Aqua Sun, Scorpio moon, cap venus/aqua mars man

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VanillaShake
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10 Years

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Good evening my water bearers ... I am a Scorpio sun/moon/rising, Sagittarius venus, and Capricorn mars woman.......... as above is my man ... we haven't dated very long and equally not known each other long. We were introduced thru a long term mutual friend. We are both in our early 30's and both of us are parents... my son's father is not involved while his ex wife (the one who cheated in the marriage) is involved constantly due to their daughter.

Our relationship so far has been by far the best fit of any man I have ever met. We both are strong willed people with a lot of values and a lot of compassion and love. His scorpio moon keeps him pretty sensitive and emotional. Which I adore the emotional side because I can relate. The only issue thus far in our relationship has been his tendency to get busy with projects and friends that I tend to get left behind. I know he doesn't mean to do this..... I have not gathered any ill will from him and I trust he is a really great guy like our friend told me. We live a good 45 minute drive from each other and I work constantly... so when I have free time I try to get my time locked in so I can see him and get my bf/love time with him. We talk or at the very least text each other every day... unless he's got something up his sleeve and doesn't respond one day. I have been more patient and more careful in this relationship than any other I've ever had in my life. I really think he might be "the one" ... which I never have said before either, especially only a couple months in. But his daughter loves me and our kids get along.... we parent the same..... I already feel like I'm part of the family.

I do get upset at him when he gets busy with other things when it's my turn to spend time with him. I know again it's not his intention to hurt me... but sometimes my scorpio emotions get the best of me and I end up saying something in a way that makes him "shut down".... so far I've been able to communicate my issues with him and bring him back. But this time... well .... he told me "Don't be sorry. Give me a couple of days to myself. I will call you when I am ready to talk." .. So I have.... it goes against all my instincts to either RUN (my venus in Sagittarius) or to call him and figure this all out (the control I need being a scorpio). Thankfully I have lots of guy friends telling me to calm myself and let him come back when he's ready. Which is what I am doing. But in the mean time...... what do I do? I sit her
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VanillaShake
@VanillaShake
10 Years

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Good evening my water bearers ... I am a Scorpio sun/moon/rising, Sagittarius venus, and Capricorn mars woman.......... as above is my man ... we haven't dated very long and equally not known each other long. We were introduced thru a long term mutual friend. We are both in our early 30's and both of us are parents... my son's father is not involved while his ex wife (the one who cheated in the marriage) is involved constantly due to their daughter.

Our relationship so far has been by far the best fit of any man I have ever met. We both are strong willed people with a lot of values and a lot of compassion and love. His scorpio moon keeps him pretty sensitive and emotional. Which I adore the emotional side because I can relate. The only issue thus far in our relationship has been his tendency to get busy with projects and friends that I tend to get left behind. I know he doesn't mean to do this..... I have not gathered any ill will from him and I trust he is a really great guy like our friend told me. We live a good 45 minute drive from each other and I work constantly... so when I have free time I try to get my time locked in so I can see him and get my bf/love time with him. We talk or at the very least text each other every day... unless he's got something up his sleeve and doesn't respond one day. I have been more patient and more careful in this relationship than any other I've ever had in my life. I really think he might be "the one" ... which I never have said before either, especially only a couple months in. But his daughter loves me and our kids get along.... we parent the same..... I already feel like I'm part of the family.

I do get upset at him when he gets busy with other things when it's my turn to spend time with him. I know again it's not his intention to hurt me... but sometimes my scorpio emotions get the best of me and I end up saying something in a way that makes him "shut down".... so far I've been able to communicate my issues with him and bring him back. But this time... well .... he told me "Don't be sorry. Give me a couple of days to myself. I will call you when I am ready to talk." .. So I have.... it goes against all my instincts to either RUN (my venus in Sagittarius) or to call him and figure this all out (the control I need being a scorpio). Thankfully I have lots of guy friends telling me to calm myself and let him come back when he's ready. Which is what I am doing. But in the mean time...... what do I do? I sit her
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VanillaShake
@VanillaShake
10 Years

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I sit here wanting to know what is going on and when he will be back.... I miss him tremendously and honestly I don't ever want this to happen again. It kills me emotionally inside when he does this and I know I need to stop myself from getting so upset with him but sometimes I don't even know what might cause him to stop talking..... he seems so sensitive.

My water bearers what do I do ....... any advice for this Scorpio lady who's trying everything she can to make her aqua man happy. I certainly do not want to ruin this relationship with my crazy scorpio negative emotions.

Thank you