Posted by sultrykittyWell that makes sense to me! And I've never even looked at it from that perspective. You explained that shit better than an Aquarius 👌😂
No, the reason he does that is that the woman who waits on her Aqua becomes part of the background noise and he forgets she's doing things out of love for him. He's essentially self-focused; his world and his role in it is what's important. Once he feels as though he's become or is becoming UNimportant, then he notices she's not there and scrambles to get her back and him back to his status quo.
Posted by AerialViewVirgos are just generally awful boyfriends imho. Great friends though!
No. That's Virgo.
Posted by GeminPhillyBooooo 👎Posted by sultrykittyWell that makes sense to me! And I've never even looked at it from that perspective. You explained that shit better than an Aquarius 👌😂
No, the reason he does that is that the woman who waits on her Aqua becomes part of the background noise and he forgets she's doing things out of love for him. He's essentially self-focused; his world and his role in it is what's important. Once he feels as though he's become or is becoming UNimportant, then he notices she's not there and scrambles to get her back and him back to his status quo.click to expand
Posted by GeminPhillyI'm that girl, too long with an Aqua 😄Posted by sultrykittyWell that makes sense to me! And I've never even looked at it from that perspective. You explained that shit better than an Aquarius 👌😂
No, the reason he does that is that the woman who waits on her Aqua becomes part of the background noise and he forgets she's doing things out of love for him. He's essentially self-focused; his world and his role in it is what's important. Once he feels as though he's become or is becoming UNimportant, then he notices she's not there and scrambles to get her back and him back to his status quo.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewLOL deep in your your heart, you know it's true! 😛Posted by GeminPhillyBooooo 👎Posted by sultrykittyWell that makes sense to me! And I've never even looked at it from that perspective. You explained that shit better than an Aquarius 👌😂
No, the reason he does that is that the woman who waits on her Aqua becomes part of the background noise and he forgets she's doing things out of love for him. He's essentially self-focused; his world and his role in it is what's important. Once he feels as though he's become or is becoming UNimportant, then he notices she's not there and scrambles to get her back and him back to his status quo.click to expand
Posted by sultrykittyI know. I'm just being lazy. 😛 nice input there.Posted by AerialViewLOL deep in your your heart, you know it's true! 😛Posted by GeminPhillyBooooo 👎Posted by sultrykittyWell that makes sense to me! And I've never even looked at it from that perspective. You explained that shit better than an Aquarius 👌😂
No, the reason he does that is that the woman who waits on her Aqua becomes part of the background noise and he forgets she's doing things out of love for him. He's essentially self-focused; his world and his role in it is what's important. Once he feels as though he's become or is becoming UNimportant, then he notices she's not there and scrambles to get her back and him back to his status quo.
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Posted by AerialViewTY 🙂Posted by sultrykittyI know. I'm just being lazy. 😛 nice input there.Posted by AerialViewLOL deep in your your heart, you know it's true! 😛Posted by GeminPhillyBooooo 👎Posted by sultrykittyWell that makes sense to me! And I've never even looked at it from that perspective. You explained that shit better than an Aquarius 👌😂
No, the reason he does that is that the woman who waits on her Aqua becomes part of the background noise and he forgets she's doing things out of love for him. He's essentially self-focused; his world and his role in it is what's important. Once he feels as though he's become or is becoming UNimportant, then he notices she's not there and scrambles to get her back and him back to his status quo.
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Posted by sultrykittyOMG! I just want to pick your brain and find out all the information you've gathered from your aqua man experience. But, no matter what you tell me, I have a feeling mine will still manage to shock and amaze me all the same 😂Posted by GeminPhillyI'm that girl, too long with an Aqua 😄Posted by sultrykittyWell that makes sense to me! And I've never even looked at it from that perspective. You explained that shit better than an Aquarius 👌😂
No, the reason he does that is that the woman who waits on her Aqua becomes part of the background noise and he forgets she's doing things out of love for him. He's essentially self-focused; his world and his role in it is what's important. Once he feels as though he's become or is becoming UNimportant, then he notices she's not there and scrambles to get her back and him back to his status quo.
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Posted by hollyhockI'm Aquarius. Why?Posted by AerialViewAerial, what sign are you?
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Posted by hollyhockYeah cause we are ruled by Pluto lmao
I see many aqua men with women who are very controlling.
Posted by GeminPhillyMine still does, close to 30 years on. It's a crazy ride. 😄Posted by sultrykittyOMG! I just want to pick your brain and find out all the information you've gathered from your aqua man experience. But, no matter what you tell me, I have a feeling mine will still manage to shock and amaze me all the same 😂Posted by GeminPhillyI'm that girl, too long with an Aqua 😄Posted by sultrykittyWell that makes sense to me! And I've never even looked at it from that perspective. You explained that shit better than an Aquarius 👌😂
No, the reason he does that is that the woman who waits on her Aqua becomes part of the background noise and he forgets she's doing things out of love for him. He's essentially self-focused; his world and his role in it is what's important. Once he feels as though he's become or is becoming UNimportant, then he notices she's not there and scrambles to get her back and him back to his status quo.
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Posted by AerialViewPosted by GeminPhillyBooooo 👎Posted by sultrykittyWell that makes sense to me! And I've never even looked at it from that perspective. You explained that shit better than an Aquarius 👌😂
No, the reason he does that is that the woman who waits on her Aqua becomes part of the background noise and he forgets she's doing things out of love for him. He's essentially self-focused; his world and his role in it is what's important. Once he feels as though he's become or is becoming UNimportant, then he notices she's not there and scrambles to get her back and him back to his status quo.click to expand
Posted by GeminPhillythat sounds more like a virgo venus man.
Do Aquarius men like women with issues? Like women that they feel they can "fix"?? When a woman is giving her all and treating a aqua dude like a king he doesn't value her or appreciate her. Not until she has to treat him like someone not that important for him to truly value her. Hmmm...any theories on this good people?
Posted by lisabethur8I'm not sure if I remember correctly but I think his Venus is Pisces and mine is Libra.Posted by GeminPhillythat sounds more like a virgo venus man.
Do Aquarius men like women with issues? Like women that they feel they can "fix"?? When a woman is giving her all and treating a aqua dude like a king he doesn't value her or appreciate her. Not until she has to treat him like someone not that important for him to truly value her. Hmmm...any theories on this good people?
they're critical of you and want to help you get better.
https://www.thoughtco.com/venus-in-virgo-venus-signs-207563
of course aquarius man can have virgo influence, like say virgo mars virgo rising, virgo moon stellium.
https://astrolibrary.org/virgo-in-love/
"Venus in Virgo can suffer through a long, lonely time without a partner simply because they find too many flaws with each prospect. Some Virgos are seriously waiting for a perfect person. On the other extreme, they are always at risk of being taken advantage of because they never stop serving and helping others.
They can end up in relationships with drug addicts, alcoholics, or people in trouble with the law because the Virgo lover tries to “save them.”
Virgo is a mutable sign, and it’s difficult to pin them down. They don’t begin relationships with just anybody. If a Venus in Virgo loves you, either you have perfect qualities that they admire, or you are so screwed up that it has become their mission to fix you."
it sounds very much like pisces. saving you. lol
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Posted by Aquarius3189Perfect example of the behavior that led me to believe that they like a fine balance of attention and what could be defined as mistreatment. I don't know what it is with them but, I'm learning to adapt to it. I hear my bf say that I don't show him enough affection sometimes. But, the way that he makes me feel when he feels that he wants us back to a certain place in our relationship feels so much better than actually arriving at said certain place in our relationship. If that makes any sense lol
I dont know if they just like a challenge and a woman that dont give them her world but i notice the same with the aqua men i know,one of them has a leo girlfriend yup a leo and an aqua, i see her treating her boyfriend like a dog ordering him around and when she doesnt get what she wants well lets just say its going to be drama,the leo girl is my friend(she is a great friend but i think she is the worst girlfriend) and sometimes i tell her that she is lucky to have an obedient aqua man beside her that she should cut him some slack sometimes but she was like hell no thats not gonna work(she wont let up),i dont know how the aqua man can stand her for so many years.
Posted by GeminPhillyPosted by Aquarius3189Perfect example of the behavior that led me to believe that they like a fine balance of attention and what could be defined as mistreatment. I don't know what it is with them but, I'm learning to adapt to it. I hear my bf say that I don't show him enough affection sometimes. But, the way that he makes me feel when he feels that he wants us back to a certain place in our relationship feels so much better than actually arriving at said certain place in our relationship. If that makes any sense lol
I dont know if they just like a challenge and a woman that dont give them her world but i notice the same with the aqua men i know,one of them has a leo girlfriend yup a leo and an aqua, i see her treating her boyfriend like a dog ordering him around and when she doesnt get what she wants well lets just say its going to be drama,the leo girl is my friend(she is a great friend but i think she is the worst girlfriend) and sometimes i tell her that she is lucky to have an obedient aqua man beside her that she should cut him some slack sometimes but she was like hell no thats not gonna work(she wont let up),i dont know how the aqua man can stand her for so many years.click to expand
Posted by GeminPhillyYes the more issues the better. They attract clingy controlling women who resent their independence but love their quirkiness. To an Aquarius man dealing with a complex person makes them feel wanted and like a super hero but usually in the end they end up hurting themselves and limiting their freedom. I find some grow to resent their spouses after it ends
Do Aquarius men like women with issues? Like women that they feel they can "fix"?? When a woman is giving her all and treating a aqua dude like a king he doesn't value her or appreciate her. Not until she has to treat him like someone not that important for him to truly value her. Hmmm...any theories on this good people?
Posted by pinkbird03No bs. They seem to somehow like the unpredictability. I mentioned before, Aqua said they hate drama but man, deep down they love it. drama= breakup= make up hot sex. Who says no to that ? lol
My best guess, based on my experiences and reading the stories of others- is that aquas like excitement. They love the kind of drama that creates passion.
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Yeah this kinda makes sense...i got someone who isn't aqua but got important placements in aqua...as soon as I close the door on him he'll try to get me back no matter what,while I'm good to him and trying to help him out he puts those walls up. And he keeps triyng to "fix" me setiously, any deatail about me that's wrong he tries to fix that.
Virgos don't care that much tho. They try to help you but don't fix you and if you treat them bad they treat you bad back. So no this isn't really a Virgo thing
Posted by UnicornSagPosted by saweetz1988Aqua Moon,ASC, Venus probably...Posted by Malak
Yeah this kinda makes sense...i got someone who isn't aqua but got important placements in aqua...as soon as I close the door on him he'll try to get me back no matter what,while I'm good to him and trying to help him out he puts those walls up. And he keeps triyng to "fix" me setiously, any deatail about me that's wrong he tries to fix that.
Virgos don't care that much tho. They try to help you but don't fix you and if you treat them bad they treat you bad back. So no this isn't really a Virgo thing
What r those important placements?
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Posted by UnicornSagPosted by saweetz1988
This is very true. I noticed this pattern with the Aqua. For e.g. Last night I didn't wanna stay for dinne with my friends and him. I let him be and I stayed a few weeks before. He asked me where I was going n I said I just didn't feel like staying for dinner. Which he felt super unimportant and very much unlike me to not put him first lol. So what happened? He called me 10 times wanting to see me after. haha.! It's a typical trait. I see that a lot. Sometimes I feel like he purposely cause drama to get a reaction out of me. once he gets wharvee result he wanted, it was ok again. like when things r good and great. They don't appreciate that. Like they need to stir something up so their so get upset or get annoye or get hurt and that's when they feel satisfied!! n when their so is hurt or upset( when they pull away, have their walls up, or push the Aqua away) that's when the Aqua will get off his lazy ass and do something about it. It's like a cat and mice game. anything predictable they rather die probably lol
I actually did that to a guy with aqua placements lol cause he's so closed and show nothing, I had to do something bad to get reaction from him...it's just annoyin, I don't want to be bad,just normal but normal doesn't seem to be working for them lol
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Posted by saweetz1988What placements has he got?Posted by UnicornSagPosted by saweetz1988
This is very true. I noticed this pattern with the Aqua. For e.g. Last night I didn't wanna stay for dinne with my friends and him. I let him be and I stayed a few weeks before. He asked me where I was going n I said I just didn't feel like staying for dinner. Which he felt super unimportant and very much unlike me to not put him first lol. So what happened? He called me 10 times wanting to see me after. haha.! It's a typical trait. I see that a lot. Sometimes I feel like he purposely cause drama to get a reaction out of me. once he gets wharvee result he wanted, it was ok again. like when things r good and great. They don't appreciate that. Like they need to stir something up so their so get upset or get annoye or get hurt and that's when they feel satisfied!! n when their so is hurt or upset( when they pull away, have their walls up, or push the Aqua away) that's when the Aqua will get off his lazy ass and do something about it. It's like a cat and mice game. anything predictable they rather die probably lol
I actually did that to a guy with aqua placements lol cause he's so closed and show nothing, I had to do something bad to get reaction from him...it's just annoyin, I don't want to be bad,just normal but normal doesn't seem to be working for them lol
Hahaha maybe he's doing that to me coz most of the time, I can be a little indifference and he wanna see how much I care about him maybe . I have cold ass placements too .. lol ..
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Posted by rockTennYEHa they stir up drama on purpose. I don't think they know a way to communicate their wants and needs directly like aries or leo. So drama is their way of getting their needs met in a very passive aggressive way. For e.g. They might be feeling unloved, instead of them going directly to their SO for it, they will stir up something to get a reaction out of the SO to prove to them that their SO still care. lol. Also, expect their sO to read their mind too.. my Aqua girlfriend told me this lol. She also doesn't like confrontation. So maybe, drama is her way of getting wharvee she wanted in the first place. I'm also just sharing my observation here. 🙂
They live for the drama in occasional doses.
Whenever my aqua gets jealous or shall I say notices that I’m mingling, he causes drama.
Every damn time. I think he does it to get this Scorpio mars makeup sex. I gotta give it to him, he held the drama side back for a long time...I regret showing him that I give in to it bc he’s got way out of hand.
FYI I’m very much like the guy said about Aries women...will be an entire sh*t show & do some very freaky things.
Now I’m not saying I have the answers to long term success. Simply sharing my experience. I’ll be on here dumped just like all the others that come crying lmao.
Ok back to lurking!
Posted by saweetz1988Posted by pinkbird03No bs. They seem to somehow like the unpredictability. I mentioned before, Aqua said they hate drama but man, deep down they love it. drama= breakup= make up hot sex. Who says no to that ? lol
My best guess, based on my experiences and reading the stories of others- is that aquas like excitement. They love the kind of drama that creates passion.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Oh yeah those new places for sexy time is predictable. I don't think many of them know how to have sex in the bedroom lol... hahahaha .. stalking? yeah true.. it's passive aggressive. I can't say. I do the same thing lolPosted by saweetz1988Posted by pinkbird03No bs. They seem to somehow like the unpredictability. I mentioned before, Aqua said they hate drama but man, deep down they love it. drama= breakup= make up hot sex. Who says no to that ? lol
My best guess, based on my experiences and reading the stories of others- is that aquas like excitement. They love the kind of drama that creates passion.
Lol sometimes, yea. I think it depends on how in love the aqua is and how crazy the girl is.
I’m talking more about drama raises their adrenaline in a romantic sense, such as a satisfying sexual experiences, traveling to new places, trying new adventurous things, things that really make them happy but they don’t do often, a little push then pull etc. I’m going to add the stalking because that’s another way someone’s feelings can grow tremendously.
I think they have a strong desire to build a bonfire, but they sometimes have trouble keeping the flame lit.
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Posted by saweetz1988I feel ya! Communication must be too cliche for them.Posted by rockTennYEHa they stir up drama on purpose. I don't think they know a way to communicate their wants and needs directly like aries or leo. So drama is their way of getting their needs met in a very passive aggressive way. For e.g. They might be feeling unloved, instead of them going directly to their SO for it, they will stir up something to get a reaction out of the SO to prove to them that their SO still care. lol. Also, expect their sO to read their mind too.. my Aqua girlfriend told me this lol. She also doesn't like confrontation. So maybe, drama is her way of getting wharvee she wanted in the first place. I'm also just sharing my observation here. 🙂
They live for the drama in occasional doses.
Whenever my aqua gets jealous or shall I say notices that I’m mingling, he causes drama.
Every damn time. I think he does it to get this Scorpio mars makeup sex. I gotta give it to him, he held the drama side back for a long time...I regret showing him that I give in to it bc he’s got way out of hand.
FYI I’m very much like the guy said about Aries women...will be an entire sh*t show & do some very freaky things.
Now I’m not saying I have the answers to long term success. Simply sharing my experience. I’ll be on here dumped just like all the others that come crying lmao.
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Posted by rockTennPosted by saweetz1988I feel ya! Communication must be too cliche for them.Posted by rockTennYEHa they stir up drama on purpose. I don't think they know a way to communicate their wants and needs directly like aries or leo. So drama is their way of getting their needs met in a very passive aggressive way. For e.g. They might be feeling unloved, instead of them going directly to their SO for it, they will stir up something to get a reaction out of the SO to prove to them that their SO still care. lol. Also, expect their sO to read their mind too.. my Aqua girlfriend told me this lol. She also doesn't like confrontation. So maybe, drama is her way of getting wharvee she wanted in the first place. I'm also just sharing my observation here. 🙂
They live for the drama in occasional doses.
Whenever my aqua gets jealous or shall I say notices that I’m mingling, he causes drama.
Every damn time. I think he does it to get this Scorpio mars makeup sex. I gotta give it to him, he held the drama side back for a long time...I regret showing him that I give in to it bc he’s got way out of hand.
FYI I’m very much like the guy said about Aries women...will be an entire sh*t show & do some very freaky things.
Now I’m not saying I have the answers to long term success. Simply sharing my experience. I’ll be on here dumped just like all the others that come crying lmao.
Ok back to lurking!
In an odd way, if anyone can read their passive aggressiveness behavior or their minds, it would make sense that an aqua thinks that person loves them because that takes genuine effort & care.click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988Posted by rockTennPosted by saweetz1988I feel ya! Communication must be too cliche for them.Posted by rockTennYEHa they stir up drama on purpose. I don't think they know a way to communicate their wants and needs directly like aries or leo. So drama is their way of getting their needs met in a very passive aggressive way. For e.g. They might be feeling unloved, instead of them going directly to their SO for it, they will stir up something to get a reaction out of the SO to prove to them that their SO still care. lol. Also, expect their sO to read their mind too.. my Aqua girlfriend told me this lol. She also doesn't like confrontation. So maybe, drama is her way of getting wharvee she wanted in the first place. I'm also just sharing my observation here. 🙂
They live for the drama in occasional doses.
Whenever my aqua gets jealous or shall I say notices that I’m mingling, he causes drama.
Every damn time. I think he does it to get this Scorpio mars makeup sex. I gotta give it to him, he held the drama side back for a long time...I regret showing him that I give in to it bc he’s got way out of hand.
FYI I’m very much like the guy said about Aries women...will be an entire sh*t show & do some very freaky things.
Now I’m not saying I have the answers to long term success. Simply sharing my experience. I’ll be on here dumped just like all the others that come crying lmao.
Ok back to lurking!
In an odd way, if anyone can read their passive aggressiveness behavior or their minds, it would make sense that an aqua thinks that person loves them because that takes genuine effort & care.
Yeah I guess I noe coz I can be similar too. The push n pull was my game at one point but I learnt over time to b more straight forward. we both said we both were always being passive aggressive. It's like this game thing that we do.. but I dun want that anymore it's exhausting so I wanna b like Aries or Leo when it comes to conflicts lol...
for . E.g. . The Aqua is upset with me from last night so I pretty much typed out eveything I think he's feeling and the action he is showing lol. and I said I will give him Time to cool down and that I am sorry he felt rejected lol. Hopefully this time he will stop the unnessary drama that he was going to cause lol. he didn't deny anything I said and just agreed so I gues I read his mind lol.click to expand
Posted by GeminiGirl052388Now I have to agree LDRs are hard.Posted by rockTennHahaha LDR is hard. You rely on communication heavily. And trust. Not saying being in the same location is easy. In general, relationships are hard. My point was, my aquas didnt give me or ask for any drama. Even my ex and I was with him in the same location for 4 years after the 6 mos ldr. Ive experienced ldr and same location relationships with them, just so you know so definitely a gold star for me. So i think its more about the personality of women. In the same location or not, manipulation and games arent ok. And it causes drama. Aqua males dont like drama. Women on here just claim aqua men do coz they cant get the men to commit and they play cat and mouse game all the time. Aqua men only react when the girl goes missing? Then probably the woman isnt as important. Aqua men are aloof and dont text back? Then he is not as interested. Think about it. The answer is there. Where’s the drama? None. But we can all pretend its not happening so we can keep saying they like drama. Smh.
I’ve been ghosted for a maximum 2 days. Can we even call that ghosting?
I think I read most ladies discuss aqua males liking drama.
Anyway you go girl! Comparing your overseas relationship success with relationships that ppl actually touch each other daily. Gold star for you!click to expand
Posted by GeminiGirl052388Posted by rockTennWell then like me, you are in good standing. You are probably the type who has a life outside of the relationship. Because from what I have observed, some women on here are too hung up on every single move their aqua men does to the point of obsession. And every single thing is considered “drama” even when its not. Its sometimes an overreaction from the women’s part, at least based on what Ive been reading on here. Personally, I dont agree they like drama. Some women just dont understand them as much. Its live and let live for aquas. The more we hang on to them, the more they slip away. Like sand in your palm. The more chill you are and the better your life is outside of the relationship with them, the more excited they are about you.
I Should note that it’s 2 days max of ghosting for 5yrs & I’ve only been ghosted twice.
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Posted by GeminiGirl052388The possessiveness caught me by surprise!Posted by rockTennHahaha! Yes. They are possessive when they want and love you and wont even let a fly touch you. 😂 that is a special thing they only show people they care about. They wint hurt you intentionally either. By nature, I just do my thing. The fwb situation doesnt suit my needs anymore so my decision was to cut him off. Once I make a decision to walk away, its almost always a done deal. Not coming back. And my aqua ex and fwb experienced me walking away from them on my own terms. The way I see it is that if the women are independent enough and ready to walk away from a situation that doesnt suit them, aquas admire them more. Because again, many get stuck in a loop with them on the cat and mouse phase. They wont decide coz they dont want to hurt the women and if the women wont decide either, then its a never ending drama filled with pain and agony. Not because they love drama. As a woman, I think we have every right to decide to walk away, call the shots and not be scared to lose that person. If they value us, then they will try harder. We dont even have to do much.Posted by GeminiGirl052388Now I have to agree LDRs are hard.Posted by rockTennHahaha LDR is hard. You rely on communication heavily. And trust. Not saying being in the same location is easy. In general, relationships are hard. My point was, my aquas didnt give me or ask for any drama. Even my ex and I was with him in the same location for 4 years after the 6 mos ldr. Ive experienced ldr and same location relationships with them, just so you know so definitely a gold star for me. So i think its more about the personality of women. In the same location or not, manipulation and games arent ok. And it causes drama. Aqua males dont like drama. Women on here just claim aqua men do coz they cant get the men to commit and they play cat and mouse game all the time. Aqua men only react when the girl goes missing? Then probably the woman isnt as important. Aqua men are aloof and dont text back? Then he is not as interested. Think about it. The answer is there. Where’s the drama? None. But we can all pretend its not happening so we can keep saying they like drama. Smh.
I’ve been ghosted for a maximum 2 days. Can we even call that ghosting?
I think I read most ladies discuss aqua males liking drama.
Anyway you go girl! Comparing your overseas relationship success with relationships that ppl actually touch each other daily. Gold star for you!
The only time mine appeared to cause and like the drama was when other men were flirty & I communicated with them. He simply has to be more desired than me or has gotten used to me treating him like the only man in the room. But on that note, I agree that in general they don’t like drama. We went years with none of it. That’s what made me fall for him. I also agree that women on forums are here bc they can’t get out the cat & mouse phase. You got out of that phase with the tinder guy bc you ended it though...not bc aqua men hate drama. Had you given in to his return you’d probably see what we are saying I think.
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Posted by GeminiGirl052388I always look forward to your responses now! You're definitely my favorite gem on here! 😍😘Posted by rockTennHahaha! Yes. They are possessive when they want and love you and wont even let a fly touch you. 😂 that is a special thing they only show people they care about. They wint hurt you intentionally either. By nature, I just do my thing. The fwb situation doesnt suit my needs anymore so my decision was to cut him off. Once I make a decision to walk away, its almost always a done deal. Not coming back. And my aqua ex and fwb experienced me walking away from them on my own terms. The way I see it is that if the women are independent enough and ready to walk away from a situation that doesnt suit them, aquas admire them more. Because again, many get stuck in a loop with them on the cat and mouse phase. They wont decide coz they dont want to hurt the women and if the women wont decide either, then its a never ending drama filled with pain and agony. Not because they love drama. As a woman, I think we have every right to decide to walk away, call the shots and not be scared to lose that person. If they value us, then they will try harder. We dont even have to do much.Posted by GeminiGirl052388Now I have to agree LDRs are hard.Posted by rockTennHahaha LDR is hard. You rely on communication heavily. And trust. Not saying being in the same location is easy. In general, relationships are hard. My point was, my aquas didnt give me or ask for any drama. Even my ex and I was with him in the same location for 4 years after the 6 mos ldr. Ive experienced ldr and same location relationships with them, just so you know so definitely a gold star for me. So i think its more about the personality of women. In the same location or not, manipulation and games arent ok. And it causes drama. Aqua males dont like drama. Women on here just claim aqua men do coz they cant get the men to commit and they play cat and mouse game all the time. Aqua men only react when the girl goes missing? Then probably the woman isnt as important. Aqua men are aloof and dont text back? Then he is not as interested. Think about it. The answer is there. Where’s the drama? None. But we can all pretend its not happening so we can keep saying they like drama. Smh.
I’ve been ghosted for a maximum 2 days. Can we even call that ghosting?
I think I read most ladies discuss aqua males liking drama.
Anyway you go girl! Comparing your overseas relationship success with relationships that ppl actually touch each other daily. Gold star for you!
The only time mine appeared to cause and like the drama was when other men were flirty & I communicated with them. He simply has to be more desired than me or has gotten used to me treating him like the only man in the room. But on that note, I agree that in general they don’t like drama. We went years with none of it. That’s what made me fall for him. I also agree that women on forums are here bc they can’t get out the cat & mouse phase. You got out of that phase with the tinder guy bc you ended it though...not bc aqua men hate drama. Had you given in to his return you’d probably see what we are saying I think.
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Posted by rockTennhow does your aries nature directness during drama is like?Posted by saweetz1988Posted by rockTennPosted by saweetz1988I feel ya! Communication must be too cliche for them.Posted by rockTennYEHa they stir up drama on purpose. I don't think they know a way to communicate their wants and needs directly like aries or leo. So drama is their way of getting their needs met in a very passive aggressive way. For e.g. They might be feeling unloved, instead of them going directly to their SO for it, they will stir up something to get a reaction out of the SO to prove to them that their SO still care. lol. Also, expect their sO to read their mind too.. my Aqua girlfriend told me this lol. She also doesn't like confrontation. So maybe, drama is her way of getting wharvee she wanted in the first place. I'm also just sharing my observation here. 🙂
They live for the drama in occasional doses.
Whenever my aqua gets jealous or shall I say notices that I’m mingling, he causes drama.
Every damn time. I think he does it to get this Scorpio mars makeup sex. I gotta give it to him, he held the drama side back for a long time...I regret showing him that I give in to it bc he’s got way out of hand.
FYI I’m very much like the guy said about Aries women...will be an entire sh*t show & do some very freaky things.
Now I’m not saying I have the answers to long term success. Simply sharing my experience. I’ll be on here dumped just like all the others that come crying lmao.
Ok back to lurking!
In an odd way, if anyone can read their passive aggressiveness behavior or their minds, it would make sense that an aqua thinks that person loves them because that takes genuine effort & care.
Yeah I guess I noe coz I can be similar too. The push n pull was my game at one point but I learnt over time to b more straight forward. we both said we both were always being passive aggressive. It's like this game thing that we do.. but I dun want that anymore it's exhausting so I wanna b like Aries or Leo when it comes to conflicts lol...
for . E.g. . The Aqua is upset with me from last night so I pretty much typed out eveything I think he's feeling and the action he is showing lol. and I said I will give him Time to cool down and that I am sorry he felt rejected lol. Hopefully this time he will stop the unnessary drama that he was going to cause lol. he didn't deny anything I said and just agreed so I gues I read his mind lol.
That’s nice...mine doesn’t admit any wrongs. Just takes me out & shows me lots of attention. I’m an Aries & find my directness during drama to be too much for him.
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