AQUA HOW SHOULD I REACT WHEN YOU BECOME ALOOF? (Page 3)

do aqua guys get jealous when another guy gives a girl he likes more attention infront of him ? how would you react here?
pls advice?

Depends on the Aqua guy. If it was done to me personally yeah I'll definitely feel pangs or jealousy but I probably won't voice or act on it and will continue to do my own thing and think you've just lost interest.

Omg... aquasnoz i need to do damage control asap... my aqua seemed really disenchanted when this happened today ...help

haaha I think you'll be alright.

To some degree we're perceptive to mind games and I mean it might not be intentionally but the only purpose of pulling away is to show you that we don't fall for that and THIS behaviour itself I've been called out by others as a game itself. He might just be a bit butt hurt that's all just stay being you is the best advice I can give.

What happened to being a little blunt? 😉 I thought you were going to tell him a few days ago?

i was planning on doing something this w.end although he's being really all over the place...i can't find the right moment to do it ...is thhis what guys go thru when asking a girl out ...hmmmm

hahaha more or less 😛 Some guys or girls just find it easier I guess. I'm a bit straight forward like that but your aqua guy does sound very wishy washy!

is he testing me? i am 100% myself with him although i can't shake this feeling that he's also waiting for the perfect time to ask me or kiss me...lol
the tension btw us is hard to ignore...

AGAIN.

YOU are going to have to make the move. Aquas like direct, independent, bold women. If you're not that, then you're not cut out to be with an aqua.

Honestly, I'm hearing that you are timid. I'm hearing that you are not bold. I'm hearing that you will need too much reassurance. An aqua doesn't want a woman like that. Aquas like to be chased enough to encourage them. You're pulling the friendship card, he doesn't know you are interested and he's not going to make a move. If you want him, you're going to have to do something. Otherwise, he will think you are not interested.

So, either piss or get off the pot. You're going to lose him if you don't step up.

I've dated three aquas and I've had to make the first move every single time. After you make the first move and they get the go ahead, they will take the lead. All you have to do is make a move. If you're not woman enough to do that, then you will lose out. Someone else will come along and snatch him up.

You hearing me girl—

*I'm done*

truecap thanks i am sounding shy and timid and i think you're right about making the first move so i will i just didn't want to seem like im pushing too much...im just wondering where to begin?
... wish me luck

hmmmm aqua has decided to puish me for getting attetion from his friends and has gone silent on me and not answering my calls even though he promised to meet me this afternoon...huh!!!!!!
i am used to the unpredictable changes but im really mad at him for being inconsiderate.....

*punish

hi metoo thx,i was really looking foward to using this w.end to get closer ...oh well !
let's see how this week goes...his pisces influence is really strong... and nowdays he holds my gaze until i look away,we text each other till late and im seeing him today ....hmmm i need to remember not to make him jealous again ...it cost me the whole w.end ...p.s hes a scorpio rising .

Do what's comfortable for you Taurus. You'll know when the timing is right. I was just trying to encourage you. 🙂

thx truecap...although i think the window is closing going by the way hes been reacting ...hes being really distant now when it comes to getting closer and i think theres no doubt in his mind that i like him alot...hes being very business like.
once again its the ALOOF side of him coming back...hmmmm its killing me now that i caught feelings for him...im being strong but not gonna ask him to go out afteral...thx all for your help...maybe it wasnt meant to be.:/

I hear they like being ignored. They can't stand it. Might try just ignoring him.

haha I think what truecap has told you is pretty good stuff. In general I would say she is gonna probably give you good advice. While I'd like to think of myself as being one of those dashing go get what he wants kinda males... I think there is a lot to what she says about being chased to an extent. I have no qualms about talking to any female, I'm not really a shy guy except when it comes to matters of the heart. I think it's the part where I'm supposed to start to follow and chase that I'm less inclined to do unless I feel their is a strong desire from you to do so. Last thing I wanna feel like is a stalker. Why put yourself in a position to feel that way when there are tons of other women to talk to lol. Makes me sound like some player minded type of person but in my mind I'm really doing it more for the girl than for myself.

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I hear they like being ignored. They can't stand it. Might try just ignoring him.

You know what I've been thinking a lot about this and this is definitely one of the tactics I think really work provided you don't do it for too long. Like even if I know they are doing it intentionally it drives me insane to act sometimes lol.