Posted by Undine
*eye roll"
And lol 😄 😄 😄 😄
Posted by Chuckcem
I've heard this is a thing as well, even from other Aquas. The loss can range from "almost losing a person" to "the person has moved on and found another partner"
Posted by TheGreatSearcherHow long since she left did u realise the lost?
1. Yes
2. Spent several weeks searching for her private info and sent an email. Never got any response.
3. I moved on and I'm done with wasting my time on things which will never happen.
Posted by saweetz1988And how long did it take for you to move on?Posted by TheGreatSearcherHow long since she left did u realise the lost?
1. Yes
2. Spent several weeks searching for her private info and sent an email. Never got any response.
3. I moved on and I'm done with wasting my time on things which will never happen.click to expand
Posted by saweetz19882 years later.Posted by TheGreatSearcherHow long since she left did u realise the lost?
1. Yes
2. Spent several weeks searching for her private info and sent an email. Never got any response.
3. I moved on and I'm done with wasting my time on things which will never happen.click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988uh no.
Have you ever almost lost a person (to someone else) or something... only to realise you actually have strong feelings for him/her...? And what did you do?.. is it true feelings or an ego thing? .. or were you too emotionally detached to realise what you had? Lol
Posted by TheGreatSearcher2 years later ? Holly molly ..!!! Why did it take you so long— What's your moon?Posted by saweetz19882 years later.Posted by TheGreatSearcherHow long since she left did u realise the lost?
1. Yes
2. Spent several weeks searching for her private info and sent an email. Never got any response.
3. I moved on and I'm done with wasting my time on things which will never happen.
I think I went mad thinking about her around that time.
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Posted by imbatgirl14
Aquas have a tendency to realize their true feelings for a person, too late. Because they are emotionally detached, a sudden loss, sends them into shock. Losing control over the outcome or being completely winded consumes their psyche. They can't cope well.
This is when they will try and get you back or repair the relationship. This control to want to stay in 'friendly' terms is what makes all majority of Aquas come back weeks/months/years later. But, don't mistake it as them trying to get back together with you unless they say so. Many people have this misconception that if an Aqua returns, it's because they have deep feelings. Not necessarily true. They mostly come back for selfish reasons to placate their emotions, as they feel guilty how things ended.
The upside to this is, if an Aqua has feelings for you, they'll let you know. They're very straightforward and blunt to the point of disbelief.
Posted by imbatgirl14Not really, no. As an Air sign myself, I have huge problems in expressing my feelings myself. I made my poor Aqua man come back in tears to me because I rejected him for nothing. They do feel deeply. His state itself hurt my heart to the point I got sick due to low immunity. Once connected, they are stable. Please do not play with them!
Aquas have a tendency to realize their true feelings for a person, too late. Because they are emotionally detached, a sudden loss, sends them into shock. Losing control over the outcome or being completely winded consumes their psyche. They can't cope well.
This is when they will try and get you back or repair the relationship. This control to want to stay in 'friendly' terms is what makes all majority of Aquas come back weeks/months/years later. But, don't mistake it as them trying to get back together with you unless they say so. Many people have this misconception that if an Aqua returns, it's because they have deep feelings. Not necessarily true. They mostly come back for selfish reasons to placate their emotions, as they feel guilty how things ended.
The upside to this is, if an Aqua has feelings for you, they'll let you know. They're very straightforward and blunt to the point of disbelief.
Posted by imbatgirl14That's my point. Everybody in here expect miracles to happen from Aquas in early stages. None really goes beyond, I haven't, yet. I sense him, but this is because of me. He reads me, but this is because he is sensitive. We are best friends and able to be vulnerable towards each other.Posted by compyYou're situation is different as he was already emotionally invested in you. In the beginning stages Aquas hardly become emotional, unless hes pushed to that point. If an Aqua doesn't feel for you then the above is what usually happens.Posted by imbatgirl14Not really, no. As an Air sign myself, I have huge problems in expressing my feelings myself. I made my poor Aqua man come back in tears to me because I rejected him for nothing. They do feel deeply. His state itself hurt my heart to the point I got sick due to low immunity. Once connected, they are stable. Please do not play with them!
Aquas have a tendency to realize their true feelings for a person, too late. Because they are emotionally detached, a sudden loss, sends them into shock. Losing control over the outcome or being completely winded consumes their psyche. They can't cope well.
This is when they will try and get you back or repair the relationship. This control to want to stay in 'friendly' terms is what makes all majority of Aquas come back weeks/months/years later. But, don't mistake it as them trying to get back together with you unless they say so. Many people have this misconception that if an Aqua returns, it's because they have deep feelings. Not necessarily true. They mostly come back for selfish reasons to placate their emotions, as they feel guilty how things ended.
The upside to this is, if an Aqua has feelings for you, they'll let you know. They're very straightforward and blunt to the point of disbelief.
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Posted by imbatgirl14not true at all.. we are just reallllllly good at hiding it or keeping it to ourselves.Posted by compyYou're situation is different as he was already emotionally invested in you. In the beginning stages Aquas hardly become emotional, unless hes pushed to that point. If an Aqua doesn't feel for you then the above is what usually happens.Posted by imbatgirl14Not really, no. As an Air sign myself, I have huge problems in expressing my feelings myself. I made my poor Aqua man come back in tears to me because I rejected him for nothing. They do feel deeply. His state itself hurt my heart to the point I got sick due to low immunity. Once connected, they are stable. Please do not play with them!
Aquas have a tendency to realize their true feelings for a person, too late. Because they are emotionally detached, a sudden loss, sends them into shock. Losing control over the outcome or being completely winded consumes their psyche. They can't cope well.
This is when they will try and get you back or repair the relationship. This control to want to stay in 'friendly' terms is what makes all majority of Aquas come back weeks/months/years later. But, don't mistake it as them trying to get back together with you unless they say so. Many people have this misconception that if an Aqua returns, it's because they have deep feelings. Not necessarily true. They mostly come back for selfish reasons to placate their emotions, as they feel guilty how things ended.
The upside to this is, if an Aqua has feelings for you, they'll let you know. They're very straightforward and blunt to the point of disbelief.
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Posted by imbatgirl14yes to this.. guess i should have kept reading but i still disagree with your first post tbh. But maybe the men are different than us females. *shrug*Posted by compyI know. Most of the women and men on DXP want things rushed with an Aqua. They don't take the time to just sit back and relax. They don't realize that waiting is part of the subconscious test. They need to know you have sticking power. Aquas don't do short flings, when it comes to relationships. If they commit, they expect to commit for the long run.Posted by imbatgirl14That's my point. Everybody in here expect miracles to happen from Aquas in early stages. None really goes beyond, I haven't, yet. I sense him, but this is because of me. He reads me, but this is because he is sensitive. We are best friends and able to be vulnerable towards each other.Posted by compyYou're situation is different as he was already emotionally invested in you. In the beginning stages Aquas hardly become emotional, unless hes pushed to that point. If an Aqua doesn't feel for you then the above is what usually happens.Posted by imbatgirl14Not really, no. As an Air sign myself, I have huge problems in expressing my feelings myself. I made my poor Aqua man come back in tears to me because I rejected him for nothing. They do feel deeply. His state itself hurt my heart to the point I got sick due to low immunity. Once connected, they are stable. Please do not play with them!
Aquas have a tendency to realize their true feelings for a person, too late. Because they are emotionally detached, a sudden loss, sends them into shock. Losing control over the outcome or being completely winded consumes their psyche. They can't cope well.
This is when they will try and get you back or repair the relationship. This control to want to stay in 'friendly' terms is what makes all majority of Aquas come back weeks/months/years later. But, don't mistake it as them trying to get back together with you unless they say so. Many people have this misconception that if an Aqua returns, it's because they have deep feelings. Not necessarily true. They mostly come back for selfish reasons to placate their emotions, as they feel guilty how things ended.
The upside to this is, if an Aqua has feelings for you, they'll let you know. They're very straightforward and blunt to the point of disbelief.
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Posted by ChuckcemMe. I'm too indecisive or too slow to make up my mind. Also, looking for a partner who connects with me in mind body and soul but sometimes one is still building up. For me it has been hard to break up with someone, so before dating someone I have to confirm I'm sure about him.
I've heard this is a thing as well, even from other Aquas. The loss can range from "almost losing a person" to "the person has moved on and found another partner"
Posted by saweetz1988Always expect that at some point or points, he will revert back to baseline.
Also, I'm worried once he gets me back hooked in again, would he again take me for granted? will Aqua then realise and appreciate what he has infront or him before it's too late?
Posted by saweetz1988Aries in 12th.Posted by TheGreatSearcher2 years later ? Holly molly ..!!! Why did it take you so long— What's your moon?Posted by saweetz19882 years later.Posted by TheGreatSearcherHow long since she left did u realise the lost?
1. Yes
2. Spent several weeks searching for her private info and sent an email. Never got any response.
3. I moved on and I'm done with wasting my time on things which will never happen.
I think I went mad thinking about her around that time.
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Posted by imbatgirl14LOL, i'm lying to myself? when i know myself very well.. okay you don't know me so *shrug*Posted by justagirlKeep lying to yourselfPosted by imbatgirl14not true at all.. we are just reallllllly good at hiding it or keeping it to ourselves.Posted by compyYou're situation is different as he was already emotionally invested in you. In the beginning stages Aquas hardly become emotional, unless hes pushed to that point. If an Aqua doesn't feel for you then the above is what usually happens.Posted by imbatgirl14Not really, no. As an Air sign myself, I have huge problems in expressing my feelings myself. I made my poor Aqua man come back in tears to me because I rejected him for nothing. They do feel deeply. His state itself hurt my heart to the point I got sick due to low immunity. Once connected, they are stable. Please do not play with them!
Aquas have a tendency to realize their true feelings for a person, too late. Because they are emotionally detached, a sudden loss, sends them into shock. Losing control over the outcome or being completely winded consumes their psyche. They can't cope well.
This is when they will try and get you back or repair the relationship. This control to want to stay in 'friendly' terms is what makes all majority of Aquas come back weeks/months/years later. But, don't mistake it as them trying to get back together with you unless they say so. Many people have this misconception that if an Aqua returns, it's because they have deep feelings. Not necessarily true. They mostly come back for selfish reasons to placate their emotions, as they feel guilty how things ended.
The upside to this is, if an Aqua has feelings for you, they'll let you know. They're very straightforward and blunt to the point of disbelief.
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Posted by imbatgirl14This makes a lot sense.
Aquas have a tendency to realize their true feelings for a person, too late. Because they are emotionally detached, a sudden loss, sends them into shock. Losing control over the outcome or being completely winded consumes their psyche. They can't cope well.
This is when they will try and get you back or repair the relationship. This control to want to stay in 'friendly' terms is what makes all majority of Aquas come back weeks/months/years later. But, don't mistake it as them trying to get back together with you unless they say so. Many people have this misconception that if an Aqua returns, it's because they have deep feelings. Not necessarily true. They mostly come back for selfish reasons to placate their emotions, as they feel guilty how things ended.
The upside to this is, if an Aqua has feelings for you, they'll let you know. They're very straightforward and blunt to the point of disbelief.
Posted by saweetz1988Should've thought about that before being born an Air Sign. Good Luck 🙂
Have you ever almost lost a person (to someone else) or something... only to realise you actually have strong feelings for him/her...? And what did you do?.. is it true feelings or an ego thing? .. or were you too emotionally detached to realise what you had? Lol
Posted by Capmercury87Posted by saweetz1988
Have you ever almost lost a person (to someone else) or something... only to realise you actually have strong feelings for him/her...? And what did you do?.. is it true feelings or an ego thing? .. or were you too emotionally detached to realise what you had? Lol
I have lost. And then realized it, I let it go. Theres always different fish in the sea. When I was younger I might have cared more, now I could be in love with some one and let them be happy with someone else. Just don't care.
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