Accessing the friendship

My Aqua girlfriend i had a falling out and she just sent me a link on one of my favorite bands. I had sent her an email a 2 months ago wanting to talk to her. She did not respond. I did not think i would hear back from her and made my peace with that just recently. I thought she had, you know, cut me off and while i was upset I had finally made peace with it and forgot about it. (CLOSURE = making peace with your own thoughts once you feel youve done all you can on the outside.) I did not do anything to her i just told her i thought she wasnt that great a friend to me. She would not invite me out with her much and when she did it was a pain in the ass to meet with her because it had to be on her time and on her terms. I did explain things to her and even said i should find new friends.

Before we had the little falling out she would send me links from time to time. Most of the time with no introduction or comment. Or send me a photo of something she took. I know it was to tell me she was thinking of me. Nice enough.

Any aquas ladies can tell me how to fall into a higher echelon of friend zoning? Frankly i did not think id hear back from her but since i am then id like to figure out why she keeps in touch with me for no particular reason. She never really responded to my inquiries. In fact she just said 'ok" when i protested and left it at that while continuing to send me links.

pay attention to what that song says...there must be a message in there...

tell her that she's a lousy friend and to go fuck herself and move on

Thank you guys. i did listen to the song. It was something about I am not alone. hehe. Telling her to fuck herself would be epic, therfore extreme. But i think im going to be treating Aquas a lot differently from now on. I wont submit to Aquas. Aquas will love me so much more for it!! Treat you with firmness and you always come back like a taught rubber band.

Im a female too. not sure THAT was clear. Sorry. Yea. That may change my Answers. We have been friends for a long time. She just sends me links from time to time. I try to get together with her and she sends me links. And im sure she has a perfectly good reason to treat me this way. She is soo logical. And yet it does not make sense on paper.