A Virgo and an Aquarius

I've been seeing this guy for about six months or so. We're both seniors in high school. But I'm at the point where I don't know what to do anymore, he's always so distant and flat out ignores me for weeks on end. But it even more confuses me, as he likes me enough to get me stuff for Valentines day and we've gone on plenty of dates. But even today we went out with some of my friends and some of his friends and he didn't want anything to do with me. Should I confront him about it, ignore him back what do you think? Further information:
I'm a Virgo sun, Scorpio rising, Scorpio moon.
He's a Aquarius sun, Leo rising, Aries moon.
Thank you for any help 🙂

Well.....first I think it would be wise of you to sit back and think if this guy is really who you like. Not saying you can't do this or need a hand doing it lol... well you are pretty young but I'm not really trying point that out at all..... Just try and think objectively about it because infatuation or love can sometimes blind us .. And I'm sure even if you do that you still will want this guy!

It doesn't sound like it's really too serious yet right? I mean you are young after all haha 😛 Anyways, it doesn't seem to sound like it's an official thing and LOL good luck getting that officiality underway with an Aqua NOT saying we never do OR that it's practically impossible to do....just a lot of us seem to deliberate about love and commitment it would appear. I know for me I have never really had this problem to much till recently only cause I dunno as I've gotten older I've become A LOT more picky.... so hey your lucky he might not be that way yet. I am however sorry to inform you that Aquas do tend to like this kinda freedom and space stuff they do from time to time....BUT I am of the opinion ,at least especially if you are a really good friend or in a serious relationship, anything that is over a day or so ....they should be available to you in some way and should still show they care and touch base with you. And I think you should take it this way with every one of them you ever date too.

I know Aquas like space but NO one needs weeks at a time away from the world..... I mean to me that is fucked up honestly ^.^
The only reason an Aqua should do something retarded like that is if they are feeling stressed out or like you are adding stress to their life. And that is something else I'd like to ask. Have you already question him at all about it? Or hinted in anyway?

@NotYourAverageAquarius
I've tried only today saying that 'we need to talk seriously'. But I texted him that, and since he is basically refusing to answer any form of communication from me besides earlier today in person, which was minimal at that. I am going to let him know that if we did want to make this even remotely serious that he'd need to communicate. Because ignoring me like this is just ridiculous. He just leaves me with the cold shoulder, and doesn't answer anything I say. But other times he'll respond and fire up an instinctual conversation. Not recently however 🙂 thanks for your help and advise.

Posted by NikkiKitten17
@NotYourAverageAquarius
I've tried only today saying that 'we need to talk seriously'. But I texted him that, and since he is basically refusing to answer any form of communication from me besides earlier today in person, which was minimal at that. I am going to let him know that if we did want to make this even remotely serious that he'd need to communicate. Because ignoring me like this is just ridiculous. He just leaves me with the cold shoulder, and doesn't answer anything I say. But other times he'll respond and fire up an instinctual conversation. Not recently however 🙂 thanks for your help and advise.

My advice to you dear is this. If you have tried and you did not get the response you wanted... respond to it like this. Act like and really just think of it as something that will not really happen... don't let it bother. Your going to have to actually be about like how I am saying otherwise this is not going to work. I know this much you overreact to this and it will likely only make things worse. There could be several reasons for why he is acting the way he is and one the main ones being he is born under the 11th sign ^.^

Anyways, instead of try to figure out why he is being the way he is or why this or why that. Just write him off for now here's why... no matter what the case is at this very moment you got your whole life ahead of you and you have no idea he could be acting this way because maybe for some weird reason he is not interested anymore or maybe he thinks he's got you now... and can be all rude and inconsiderate and you will stick around. Just, prove him wrong and show you don't need him and that kind of attitude and get on with it like you know you can do!

Several reasons why this is the best response... it won't ruin the friendship you have with him, you won't push him away, you'll move on faster if it's not meant to be and be on to the next best thing, you can focus more on YOUR future, etc. etc. etc. BUT the best effect this will have is.... you are likely to attract more than you ever have if you show him you don't need him.. you don't need his inconsiderate attitude and he isn't immune to norms of social conduct we all are expected to uphold. And even if he doesn't change his ways I'm pretty sure he will be a lot more considerate in the future, and best part is you likely will not care cause you have moved on

That's funny, I was just thinking 'what if I'm over reacting..' I think I am going to take your advise and just let it roll off my shoulder and not let it bother me as much as I can. Thanks for the helpful advise really! I will try some of those tactics and see how it plays out, thanks again 🙂

Yeah my pleasure.