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yay!!! there's Always a silver lining for emotionally sensitive folks 😄
no wonder i'm very happy and content with my life as long as i stay away from loud areas/loud places, and from folks /things that dont make me happy.
https://www.dxpnet.com/emotional_sensitivity/dealing_with_over_sensitivity
Dealing with Over Sensitivity
If you feel sad because your emotional sensitivity is causing you much pain in your life then you will be happy to know that you will be able to get over the problems your over sensitivity is causing you by reading this article.
The advantages of being over sensitive
First of all, do you know that being overly sensitive gives you the following advantages:
Ӣ Increased empathy: have you ever felt sad without any apparent reason right after being with someone who was sad? do you feel depressed when sitting beside a depressed person even if he didn't talk? Most Probably this happened to you and this is because you have increased empathy. You can know how the people around you feel before they even talk. The Empathic ability is a normal ability that each human being have but the overly sensitive person have got much powerful empathic abilities.
ӢMore happiness: You will experience happiness with a higher intensity. You feel the intensity of emotions more than other people
ӢMore creativity: Usually sensitive people are very creative and this can help you excel in your career or even help you develop good habits like drawing or writing poetry. Lots of artists are sensitive people
ӢMore Religious: Being more connected to religion provided that all other factors are constant. The emotionally sensitive person may commit to religious activities more than others and he may even become a religious leader
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although there's no way i'd be a religious leader. lol but the inner peace is what is important.
no wonder i'm very happy and content with my life as long as i stay away from loud areas/loud places, and from folks /things that dont make me happy.
https://www.dxpnet.com/emotional_sensitivity/dealing_with_over_sensitivity
Dealing with Over Sensitivity
If you feel sad because your emotional sensitivity is causing you much pain in your life then you will be happy to know that you will be able to get over the problems your over sensitivity is causing you by reading this article.
The advantages of being over sensitive
First of all, do you know that being overly sensitive gives you the following advantages:
Ӣ Increased empathy: have you ever felt sad without any apparent reason right after being with someone who was sad? do you feel depressed when sitting beside a depressed person even if he didn't talk? Most Probably this happened to you and this is because you have increased empathy. You can know how the people around you feel before they even talk. The Empathic ability is a normal ability that each human being have but the overly sensitive person have got much powerful empathic abilities.
ӢMore happiness: You will experience happiness with a higher intensity. You feel the intensity of emotions more than other people
ӢMore creativity: Usually sensitive people are very creative and this can help you excel in your career or even help you develop good habits like drawing or writing poetry. Lots of artists are sensitive people
ӢMore Religious: Being more connected to religion provided that all other factors are constant. The emotionally sensitive person may commit to religious activities more than others and he may even become a religious leader
---
although there's no way i'd be a religious leader. lol but the inner peace is what is important.
Posted by lisabethur8No... Husband and wife collaborations is a recipe for disaster in most cases.
anyone seen the trailers of Angelina Jolie/Brad Pitt's new film, by the sea??
personally it looks lame.
Posted by lisabethur8What about a double chin?
face reading can be fun!!!
so if a person has a weak chin, they are not going to finish projects. That's awful.
so if a boss in a workplace is looking for someone to hire, they would be good face readers, and then see someone with a weak chin and not hire them because they won't finish??
that's awful!!!! and highly discriminating. terrible!!! it's like why bother to be born!!—
Posted by lisabethur8I'm like you...
yay!!! there's Always a silver lining for emotionally sensitive folks 😄
no wonder i'm very happy and content with my life as long as i stay away from loud areas/loud places, and from folks /things that dont make me happy.
https://www.dxpnet.com/emotional_sensitivity/dealing_with_over_sensitivity
Dealing with Over Sensitivity
If you feel sad because your emotional sensitivity is causing you much pain in your life then you will be happy to know that you will be able to get over the problems your over sensitivity is causing you by reading this article.
The advantages of being over sensitive
First of all, do you know that being overly sensitive gives you the following advantages:
Ӣ Increased empathy: have you ever felt sad without any apparent reason right after being with someone who was sad? do you feel depressed when sitting beside a depressed person even if he didn't talk? Most Probably this happened to you and this is because you have increased empathy. You can know how the people around you feel before they even talk. The Empathic ability is a normal ability that each human being have but the overly sensitive person have got much powerful empathic abilities.
ӢMore happiness: You will experience happiness with a higher intensity. You feel the intensity of emotions more than other people
ӢMore creativity: Usually sensitive people are very creative and this can help you excel in your career or even help you develop good habits like drawing or writing poetry. Lots of artists are sensitive people
ӢMore Religious: Being more connected to religion provided that all other factors are constant. The emotionally sensitive person may commit to religious activities more than others and he may even become a religious leader
---
although there's no way i'd be a religious leader. lol but the inner peace is what is important.
It's a roller coaster ride at times. I have to detach often or else I get lured in too many directions -- emotionally. Do you feel you have to protect yourself?
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Posted by truecapwhoooooooottttt, whens the date? 🙂 So happy for you!
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.
Feeling sad today.
Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy?
Feeling sad today.
Posted by aquapiscescuspWorking on letting go of someone that I wanted but was not for me. Going through the process, some days I feel great other days feel crappy about it. A Scorpio tore my heart to shreds and I am just rebuilding and tying to be positive.Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy?
Feeling sad today.click to expand
Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy did it end if you don't mind sharing?Posted by aquapiscescuspWorking on letting go of someone that I wanted but was not for me. Going through the process, some days I feel great other days feel crappy about it. A Scorpio tore my heart to shreds and I am just rebuilding and tying to be positive.Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy?
Feeling sad today.click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescuspWhen we met he was amazing, sweet, gave me lots of attention. He asked was I OK with casual and not jumping into anything. I said sure, thinking that meant dating. We saw each other often, he always called, everything was great.Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy did it end if you don't mind sharing?Posted by aquapiscescuspWorking on letting go of someone that I wanted but was not for me. Going through the process, some days I feel great other days feel crappy about it. A Scorpio tore my heart to shreds and I am just rebuilding and tying to be positive.Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy?
Feeling sad today.
click to expand
Then he got weird. Called all the time, never wanted to see me. Wanted to talk and face time, but was always busy. His kids, working OT, traveling with his buddies, but never had time for me. I even let him know how much I was really into him and he said it made him smile. But still never wanted to see me.
Finally I had enough and I just stopped picking up when he called. He kept calling, I picked up and I told him I was seeing things very clear now, and that he was just stringing me along. Told him I really enjoyed him when things were great and to take care. He said oh your breaking my heart, your being mean, are you doing this to get my attention. I said no. He said I was in a bad mood, I said no actually this is the best I have felt in months. Told him to enjoy the day and I disconnected the call. Done.
I have not heard from him since, I have deleted all of his contact information and it is done.
I felt like crap longing for someone that had more excuses than I could think of. So some days I feel sad about it all and other days I feel like I did what I had to do.
I just liked him so much when things were good, my heart is just in shreds, but I will live.
Posted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.click to expand
Posted by aquagirllovesuhmm, something was fishy at his end... for not meeting up with you.Posted by aquapiscescuspWhen we met he was amazing, sweet, gave me lots of attention. He asked was I OK with casual and not jumping into anything. I said sure, thinking that meant dating. We saw each other often, he always called, everything was great.Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy did it end if you don't mind sharing?Posted by aquapiscescuspWorking on letting go of someone that I wanted but was not for me. Going through the process, some days I feel great other days feel crappy about it. A Scorpio tore my heart to shreds and I am just rebuilding and tying to be positive.Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy?
Feeling sad today.
Then he got weird. Called all the time, never wanted to see me. Wanted to talk and face time, but was always busy. His kids, working OT, traveling with his buddies, but never had time for me. I even let him know how much I was really into him and he said it made him smile. But still never wanted to see me.
Finally I had enough and I just stopped picking up when he called. He kept calling, I picked up and I told him I was seeing things very clear now, and that he was just stringing me along. Told him I really enjoyed him when things were great and to take care. He said oh your breaking my heart, your being mean, are you doing this to get my attention. I said no. He said I was in a bad mood, I said no actually this is the best I have felt in months. Told him to enjoy the day and I disconnected the call. Done.
I have not heard from him since, I have deleted all of his contact information and it is done.
I felt like crap longing for someone that had more excuses than I could think of. So some days I feel sad about it all and other days I feel like I did what I had to do.
I just liked him so much when things were good, my heart is just in shreds, but I will live.click to expand
I'm thinking there was someone else?
You know you did the right thing and for sure it doesn't take away the pain but be happy you made the right decision.
If it doesn't feel right, it usually isn't.
BUT: from the get go you agreed to casual... maybe next time don't, you are not built for casual.
Posted by truecapglad he's finally coming to his senses hahaPosted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.click to expand
the ring: do you want to have some input or are you going to let him do his thing?
but the real question is how are you feeling?
will he propose at xmas?
I am so excited for you ^^^^^^^
Posted by truecapI agree. But I thought casual meant we were not giving each other a title and etc. I didn't want someone that wanted to suffocate me, I really did not think it meant see you when I see you. And it was not like that in the beginning, I saw him all the time. Live and learn. I am focusing on being happy with just me, no relationship and all that needed. :-)Posted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.click to expand
Posted by truecapCongrats!!Posted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.click to expand
Posted by aquagirllovesudo you think there's someone else?Posted by truecapI agree. But I thought casual meant we were not giving each other a title and etc. I didn't want someone that wanted to suffocate me, I really did not think it meant see you when I see you. And it was not like that in the beginning, I saw him all the time. Live and learn. I am focusing on being happy with just me, no relationship and all that needed. :-)Posted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescuspI honestly think he never got over his ex wife and I think maybe there is someone he wants that does not want him, so I was a filler. He told me he was not seeing anyone else but me, could have been a lie.Posted by aquagirllovesudo you think there's someone else?Posted by truecapI agree. But I thought casual meant we were not giving each other a title and etc. I didn't want someone that wanted to suffocate me, I really did not think it meant see you when I see you. And it was not like that in the beginning, I saw him all the time. Live and learn. I am focusing on being happy with just me, no relationship and all that needed. :-)Posted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.click to expand
"I honestly think he never got over his ex wife and I think maybe there is someone he wants that does not want him, so I was a filler. He told me he was not seeing anyone else but me, could have been a lie."
I love aquas, they are not an IN DENIAL bunch.
Don't be surprised if he resurfaces...
You need a plan.
I love aquas, they are not an IN DENIAL bunch.
Don't be surprised if he resurfaces...
You need a plan.
Posted by aquapiscescuspum, eating too much—Posted by lisabethur8What about a double chin?
face reading can be fun!!!
so if a person has a weak chin, they are not going to finish projects. That's awful.
so if a boss in a workplace is looking for someone to hire, they would be good face readers, and then see someone with a weak chin and not hire them because they won't finish??
that's awful!!!! and highly discriminating. terrible!!! it's like why bother to be born!!—click to expand
😕
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by lisabethur8I'm like you...
yay!!! there's Always a silver lining for emotionally sensitive folks 😄
no wonder i'm very happy and content with my life as long as i stay away from loud areas/loud places, and from folks /things that dont make me happy.
https://www.dxpnet.com/emotional_sensitivity/dealing_with_over_sensitivity
Dealing with Over Sensitivity
If you feel sad because your emotional sensitivity is causing you much pain in your life then you will be happy to know that you will be able to get over the problems your over sensitivity is causing you by reading this article.
The advantages of being over sensitive
First of all, do you know that being overly sensitive gives you the following advantages:
Ӣ Increased empathy: have you ever felt sad without any apparent reason right after being with someone who was sad? do you feel depressed when sitting beside a depressed person even if he didn't talk? Most Probably this happened to you and this is because you have increased empathy. You can know how the people around you feel before they even talk. The Empathic ability is a normal ability that each human being have but the overly sensitive person have got much powerful empathic abilities.
ӢMore happiness: You will experience happiness with a higher intensity. You feel the intensity of emotions more than other people
ӢMore creativity: Usually sensitive people are very creative and this can help you excel in your career or even help you develop good habits like drawing or writing poetry. Lots of artists are sensitive people
ӢMore Religious: Being more connected to religion provided that all other factors are constant. The emotionally sensitive person may commit to religious activities more than others and he may even become a religious leader
---
although there's no way i'd be a religious leader. lol but the inner peace is what is important.
It's a roller coaster ride at times. I have to detach often or else I get lured in too many directions -- emotionally. Do you feel you have to protect yourself?click to expand
yup i do. BUT!! it depends on the day and mood and what i've drunk, eaten. ect.
just now i had two cups of coffee and i feel energetic as well!! lol so it's true that my moods go up and down, whirlwind and fast and slow and down and feel sad one day and feel HAPPY the other days. I love that i can feel happiness to the Heights and extremes. But sadly also feel super super sad. I just have to accept it. Plus, my family loves me so that's what i also love too!!!!! if those you love love you, that feeling is soooo awesome.
Posted by aquagirllovesuit's nice that you shared, but the first line that when he said he would like casual would have me walking away. i dont like those types of guys. those are never sure about anything. wishy washy about relationships.Posted by aquapiscescuspWhen we met he was amazing, sweet, gave me lots of attention. He asked was I OK with casual and not jumping into anything. I said sure, thinking that meant dating. We saw each other often, he always called, everything was great.Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy did it end if you don't mind sharing?Posted by aquapiscescuspWorking on letting go of someone that I wanted but was not for me. Going through the process, some days I feel great other days feel crappy about it. A Scorpio tore my heart to shreds and I am just rebuilding and tying to be positive.Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy?
Feeling sad today.
Then he got weird. Called all the time, never wanted to see me. Wanted to talk and face time, but was always busy. His kids, working OT, traveling with his buddies, but never had time for me. I even let him know how much I was really into him and he said it made him smile. But still never wanted to see me.
Finally I had enough and I just stopped picking up when he called. He kept calling, I picked up and I told him I was seeing things very clear now, and that he was just stringing me along. Told him I really enjoyed him when things were great and to take care. He said oh your breaking my heart, your being mean, are you doing this to get my attention. I said no. He said I was in a bad mood, I said no actually this is the best I have felt in months. Told him to enjoy the day and I disconnected the call. Done.
I have not heard from him since, I have deleted all of his contact information and it is done.
I felt like crap longing for someone that had more excuses than I could think of. So some days I feel sad about it all and other days I feel like I did what I had to do.
I just liked him so much when things were good, my heart is just in shreds, but I will live.click to expand
Sorry to hear you got invovled in these types. I keep reading LOTS of women do get involved with these types.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by aquagirllovesuhmm, something was fishy at his end... for not meeting up with you.Posted by aquapiscescuspWhen we met he was amazing, sweet, gave me lots of attention. He asked was I OK with casual and not jumping into anything. I said sure, thinking that meant dating. We saw each other often, he always called, everything was great.Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy did it end if you don't mind sharing?Posted by aquapiscescuspWorking on letting go of someone that I wanted but was not for me. Going through the process, some days I feel great other days feel crappy about it. A Scorpio tore my heart to shreds and I am just rebuilding and tying to be positive.Posted by aquagirllovesuwhy?
Feeling sad today.
Then he got weird. Called all the time, never wanted to see me. Wanted to talk and face time, but was always busy. His kids, working OT, traveling with his buddies, but never had time for me. I even let him know how much I was really into him and he said it made him smile. But still never wanted to see me.
Finally I had enough and I just stopped picking up when he called. He kept calling, I picked up and I told him I was seeing things very clear now, and that he was just stringing me along. Told him I really enjoyed him when things were great and to take care. He said oh your breaking my heart, your being mean, are you doing this to get my attention. I said no. He said I was in a bad mood, I said no actually this is the best I have felt in months. Told him to enjoy the day and I disconnected the call. Done.
I have not heard from him since, I have deleted all of his contact information and it is done.
I felt like crap longing for someone that had more excuses than I could think of. So some days I feel sad about it all and other days I feel like I did what I had to do.
I just liked him so much when things were good, my heart is just in shreds, but I will live.click to expand
I'm thinking there was someone else?
You know you did the right thing and for sure it doesn't take away the pain but be happy you made the right decision.
If it doesn't feel right, it usually isn't.
BUT: from the get go you agreed to casual... maybe next time don't, you are not built for casual.
Posted by aquapiscescuspI told him simple on the ring. Nothing big or bulky, just simple.Posted by truecapglad he's finally coming to his senses hahaPosted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.
the ring: do you want to have some input or are you going to let him do his thing?
but the real question is how are you feeling?
will he propose at xmas?click to expand
I have no idea when he'll do it, but it's not official until he asks. Of course, in his mind, it may already be settled. lol!
Posted by aquapiscescuspI told him simple on the ring. Nothing big or bulky, just simple.Posted by truecapglad he's finally coming to his senses hahaPosted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.
the ring: do you want to have some input or are you going to let him do his thing?
but the real question is how are you feeling?
will he propose at xmas?click to expand
I have no idea when he'll do it, but it's not official until he asks. Of course, in his mind, it may already be settled. lol!
@APC, i agree with you, which my post was not able to show since the characters are too long.
but yeah, she agreed with "casual" from the beginning.
no one can fault him because he didnt do anything but be himself.
but yeah, she agreed with "casual" from the beginning.
no one can fault him because he didnt do anything but be himself.
Posted by truecapO___OPosted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.click to expand
wow, congratulations.
he really wants you pernament in his life. that is good news.
Posted by truecapaw that's like me, truecap!!!Posted by aquapiscescuspI told him simple on the ring. Nothing big or bulky, just simple.Posted by truecapglad he's finally coming to his senses hahaPosted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.
the ring: do you want to have some input or are you going to let him do his thing?
but the real question is how are you feeling?
will he propose at xmas?
I have no idea when he'll do it, but it's not official until he asks. Of course, in his mind, it may already be settled. lol!click to expand
i told my husband i like simple. and dont'get me anything too fancy and expensive. i am not that kind of girl where i need fancy and expensive too.
but he already knew that. lol
Posted by truecapI like that he will choose it, regardless...Posted by aquapiscescuspI told him simple on the ring. Nothing big or bulky, just simple.Posted by truecapglad he's finally coming to his senses hahaPosted by aquapiscescuspHe said he's been thinking a lot, about us, our future. So much that his brain is hurting. I told him I was pretty secure with our future together and asked if I had anything to worry about on his end. He said, oh, no, nothing like that. Then said he'd like to get married and has been thinking and worrying about all the details. He's thinking way ahead to the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon, where we're going to live, etc.Posted by truecapOmg! That's great news, I'm so happy for you truecap.
He says he would like to marry me...yay!!!! After 3 1/2 years. I believe he is sincere. He's never said anything he didn't mean.
Details, details... Tell us how it came up.
the ring: do you want to have some input or are you going to let him do his thing?
but the real question is how are you feeling?
will he propose at xmas?
I have no idea when he'll do it, but it's not official until he asks. Of course, in his mind, it may already be settled. lol!click to expand
Well, he obviously mentioned it to see if you were "still" on the same page, cuz he's going out to get that ring 😄
Posted by lisabethur8yeah but some guys play with that -- to their advantage
@APC, i agree with you, which my post was not able to show since the characters are too long.
but yeah, she agreed with "casual" from the beginning.
no one can fault him because he didnt do anything but be himself.
that's why when someone is unsure of what they want from the "relationship" -- best to hold off on committing physically
I know, old fashioned -- a bit
Posted by aquapiscescuspYes, your right I can take the blame. If I was truly the one that ruined it I still need to move on.Posted by lisabethur8yeah but some guys play with that -- to their advantage
@APC, i agree with you, which my post was not able to show since the characters are too long.
but yeah, she agreed with "casual" from the beginning.
no one can fault him because he didnt do anything but be himself.
that's why when someone is unsure of what they want from the "relationship" -- best to hold off on committing physically
I know, old fashioned -- a bitclick to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Makes sense and I am treating the experience as positive and I have learned from it. It has made me much more aware of what I need to do with my life and set me on my new path in life. So I made a mistake and I have learned from it and also had an awaken that I don't think I would have had. I am no longer looking for a relationship and on a journey of letting go of many of the ideas of what I thought would make me happy in life. No longer looking for a relationship or a companion, focusing on work and be thankful for what I have. Not looking for more or wanting anything that what I have anymore.
@APC, i agree with you, which my post was not able to show since the characters are too long.
but yeah, she agreed with "casual" from the beginning.
no one can fault him because he didnt do anything but be himself.
my thoughts the past 2 days,
Posted by Chance_11I was like, it's not Friday yet, is it?Posted by aquapiscescusphttps://www.dxpnet.com/KAJTA1P.gif
Share your thoughts on anything.
Posted by justagirlHahaha
my thoughts the past 2 days,
Friday eve, looking forward to the weekend!!!
Okay, I gotta ask this because I don't think I said anything wrong.
I keep my umbrella on the floor beside my desk and this sweet co-worker I work with was passing by and goes "Oh, your umbrella is on the ground" and I'm like "Yeah, I keep it there normally" and she goes, "don't you ever trip over on it??" I'm like "I watch where I'm walking" and the people in the surrounding started laughing at my comment even though I wasn't joking. It was just a response. She had this look like I insulted her and goes, "Obviously I don't watch where I'm walking" and walks away.
Is that being eccentric that people say about aquas?
I keep my umbrella on the floor beside my desk and this sweet co-worker I work with was passing by and goes "Oh, your umbrella is on the ground" and I'm like "Yeah, I keep it there normally" and she goes, "don't you ever trip over on it??" I'm like "I watch where I'm walking" and the people in the surrounding started laughing at my comment even though I wasn't joking. It was just a response. She had this look like I insulted her and goes, "Obviously I don't watch where I'm walking" and walks away.
Is that being eccentric that people say about aquas?
Posted by aquarius09Not sure how that would be eccentric.
Okay, I gotta ask this because I don't think I said anything wrong.
I keep my umbrella on the floor beside my desk and this sweet co-worker I work with was passing by and goes "Oh, your umbrella is on the ground" and I'm like "Yeah, I keep it there normally" and she goes, "don't you ever trip over on it??" I'm like "I watch where I'm walking" and the people in the surrounding started laughing at my comment even though I wasn't joking. It was just a response. She had this look like I insulted her and goes, "Obviously I don't watch where I'm walking" and walks away.
Is that being eccentric that people say about aquas?
i think she tripped over it, given what she said about not watching where she was walking. or perhaps they have seen you trip and maybe you dont realize you have?
Posted by justagirlNo, my seat is in the corner and the umbrella is always right next to my seat. It's none of the things you mentioned. She's cool. I asked her afterwards if she took offense to what I said. She said she was just feeling dumb over saying something like "Well, don't you ever trip on it especially when you knowingly put it there." I like her. Libra sweetheart.Posted by aquarius09Not sure how that would be eccentric.
Okay, I gotta ask this because I don't think I said anything wrong.
I keep my umbrella on the floor beside my desk and this sweet co-worker I work with was passing by and goes "Oh, your umbrella is on the ground" and I'm like "Yeah, I keep it there normally" and she goes, "don't you ever trip over on it??" I'm like "I watch where I'm walking" and the people in the surrounding started laughing at my comment even though I wasn't joking. It was just a response. She had this look like I insulted her and goes, "Obviously I don't watch where I'm walking" and walks away.
Is that being eccentric that people say about aquas?
i think she tripped over it, given what she said about not watching where she was walking. or perhaps they have seen you trip and maybe you dont realize you have?click to expand
Posted by aquarius09hmm i dunno. but i dont see it as eccentric.Posted by justagirlNo, my seat is in the corner and the umbrella is always right next to my seat. It's none of the things you mentioned. She's cool. I asked her afterwards if she took offense to what I said. She said she was just feeling dumb over saying something like "Well, don't you ever trip on it especially when you knowingly put it there." I like her. Libra sweetheart.Posted by aquarius09Not sure how that would be eccentric.
Okay, I gotta ask this because I don't think I said anything wrong.
I keep my umbrella on the floor beside my desk and this sweet co-worker I work with was passing by and goes "Oh, your umbrella is on the ground" and I'm like "Yeah, I keep it there normally" and she goes, "don't you ever trip over on it??" I'm like "I watch where I'm walking" and the people in the surrounding started laughing at my comment even though I wasn't joking. It was just a response. She had this look like I insulted her and goes, "Obviously I don't watch where I'm walking" and walks away.
Is that being eccentric that people say about aquas?
i think she tripped over it, given what she said about not watching where she was walking. or perhaps they have seen you trip and maybe you dont realize you have?click to expand
Is adoption an option? ^^^
That was unintentional. :X
Posted by justagirlI don't see this as eccentric either, unless your umbrella is really in the way... are the people around you possibly tripping over it?Posted by aquarius09Not sure how that would be eccentric.
Okay, I gotta ask this because I don't think I said anything wrong.
I keep my umbrella on the floor beside my desk and this sweet co-worker I work with was passing by and goes "Oh, your umbrella is on the ground" and I'm like "Yeah, I keep it there normally" and she goes, "don't you ever trip over on it??" I'm like "I watch where I'm walking" and the people in the surrounding started laughing at my comment even though I wasn't joking. It was just a response. She had this look like I insulted her and goes, "Obviously I don't watch where I'm walking" and walks away.
Is that being eccentric that people say about aquas?
i think she tripped over it, given what she said about not watching where she was walking. or perhaps they have seen you trip and maybe you dont realize you have?click to expand
This semester is done! What a relief
Posted by aquapiscescusphappy holidays, APC.
This semester is done! What a relief
hubby is off from work next week for holidays, and then we're thinking about going to either Warner Brothers, Germany or Paris, Disneyland. (the one in paris, not in California)
what are your plans for the holiday season for you and your family and friends??
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Over sensitivity
over sensitivity defined
Over sensitivity is the trait that lets you become overly affected by an external influence that can hardly affect normal people. For example not being able to tolerate Constructive criticism that other people normally tolerate is a sign of over sensitivity.
In order to know if you are an over sensitive person see if your answer to most of those questions were yes:
Ӣ Do you get hurt by some words or comments that are told to you about your personality?
ӢAre you unable to tolerate criticism?
ӢDo you hate loud noise or loud music?
Ӣ Do you feel other people's pain and suffering more than anyone else?
Ӣ Are you slim or is your body smaller in size than the body of your peers? (The Ectomorph body type, 99% of the time very sensitive)
ӢDo you stop for more than three minutes when you see an accident in the street in order to watch it?
ӢDo you find it very hard to tolerate high or low temperatures?
ӢDo you find it very hard to gain muscles by working out?
ӢDo you have lots of mood swings as a result of small events?
The life of an over sensitive person
If your answers were yes to most of the previous questions then most probably you are an over sensitive person. The life of an over sensitive person is much different than the life of other people.
The over sensitive person feels the pain in an exaggerated way and so has problems tolerating life difficulties. The over sensitive person forms anchors or associations faster than anybody else. For example if he had a real bad experience in a different country that he visited then after he gets back he may hate the country as a whole because he associated the pain he felt with the place.
over sensitivity and mood swings
Over sensitive people are more likely to have bad moods, to get depressed and to be moody because their mode changes whenever any small event happens.
An emotionally sensitive person is like a fragile person or a person who should be handled with care. The biggest problem is that most people don't have enough knowledge to realize that they are dealing with an emotionally sensitive person and so they may cause him a lot of pain without realizing this.
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no wonder i dont like loud noises, and hate going to concerts, (never liked them so i never went) good thing my husband isn't into going to concernts like virgo brother in law. virgo bro in law loves that loud loud noise stuff.