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Why Pedophiles Should Die/Have Life Sentences
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Posted by AntiphatesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Antiphates
No.
What do you suggest?
Prevention through therapy.click to expand
What kind of therapy?
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by AntiphatesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Antiphates
No.
What do you suggest?
Prevention through therapy.
What kind of therapy?
A therapy that helps them to deal with their urges, impulses and to never give in to them while providing help to deal with the repercussions of supressing them.
How exactly such a therapy would look like is something science still would have to find out and with time the solutions might become better and more humane.click to expand
Lock up therapy so they can't get at other kids?
Posted by Sith_Rogen
You can also prevent it by running them the fuck over, chopping them into pieces, and scattering the body parts across 3 different counties.
Passion and a strong sense of justice ---- this is what I like about being a Scorpio
Posted by Aqua-MarinePosted by AntiphatesPosted by Aqua-MarinePosted by AntiphatesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by AntiphatesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Antiphates
No.
What do you suggest?
Prevention through therapy.
What kind of therapy?
A therapy that helps them to deal with their urges, impulses and to never give in to them while providing help to deal with the repercussions of supressing them.
How exactly such a therapy would look like is something science still would have to find out and with time the solutions might become better and more humane.
But just like any type of therapy the person has to want to do it. Pedophiles don’t see anything wrong with themselves that they want to change.
Plus I don’t think this is something that really can be successful with therapy. It’s not like it’s a diagnostic mental disorder.
They don’t get possessed and suddenly have an uncontrollable urge to do what they do. It’s their choice. But then again I don’t know much about it. And Id rather not.
I’ll tell you what these people need. Life sentences in general population.
It's not seen as a disorder because no one classified it as such, but that might eventually change.
Depends on what you define as success. Success as in being "healed" is probably unlikely, but people might become able to live with it even if they have to fight this battle for the rest of their life.
Then again, science might find more solutions in the future.
It’s much too dangerous to have them around. They have to first see it as a problem and I don’t think they see it as a problem.
Also from my understanding an actual disorder is something that keeps you from pursuing happiness. It’s something that causes the person disturbance in their daily life. Most of the time they want and seek help.
In order to classify something as a disorder it has to be something that the person doesn’t like having. It keeps then from being completely happy and keeps them from functioning in life like the average person.
People with disorders are not sick in the head. Pedophiles, narcissistics, psychopaths, etc surely don’t live life like a normal person,but is it causing them personally distress? It isn’t.
That’s why psychopaths and sociopaths alike are considered a personality disorder and not just a plain disorder.
Personality disorders dont cause the person diagnosed with it distress because they have it.
So perhaps pedos can classify as a personality disorder, but not a disorder.
We shouldn’t take the riskclick to expand
They should be removed from any environment where there are children
Posted by Pulsy
I work with juveniles , many culprits are victims themselves n go and violate those younger than them in the family, as they were. Also access to internet on phones . A lot of them watching porn n wanting to try it on younger family members 12 yrs old violating three or five year olds
Very complex as they become adults
Agree, a lot of them are victims themselves. And it’s a mental disorder, a chemical imbalance. The way people try to explain all the spectrums of sexuality and genders, the same can be said for people’s elevated urges that we consider abnormal.
Therapy doesn’t always work but each person is a case by case basis dependent on nature v nurture (more like exposure to what they have seen, experienced). Behaviour therapy to alter changes at the core level is better than waiting around for the crime to be committed in the first place.
This link might help understand what types of therapies that are out there but I’m sure science is always thinking of better solutions.
https://thriveboston.com/counseling/overcoming-pedophilia-facts-research-and-counseling-treatment-strategies/
And remember once upon a time we use to have mental asylums cos we didn’t understand psychology, there are types that like progress in society and then there’s people who are no better with rage.
Posted by Sith_RogenPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sith_Rogen
You can also prevent it by running them the fuck over, chopping them into pieces, and scattering the body parts across 3 different counties.
Passion and a strong sense of justice ---- this is what I like about being a Scorpio
When I was very young, we had a guy move in with his friend at the apartment complex next to ours who had a camper (what you guys call a caravan). He was caught inviting young girls into his camper by a couple of the fathers. One day the camper was gone. They found it outside city limits by a river. He had "committed suicide" inside the trailer 😏click to expand
Suicide karma 😐
Posted by Sith_RogenPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sith_RogenPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sith_Rogen
You can also prevent it by running them the fuck over, chopping them into pieces, and scattering the body parts across 3 different counties.
Passion and a strong sense of justice ---- this is what I like about being a Scorpio
When I was very young, we had a guy move in with his friend at the apartment complex next to ours who had a camper (what you guys call a caravan). He was caught inviting young girls into his camper by a couple of the fathers. One day the camper was gone. They found it outside city limits by a river. He had "committed suicide" inside the trailer 😏
Suicide karma 😐
Yeah...he "beat himself to death" with a hammer.click to expand
.....and "he" obviously made a good job of it
Posted by ScorpioDeeDee
Public executions. Sell tickets and give the proceeds to the children who were traumatized by the sick fucks. I have zero sympathy or mercy for baby rapers.
Fuck a child's life up and pay the consequences
Humanity is sick. All of us.
Get rid of us all. Or don't get rid of anyone..
Get rid of us all. Or don't get rid of anyone..
Posted by Pesto101
Humanity is sick. All of us.
Get rid of us all. Or don't get rid of anyone..
Not true
There are some very good people in the world
Posted by Sith_RogenPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sith_Rogen
You can also prevent it by running them the fuck over, chopping them into pieces, and scattering the body parts across 3 different counties.
Passion and a strong sense of justice ---- this is what I like about being a Scorpio
When I was very young, we had a guy move in with his friend at the apartment complex next to ours who had a camper (what you guys call a caravan). He was caught inviting young girls into his camper by a couple of the fathers. One day the camper was gone. They found it outside city limits by a river. He had "committed suicide" inside the trailer 😏click to expand
Is it bad I'm laughing so hard at the last part? Scorpion in me is tickled
Posted by Wildd_Flo
Wait a min... as a survivor myself, you really have the nerve to talk about fckin therapy—
True.
Dont just kill them. Castrate them without anesthesia. One slow cut at a time. Make then suffer like the kids did. Then end their worthless lives. No mercy. No fair trail. No rights but to pay for their crimes.
Posted by Sith_RogenPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sith_Rogen
You can also prevent it by running them the fuck over, chopping them into pieces, and scattering the body parts across 3 different counties.
Passion and a strong sense of justice ---- this is what I like about being a Scorpio
When I was very young, we had a guy move in with his friend at the apartment complex next to ours who had a camper (what you guys call a caravan). He was caught inviting young girls into his camper by a couple of the fathers. One day the camper was gone. They found it outside city limits by a river. He had "committed suicide" inside the trailer 😏click to expand
Gangsta
But you realize murderers don’t get life sentences either tho, right?
Typically 15-25 years
Out in 8-12years due to good behavior/overcrowding
Typically 15-25 years
Out in 8-12years due to good behavior/overcrowding
Posted by BoredToDeath
I try to be a forgiving person and try to believe in due process and all that, but I can't say I'm very sympathetic towards the fact that for convicted child molesters sentenced to time in prison, and even jail, it's often a de facto death sentence for them.
It isn’t. They keep them with the rapists and pedophiles separate from the rest of the prison population.
Posted by Wildd_Flo
Wait a min... as a survivor myself, you really have the nerve to talk about fckin therapy—
..... and waiting for "science" to come up with a solution 😐🙄
Yes let's wait a few years for a few more thousand kids to be abused before the suitable "therapy" has been found
Jfc
Outrageous...
Posted by OnigenZ
Dont just kill them. Castrate them without anesthesia. One slow cut at a time. Make then suffer like the kids did. Then end their worthless lives. No mercy. No fair trail. No rights but to pay for their crimes.
Castration "therapy"
Posted by Wildd_FloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_Flo
Wait a min... as a survivor myself, you really have the nerve to talk about fckin therapy—
..... and waiting for "science" to come up with a solution 😐🙄
Yes let's wait a few years for a few more thousand kids to be abused before the suitable "therapy" has been found
Jfc
Outrageous...
There is therapy for people who are aware that their sexual desires towards children isn’t healthy. Conditioning electroshock therapy being one of them and that shit doesn’t work.
The statement provided by Antiphates makes me wonder if they themselves struggle with this issue personally and is trying to passively trying to shine a light on it as a “disorder” that needs help.
Fck that. Don’t EVER place me in a room with a pedo. I’ve lived through so much pain that I have the rage within me to take someone’s life and make every minute as torturous as possible.click to expand
So sorry to hear that, did you manage to get help as a kid or later as an adult to deal with it. Doubt your rage will ever go away 😬
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by OnigenZ
Dont just kill them. Castrate them without anesthesia. One slow cut at a time. Make then suffer like the kids did. Then end their worthless lives. No mercy. No fair trail. No rights but to pay for their crimes.
Castration "therapy"click to expand
Kick the shite out of em til they die therapy.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_Flo
Wait a min... as a survivor myself, you really have the nerve to talk about fckin therapy—
..... and waiting for "science" to come up with a solution 😐🙄
Yes let's wait a few years for a few more thousand kids to be abused before the suitable "therapy" has been found
Jfc
Outrageous...click to expand
Was that passively at my direction, you’re welcome to quote me I don’t mind.
There is no excuses. Mfs know what they are doing when they prey on a child. How does one accidentally prey or have such a mental or emotional issue that a discussion of any kind of excuse for this is even had?
These nasty sick mfs know what they are doing. Forgive me but kill them all. No excuses.
These nasty sick mfs know what they are doing. Forgive me but kill them all. No excuses.
Posted by IsoldePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_Flo
Wait a min... as a survivor myself, you really have the nerve to talk about fckin therapy—
..... and waiting for "science" to come up with a solution 😐🙄
Yes let's wait a few years for a few more thousand kids to be abused before the suitable "therapy" has been found
Jfc
Outrageous...
Was that passively at my direction, your welcome to quote me I don’t mind.click to expand
No it actually wasn't
Posted by cake
Why are we attacking antiphates? Antiphates is just providing another perspective.
I doubt if you've been the victim of child abuse this perspective would go down too well
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by IsoldePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_Flo
Wait a min... as a survivor myself, you really have the nerve to talk about fckin therapy—
..... and waiting for "science" to come up with a solution 😐🙄
Yes let's wait a few years for a few more thousand kids to be abused before the suitable "therapy" has been found
Jfc
Outrageous...
Was that passively at my direction, your welcome to quote me I don’t mind.
No it actually wasn'tclick to expand
Ah, ok. Cos my comment could’ve sounded like as if I’m making it plausible. Which I’m not, cos we all know it’s the highest of the high crime ever 😬
Posted by BlueStarPosted by Wildd_Flo
I honestly question Antiphates thought process on this topic. Something isn’t right.
He likes arguing the least popular side as a mental challenge. I can see what you mean but I think he’s just being his detached ass self that views all subjects as philosophical debates rather than emotionally charged topics.click to expand
But this is a highly emotionally charged subject for some people
Posted by cakePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by cake
Why are we attacking antiphates? Antiphates is just providing another perspective.
I doubt if you've been the victim of child abuse this perspective would go down too well
Thanks. I shared my own personal experience on this thread and just because I don't share other personal info, it's not for you to judge whether I should give my perspective or not.click to expand
I was thinking of Flo
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by BlueStarPosted by Wildd_Flo
I honestly question Antiphates thought process on this topic. Something isn’t right.
He likes arguing the least popular side as a mental challenge. I can see what you mean but I think he’s just being his detached ass self that views all subjects as philosophical debates rather than emotionally charged topics.
But this is a highly emotionally charged subject for some peopleclick to expand
Not only that it’s skin crawling to even think about it, let alone openly discuss it
Posted by cakePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by cakePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by cake
Why are we attacking antiphates? Antiphates is just providing another perspective.
I doubt if you've been the victim of child abuse this perspective would go down too well
Thanks. I shared my own personal experience on this thread and just because I don't share other personal info, it's not for you to judge whether I should give my perspective or not.
I was thinking of Flo
K. It's not only Flo who was abused. We have different perspective and I respect that. You don't have to shit on me because you disagree.click to expand
You was a collective you and not a personal you...
Posted by Wildd_FloPosted by IsoldePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_Flo
Wait a min... as a survivor myself, you really have the nerve to talk about fckin therapy—
..... and waiting for "science" to come up with a solution 😐🙄
Yes let's wait a few years for a few more thousand kids to be abused before the suitable "therapy" has been found
Jfc
Outrageous...
There is therapy for people who are aware that their sexual desires towards children isn’t healthy. Conditioning electroshock therapy being one of them and that shit doesn’t work.
The statement provided by Antiphates makes me wonder if they themselves struggle with this issue personally and is trying to passively trying to shine a light on it as a “disorder” that needs help.
Fck that. Don’t EVER place me in a room with a pedo. I’ve lived through so much pain that I have the rage within me to take someone’s life and make every minute as torturous as possible.
So sorry to hear that, did you manage to get help as a kid or later as an adult to deal with it. Doubt your rage will ever go away 😬
I took 10 yrs of therapy for abuse, disorders and anger management. My rage became out of control after switching families. I was ready to fight whomever, whenever. It took a lot out of me to learn to cope with my emotions in a healthy manner and diffuse properly. I’m way better now but there’s always a flame burning within me.click to expand
I can feel that and I didn't even go through this Flo 😥
Posted by cakePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by cakePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by cakePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by cake
Why are we attacking antiphates? Antiphates is just providing another perspective.
I doubt if you've been the victim of child abuse this perspective would go down too well
Thanks. I shared my own personal experience on this thread and just because I don't share other personal info, it's not for you to judge whether I should give my perspective or not.
I was thinking of Flo
K. It's not only Flo who was abused. We have different perspective and I respect that. You don't have to shit on me because you disagree.
You was a collective you and not a personal you...
Then don't quote me or learn to communicate your thoughts differently where it's not a personal attack.click to expand
Okay I won't quote you again and it really wasn't a personal attack
Posted by BlueStar
The only thing that makes me anti death penalty is the 1% or whatever that gets falsely accused and goes to prison for a crime they didn’t commit. But honestly if I saw my kid getting abused I’d kill the shit out them and wouldn’t even think about it. Idgaf.
Let's make them our kids.
Posted by Wildd_FloPosted by IsoldePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_Flo
Wait a min... as a survivor myself, you really have the nerve to talk about fckin therapy—
..... and waiting for "science" to come up with a solution 😐🙄
Yes let's wait a few years for a few more thousand kids to be abused before the suitable "therapy" has been found
Jfc
Outrageous...
There is therapy for people who are aware that their sexual desires towards children isn’t healthy. Conditioning electroshock therapy being one of them and that shit doesn’t work.
The statement provided by Antiphates makes me wonder if they themselves struggle with this issue personally and is trying to passively trying to shine a light on it as a “disorder” that needs help.
Fck that. Don’t EVER place me in a room with a pedo. I’ve lived through so much pain that I have the rage within me to take someone’s life and make every minute as torturous as possible.
So sorry to hear that, did you manage to get help as a kid or later as an adult to deal with it. Doubt your rage will ever go away 😬
I took 10 yrs of therapy for abuse, disorders and anger management. My rage became out of control after switching families. I was ready to fight whomever, whenever. It took a lot out of me to learn to cope with my emotions in a healthy manner and diffuse properly. I’m way better now but there’s always a flame burning within me.click to expand
So sorry to hear that 😢 I can only imagine the rage but obviously can’t really put myself in your shoes.
However I did live with a girl once and her dad and uncle consistently raped her, her entire life since she was a kid and finally as a teenager she ran away. They mentally absolutely destroyed her, it’s so fucking sad 😡 she had to be institutionalised.
Posted by Wildd_FloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by IsoldePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_Flo
Wait a min... as a survivor myself, you really have the nerve to talk about fckin therapy—
..... and waiting for "science" to come up with a solution 😐🙄
Yes let's wait a few years for a few more thousand kids to be abused before the suitable "therapy" has been found
Jfc
Outrageous...
There is therapy for people who are aware that their sexual desires towards children isn’t healthy. Conditioning electroshock therapy being one of them and that shit doesn’t work.
The statement provided by Antiphates makes me wonder if they themselves struggle with this issue personally and is trying to passively trying to shine a light on it as a “disorder” that needs help.
Fck that. Don’t EVER place me in a room with a pedo. I’ve lived through so much pain that I have the rage within me to take someone’s life and make every minute as torturous as possible.
So sorry to hear that, did you manage to get help as a kid or later as an adult to deal with it. Doubt your rage will ever go away 😬
I took 10 yrs of therapy for abuse, disorders and anger management. My rage became out of control after switching families. I was ready to fight whomever, whenever. It took a lot out of me to learn to cope with my emotions in a healthy manner and diffuse properly. I’m way better now but there’s always a flame burning within me.
I can feel that and I didn't even go through this Flo 😥
It’s okay. I try to live a low stress life because high stress equals anxiety, and anger. That’s why I’m obsessed with plants/nature because it calms me down, it’s therapeutic.click to expand
Yes very healing for you
(((💚)))
I don't fully disagree, but see the vicious cycle in that. Is this just pedos that die, or will rapist fall into the category eventually too? Better yet, what about those who were actually innocent, and had a sketchy trial? Obviously if you find actual DNA that is solid proof. I knew someone who got sentenced to 20 years because the police took full advantage of his and his families ignorance. It turned into a witch hunt, and while I cant prove his innocent it still makes me think. They said he gave the child an std which was all the solid evidence they had, but after he was in jail the doctor stood in court with his results being negative, yet they still locked him up. The moms results were positive for the std though, yet she is and always has been free. They had an absolutely shit lawyer. So in case and point a shit lawyer is the difference between life and death.
What do we do about that? Do we just kill everyone accused for molesting a child just incase? And again will we eventually do this for rapist too? What if they were innocent? What if a child rapes a child? Do we kill them also? Since at that point killing people will be viewed as justice, does that mean we will kill aggressive drug addicts, physical abusers, theifs, and all criminals in general? Would that make us a criminal? Just saying once we start killing people I'm not sure what the end result will be. The child was still scared for life, and now more people are dying, and more families are in more chaos. Rather then just watching someone they knew and love rightfully get locked up, they now have to watch them die. You want to add death and more chaos to the scale too? Tell me, when it it too much?
What do we do about that? Do we just kill everyone accused for molesting a child just incase? And again will we eventually do this for rapist too? What if they were innocent? What if a child rapes a child? Do we kill them also? Since at that point killing people will be viewed as justice, does that mean we will kill aggressive drug addicts, physical abusers, theifs, and all criminals in general? Would that make us a criminal? Just saying once we start killing people I'm not sure what the end result will be. The child was still scared for life, and now more people are dying, and more families are in more chaos. Rather then just watching someone they knew and love rightfully get locked up, they now have to watch them die. You want to add death and more chaos to the scale too? Tell me, when it it too much?
I know when I write a ton things get taken out of context, so in short my point is mainly that our law system is fucked and far from perfect. Imo killing people with a flawed imperfect law system is a bad idea. Its just more chaos then its worth.
Posted by Wildd_Flo
People need to stop trying to save what can’t be saved.
There are organizations and associations created specifically for pedophilia, they don’t care for rehabilitation or therapy. They selfishly care to fulfill their desires.
https://www.nambla.org/
North American Man/boy love Association
Vile
Posted by Wildd_FloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_Flo
People need to stop trying to save what can’t be saved.
There are organizations and associations created specifically for pedophilia, they don’t care for rehabilitation or therapy. They selfishly care to fulfill their desires.
https://www.nambla.org/
North American Man/boy love Association
Vile
Exactlyclick to expand
And can you imagine how many more of these set ups are operating throughout the world?
Posted by Wildd_FloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Wildd_Flo
People need to stop trying to save what can’t be saved.
There are organizations and associations created specifically for pedophilia, they don’t care for rehabilitation or therapy. They selfishly care to fulfill their desires.
https://www.nambla.org/
North American Man/boy love Association
Vile
Exactly
And can you imagine how many more of these set ups are operating throughout the world?
Hundreds, and the majority of them are underground. This is all connected with child trafficking.click to expand
Yes it is and it's huge business 😐
Posted by BlueStar
Rape is being murdered but then having to figure out how to keep living while reliving being killed each day.
Not being supported or being accused of lying just makes you feel the most alone you could ever feel.
😥
Your dad did this to you?
Posted by BlueStarPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BlueStar
Rape is being murdered but then having to figure out how to keep living while reliving being killed each day.
Not being supported or being accused of lying just makes you feel the most alone you could ever feel.
😥
Your dad did this to you?
Not that I can recall. I got raped when I ran away from home and told him that it happened and he didn’t do anything even though he was a child abuse counselor and a mandatory reporter.
I’m sure it was because by revealing what had happened would reveal why I ran away from home ie. He was an abusive asshole.click to expand
Is he still alive?
Shithead
Posted by BlueStarPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BlueStarPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BlueStar
Rape is being murdered but then having to figure out how to keep living while reliving being killed each day.
Not being supported or being accused of lying just makes you feel the most alone you could ever feel.
😥
Your dad did this to you?
Not that I can recall. I got raped when I ran away from home and told him that it happened and he didn’t do anything even though he was a child abuse counselor and a mandatory reporter.
I’m sure it was because by revealing what had happened would reveal why I ran away from home ie. He was an abusive asshole.
Is he still alive?
Shithead
Yes, but I’d be lying if I wasn’t hoping COVID would get him.click to expand
If not, hopefully karma will
Disgusting excuse for a man
Posted by Wildd_FloPosted by BlueStarPosted by Wildd_FloPosted by cakePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by cakePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by cakePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by cakePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by cakePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by cakePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by cakePosted by Wildd_FloPosted by cakePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by cakePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by cake
Why are we attacking antiphates? Antiphates is just providing another perspective.
I doubt if you've been the victim of child abuse this perspective would go down too well
Thanks. I shared my own personal experience on this thread and just because I don't share other personal info, it's not for you to judge whether I should give my perspective or not.
I was thinking of Flo
K. It's not only Flo who was abused. We have different perspective and I respect that. You don't have to shit on me because you disagree.
She wasn’t, this is sensitive subject.
Of course it is. I don't need her to fucking quote me and act like there's only one thought process to this.
The majority of people who have experienced this trauma all feel the same about pedos and how to deal with the issue.
Ok. I'm still allowed to speak for myself. I still went through the experience, she didn't. She didn't have to act like my experience is less than yours.
It’s not less but were you conditioned to think the type of people who cause this sort of pain to children should get a second chance of life? Really?
Rehabilitation for other crimes have shown effective.
If people are going to commit regardless of death penalty or life sentence, there must be some root cause(s).
Did you know that there are children who do the same thing to others children their age or younger?
I pointed that there are different cases, it's not a straight and narrow line. There are people who deserve the death penalty but not everyone. It shouldn't be the same blanket statement for everyone.
There are many cases of children being tried as adults for committing murders. It would go the same path if need be.
And that's really unfortunate because these kids are victims from the cycle of family of abuse and by the system itself. Kids that need guidance, support and protection but never had that opportunity given to them. Kids that have fallen through the cracks and joined groups because they need to belong. They are still kids, still developing.
Do you have children?
Yup and I still wouldn't change my answer.
So everything you spoke of today, would be the same statement you would say to your children if they openly told you someone assaulted or abused them?
What did I say that bothered you so much that you have to use a personal question? Because I could ask you the same thing in reverse. The fact that maybe rehab can be an alternative?
You didn’t answer the question. Does it make a difference once I place your children in the shoes of other children that suffered?
Okay. I'll answer since you think that's a proper way to do things.
I do think that rehab can be an effective intervention depending on the case.
Does that answer your question?
Not necessarily. I would fight for justice equally for any child in this world who has been assaulted or abused as I would for my own child because I personally know the pain and I understand how it feels to be an adult now while my abuser is walking around living their lives normally.
Yep. I would have been so happy to actually be protected by parents.
I thought my father would at least treat me as good as his patients and he didn’t even report what happened to me because he didn’t want to ruin his image I’m sure.
He was two different people at home vs “professor/counselor” mode and other people used to buy into that shit and eat it up.
But yeah... if you are supposedly helping kids heal from sexual abuse but don’t even help your daughter.
Ugh. Might as well have shot me then. That’s how it felt.
That’s why I wanted to kill him so badly. Legit thought about it.
As a mother I’d never let that happen. Even if I died trying I’d go after their asses.
I told my mother and she didn’t even believe me. So I understand how you feel.. the people you place your trust into and who should protect you are the same ones who turn their backs on you. That’s scarring for a child.click to expand
Wow that is terrible 😥
My post is going to be raw for some and i apologize in advance.
At one point in time, yes i wanted to see them harmed, whether it was within the jail system or vigilante style justice. I was so angry and hated life, I always wondered what did i do so wrong that it happened to me. the first person almost killed me when it happened because he was forcing his dick down my throat- i was 7, he was maybe16 himself, so yes techincally a child himself, a kid from the neighborhood. The other was my aunts boyfriend that lived with my dad, he threanted to kill me and my sister and also said our dad would believe him becuae he was an adult. I was 10 or 11 (5th & 6th grade).. again never spoke up to my parents. Told my step sisters 5 or 6 years after. Went to court, he lied and said we wanted it to happen. i was 11 fucking years old and he was at least 30 if not older, that was when i lost faith in our system. Children need to have a voice and be BELIEVED. Why would a child lie about this shit?!
I attempted suicide at 12, got more into drinking and found drugs. I was angry and numb. I got sober at 15, that was when i finally started speaking up about what had happened. More, i wasnt surpressing it anymore. Took many many years of working through everything with theraphy, counciling and trying to find outlets so I didn't think i was broken and tainted. Guess what, that stayed with me until my 30s. My anger though was slowly killing me inside- I had to get rid of it. Anger was making me think about what happened and i refuse to be a victim and not get some joy and happiness from life. So no i don't think about harming them or them being harmed. I don't give them my energy. Thats how in the end i feel like i won.
At one point in time, yes i wanted to see them harmed, whether it was within the jail system or vigilante style justice. I was so angry and hated life, I always wondered what did i do so wrong that it happened to me. the first person almost killed me when it happened because he was forcing his dick down my throat- i was 7, he was maybe16 himself, so yes techincally a child himself, a kid from the neighborhood. The other was my aunts boyfriend that lived with my dad, he threanted to kill me and my sister and also said our dad would believe him becuae he was an adult. I was 10 or 11 (5th & 6th grade).. again never spoke up to my parents. Told my step sisters 5 or 6 years after. Went to court, he lied and said we wanted it to happen. i was 11 fucking years old and he was at least 30 if not older, that was when i lost faith in our system. Children need to have a voice and be BELIEVED. Why would a child lie about this shit?!
I attempted suicide at 12, got more into drinking and found drugs. I was angry and numb. I got sober at 15, that was when i finally started speaking up about what had happened. More, i wasnt surpressing it anymore. Took many many years of working through everything with theraphy, counciling and trying to find outlets so I didn't think i was broken and tainted. Guess what, that stayed with me until my 30s. My anger though was slowly killing me inside- I had to get rid of it. Anger was making me think about what happened and i refuse to be a victim and not get some joy and happiness from life. So no i don't think about harming them or them being harmed. I don't give them my energy. Thats how in the end i feel like i won.
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My post is going to be raw for some and i apologize in advance.
At one point in time, yes i wanted to see them harmed, whether it was within the jail system or vigilante style justice. I was so angry and hated life, I always wondered what did i do so wrong that it happened to me. the first person almost killed me when it happened because he was forcing his dick down my throat- i was 7, he was maybe16 himself, so yes techincally a child himself, a kid from the neighborhood. The other was my aunts boyfriend that lived with my dad, he threanted to kill me and my sister and also said our dad would believe him becuae he was an adult. I was 10 or 11 (5th & 6th grade).. again never spoke up to my parents. Told my step sisters 5 or 6 years after. Went to court, he lied and said we wanted it to happen. i was 11 fucking years old and he was at least 30 if not older, that was when i lost faith in our system. Children need to have a voice and be BELIEVED. Why would a child lie about this shit?!
I attempted suicide at 12, got more into drinking and found drugs. I was angry and numb. I got sober at 15, that was when i finally started speaking up about what had happened. More, i wasnt surpressing it anymore. Took many many years of working through everything with theraphy, counciling and trying to find outlets so I didn't think i was broken and tainted. Guess what, that stayed with me until my 30s. My anger though was slowly killing me inside- I had to get rid of it. Anger was making me think about what happened and i refuse to be a victim and not get some joy and happiness from life. So no i don't think about harming them or them being harmed. I don't give them my energy. Thats how in the end i feel like i won.
Why would a child lie about this butter?!
^ Unfortunately I find this happens a lot. I was on jury duty surrounding a similar case and most of the jurors didn't find the guy guilty. They had to explain to me why and they said because there weren't actual evidence.
I'm sorry that happened to you JAG.click to expand
Thank you. I really do try not to think about it. I want to enjoy my happy life. The threads lately has brought it back up and I will be a voice in case others don't have theirs yet.
The not believing is a huge part of the problem. It allows it to continue and the offender just keeps offending.
Posted by cakePosted by justagirlPosted by cakePosted by justagirl
My post is going to be raw for some and i apologize in advance.
At one point in time, yes i wanted to see them harmed, whether it was within the jail system or vigilante style justice. I was so angry and hated life, I always wondered what did i do so wrong that it happened to me. the first person almost killed me when it happened because he was forcing his dick down my throat- i was 7, he was maybe16 himself, so yes techincally a child himself, a kid from the neighborhood. The other was my aunts boyfriend that lived with my dad, he threanted to kill me and my sister and also said our dad would believe him becuae he was an adult. I was 10 or 11 (5th & 6th grade).. again never spoke up to my parents. Told my step sisters 5 or 6 years after. Went to court, he lied and said we wanted it to happen. i was 11 fucking years old and he was at least 30 if not older, that was when i lost faith in our system. Children need to have a voice and be BELIEVED. Why would a child lie about this shit?!
I attempted suicide at 12, got more into drinking and found drugs. I was angry and numb. I got sober at 15, that was when i finally started speaking up about what had happened. More, i wasnt surpressing it anymore. Took many many years of working through everything with theraphy, counciling and trying to find outlets so I didn't think i was broken and tainted. Guess what, that stayed with me until my 30s. My anger though was slowly killing me inside- I had to get rid of it. Anger was making me think about what happened and i refuse to be a victim and not get some joy and happiness from life. So no i don't think about harming them or them being harmed. I don't give them my energy. Thats how in the end i feel like i won.
Why would a child lie about this butter?!
^ Unfortunately I find this happens a lot. I was on jury duty surrounding a similar case and most of the jurors didn't find the guy guilty. They had to explain to me why and they said because there weren't actual evidence.
I'm sorry that happened to you JAG.
Thank you. I really do try not to think about it. I want to enjoy my happy life. The threads lately has brought it back up and I will be a voice in case others don't have theirs yet.
The not believing is a huge part of the problem. It allows it to continue and the offender just keeps offending.
I've never told my family some things too. It's because people have fixed ideas of others or too uncomfortable to deal with it as adults.click to expand
It's definitely hard to discuss, another layer of part of the problem. I think, If it was spoken about more, without the excuses and the brushing aside that happens with hollywood, politicians and money and sometimes just adults, it wouldn't be an uncomfortable topic and real discussions could be had. I think we are just seeing the tip of the iceberg on how rampant it really is in society. Fucked up broken people hurt others and the cycle can go on until someone stops the chain.
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