adwand2k
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Aqua Woman and Pisces Man?
Aquarius people are extremely friendly. They might talk to you day and night, go on nice dinners, meet your family, have sex frequently, do things that lovers do, all the shit and then boom. They suddenly become distant, you never hear from them again, or they're shocked when you reveal that you've developed feelings Don't mistake an Aquarians kindness and flirty nature for genuine.
Keep you heart and soul heavily guarded, stay as emotionally and spiritually detached as possible, and don't be surprised if you never hear from them again. Aquarians, in my experience, are incredibly emotionally unevolved. Be wary, have fun. You will learn a lot about your emotional strength with aquarians as it will feel at times like they are trying push you to your limit.
Keep you heart and soul heavily guarded, stay as emotionally and spiritually detached as possible, and don't be surprised if you never hear from them again. Aquarians, in my experience, are incredibly emotionally unevolved. Be wary, have fun. You will learn a lot about your emotional strength with aquarians as it will feel at times like they are trying push you to your limit.
Genuine interest*
ok, which one do you like?
Option 1 pisces man/aquarius woman
OR.......with the billionaire Oprah??
option 2:
Option 1 pisces man/aquarius woman
OR.......with the billionaire Oprah??
option 2:
Posted by KaptainKhaos
Genuine interest*
Yeah, this is more or less exactly my experience with Aqua men, so it doesn't surprise me. As for me, I'm usually fairly grounded because of my Taurus moon, but I can be emotional like majority of Pisces. I do however have a habit of disappearing when my feelings get too strong for aren't strong enough (I recently ended a short relationship with a Gem because I felt guilty for not being at her point, and didn't know if I ever would, and I value more certainty.)
I take a lot of pride in learning people, so either way I would love to just get to know someone better, and obviously we haven't even been on a date yet, I just would like to at least try...haha.
And definitely either celebrity choice there, haha. But if I had to, I'd say Hamm and his partner.
Posted by adwand2kPosted by KaptainKhaos
Genuine interest*
Yeah, this is more or less exactly my experience with Aqua men, so it doesn't surprise me. As for me, I'm usually fairly grounded because of my Taurus moon, but I can be emotional like majority of Pisces. I do however have a habit of disappearing when my feelings get too strong for aren't strong enough (I recently ended a short relationship with a Gem because I felt guilty for not being at her point, and didn't know if I ever would, and I value more certainty.)
I take a lot of pride in learning people, so either way I would love to just get to know someone better, and obviously we haven't even been on a date yet, I just would like to at least try...haha.
And definitely either celebrity choice there, haha. But if I had to, I'd say Hamm and his partner.click to expand
I have a virgo moon, so while I typically don't care for or appreciate how aqua men are in relationships I too and grounded enough to learn from the experience. I would strongly discourage you from "disappearing " because of HOW *YOU* FEEL. That is an extremely seflish and abusive thing to put someone through. Expecially when dating. I would encourage you to communicate and not assume anything.
With your previous experience in dealing with Aqua men, I think you have a huge advantage in dealing with Aqua folk that most people (need) don't have. That advantage coupled with lots of communication will help you understand your aqua much better on the bright side, lost of pisces are with aquas.
Lots --.--
Oh, man, I realize now how that came out, whoops! What I meant was that I tend to go quiet a bit and more reflective, but I always have the conversation when I'm ready. My example was a mutual decision on both our parts, but it was ultimately my thoughts that initiated it. I don't "ghost", as I agree, that is selfish.
Posted by YourGraceWELL I'M SORRY!!
Oh look I m 24 , I have all the experience with aqua men( What does that make me —). Also in the sagely age of "24" I can Identify evolved and un evolved types.
*swims away*
Posted by CaptainPimp
Works. Depends o how much u both are willing to compromise. Many differences.
As a pisces u gotta not be clingy. Also i see aquaz make a lot of dumb de isions despite being smart. Health related at least.
Interesting that you feel that way about Aquas decision making. In my experience the ones I know do tend to make the wrong decision, but rarely do they regret them. In fact, they tend to learn a lot from them, even when the choice was not the best possible. That being said, too often I see them go back after trying to experiment with that new decision, only to realize that it wasn't a great choice. Health wise, the Aqua men that I know go through phases of insecure working out, haha. Only after a month or so, they just give up and go back to the way things were. They aren't disgustingly out of shape, but definitely could be better. Again, just the ones I know, haha.
Posted by KaptainKhaoslol 😆Posted by YourGraceWELL I'M SORRY!!
Oh look I m 24 , I have all the experience with aqua men( What does that make me —). Also in the sagely age of "24" I can Identify evolved and un evolved types.
*swims away*click to expand
So a little update for you all! Me and the Aqua have been talking more, and it's getting pretty flirty, however I get the impression that she doesn't know how to take compliments sometimes, haha. She's definitely very independent, and will often just leave a conversation when she doesn't see a response as necessary. I'm totally cool with this, and actually like her level of distance because of my past interests being too clingy.
She will often go back on my FB profile and like a status from a couple days prior, and we've steadily been having a conversation via text and Snapchat. I had a series of pictures when cooking food, and she texts me asking me: "Want to come cook for me? 😉", so I know things are going well.
We have had a date scheduled for this Thursday, and it's going to be a fun time rather than your traditional dinner and drinks. However, I kind of want to see her tonight (. Our favorite team is playing again, and I was just going to go out and ask if she wants to come along (I otherwise will watch at home, as my friends are busy, so it's really just her or nothing, haha). I just know that with her independence, and the distance that Aquas can exhibit, that I don't want to seem...eager? I mean, I know that we both are interested in one another, but I just don't know if I should wait until Thursday night or just ask about tonight.
Aquas, do you tend to make the first move? Or do you tend to wait for the other, even if it's something you want?
She will often go back on my FB profile and like a status from a couple days prior, and we've steadily been having a conversation via text and Snapchat. I had a series of pictures when cooking food, and she texts me asking me: "Want to come cook for me? 😉", so I know things are going well.
We have had a date scheduled for this Thursday, and it's going to be a fun time rather than your traditional dinner and drinks. However, I kind of want to see her tonight (. Our favorite team is playing again, and I was just going to go out and ask if she wants to come along (I otherwise will watch at home, as my friends are busy, so it's really just her or nothing, haha). I just know that with her independence, and the distance that Aquas can exhibit, that I don't want to seem...eager? I mean, I know that we both are interested in one another, but I just don't know if I should wait until Thursday night or just ask about tonight.
Aquas, do you tend to make the first move? Or do you tend to wait for the other, even if it's something you want?
I did also find out her moon is in Sag, which is another reason I'm a little hesitant, because those that I've known with that placement are often very reliant upon their need for space.
Fish seem to do well with air signs.
Posted by LunarMaidenit's DEEPER than sun signs though, you know that.
Fish seem to do well with air signs.
and it's weird but the two i mentioned below has FREEDOM loving placements O___O
it's like they LOVE that shit.
but the gemini mooners i notice Always do well with another gemini mooner??
😕
what's up with that!!?
(the post i made today with Cancer Sun/Cancer Venus Patty Smyth and Aquarius Sun/Pisces venus Tennis Player John McEnroe)
both gemini mooners
and that Elizabeth Shue and her Scoprio sun husband both have GEMINI moons!!
and Gunter Sachs was with Libra sun/gemini moon Bridget Bardot, and Gunter Sachs has a Gemini moon.
but that bridget bardot likes to stay single. (Actually i didnt read up her biography deeply but she seems to love the single life better)
😕
what's up with that!!?
(the post i made today with Cancer Sun/Cancer Venus Patty Smyth and Aquarius Sun/Pisces venus Tennis Player John McEnroe)
both gemini mooners
and that Elizabeth Shue and her Scoprio sun husband both have GEMINI moons!!
and Gunter Sachs was with Libra sun/gemini moon Bridget Bardot, and Gunter Sachs has a Gemini moon.
but that bridget bardot likes to stay single. (Actually i didnt read up her biography deeply but she seems to love the single life better)
Orrrrr...do better with Gemini sun like Scorpio Sun/Gemini moon Dylan McDermott and Gemini Sun/Taurus venus Maggie Q.
OP, you have Aquarius Venus!!! you enjoy that FREEDOM!! 😄
but that taurus moon will help you both on STABILITY!
"Don't be afraid of your FREEDOM!!"
but that taurus moon will help you both on STABILITY!
"Don't be afraid of your FREEDOM!!"
Oprah is a BILLIONAIRE...so you know what that means? and she has Aquarius venus. She's not afrai of her freedom!!!
know what that spells??
know what that spells??
Posted by lisabethur8
OP, you have Aquarius Venus!!! you enjoy that FREEDOM!! 😄
but that taurus moon will help you both on STABILITY!
"Don't be afraid of your FREEDOM!!"
Haha, yes I've actually had a hard time describing myself before I figured out my placements, and realized it speaks more truth. In the early stages of courtship, dating, relationships, what have you, I tend to be very absorbed by the idea of the other person. It's after I've gotten into the relationship that I start exhibiting my independence, and traditionally don't dote as much. I think I align pretty well with my placements 🙂.
She did tell me her birthday, so I know what her placements are now. Maybe you can enlighten me some lisabethur?
Sun - Aqua
Moon - Sag
Mercury - Aqua
Venus - Pisces
Mars - Gem
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Aqua
Uranus - Cap
Neptune - Cap
Pluto - Scorp
Node - Cap
As I said, because of my initial phase personality, I'm just trying to figure out the best way to proceed so as to not frustrate her and send her away, you know? Mainly because we haven't gone on our first date yet, though it is planned for a couple days from now, but I'm tremendously better in person than I am through text, haha. So I'm just floundering a little here and not sure how persistent I should be or not.
Like I said, I think she's quite interested. She has been flirty and pleasant when we talk, but often times the conversation just kind of dies quickly, she doesn't ask too many questions, just gets flirty and then goes quiet. I did end up asking her out last night, but it was relatively late, and she had ladies night. She's suffering from it this morning, haha. But we haven't talked since she told me she was busy.
Aquarius/Pisces relationships usually don't end well.. Better to stay friendly.
Posted by ireallydunnosorry mister, but i've seen trine and same conjunct suns end NOT well either. Lots of them out there like that.
Aquarius/Pisces relationships usually don't end well.. Better to stay friendly.
As long as i've seen it with my own eyes!!! fact not fiction.
Update! Just looking for thoughts and seeing what her actions mean as an Aqua. Remember: we've known about one another for 2 years and met for the first time two weeks ago.
Two days before our date, we were talking a lot; it was very sexual. She was snapchatting me where she would be adjusting herself, or laying in bed wearing only her bra. Now to our date.
I pick her up at her place, and meet her roommate. We take a shot, and get a couple sandwiches and some beer. I forgot, in my glove compartment was a box of condoms (I left the last box at my Ex's, and needed to get more). She asks if she can poke around my car. First thing she sees is the box, and a bottle of cologne (which I bring for work and networking events). Obviously awkward, but we laugh about it.
The date was a movie in a park. We set up the blanket, and as we sit down she immediately turns and makes out. She proceeds to lay with her head in my lap and wrapping my arm around her chest. We're like this for the entire movie, getting up for a beer or to make out. We talk about our interests, and realize how much we have in common. Conversation is fluid, and we one up eachother perfectly. She matches my wit, and I her intellect.
On the way back, she plans future dates; she wants to cook together, go on a day trip, etc. When we get back, she invites me up. Despite the box, I have no intention of sex. We lay in her bed and talk while snuggling. She says "I feel like I've known you forever, I like it." Then she talks about the "Butterfly Effect" and it wasn't chance that we met when we did. She gets up and changes in front of me slowly. I eventually leave, though she says she really doesn't want me to, but no sex date one. She makes fun of the condoms again and we make out. After, we text for a while, and it's still very flirty and talking about our next date.
Yesterday I snap her good morning, and she responds with her wearing just a shirt and panties. I text her. Nothing. Another a few hours later. Nothing. But she's online, and likes her own status from 2009 where she is talking about her amazing BF. Today I ask about our date, and she responds nearly 3 hours later.
I guess yesterday kind of threw me off because I was thinking about how she was on the date. She acted like we were together for weeks not hours. I'm getting serious mixed messages. Is this typical of Aquas? Should I expect this going forward?
Two days before our date, we were talking a lot; it was very sexual. She was snapchatting me where she would be adjusting herself, or laying in bed wearing only her bra. Now to our date.
I pick her up at her place, and meet her roommate. We take a shot, and get a couple sandwiches and some beer. I forgot, in my glove compartment was a box of condoms (I left the last box at my Ex's, and needed to get more). She asks if she can poke around my car. First thing she sees is the box, and a bottle of cologne (which I bring for work and networking events). Obviously awkward, but we laugh about it.
The date was a movie in a park. We set up the blanket, and as we sit down she immediately turns and makes out. She proceeds to lay with her head in my lap and wrapping my arm around her chest. We're like this for the entire movie, getting up for a beer or to make out. We talk about our interests, and realize how much we have in common. Conversation is fluid, and we one up eachother perfectly. She matches my wit, and I her intellect.
On the way back, she plans future dates; she wants to cook together, go on a day trip, etc. When we get back, she invites me up. Despite the box, I have no intention of sex. We lay in her bed and talk while snuggling. She says "I feel like I've known you forever, I like it." Then she talks about the "Butterfly Effect" and it wasn't chance that we met when we did. She gets up and changes in front of me slowly. I eventually leave, though she says she really doesn't want me to, but no sex date one. She makes fun of the condoms again and we make out. After, we text for a while, and it's still very flirty and talking about our next date.
Yesterday I snap her good morning, and she responds with her wearing just a shirt and panties. I text her. Nothing. Another a few hours later. Nothing. But she's online, and likes her own status from 2009 where she is talking about her amazing BF. Today I ask about our date, and she responds nearly 3 hours later.
I guess yesterday kind of threw me off because I was thinking about how she was on the date. She acted like we were together for weeks not hours. I'm getting serious mixed messages. Is this typical of Aquas? Should I expect this going forward?
Posted by adwand2k
Update! Just looking for thoughts and seeing what her actions mean as an Aqua. Remember: we've known about one another for 2 years and met for the first time two weeks ago.
Two days before our date, we were talking a lot; it was very sexual. She was snapchatting me where she would be adjusting herself, or laying in bed wearing only her bra. Now to our date.
I pick her up at her place, and meet her roommate. We take a shot, and get a couple sandwiches and some beer. I forgot, in my glove compartment was a box of condoms (I left the last box at my Ex's, and needed to get more). She asks if she can poke around my car. First thing she sees is the box, and a bottle of cologne (which I bring for work and networking events). Obviously awkward, but we laugh about it.
The date was a movie in a park. We set up the blanket, and as we sit down she immediately turns and makes out. She proceeds to lay with her head in my lap and wrapping my arm around her chest. We're like this for the entire movie, getting up for a beer or to make out. We talk about our interests, and realize how much we have in common. Conversation is fluid, and we one up eachother perfectly. She matches my wit, and I her intellect.
On the way back, she plans future dates; she wants to cook together, go on a day trip, etc. When we get back, she invites me up. Despite the box, I have no intention of sex. We lay in her bed and talk while snuggling. She says "I feel like I've known you forever, I like it." Then she talks about the "Butterfly Effect" and it wasn't chance that we met when we did. She gets up and changes in front of me slowly. I eventually leave, though she says she really doesn't want me to, but no sex date one. She makes fun of the condoms again and we make out. After, we text for a while, and it's still very flirty and talking about our next date.
Yesterday I snap her good morning, and she responds with her wearing just a shirt and panties. I text her. Nothing. Another a few hours later. Nothing. But she's online, and likes her own status from 2009 where she is talking about her amazing BF. Today I ask about our date, and she responds nearly 3 hours later.
I guess yesterday kind of threw me off because I was thinking about how she was on the date. She acted like we were together for weeks not hours. I'm getting seri
Get out of your head, Taurus Moon! Stop analyzing everything and relax. She has a whole life she's believing.
*see my previous post.
I wasn't just being a douche, you're gonna get hurt if you don't start occupying yourself with other things. I know you really like her but stay grounded in reality, doll.
*see my previous post.
I wasn't just being a douche, you're gonna get hurt if you don't start occupying yourself with other things. I know you really like her but stay grounded in reality, doll.
*living
Omg I'm like a Pisces watcher and can I say that you guys are just fucked! I've had a lot of fishy friends and lovers and a relationship and they are all the same in the end, unbelievably selfish. I've never met another sign that cared so much about material things or their own vices, or that openly manipulates ppl into getting what they want...sure they manipulate in a nice way but for me that's even worse.
My fishy ex and I had the worst relationship i have ever had, he was a abusive mentally, emotionally and physically. we did however have a weird psychic connection or perhaps I did, because I always had nightmares of us fighting when we slept in the same bed even the first time we slept together I dreampt we were fighting and the exact scenario played out
My fishy ex and I had the worst relationship i have ever had, he was a abusive mentally, emotionally and physically. we did however have a weird psychic connection or perhaps I did, because I always had nightmares of us fighting when we slept in the same bed even the first time we slept together I dreampt we were fighting and the exact scenario played out
I've done both, depending on who what when where.
I would try not to seem forceful, but who wouldn't want someone eager to hang out with them? I know as for forgetting things like a specific date is one of my fallbacks. But a little, "I'm so pumped to hang out. Any special requests for tonight" or the likes the day of would be sure to keep your outting in the top of her mind that day (hopefully with a playful smirk on her face.
Maybe you can ask for Thursday and even toss in a "call me crazy, but I'm stuck trying to convince you out tonight too. -insert teasing here"
Although I can't speak for Aqua females... But I prefer someone to lay it all out and details work themselves in. Go with the flow.
I would try not to seem forceful, but who wouldn't want someone eager to hang out with them? I know as for forgetting things like a specific date is one of my fallbacks. But a little, "I'm so pumped to hang out. Any special requests for tonight" or the likes the day of would be sure to keep your outting in the top of her mind that day (hopefully with a playful smirk on her face.
Maybe you can ask for Thursday and even toss in a "call me crazy, but I'm stuck trying to convince you out tonight too. -insert teasing here"
Although I can't speak for Aqua females... But I prefer someone to lay it all out and details work themselves in. Go with the flow.
Posted by KaptainKhaosI understand, and you're not being a douche, trust me 🙂.
Get out of your head, Taurus Moon! Stop analyzing everything and relax. She has a whole life she's believing.
*see my previous post.
I wasn't just being a douche, you're gonna get hurt if you don't start occupying yourself with other things. I know you really like her but stay grounded in reality, doll.
I've honestly been hurt so much, this time is more just curiosity, and I've got a question that I think may be the case.
Aquas, how sexual are you? And would you just use someone for sex? If you didn't get it, would you just back off?
I'm beginning to think that our first date was originally about a nice night, she saw the condoms and then it became a sex date. Because her pulling me in to make out on the first date, lay with her head in my lap, invite me up to her place to "make noise and annoy her roommate", change in front of me, rub my leg while cuddling, etc. She kept saying she didn't want to have sex on date one, and I am wondering now if she was basically asking me to have sex with her, and since I didn't, I'm now an afterthought.
Contrarily, do Aquas not like to reach out for dates? Basically, I feel like I'm the one asking all the time, and wonder if that's her playing hard to get, or if that's just because Aquas traditionally don't feel the need to ask.
Posted by Scartooth11Yeah, I understand. Since that post, we scheduled a date for Monday, which she ended up canceling last minute, but not providing a reschedule time. We talked a lot yesterday, and I asked her if she wanted to go out Friday night, but she said she was leaving town for Labor Day weekend. She again did not provide a reschedule time.
I've done both, depending on who what when where.
I would try not to seem forceful, but who wouldn't want someone eager to hang out with them? I know as for forgetting things like a specific date is one of my fallbacks. But a little, "I'm so pumped to hang out. Any special requests for tonight" or the likes the day of would be sure to keep your outting in the top of her mind that day (hopefully with a playful smirk on her face.
Maybe you can ask for Thursday and even toss in a "call me crazy, but I'm stuck trying to convince you out tonight too. -insert teasing here"
Although I can't speak for Aqua females... But I prefer someone to lay it all out and details work themselves in. Go with the flow.
So either this is typical Aqua behavior, and I just need to square a time, or she's just not interested anymore. Though she does respond when I message her, and still likes everything I put on social media, despite canceling on me. So I'm not sure what that all means, but haha.
Posted by AquaMermaidHaha, so I asked our mutual friend what's up, and she was blunt and honest with me.Posted by adwand2kPosted by KaptainKhaosAquas, how sexual are you? And would you just use someone for sex? If you didn't get it, would you just back off?
Get out of your head, Taurus Moon! Stop analyzing everything and relax. She has a whole life she's believing.
*see my previous post.
I wasn't just being a douche, you're gonna get hurt if you don't start occupying yourself with other things. I know you really like her but stay grounded in reality, doll.
It depends on her Mars Sign fishy. Aquarians are VERY sexual. Some have better control over it and some are notorious for using people for sex.click to expand
"I've been debating telling you, but she's a total maneater. One of the worst I've ever known. I love her to death, but I feel bad for all the guys she gets with, because she devours them. She's a siren reincarnated. I thought when I told her I knew you, she'd back off, but I thought she'd do a better job at it. I'm telling you this because I love you, but in all honesty, you need to just cut your losses and forget her."
Her Mars is in Gemini. I'm taking her words with a grain of salt for sure, but honestly it wouldn't surprise me if this is the case.
As for the Aqua girl, I'm leaving it in her court right now. If she's interested, she'll come to me. I've planned a couple things and she's come up with excuses, so she knows I'm interested. But I'm going to go on living life as I have been.
As for the Aqua girl, I'm leaving it in her court right now. If she's interested, she'll come to me. I've planned a couple things and she's come up with excuses, so she knows I'm interested. But I'm going to go on living life as I have been.
Posted by AquaMermaidWell, good for you then.Second thatclick to expand
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I guess my question is what it's like going forward with an Aqua woman? The best way to set a good first impression (I guess second in this case?)? Additionally, how much chase is typically involved; do I have to be a little 'annoying' or 'wear her down'? What signs do Aqua women give when they are interested? Similarly, how will I know when they aren't? Generally, do any have experience with this pairing, and have stories to share?
I only ask because the Aqua men that I know tend to be very aloof and will often just forget things, even important things. For those interested, our respective dates that night did not go very well, haha.