Aqua girls

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Upheaval on Tuesday, December 9, 2008 and has 11 replies.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

lol, the signs can be difficult to figure out. Sometimes we will, then another day the same girl wont acknowledge your presence...so, you have to go with it.

*shrug*

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@Upheaval
18 YearsVirgo

well she's always happy when she sees me , she seems shyer arround other guyz..
i'm just curious πŸ™‚

oh and zen , are you following me arround the board ? :p

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@lammal23
17 YearsAquarius

I rarely ever show signs that I really like a guy. I'm just usually my friendly self and if I notice a guy hitting on me a lot or showing interest.. that usually makes me comfortable enough to start responding. That would probably be the best way to find out if an Aqua girl is into you. Have to test the waters and take the risk of getting shot down.

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

If I'm into someone, I'll let my constant communication, my body language & my need for them mentally or intellectually do all the talking for me. Sometimes I won't just come out & say "I'm into you" b/c it really just depends on the person & how open of a connection/bond we've established. If she's into you, you'll know & not necessarily b/c she verbally tell you but instead b/c how much contact she has with you & how detailed/long & thorough your conversations with her are will SHOW you better than tell you

NOW ON THE OTHER HAND, If I'm NOT into someone: I usually let my absence or my inability to call you back or keep up the communication speak volumes for me.

If I decide that someone is not right for me after dating them for awhile, will I just jump out & say "I'm just not that into you?" No, but I'll let my body language, my absence & distance do the talking for me. I think about how I know when someone isn't feeling me, how others show signs of how they're not into me (anymore) (no more phone calls, always having excuses for why we can't hook up or meet up, never calling back like they said they would, not being as conversational like usual, not being as open or affectionate like usual or at all, etc.), and I in return use those same signals on others who I'm not "feeling" in hopes that they'll get the big picture.

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

With Aquarians, it's hard sometimes to figure out if we like you or not. You might think we like you in terms of you being relationship material, when we really might only like you & see your worth as just friendship material.

Usually when an Aquarian can come out & say "I like you" or nod her head when asked if she likes you on an intimate level, that means she likes you. Aquarians are very direct when it comes to rational & logic, but when it comes to emotions, we exibit how we really feel in other ways. We are "read between the lines" kind of creatures.

If she really likes you, she'll call you back when she says she would, she'll keep the conversations going & even initiate the conversation to go to a deeper & more intimate level (if an Aquarian doesn't want to conversate with you on an intimate level it's b/c she doesn't see you in an intimate or relationship kind of way). If she's into you, she'll accept your affection & even give you affection in return. She'll start asking you all kinds of questions that deal with who you are as a person, versus just conversating on general topics (politics, the weather, current events,etc.)

When an Aqua likes you, you'll know it. And if she can sense that you don't know yet she'll attempt to turn up how she communicates those feelings a notch to see if you got the message.