How to deal with Aquarius male

We are just talking and getting to know each other but I feel like I always have to let him chase because if I message him first he doesn’t seem interested lol but he could just be busy.

The problem is I don’t want to let him start conversation or make all the effort and I make none back because I’m worried that would make him think I’m not interested.

Could I be thinking way too much in to this and do Aquarius men like to do the chasing? He’s very laid back and is always usually busy with work so it’s hard getting to know him and his routine lol I have to depend on astrology 🙄

Dig a deep hole...push him in 😝

Lololol

I have no real advise I don't date my aqua bros lol

What's your sign? I had the same situation. I let him chase at first. Killed me when we didn't text for few days sometimes but he would always find a reason to text me every few days.. then we got more into eachother and eventually he said on a date "why don't you ever text me first?"

Then I realized ok maybe I should stop playing mind games. I text him first sometimes now.

Just don't play the mind games. They appreciate honesty. He will appreciate you being upfront. Don't be clingy and doubly texting, but do text first every once a while. Sometimes I'll text my man a sweet message and even if he doesn't reply till the next day bc he fell asleep, I know it makes him

Happy. So do it. Don't play mind games. Text him first too

Posted by Klh1203
We are just talking and getting to know each other but I feel like I always have to let him chase because if I message him first he doesn’t seem interested lol but he could just be busy.

The problem is I don’t want to let him start conversation or make all the effort and I make none back because I’m worried that would make him think I’m not interested.

Could I be thinking way too much in to this and do Aquarius men like to do the chasing? He’s very laid back and is always usually busy with work so it’s hard getting to know him and his routine lol I have to depend on astrology 🙄

Um...ignore him. Do not initiate w Aqua Males.

aren't you a pisces? you'll get frustrated if he's a workaholic type aqua man.

Posted by Kittenfish

Posted by Klh1203
We are just talking and getting to know each other but I feel like I always have to let him chase because if I message him first he doesn’t seem interested lol but he could just be busy.

The problem is I don’t want to let him start conversation or make all the effort and I make none back because I’m worried that would make him think I’m not interested.

Could I be thinking way too much in to this and do Aquarius men like to do the chasing? He’s very laid back and is always usually busy with work so it’s hard getting to know him and his routine lol I have to depend on astrology 🙄

Um...ignore him. Do not initiate w Aqua Males.

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100% wrong.

If he works a lot, that explains everything. He’s trying to be successful. He’s doing it for his future and that possibly includes you. Be supportive. Be loving. Show him you appreciate his efforts and can be independent too. Believe me, you will enjoy your time together so much more when you do get those opportunities to do so.

Posted by Capricorngirl1111
What's your sign? I had the same situation. I let him chase at first. Killed me when we didn't text for few days sometimes but he would always find a reason to text me every few days.. then we got more into eachother and eventually he said on a date "why don't you ever text me first?"

Then I realized ok maybe I should stop playing mind games. I text him first sometimes now.

Just don't play the mind games. They appreciate honesty. He will appreciate you being upfront. Don't be clingy and doubly texting, but do text first every once a while. Sometimes I'll text my man a sweet message and even if he doesn't reply till the next day bc he fell asleep, I know it makes him

Happy. So do it. Don't play mind games. Text him first too

I’m a Pisces with a Scorpio moon , Lol I am sensitive and emotional but I’ve learnt how to play that and ignore it since dating my ex who was very unemotional and unattached

Haha, he hates double texting! And yes I do play mind games I have to admit but I just give off the energy he gives me and I act like I don’t care and I’m unbothered but really I’m just like, give me attention I want you! Lol. Of course I won’t say that though. My dad was an aqua and we was bestfriends so I know kind of what to expect from him and as a Pisces I know we can be a bit overwhelming to them so this is why I just act laid back and uninterested sometimes but I don’t want to act too uninterested because I have a feeling he’s thinking I’m not into him when I really do like him

Posted by bittercupcake
Let him chase after you. Initiating contact once in a while isnt bad, but the first months is crucial to building a routine. So let him chase. Also, reciprocating is also chasing. Just let him chase in terms of communication and you reciprocate.

Thank you! I shall do so.

Posted by AerialView
aren't you a pisces? you'll get frustrated if he's a workaholic type aqua man.

Yeah I am, and I do get frustrated sometimes but my ex was the same he was hardly ever home and I raised our kids alone so I got used to it and I didn’t have a problem with it but it was until he started cheating then that’s when I had a problem.

But I understand that he’s busy working and I find it attractive, because I’m looking to start my career soon which is why I think we have that in common

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Posted by Klh1203
We are just talking and getting to know each other but I feel like I always have to let him chase because if I message him first he doesn’t seem interested lol but he could just be busy.

The problem is I don’t want to let him start conversation or make all the effort and I make none back because I’m worried that would make him think I’m not interested.

Could I be thinking way too much in to this and do Aquarius men like to do the chasing? He’s very laid back and is always usually busy with work so it’s hard getting to know him and his routine lol I have to depend on astrology 🙄

Um...ignore him. Do not initiate w Aqua Males.

they will initiate if they interested. just tease him first

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I normally tease naturally lol but for some reason this guy is just different I can’t do it with him, lol he’s very boring.

Posted by FishyDude

Posted by AerialView
aren't you a pisces? you'll get frustrated if he's a workaholic type aqua man.

If she is a Pisces then I assume she won't be compatible with an Aqua. I've had nightmares with Aqua women in the past.

OP, maybe find yourself a Cap or Pisces or Cancer or Taurus?

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I don’t get on with other Pisces, or cancers in a relationship. Taurus, yes my ex was one and Capricorn hmm? Not found one yet. I do get on with Aquarius though two of my bestfriends growing up was one and me and my dad was very very close just sometimes we get frustrated with each other. I feel like with Aquas and me it’s 50/50. I love spending time with them because I love debating and learning from them

I don’t really get on with other Pisces or Cancers, but I get on with Scorpios a lot. I usually attract a lot of earth signs and I’m closer to them. Don’t know where this Aquarius came from

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Posted by Klh1203
I don’t really get on with other Pisces or Cancers, but I get on with Scorpios a lot. I usually attract a lot of earth signs and I’m closer to them. Don’t know where this Aquarius came from

He’s probably earth dominant. I’m an aqua with a gem moon and I have heavy earth- specifically Capricorn. I can be centered, boring, and practical at times. But that’s because I’m trying to get things done. Very career driven

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Dying to find out his full birth date so I can know what his chart is lol. I asked him for his birth day and he just ignored me probably thought what a random question . Lol I’m gonna just wait until January or February to come

@bittercupcake see me and you would definitely get along. My two best friends are Gemini and Virgo. I get on so well with Gemini’s and Taurus Lol, hate libras

Posted by Klh1203
@bittercupcake see me and you would definitely get along. My two best friends are Gemini and Virgo. I get on so well with Gemini’s and Taurus Lol, hate libras

lmao cupcake does not like fish.

It's very rare we chase, and we take pride in our trophy when we do