After all these years.........

Aqua ex from high school has contacted me through Facebook recently.
He requested my friendship and I took a few days to accept.
One of my most significant childhood heartbreaks.

I went through is pics and found him married with a kid.
Decided I would go ahead and accept as a friend.
I think of him every now and then.

He is going through a divorce.

Can we really be friends after all these years?

He is already asking if I am married.

I was going to say, maybe it's just a Facebook friendship. But if he's asking if you're married, maybe he sees you as the one who got away. Obviously, he remembers you fondly.

I'd pursue the friendship. What's there to lose?

Just beware that he could be looking for a rebound....but, still, if you keep that in the back of your mind, there's nothing wrong with being friendly.

If life has given you several 2nd chances, then go with it. If not, drop him like he dropped you.

Posted by truecap
Just beware that he could be looking for a rebound....but, still, if you keep that in the back of your mind, there's nothing wrong with being friendly.

+1

he was probably feeling very very lonely and depressed and remembered you.

you were probably a bright lght in his life before, OR that he wants to reconcile with you, make things easier on his life, since he is going through a divorce.

however, that's up to you because that's alot to bear. If you don't bearing alot of that, what come may, then you should be ok.