A big mistake

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There is a male Aquarius that I have been talking to for a while now. To be honest, he constantly told me that he wanted me physically. Whatever else he said I always thought that it was because he wanted to have sex with me (that I'm beautiful, smart, etc). And I am genuinly attracted to him, but I didn't get emotionally attached because who would with someone who you thought wanted you only for your body. Anyway I've been flirting with him. One day, a few days ago, I was kinda not sober and he askedme if I love him. I was shocked and said no. That really seemed to hurt him and he lashed out at me. I don't understand why but he comforted me moments later. I think it has been bothering him for the last few days but he seems better now. I feel bad, and I do care for him and like him, but I dont know what to do. Now that I know there was emotion behind what he said, everything looks different. I don't know what to do, please help.
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Well, firstly, be honest.

Tell him that you never thought of him that way in the first place and clearly state your reasons as you did here.

I am going out on limb here but I would still not invest into this... yoy know, guys cab be bastards. I mean the mere fact he pitched the question while you where intoxicated proves this.

I get this deep sense that he took a chance. "Love" is not sex...

No sensible man would do what he did.

If you want to persue this route, make him work for it, then you'll know if you??have a keeper.