Aqua just not that into me?

Why don't you two plan things? For example, taking turns on visiting each other's town? A sucessful LDR needs a bit of discipline and future plans: if you decide to move together, who is moving and when.....?

I've been in a LDR with an Aqua since December last year. We've met 3 years ago, when he used to live closer, so we know each other pretty well.

He travels for work a few days per week, so it feels normal that he is the one driving (once a month) to see me. It's a 3.5 hours drive. We communicate almost every day at about the same time. If one of us is not available to talk, sends an apology in advance. This is something I established and he agreed with.

We also talk about the future: he is the one who will be moving with me. It was supposed to happen this month, but got delayed. He is in the process of selling 1/3 of his company to a new partner, which hopefully will take responsibility for business down south and make things easier for him to move. I am willing to wait till next spring.

"Is he just not into this?"

You have to ask him this!

I don't put pressure on him to come and visit me each month....in fact, I'm like your Aqua...I don't ever ask to see him. Not because I don't want to, but because I cannot force someone to drive 3.5 hours to see me.

What I "forced" him to do (and he likes it when I'm feisty) was to communicate with me regularly, and not on a whim!

Also, none of us wants a LDR forever. It would be unfair. It's make it or break it!

Posted by bumboklatt
thats just typical Aquarius. He was being extra affectionate because he let too many emotions out.

He was trying to give you what you wanted so you wouldnt leave him.

Aquas usually dont ask or plan anything. Its totally against our nature. Its Aquarius 101.

Sounds like he likes you but you can't really know if he will seriously commit. Especially since there's a big misunderstanding between you guys.

If he cant communicate clearly and you cant accept him then theres a fundamental problem.

I've done the same exact thing he's done except eventually I realize I can't be myself around that girl so I turn cold but in a friendly way.

Whats your sign?

That's much like my Mr Aqua as well.

Aqua men shouldn't be taken seriously.