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Posted by lisabethur8
i didnt know that Farrah Fawcett played a role on her:

How old is this series?

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
LOL, is there any hope?

I like Taurus moons. 🙂 I know a Pisces sun Taurus moon and they're a good human

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Sigh of relief...

What is the most important part of a chart.. Is it the moon?

What's your moon?

What does moon dominant mean?

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Posted by lisabethur8
i didnt know that Farrah Fawcett played a role on her:

How old is this series?

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to be honest, i haven't seen this. I just googled barbara hutton and i forget what else, maybe biography and YouTube on it so i can see the LIST of YouTube on her and watch it.

then i found that Farrah Fawcett played her role. Its probably worth watching it to see how she's portrayed.

i read her biography online, such as sources as: Imbd, Wikipedia, and astrotheme has a good run down too.

she was dubbed the richest girl, but her 2 husbands, both first and 2nd, were horrible to her, also physically abused her, and took all her money.

she was a generous woman, but the men she got with abused her generosity. and didnt care about her.

I have a quick question for a friend who isn't on dxp. I don't know how I'd feel if this happened to me, but Aquas, tell me how you'd feel.

My friend is dating this dude for 8 months and he's liking other women's pics on FB. Not meaningful pics (graduation or a female friend with her kids or husband), but stupid selfies of their faces or them by themselves. He likes meaningful ones as well, but for the most part it seems like he "likes" selfie pics of his attractive female friends. He doesn't like pics of his male friends. LOL. I'm laughing because he's a disrespectful idiot. My friend was feeling insecure by this so she placed a pic of herself with him as her profile pic (marking her territory). Meanwhile he has not changed his FB pic, which is him with his friends. LOL

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I have a quick question for a friend who isn't on dxp. I don't know how I'd feel if this happened to me, but Aquas, tell me how you'd feel.

My friend is dating this dude for 8 months and he's liking other women's pics on FB. Not meaningful pics (graduation or a female friend with her kids or husband), but stupid selfies of their faces or them by themselves. He likes meaningful ones as well, but for the most part it seems like he "likes" selfie pics of his attractive female friends. He doesn't like pics of his male friends. LOL. I'm laughing because he's a disrespectful idiot. My friend was feeling insecure by this so she placed a pic of herself with him as her profile pic (marking her territory). Meanwhile he has not changed his FB pic, which is him with his friends. LOL

learning astrology and myself too, just by reading people's fears of relationships ect..

makes me look at myself too where i was /am blind.... i'm too insecure. infact very very very insecure. i would not feel safe with that type of guy. that's why it angers me.

but if that girl likes it, (i doubt any woman does unless she is just crazy)
then there's nothing we can do....

it's her decision to stay with someone that will never make you happy and feel secure.

and like you said, your friend is very very insecure,

there's nothing to prove....if you feel very secure in my opinion. i wouldnt be able to handle what that guy is doing. i'd be in tears.

I agree, Lisa! I personally would not feel secure with a douche like that. I'm not one to put down FB or easily pin the blame for disrespectful behaviour on FB. People like to blame their relationship issues on FB when in reality, FB just makes them evident to not just yourself but to your friends as well. I actually told her the following, as harsh as it is.

"I don't think this guy is really that into you and is still in the shopping mode. His behaviour shows nothing but that."

Posted by lisabethur8
and like you said, your friend is very very insecure,

there's nothing to prove....if you feel very secure in my opinion. i wouldnt be able to handle what that guy is doing. i'd be in tears.

No, my friend is actually a confident person, but this souche makes her feel insecure in her relationship with him. She wants to bring this up, but she feels weird doing it because it's just common courtesy to not to that when you're in a relationship. Sure, men look and nobody is saying he shouldn't look. He can browse FB and look at all these attractive women's selfies, but to like them is being disrespectful. That's akin to making a comment about another attractive woman while you're out with your gf having dinner. Quietly admire, but keep your mouth shut or the mouse click to yourself. LOL

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Posted by lisabethur8
and like you said, your friend is very very insecure,

there's nothing to prove....if you feel very secure in my opinion. i wouldnt be able to handle what that guy is doing. i'd be in tears.

No, my friend is actually a confident person, but this souche makes her feel insecure in her relationship with him. She wants to bring this up, but she feels weird doing it because it's just common courtesy to not to that when you're in a relationship. Sure, men look and nobody is saying he shouldn't look. He can browse FB and look at all these attractive women's selfies, but to like them is being disrespectful. That's akin to making a comment about another attractive woman while you're out with your gf having dinner. Quietly admire, but keep your mouth shut or the mouse click to yourself. LOL

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there are gonna be gorgeous women everywhere....

and your friend is usually confident??

well this guy doesn't make her feel confident. she has to feel her power...

because power is SHARED ....and if you dont share that confidence...then it's unbalanced.

this is 7th house themes i think..... the relationshp exaltation..or 12th??

i have no 7th...but yes, relationship is a give and take, you give eachother POWER and that is the balance.

Posted by aquarius09
I agree, Lisa! I personally would not feel secure with a douche like that. I'm not one to put down FB or easily pin the blame for disrespectful behaviour on FB. People like to blame their relationship issues on FB when in reality, FB just makes them evident to not just yourself but to your friends as well. I actually told her the following, as harsh as it is.

"I don't think this guy is really that into you and is still in the shopping mode. His behaviour shows nothing but that."

How about she changes back her picture to not them as a couple? If he says something, then she can say... Well you haven't changed shit!

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Posted by lisabethur8
and like you said, your friend is very very insecure,

there's nothing to prove....if you feel very secure in my opinion. i wouldnt be able to handle what that guy is doing. i'd be in tears.

No, my friend is actually a confident person, but this souche makes her feel insecure in her relationship with him. She wants to bring this up, but she feels weird doing it because it's just common courtesy to not to that when you're in a relationship. Sure, men look and nobody is saying he shouldn't look. He can browse FB and look at all these attractive women's selfies, but to like them is being disrespectful. That's akin to making a comment about another attractive woman while you're out with your gf having dinner. Quietly admire, but keep your mouth shut or the mouse click to yourself. LOL

there are gonna be gorgeous women everywhere....

and your friend is usually confident??

well this guy doesn't make her feel confident. she has to feel her power...

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True what Lisa says, but don't worry about him liking pictures, it means nothing.... If he treats her right. But I sense other issues here.

What are their signs?

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Posted by lisabethur8
and like you said, your friend is very very insecure,

there's nothing to prove....if you feel very secure in my opinion. i wouldnt be able to handle what that guy is doing. i'd be in tears.

No, my friend is actually a confident person, but this souche makes her feel insecure in her relationship with him. She wants to bring this up, but she feels weird doing it because it's just common courtesy to not to that when you're in a relationship. Sure, men look and nobody is saying he shouldn't look. He can browse FB and look at all these attractive women's selfies, but to like them is being disrespectful. That's akin to making a comment about another attractive woman while you're out with your gf having dinner. Quietly admire, but keep your mouth shut or the mouse click to yourself. LOL

there are gonna be gorgeous women everywhere....

and your friend is usually confident??

well this guy doesn't make her feel confident. she has to feel her power...

True what Lisa says, but don't worry about him liking pictures, it means nothing.... If he treats her right. But I sense other issues here.

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no way.

apc, you like too much freedom in your relationship. i dont like that i notice....i'm so damned insecure and possessive.

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Posted by lisabethur8
and like you said, your friend is very very insecure,

there's nothing to prove....if you feel very secure in my opinion. i wouldnt be able to handle what that guy is doing. i'd be in tears.

No, my friend is actually a confident person, but this souche makes her feel insecure in her relationship with him. She wants to bring this up, but she feels weird doing it because it's just common courtesy to not to that when you're in a relationship. Sure, men look and nobody is saying he shouldn't look. He can browse FB and look at all these attractive women's selfies, but to like them is being disrespectful. That's akin to making a comment about another attractive woman while you're out with your gf having dinner. Quietly admire, but keep your mouth shut or the mouse click to yourself. LOL

there are gonna be gorgeous women everywhere....

and your friend is usually confident??

well this guy doesn't make her feel confident. she has to feel her power...

True what Lisa says, but don't worry about him liking pictures, it means nothing.... If he treats her right. But I sense other issues here.

no way.

apc, you like too much freedom in your relationship. i dont like that i notice....i'm so damned insecure and possessive.

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You wouldn't like it if your husband did that?

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Posted by lisabethur8
and like you said, your friend is very very insecure,

there's nothing to prove....if you feel very secure in my opinion. i wouldnt be able to handle what that guy is doing. i'd be in tears.

No, my friend is actually a confident person, but this souche makes her feel insecure in her relationship with him. She wants to bring this up, but she feels weird doing it because it's just common courtesy to not to that when you're in a relationship. Sure, men look and nobody is saying he shouldn't look. He can browse FB and look at all these attractive women's selfies, but to like them is being disrespectful. That's akin to making a comment about another attractive woman while you're out with your gf having dinner. Quietly admire, but keep your mouth shut or the mouse click to yourself. LOL

there are gonna be gorgeous women everywhere....

and your friend is usually confident??

well this guy doesn't make her feel confident. she has to feel her power...

True what Lisa says, but don't worry about him liking pictures, it means nothing.... If he treats her right. But I sense other issues here.

no way.

apc, you like too much freedom in your relationship. i dont like that i notice....i'm so damned insecure and possessive.

You wouldn't like it if your husband did that?

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i haven't had it happen to me, since we're not Facebook folks, and my ex's weren't either. but i keep reading about it here on dxp. and the problems that arise. Would you care, Apc??

She's a sag and he's a libra. Well, he treats her well, but she says that she doesn't know how he is behind her back, as in at work. She says that FB is a glimpse of perhaps how he is with women behind her back.

My personal take is that FB is actually quite good at revealing a person's demeanour behind someone's back. I have caught men who were lying to me about being in a relationship on FB. FB can reveal a lot about what a person is hiding.

Posted by aquarius09
She's a sag and he's a libra. Well, he treats her well, but she says that she doesn't know how he is behind her back, as in at work. She says that FB is a glimpse of perhaps how he is with women behind her back.

My personal take is that FB is actually quite good at revealing a person's demeanour behind someone's back. I have caught men who were lying to me about being in a relationship on FB. FB can reveal a lot about what a person is hiding.

True to some extent but it's not always out in the open what goes on -- on fb. Depending how long they've been seeing each other... How serious it is, etc

Sure one can spy away on FB to determine certain things but I think if you have to do that, you are unsure of your relationship. It's a tough one.

Sags? Ohhhhhhhh she's always going to spy on him!

From personal experience all sags are relentless in this area.

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Posted by lisabethur8
and like you said, your friend is very very insecure,

there's nothing to prove....if you feel very secure in my opinion. i wouldnt be able to handle what that guy is doing. i'd be in tears.

No, my friend is actually a confident person, but this souche makes her feel insecure in her relationship with him. She wants to bring this up, but she feels weird doing it because it's just common courtesy to not to that when you're in a relationship. Sure, men look and nobody is saying he shouldn't look. He can browse FB and look at all these attractive women's selfies, but to like them is being disrespectful. That's akin to making a comment about another attractive woman while you're out with your gf having dinner. Quietly admire, but keep your mouth shut or the mouse click to yourself. LOL

there are gonna be gorgeous women everywhere....

and your friend is usually confident??

well this guy doesn't make her feel confident. she has to feel her power...

True what Lisa says, but don't worry about him liking pictures, it means nothing.... If he treats her right. But I sense other issues here.

no way.

apc, you like too much freedom in your relationship. i dont like that i notice....i'm so damned insecure and possessive.

You wouldn't like it if your husband did that?

i haven't had it happen to me, since we're not Facebook folks, and my ex's weren't either. but i keep reading about it here on dxp. and the problems that arise. Would you care, Apc??

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If it affects the relationship then log out and stay off it. It's not worth the aggravation.

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Posted by aquarius09
She's a sag and he's a libra. Well, he treats her well, but she says that she doesn't know how he is behind her back, as in at work. She says that FB is a glimpse of perhaps how he is with women behind her back.

My personal take is that FB is actually quite good at revealing a person's demeanour behind someone's back. I have caught men who were lying to me about being in a relationship on FB. FB can reveal a lot about what a person is hiding.

True to some extent but it's not always out in the open what goes on -- on fb. Depending how long they've been seeing each other... How serious it is, etc

Sure one can spy away on FB to determine certain things but I think if you have to do that, you are unsure of your relationship. It's a tough one.

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They've been dating for 8 months. The other thing is that the guys I caught two timing on FB were also discreet but it was little things that made my intuition go off. My relationship with my ex was a yr long. I was very sure of my relationship but my ex was doing sketchy things on FB which were showing me red flags. 1. He didn't want to put a pic of us together even though I met his family and friends. Secondly, it was something as simple as a wink attached to another woman's happy bday message on his FB that made me catch him.

Posted by aquarius09
She's a sag and he's a libra. Well, he treats her well, but she says that she doesn't know how he is behind her back, as in at work. She says that FB is a glimpse of perhaps how he is with women behind her back.

My personal take is that FB is actually quite good at revealing a person's demeanour behind someone's back. I have caught men who were lying to me about being in a relationship on FB. FB can reveal a lot about what a person is hiding.

now it's sounding like my virgo brother in law and my sis. lol

except virgo bro in law is libra dominant.

if significant other knows what you're doing, if you're on a site you're using, then they know what you're doing...

but if it's on Facebook, i dont know why that place gets so many heartaches.

When a man isn't serious, he will display really odd behaviour on FB. Facebook comes quite handy in ousting a player or a timebandit. LOL.

i think it's because people know eachother and they know where you live, and where you work and they see your real face, ect and then you are dealing with real people and flirting like hell by clicking on their photos.

i wont even use my real photo on here although i have uploaded a real photo of me here a couple times.

but i'm glad there's alot of women on here!!! and thera are also men who are with significant others. so that's good.
and most of the men here are very very respectful.

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Posted by aquarius09
She's a sag and he's a libra. Well, he treats her well, but she says that she doesn't know how he is behind her back, as in at work. She says that FB is a glimpse of perhaps how he is with women behind her back.

My personal take is that FB is actually quite good at revealing a person's demeanour behind someone's back. I have caught men who were lying to me about being in a relationship on FB. FB can reveal a lot about what a person is hiding.

now it's sounding like my virgo brother in law and my sis. lol

except virgo bro in law is libra dominant.

if significant other knows what you're doing, if you're on a site you're using, then they know what you're doing...

but if it's on Facebook, i dont know why that place gets so many heartaches.

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FB gets maligned for no reasons or rather by ostrich who don't want to face issues in their relationship. Facebook is a great tool that can be used to seeing someone for what they are. For example, it can reveal a lwrson's sense of humour, hobbies, character, and even how desperate they are, level of self esteem. It's a psychological tool.

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She's a sag and he's a libra. Well, he treats her well, but she says that she doesn't know how he is behind her back, as in at work. She says that FB is a glimpse of perhaps how he is with women behind her back.

My personal take is that FB is actually quite good at revealing a person's demeanour behind someone's back. I have caught men who were lying to me about being in a relationship on FB. FB can reveal a lot about what a person is hiding.

now it's sounding like my virgo brother in law and my sis. lol

except virgo bro in law is libra dominant.

if significant other knows what you're doing, if you're on a site you're using, then they know what you're doing...

but if it's on Facebook, i dont know why that place gets so many heartaches.

FB gets maligned for no reasons or rather by ostrich who don't want to face issues in their relationship. Facebook is a great tool that can be used to seeing someone for what they are. For example, it can reveal a lwrson's sense of humour, hobbies, character, and even how desperate they are, level of self esteem. It's a psychological tool.

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anyway we're off to bed, g'nite astro-geeks!!!!

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She's a sag and he's a libra. Well, he treats her well, but she says that she doesn't know how he is behind her back, as in at work. She says that FB is a glimpse of perhaps how he is with women behind her back.

My personal take is that FB is actually quite good at revealing a person's demeanour behind someone's back. I have caught men who were lying to me about being in a relationship on FB. FB can reveal a lot about what a person is hiding.

now it's sounding like my virgo brother in law and my sis. lol

except virgo bro in law is libra dominant.

if significant other knows what you're doing, if you're on a site you're using, then they know what you're doing...

but if it's on Facebook, i dont know why that place gets so many heartaches.

FB gets maligned for no reasons or rather by ostrich who don't want to face issues in their relationship. Facebook is a great tool that can be used to seeing someone for what they are. For example, it can reveal a lwrson's sense of humour, hobbies, character, and even how desperate they are, level of self esteem. It's a psychological tool.

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Yes, but so can your gut. I think we fool ourselves in thinking we have to see to believe but in reality, we can feel the truth, IMO.

Posted by aquarius09
When a man isn't serious, he will display really odd behaviour on FB. Facebook comes quite handy in ousting a player or a timebandit. LOL.

Aqua09, don't you think he would display this behaviour without FB?

Also the comment I made about sags constantly spying on their significant other, does this fit?

I've seen them ruin a good thing because they need to snoop and find whatever to validate their own insecurities..

It's a generalization of course....

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Also the comment I made about sags constantly spying on their significant other, does this fit?

well my cousin did on his ex, he has libra mars, Scorpio venus. but it's because he had a "feeling" and he was right, spot on.

his ex and him are still friends though.

i think it's because his new boyfriend is double libra and doesn't care if he has ex's as friends.

i really dont understand the concept.

but i love my family alot.

and my sister i'm not sure about her. she's super secretive. but she has ways of finding out about her virgo...she has Scorpio.

she went through every place he goes to, ect. and kind of watches.observes him. Yes it sounds like stalking really. lol

but in the end she really loves him.

let's just say in the beginning it wasn't all rosey. *shrug*

but everything is harmonious and lovely. he pours alot of generosity to her and she him.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I've seen them ruin a good thing because they need to snoop and find whatever to validate their own insecurities..

i've seen my aries sister do this, she has 8th house venus.

she stalked her bf (bf at the time) until she saw and met all angles of HIS family and got to know his past a little and his family source.

i think this is 8th house stalker mode.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Also the comment I made about sags constantly spying on their significant other, does this fit?

what do you think?

i think too that if a person stalks, they are NOT sure of that person anyway.....

once they TRUST that person, they stop stalking.

you know what i mean?

i mean, my husband's cousin went all the way to another country to live so she can STALK her ex—
that doesn't make sense. She already knew they broke up and he told her kindly no, and that he was already dating another girl. It's not deception.
she just wanted to prove to him that she was the one. But she still was stalking him.

every family relative said she was stalking.

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She's a sag and he's a libra. Well, he treats her well, but she says that she doesn't know how he is behind her back, as in at work. She says that FB is a glimpse of perhaps how he is with women behind her back.

My personal take is that FB is actually quite good at revealing a person's demeanour behind someone's back. I have caught men who were lying to me about being in a relationship on FB. FB can reveal a lot about what a person is hiding.

now it's sounding like my virgo brother in law and my sis. lol

except virgo bro in law is libra dominant.

if significant other knows what you're doing, if you're on a site you're using, then they know what you're doing...

but if it's on Facebook, i dont know why that place gets so many heartaches.

FB gets maligned for no reasons or rather by ostrich who don't want to face issues in their relationship. Facebook is a great tool that can be used to seeing someone for what they are. For example, it can reveal a lwrson's sense of humour, hobbies, character, and even how desperate they are, level of self esteem. It's a psychological tool.

Yes, but so can your gut. I think we fool ourselves in thinking we have to see to believe but in reality, we can feel the truth, IMO.

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Nothing like good ol' proof. Your gut/instinct/sixth sense isn't enough to dump or leave someone. My intuition was going off for my ex, but I couldn't dump him on "intuition'. I needed proof because spidey senses aren't enough to confront the lying cheat. Seeing in believing, not feeling.

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Posted by aquarius09
When a man isn't serious, he will display really odd behaviour on FB. Facebook comes quite handy in ousting a player or a timebandit. LOL.

Aqua09, don't you think he would display this behaviour without FB?

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Perhaps, but a smart one would know how to conceal it. This is why it takes time to catch on. It also depends on how often you see your significant other etc. A lot of factors to take into account. I know that with my ex, I couldn't see it! He was so good! MInd you, the woman he was cheating on me with was a co-worker. Obvously I wasn't going to catch on as quickly unless i worked at the same place.

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Also the comment I made about sags constantly spying on their significant other, does this fit?

She's keeping a close eye on his facebook activity, which he doesn't know about, so I guess that stalking bit is true.

I now feel pressured into presenting a good facebook profile...

fuck it, set everything on private and only add friends I know.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I've seen them ruin a good thing because they need to snoop and find whatever to validate their own insecurities..

I think you should be seeking proof if the end result would be to boot the person. I don't understand the snooping if you plan on staying with the guy. I went and snooped to get proof adn once I found it, I kicked him to the curb.

Besides, you're not ruining a "good thing". You're ruining the facade that which the player has created. It's not real. What is not real is not a good thing. It is a good dream/fantasy at best.

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fuck it, set everything on private and only add friends I know.

This is the smart way to go about using Facebook.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
I've seen them ruin a good thing because they need to snoop and find whatever to validate their own insecurities..

I think you should be seeking proof if the end result would be to boot the person. I don't understand the snooping if you plan on staying with the guy. I went and snooped to get proof adn once I found it, I kicked him to the curb.

Besides, you're not ruining a "good thing". You're ruining the facade that which the player has created. It's not real. What is not real is not a good thing. It is a good dream/fantasy at best.

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I understand all that but what did ppl do before technology?

The sag I am close to can't help it, she's so insecure... There's never any truth or reason, trust me. Guys get fed up in the end and leave.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
I've seen them ruin a good thing because they need to snoop and find whatever to validate their own insecurities..

I think you should be seeking proof if the end result would be to boot the person. I don't understand the snooping if you plan on staying with the guy. I went and snooped to get proof adn once I found it, I kicked him to the curb.

Besides, you're not ruining a "good thing". You're ruining the facade that which the player has created. It's not real. What is not real is not a good thing. It is a good dream/fantasy at best.

I understand all that but what did ppl do before technology?

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People before technology were all together different. We shouldn't be comparing apples and oranges. Women's movement didn't happen either. Women sulked about their cheating men as they couldn't do anything about it.