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The sag I am close to can't help it, she's so insecure... There's never any truth or reason, trust me. Guys get fed up in the end and leave.
Paranoia is digging your own grave, but if your suspicions are stemming from your partner's disrespectful behaviour, then he needs to be called out. There's not much you can do but be self aware and acknowledge the fact that your partner is not that into you and kick him before he kicks you for another.
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^True, Lisa. It's quite a rare sight today to see a woman confident in her relationship. It's because their partners don't make them feel that way by doing the FB shit they do or secretly having Ashley Madison account
i only learned about ashley madison being on astrology forums like this; i've NEVER even heard such a thing existed. *smh*

and it sounds really awfully suspicious too.

the men who were caught, well they weren't happy in their relationshp obviously.

but they're being ostracized.

no amount of therapy is going to help i'm afriad. if they are unhappy, they are unhappy.

there's nothing anyone can do.

maybe just TRY and save face for the children and the family. that's it.
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Posted by aquarius09
If you're unhappy then you leave. You don't have your cake and eat it too. Or you can communicate some sort of mutually beneficial agreement to your partner if you want to step out of your marriage.
it's not that easy for alot of people though.

i've heard of so many incidents.

my family has even told me of their mates who have parents that are doing very very bad. The father goes out and has affairs with strippers. and spending all his money on them.

yes it pains and makes the grown children disgusted, but what can you do? knowing your father is too weak? it's awful.

and even the mother is weak. because the mother gets surgery to make herself look beautiful for the husband who is spending all his money on strippers.

these things actually happen in the world.
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and as outsiders we say just leave! but its not that simple.
I'm not saying leave. I'm saying work out a mutually beneficial arrangement with your partner if you're gonna do that.

the woman doesn't want that though.


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i dont know if the definition is weak though. that might be too a harsh word. we all get weak. but to their children who idealize their parents....they will think of their parents weak. and their disappointment is so great, the pedastal goes off.

you see your parents as very human. with downfalls and weaknesses. no one is perfect.
Yes, but people shouldn't use that as their crutch as it is always a question of to what degree.

People use generic statements such as 'no one is perfect' and 'it's just my opinion' to not take responsibility for the things they say or their actions.
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i have no idea then.

i'm not a relationship expert, but just observing and what i've heard. those kind of situations need Dr. Phil.
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The sag I am close to can't help it, she's so insecure... There's never any truth or reason, trust me. Guys get fed up in the end and leave.
apc, she is probably meeting alot of guys that are not good to her, or not making her feel secure.

a woman stops worrying when her SO gives her stability and security.
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Yes, you would think so... but this particular friend is dead bent on finding stuff out, verifying stories of his past and so forth. She comes to me for advice and I'm always dumb founded why she insists on finding anything mildly incriminating. Trust me when I say these guys are good to her. I think she realizes that now. She just messed up another relationship with someone who was everything she wanted but she couldn't keep her insecurities in check.

These guys were not players.
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^True, Lisa. It's quite a rare sight today to see a woman confident in her relationship. It's because their partners don't make them feel that way by doing the FB shit they do or secretly having Ashley Madison account
Their partners don't make them feel that way? So wrong on many levels. It's true some guys play women but THAT's OBVIOUS from the get go. Seriously.
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The sag I am close to can't help it, she's so insecure... There's never any truth or reason, trust me. Guys get fed up in the end and leave.
apc, she is probably meeting alot of guys that are not good to her, or not making her feel secure.

a woman stops worrying when her SO gives her stability and security.
Yes, you would think so... but this particular friend is dead bent on finding stuff out, verifying stories of his past and so forth. She comes to me for advice and I'm always dumb founded why she insists on finding anything mildly incriminating. Trust me when I say these guys are good to her. I think she realizes that now. She just messed up another relationship with someone who was everything she wanted but she couldn't keep her insecurities in check.

These guys were not players.
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YUCK.

what's wrong with her? i dont do that with my husband or even my ex's.

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The sag I am close to can't help it, she's so insecure... There's never any truth or reason, trust me. Guys get fed up in the end and leave.
apc, she is probably meeting alot of guys that are not good to her, or not making her feel secure.

a woman stops worrying when her SO gives her stability and security.
Yes, you would think so... but this particular friend is dead bent on finding stuff out, verifying stories of his past and so forth. She comes to me for advice and I'm always dumb founded why she insists on finding anything mildly incriminating. Trust me when I say these guys are good to her. I think she realizes that now. She just messed up another relationship with someone who was everything she wanted but she couldn't keep her insecurities in check.

These guys were not players.
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i dont know....she must have FELT something was up...if she felt something was bad then dont date them!!! O___O
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The sag I am close to can't help it, she's so insecure... There's never any truth or reason, trust me. Guys get fed up in the end and leave.
apc, she is probably meeting alot of guys that are not good to her, or not making her feel secure.

a woman stops worrying when her SO gives her stability and security.
Yes, you would think so... but this particular friend is dead bent on finding stuff out, verifying stories of his past and so forth. She comes to me for advice and I'm always dumb founded why she insists on finding anything mildly incriminating. Trust me when I say these guys are good to her. I think she realizes that now. She just messed up another relationship with someone who was everything she wanted but she couldn't keep her insecurities in check.

These guys were not players.
YUCK.

what's wrong with her? i dont do that with my husband or even my ex's.

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It's disturbing but I think I know the reason, she's the one that can't be trusted.
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for example...

you go out ona date with some guy...and you can feel his heart isn't into you....

but you thnk he is so HOT, so adorable and you feel all these tingly feelings, because you feel alive and not alone anymore..

but the guy is not INTO you. but you IGNORE the warnings right?? the girl clearly ignores it.

but she is relentless because she feels that her heart can finally be filled. (it's just not this one)

he has his heart with someone else.

he doesn't do much for her, even after they have sex...

they go out a few times.

he slacks off with her...

but she is relentless still.

who is at fault?

for the woman who ignores the clues, or the man who is trying to move on but can't?

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The sag I am close to can't help it, she's so insecure... There's never any truth or reason, trust me. Guys get fed up in the end and leave.
apc, she is probably meeting alot of guys that are not good to her, or not making her feel secure.

a woman stops worrying when her SO gives her stability and security.
Yes, you would think so... but this particular friend is dead bent on finding stuff out, verifying stories of his past and so forth. She comes to me for advice and I'm always dumb founded why she insists on finding anything mildly incriminating. Trust me when I say these guys are good to her. I think she realizes that now. She just messed up another relationship with someone who was everything she wanted but she couldn't keep her insecurities in check.

These guys were not players.
YUCK.

what's wrong with her? i dont do that with my husband or even my ex's.
It's disturbing but I think I know the reason, she's the one that can't be trusted.
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but you are her friend. but you trust her or you wouldnt be her friend...

it's just that when it comes to the opposite sex, she doesn't trust men.
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for example...

you go out ona date with some guy...and you can feel his heart isn't into you....

but you thnk he is so HOT, so adorable and you feel all these tingly feelings, because you feel alive and not alone anymore..

but the guy is not INTO you. but you IGNORE the warnings right?? the girl clearly ignores it.

but she is relentless because she feels that her heart can finally be filled. (it's just not this one)

he has his heart with someone else.

he doesn't do much for her, even after they have sex...

they go out a few times.

he slacks off with her...

but she is relentless still.

who is at fault?

for the woman who ignores the clues, or the man who is trying to move on but can't?
it depends on what they both expect?

I was talking to a girl the other day while getting my hair done; she said she was done with her bf, that was it! She had wasted eight months with him and felt he was holding back... sure enough he was.

I asked her if the signs were there early on, had she ignored them? She agreed that all the signs were there, not calling when he was supposed to, etc..
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for example...

you go out ona date with some guy...and you can feel his heart isn't into you....

but you thnk he is so HOT, so adorable and you feel all these tingly feelings, because you feel alive and not alone anymore..

but the guy is not INTO you. but you IGNORE the warnings right?? the girl clearly ignores it.

but she is relentless because she feels that her heart can finally be filled. (it's just not this one)

he has his heart with someone else.

he doesn't do much for her, even after they have sex...

they go out a few times.

he slacks off with her...

but she is relentless still.

who is at fault?

for the woman who ignores the clues, or the man who is trying to move on but can't?
it depends on what they both expect?

I was talking to a girl the other day while getting my hair done; she said she was done with her bf, that was it! She had wasted eight months with him and felt he was holding back... sure enough he was.

I asked her if the signs were there early on, had she ignored them? She agreed that all the signs were there, not calling when he was supposed to, etc..
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good on her.

i dont think it's wasted. she learned a good lesson. nothing is wasted!!!
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hink...nope nope...nothing in life is WASTED!! there are lessons everywhere. even when we suffer.

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for example...

you go out ona date with some guy...and you can feel his heart isn't into you....

but you thnk he is so HOT, so adorable and you feel all these tingly feelings, because you feel alive and not alone anymore..

but the guy is not INTO you. but you IGNORE the warnings right?? the girl clearly ignores it.

but she is relentless because she feels that her heart can finally be filled. (it's just not this one)

he has his heart with someone else.

he doesn't do much for her, even after they have sex...

they go out a few times.

he slacks off with her...

but she is relentless still.

who is at fault?

for the woman who ignores the clues, or the man who is trying to move on but can't?
hmm nice to know women think with the wrong head too lol

I've always gone in with the...'she's hot..she can't be that awful of a person' 😄

Everyone wants both but that''s not easy to find along with compatibility
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well you're a guy. *smh*
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Adam Levine on;


Yoga Is Good For Sex

“You know what yoga’s good for?” Adam Levine asks, pausing in mid-thought as he discusses his healthful lifestyle. He draws to his feet, balances in the private jet’s narrow aisle, points at his crotch, and thrusts his pelvis like a porn star. “I’ll tell you what yoga is good for: Fuuuu-k-ing,” he chimes, in a singsong falsetto, then laughs. (details.com)

On Using Women Because He “Loves” Them

“There’s two kinds of men,” Levine posits. “There are men who are f-cking misogynist pigs, and then there are men who just really love women, who think they’re the most amazing people in the world. And that’s me. Maybe the reason I was promiscuous, and wanted to sleep with a lot of them, is that I love them so much.” (celebitchy.com)

He Hates America

“I hate this country.” (twichy.com)

On Social Etiquette

“I spend most of my life naked. In fact, I often have to be told by the people around me that it’s inappropriate to be as naked as I am. But I live in California, where it’s always warm, so why not?” (guestofaguest.com)

On Not Wearing Condoms

Adam revealed he uses “a fool-proof birth-control system,” the pull-out method. (OK Magazine)

On Scientific Facts

“I hate flying,” Levine says. “Know why? Because no one really understands how planes actually work.” (celebitchy.com)

On Getting Girls

“I didn’t start a band to get girls,” Adam said with a laugh. “I stayed in the band to get girls.” (OK Magazine)

He Was Surrounded By Estrogen

“One of my theories on why I’m so capable of understanding women is that after my parents split, my mom moved in with her brother’s ex-wife—my aunt—who was also newly single,” he says. “So I was living in a house with two jilted women, plus my cousin, who’s more like my sister, and my brother, Michael, who we eventually find out is gay. Just the estrogen alone . . . You know when you’re 14 and terrified to talk to a girl? I didn’t suffer much from that. It seemed very natural to me to talk to girls.” (details.com)
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lol on loving LOTS of women. He has sun and mars same as my ex husband. lol see?? he is loving women. LOTS of them. He just "wanted" to sleep with them, so he's a HEALTHY man!!!
😄 😄

hopefully he has/ or had boundaries.

well lots of americans hate their country. *shrug* not everyone is patriotic. I'm too damned mutable..im like. well let them be. lol

i guess if i got together with a super duper patriotic man i would be following him to the ends of the earth and say, YEAH! i'm also patriotic. *smh*

i hate flying too!!! omg me and him have something in common.

he stayed in a band to get girls. 😆 AWW again. HEALTHY man indeed.

and that'is lovely about understanding women. i love that in him.
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Posted by lisabethur8
for example...

you go out ona date with some guy...and you can feel his heart isn't into you....

but you thnk he is so HOT, so adorable and you feel all these tingly feelings, because you feel alive and not alone anymore..

but the guy is not INTO you. but you IGNORE the warnings right?? the girl clearly ignores it.

but she is relentless because she feels that her heart can finally be filled. (it's just not this one)

he has his heart with someone else.

he doesn't do much for her, even after they have sex...

they go out a few times.

he slacks off with her...

but she is relentless still.

who is at fault?

for the woman who ignores the clues, or the man who is trying to move on but can't?
hmm nice to know women think with the wrong head too lol

I've always gone in with the...'she's hot..she can't be that awful of a person' 😄

Everyone wants both but that''s not easy to find along with compatibility
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LOL! Your comment reminds me of the upcoming Zoolandwr movie where Owen Wilson sees Penelope for the first time and goes to Ben Stiler, "She's hot. We can trust her!"
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water men are so beautiful btw. it really is energy....in college, pisces men were the ones who had Always approached me. Pisces men dont usually go up to girls, that's why it's energy. (since i got into astrology) the hidden clues why people attract certain people.
i Always feel happy around my hubs too, very secure.


Pisces men are pretty amazing and they really get tha Aqua female... The Pisces men I have known embrace the aqua's ways instead of trying to change them. Lots of freedom.
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water men are so beautiful btw. it really is energy....in college, pisces men were the ones who had Always approached me. Pisces men dont usually go up to girls, that's why it's energy. (since i got into astrology) the hidden clues why people attract certain people.
i Always feel happy around my hubs too, very secure.


Pisces men are pretty amazing and they really get tha Aqua female... The Pisces men I have known embrace the aqua's ways instead of trying to change them. Lots of freedom.
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they are. they know how to keep secrets, they know how to understand emotional cues. I never had any problems with them ever!!! They adapt and i adapt. so our friendship in college was harmoniously!!! so smart they are too and creative.

well except my ex husband but that's because of addiction unfortunately. I think it was his fate/destiny, unfortunately. But he had so many beautiful qualities.

when we got married it felt like a huge fairytale. he really really made my dreams come true!!! i was in heaven for a time, and those memories will be with me to the grave.

My memories with my husband is very beautitful and precious too!! he's just as private and allows me my freedom. He is a 12th houser too like me, so i love that.
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Posted by lisabethur8
whenever someone around write down or astrologers say, keep secrets, the general public thinks of nasty stuff *smh*
it's not even that at all!! it just means if they tell me somethng about their life, i will keep it to the grave.
I have secrets, don't we all? It's about how you feel deep down... How things have marked you, that sort of thing and you're right not many people are privileged to those secrets. Pisces gets them out without trying lol, cuz you know they get it.