll probably be thankful for it. She may be just as confused as you are.
lol disagree.
I have come up with this theory that you are actually trolling me/have been this whole time. haha
giving me the opposite of what I should do.lol
honestly my instinct was to do the opposite of what you advised most times...not to try to get with her...but to protect myself/not waste time.
I've been burned a lot of former friends....the takeaway /what made me angry was that I just felt like I wasted so much time with these people who were just fake at the end of the day.
I feel the same way about my university.....I got burnt badly here.
Disillusionment is one of the worst feeling I think.
Are you serious? I don't play games or manipulate people. I am too direct.
It's funny even with other Geminis saying that I know what I'm talking about huh?
.click to expand
lol
I'm just giving you the water sign perspective.
Posted by bumboklatt
Dont burn the gift
Take it back for a refund and burn the money
LMAO
best troll answer.
Posted by Generous_LibraPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Generous_LibraPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by BathHouseCulture
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
I'm also more mad at myself . I let her violate my boundaries and I let my guard down. I should have turned some of those hangout invites down....to keep my emotional distance.
You did nothing wrong, you liked her she didn't appreciate that, she could have been as open as you were with her and let you know how she thinks of the whole thing, but instead she just flaked on you. Too ashamed to admit but this is actually an air sign trait.
yeah I need a nice taurus with a fire moon for spice.
also someone with my chart.....I'm a pretty consistent pisces. I like that a lot about myself .
You're a Pisces! Always thought you were a sagclick to expand
really?
I give off sagg energy?
Posted by NotmyrealnamePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Notmyrealname
if she fancied you back she would make the effort and she would have responded to the you’re cute text. Sorry, it seems kind of clear 😬 sod her, go have fun without her 😊☀️
thank you!!!!!!!
people on here tried to convince me otherwise.... it's an issue of miscommunication........ or that it was somehow my fault lol
I thought lack of continued effort / flaking ( without a super legitimate reason ) is literally the clearest way you can indicate how you truly feel about someone.
I’m with you on that girl, like think how you feel when you like someone, is there even a chance you would leave them on read for any text let alone a ‘you’re cute’ text?click to expand
lol
I probably wouldn't compliment her back because I have an aqua mercury.lol
I'd probably say thanks/grazie!
I've only had one friendship/relationship in which I'd exchange compliments super freel and consistently.
lol my one ex didn't even get this treatment.
it didn't phase her though she had an Aqua Venus.
Posted by NotmyrealnamePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by NotmyrealnamePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Notmyrealname
if she fancied you back she would make the effort and she would have responded to the you’re cute text. Sorry, it seems kind of clear 😬 sod her, go have fun without her 😊☀️
thank you!!!!!!!
people on here tried to convince me otherwise.... it's an issue of miscommunication........ or that it was somehow my fault lol
I thought lack of continued effort / flaking ( without a super legitimate reason ) is literally the clearest way you can indicate how you truly feel about someone.
I’m with you on that girl, like think how you feel when you like someone, is there even a chance you would leave them on read for any text let alone a ‘you’re cute’ text?
lol
I probably wouldn't compliment her back because I have an aqua mercury.lol
I'd probably say thanks/grazie!
I've only had one friendship/relationship in which I'd exchange compliments super freel and consistently.
lol my one ex didn't even get this treatment.
it didn't phase her though she had an Aqua Venus.
I just think it’s weird not to acknowledge it and it just seems like she’s sucking a bit too much energy here. Gotta say though I don’t know her placements and I haven’t been following this from the beginning, so pinch of salt and all that. Just doesn’t seem worth the hassle, you don’t want to have to convince someone to like you.click to expand
yeah....
the only reason why I did entertain the idea...because it seemed like she did..literally up until that day/text I sent.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.
Yeah I get the analogy, but it's hard to study for a test without the knowledge of the right exam material.
You guys have been doing this vague dance of you knowing she's straight and curious and her knowing you are fully capable of liking her as a women but not making a confident move towards her. So it's moving super slow and just staying in a safe zone. I guess soon enough someone will admit something and see where it ends up.
You guys aren't even in a relationship and are having relationship problems! 😆
this going to sound really shitty but I had the right exam material to study...because I have had gemini male friends in the past. my uncle was is also a gemini...and I have friends who also have gemini fathers.
I know the sign/values of the sign very well
prone to boredom
not self reflective
not consistent
loves the chase etc....
biased me......not trying to be open minded would have literally just never followed through with any of her invitation because I am not interested in making superficial friends/contacts....or wasting time...which is what I assume she was trying to do even last year..when she was trying to hang. my prejudgement /bias was she just wanted to have an ethnic friend/ally to prove that she was radical/down for the cause in acadamia.
but I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt.
but I was right sign wise and culture wise we were incompatible from the very start.
I mean all this is true. Everyone gets bored of someone when they aren't interested in them and the other person won't let go and keeps coming around. This is how lots of women are and how they get confused with flighty, inconsistent behavior.
You have a Gemini that is being very consistent with you, especially in he communication department, she's also been consistent with inviting you over, but you had plans. I seriously don't see a big issue here.
You should have this conversation with her. As airy and bubbly/friendly that they are, they do have intellectual depth. She will be able to let you know whats going on with a conversation this direct, she'll probably be thankful for it. She may be just as confused as you are.
lol disagree.
I have come up with this theory that you are actually trolling me/have been this whole time. haha
giving me the opposite of what I should do.lol
honestly my instinct was to do the opposite of what you advised most times...not to try to get with her...but to protect myself/not waste time.
I've been burned a lot of former friends....the takeaway /what made me angry was that I just felt like I wasted so much time with these people who were just fake at the end of the day.
I feel the same way about my university.....I got burnt badly here.
Disillusionment is one of the worst feeling I think.
Are you serious? I don't play games or manipulate people. I am too direct.
It's funny even with other Geminis saying that I know what I'm talking about huh?
.
lol
I'm just giving you the water sign perspective.click to expand
In all honesty, I feel like I’ve wasted days on this trying to be helpful and my times been wasted. So I’m over it.
I’ll probably end up staying out of all your topics now, because of it, since I’m wasting my breathe.
I’m just giving you the watery fire sign perspective.
But I wish you the best and good luck.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.
You do not sound like someone talking about a friend or a casual hookup. I think you need to be clearer about your intentions and the language you use. I'm surprised that you're this hurt from what you've written about it previously.
it's because this experience mirrors the relationship I have with my university/ department.
I see this whole last month as a great metaphor for my experience at my Ivy League institution.
I was told about the evils of the Ivy League /higher ed institutions
I wanted to believe them not to be true ...especially in my department
I applied ...got in...invested time effort and money
and got treated poorly...because the evils were true.
...especially in my department...my department in theory should be way more radical than it actually is.
I dropped a class for example this semester because a professor talked about slavery in Latin America as if the slaves had greater agency...almost as if they were going on a cruise. he referred to one slave as being " so well traveled" .
she's someone in my department who is well respected...whom reached out to me saying how she felt the same/ was frustrated with my department for similar reasons.
I felt less like a pariah/intellectually alienated for a little while because I thought she was sincere....or at least I deeply wanted her to be.
I really hope you persevere and don't let their insensitivity detour you. Implicit racism is hard to get rid of, even in places where you'd think you'd be safe from it. That's why we need more people of color in positions of power in academia, someone to counter the narrative when it veers into white-wash lala-land. People think academia is already so liberal, but they don't understand that it is upper middleclass white liberal.
.click to expand
yeah and "liberal" in America is actually quite conservative compared to what liberal/progressive ideology is in other countries.
The First Civil Right: How Liberals Built Prison America (Studies in Postwar American Political Development) is such a great read that is illustrative of the parallels between liberal and conservative ideology and practice/policy implementation here in the US.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.
Yeah I get the analogy, but it's hard to study for a test without the knowledge of the right exam material.
You guys have been doing this vague dance of you knowing she's straight and curious and her knowing you are fully capable of liking her as a women but not making a confident move towards her. So it's moving super slow and just staying in a safe zone. I guess soon enough someone will admit something and see where it ends up.
You guys aren't even in a relationship and are having relationship problems! 😆
this going to sound really shitty but I had the right exam material to study...because I have had gemini male friends in the past. my uncle was is also a gemini...and I have friends who also have gemini fathers.
I know the sign/values of the sign very well
prone to boredom
not self reflective
not consistent
loves the chase etc....
biased me......not trying to be open minded would have literally just never followed through with any of her invitation because I am not interested in making superficial friends/contacts....or wasting time...which is what I assume she was trying to do even last year..when she was trying to hang. my prejudgement /bias was she just wanted to have an ethnic friend/ally to prove that she was radical/down for the cause in acadamia.
but I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt.
but I was right sign wise and culture wise we were incompatible from the very start.
I mean all this is true. Everyone gets bored of someone when they aren't interested in them and the other person won't let go and keeps coming around. This is how lots of women are and how they get confused with flighty, inconsistent behavior.
You have a Gemini that is being very consistent with you, especially in he communication department, she's also been consistent with inviting you over, but you had plans. I seriously don't see a big issue here.
You should have this conversation with her. As airy and bubbly/friendly that they are, they do have intellectual depth. She will be able to let you know whats going on with a conversation this direct, she'll probably be thankful for it. She may be just as confused as you are.
lol disagree.
I have come up with this theory that you are actually trolling me/have been this whole time. haha
giving me the opposite of what I should do.lol
honestly my instinct was to do the opposite of what you advised most times...not to try to get with her...but to protect myself/not waste time.
I've been burned a lot of former friends....the takeaway /what made me angry was that I just felt like I wasted so much time with these people who were just fake at the end of the day.
I feel the same way about my university.....I got burnt badly here.
Disillusionment is one of the worst feeling I think.
Are you serious? I don't play games or manipulate people. I am too direct.
It's funny even with other Geminis saying that I know what I'm talking about huh?
.
lol
I'm just giving you the water sign perspective.
In all honesty, I feel like I’ve wasted days on this trying to be helpful and my times been wasted. So I’m over it.
I’ll probably end up staying out of all your topics now, because of it, since I’m wasting my breathe.
I’m just giving you the watery fire sign perspective.
But I wish you the best and good luck.class="bqfade">click to expand
lol sad.
why stay out of all my topics?
I've had fun personally.....your posts were entertaining and appreciated!!
don't leave lol
Posted by Antiphates
Resell the gift.
I think I mat just keep it to use to relieve pain.
that's what it's normally used for...lol
people just appropriate the devices for sexual purposes
Posted by NotmyrealnamePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by NotmyrealnamePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by NotmyrealnamePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Notmyrealname
if she fancied you back she would make the effort and she would have responded to the you’re cute text. Sorry, it seems kind of clear 😬 sod her, go have fun without her 😊☀️
thank you!!!!!!!
people on here tried to convince me otherwise.... it's an issue of miscommunication........ or that it was somehow my fault lol
I thought lack of continued effort / flaking ( without a super legitimate reason ) is literally the clearest way you can indicate how you truly feel about someone.
I’m with you on that girl, like think how you feel when you like someone, is there even a chance you would leave them on read for any text let alone a ‘you’re cute’ text?
lol
I probably wouldn't compliment her back because I have an aqua mercury.lol
I'd probably say thanks/grazie!
I've only had one friendship/relationship in which I'd exchange compliments super freel and consistently.
lol my one ex didn't even get this treatment.
it didn't phase her though she had an Aqua Venus.
I just think it’s weird not to acknowledge it and it just seems like she’s sucking a bit too much energy here. Gotta say though I don’t know her placements and I haven’t been following this from the beginning, so pinch of salt and all that. Just doesn’t seem worth the hassle, you don’t want to have to convince someone to like you.
yeah....
the only reason why I did entertain the idea...because it seemed like she did..literally up until that day/text I sent.
Aw that’s really annoying. I’m sorry love, my gay Aries friend says straight girls can be a bit of a nightmare 😬 I would just treat her as a friend from now on, you’ve been pretty clear and she hasn’t been pulling her weight basically. I feel like if she is a smidge curious maybe it’ll happen when you’re drunk one day or something but it really seems better for you to put her out of your mind and not let it mess with you so much. Find someone better!click to expand
lol I'm over it.
wouldn't be down even if she begged me at this point.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
waterdevil helped me find the words lol.
I should have maintained my boundaries earlier but didn't know how to communicate that since I hadn't had them violated in that way before
If she likes you, she won't even be bothered by your words. Geminis don't give a shit. 😆 She'll just come back like nothing happened and try again. That's how you know they like you too lol They can take a hit and keep fighting the good fight.
Again, If this happens, you just have to move past it, forgive and be reciprocating if she invites you over. Holding grudges doesn't do well with Geminis.
not about holding grudges.
I just don't want to waste time.
I don't really have as much..since I'm older with health issues.
also the best way to describe my feelings about the situation ...I just realized is this interaction was like
taking an exam and changing the answer to a question that you know the answer to.... as you studied the material related to the question throughly.... but you second guess yourself and change the answer at the last minute
and you get the question wrong...resulting in lesser grade.
You do not sound like someone talking about a friend or a casual hookup. I think you need to be clearer about your intentions and the language you use. I'm surprised that you're this hurt from what you've written about it previously.
it's because this experience mirrors the relationship I have with my university/ department.
I see this whole last month as a great metaphor for my experience at my Ivy League institution.
I was told about the evils of the Ivy League /higher ed institutions
I wanted to believe them not to be true ...especially in my department
I applied ...got in...invested time effort and money
and got treated poorly...because the evils were true.
...especially in my department...my department in theory should be way more radical than it actually is.
I dropped a class for example this semester because a professor talked about slavery in Latin America as if the slaves had greater agency...almost as if they were going on a cruise. he referred to one slave as being " so well traveled" .
she's someone in my department who is well respected...whom reached out to me saying how she felt the same/ was frustrated with my department for similar reasons.
I felt less like a pariah/intellectually alienated for a little while because I thought she was sincere....or at least I deeply wanted her to be.
I really hope you persevere and don't let their insensitivity detour you. Implicit racism is hard to get rid of, even in places where you'd think you'd be safe from it. That's why we need more people of color in positions of power in academia, someone to counter the narrative when it veers into white-wash lala-land. People think academia is already so liberal, but they don't understand that it is upper middleclass white liberal.
.
yeah and "liberal" in America is actually quite conservative compared to what liberal/progressive ideology is in other countries.
The First Civil Right: How Liberals Built Prison America (Studies in Postwar American Political Development) is such a great read that is illustrative of the parallels between liberal and conservative ideology and practice/policy implementation here in the US.
Thanks for the recommendation. The failure of the Reconstruction period is rarely addressed.
Edit: That was too much personal info.click to expand
Fun fact :
one of my favorite professors in undergrad is a gemini that I had for the class you mentioned pre edit !!
That class changed my life.
What's this Gems placements again?
If I leave someone on read after sharing I've hurt their feelings, I might be hurt as well or just over that persons shit. Now, I am very sensitive to hurting others feeling.
I will always acknowledge if someone has shared that I've done something. There is one person I've left on read like that and it was bc she was trying to manipulate me into believing her lies. Playing a victim and what not.
If I leave someone on read after sharing I've hurt their feelings, I might be hurt as well or just over that persons shit. Now, I am very sensitive to hurting others feeling.
I will always acknowledge if someone has shared that I've done something. There is one person I've left on read like that and it was bc she was trying to manipulate me into believing her lies. Playing a victim and what not.
Posted by WateryGem
What's this Gems placements again?
If I leave someone on read after sharing I've hurt their feelings, I might be hurt as well or just over that persons shit. Now, I am very sensitive to hurting others feeling.
I will always acknowledge if someone has shared that I've done something. There is one person I've left on read like that and it was bc she was trying to manipulate me into believing her lies. Playing a victim and what not.
taurus venus
libra moon
merc in gemini
gemini mars
Posted by Generous_LibraPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Generous_LibraPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Generous_LibraPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by BathHouseCulture
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
I'm also more mad at myself . I let her violate my boundaries and I let my guard down. I should have turned some of those hangout invites down....to keep my emotional distance.
You did nothing wrong, you liked her she didn't appreciate that, she could have been as open as you were with her and let you know how she thinks of the whole thing, but instead she just flaked on you. Too ashamed to admit but this is actually an air sign trait.
yeah I need a nice taurus with a fire moon for spice.
also someone with my chart.....I'm a pretty consistent pisces. I like that a lot about myself .
You're a Pisces! Always thought you were a sag
really?
I give off sagg energy?
Totally, well I have never paid attention to the forums you usually post in, and you are pretty popular here and carefree, do you have any sag placements?click to expand
Nope!
I don't think I have any fire in my chart.
pisces sun
venus in taurus
libra moon
aqua merc
cap mars
Posted by emeraldgem
@Adreamuponwaking - "honestly my instinct was to do the opposite of what you advised most times...not to try to get with her...but to protect myself/not waste time."
@saggurl88 gave you brilliant advice. Her insights into Gemini nature are freakishly accurate. That quote I pulled is called a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Now I'm out.
I honestly enjoyed the feedback more from you guys
( especially @saggurl88 )
more so than the actual experience with the Gemini.
Thanks for encouraging me to take small risks which could have had a huge pay off.
I'm still grateful for the experience because I learned more about myself in this process.
🙂
I appreciate you guys.
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Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
I'm also more mad at myself . I let her violate my boundaries and I let my guard down. I should have turned some of those hangout invites down....to keep my emotional distance.
You did nothing wrong, you liked her she didn't appreciate that, she could have been as open as you were with her and let you know how she thinks of the whole thing, but instead she just flaked on you. Too ashamed to admit but this is actually an air sign trait.
yeah I need a nice taurus with a fire moon for spice.
also someone with my chart.....I'm a pretty consistent pisces. I like that a lot about myself .
You're a Pisces! Always thought you were a sag
really?
I give off sagg energy?
Totally, well I have never paid attention to the forums you usually post in, and you are pretty popular here and carefree, do you have any sag placements?
Nope!
I don't think I have any fire in my chart.
pisces sun
venus in taurus
libra moon
aqua merc
cap mars
Ok now I know, it's the Zoe Kravitz pic you have, she's a sag 😅click to expand
lol yeah I had a feeling it was that.
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