lisabeth
@lisabethur8
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Posted by lisabethur8
lady i dont read all your stuff, to be very honest. I just dont. Most especially regarding your relationships. But i'm only going by what i've read from my limited perspective. And the few is very enough for me. Other than that, I dont care how you go about wanting to live your life, whether that's talking about your cray cray relationship with the guy of your dreams.

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by WaterCup
And btw, hiding threads doesn't mean shit because people still remember what was on those closed threads. By closing threads it doesn't mean I'm hiding anything, it just means I got tired of the discussion & didn't want to be arsed about it- I moved on from whatever bothered me at the time I made those threads. You aren't the sharpest tool in the toolbox now are you? No wonder you can't relate to aqua stuff. LMAO. Dumbass!
wow i never once called you stupid or dumb, EVER...never ever.click to expand
Posted by WaterCupPosted by lisabethur8
lady i dont read all your stuff, to be very honest. I just dont. Most especially regarding your relationships. But i'm only going by what i've read from my limited perspective. And the few is very enough for me. Other than that, I dont care how you go about wanting to live your life, whether that's talking about your cray cray relationship with the guy of your dreams.
Well don't be speaking out of your poophole then until you're sure that what you're saying is fact. I'm here to correct you though & you can count on it 🙂
And I don't care if you read my stuff or not because I sure as hell don't read half the crap you write.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by WaterCupPosted by lisabethur8
lady i dont read all your stuff, to be very honest. I just dont. Most especially regarding your relationships. But i'm only going by what i've read from my limited perspective. And the few is very enough for me. Other than that, I dont care how you go about wanting to live your life, whether that's talking about your cray cray relationship with the guy of your dreams.
Well don't be speaking out of your poophole then until you're sure that what you're saying is fact. I'm here to correct you though & you can count on it 🙂
And I don't care if you read my stuff or not because I sure as hell don't read half the crap you write.
we are just not on the same wavelength.
but i can tell you are very attracted to me energy wise. Or else you wouldn't bother. heehee. (does that sound cray? MOST Probably. Most likely. But it sure feels like it.)click to expand



Posted by Undine
Hellllllllllllp!!!!!! My Aqua thinks I'm a Capricorn!!!! And I'm a Pisces!!!
Not in astrological terms, because he knows little about stars. But look what he said to me: "You always seem very much in control in whatever you do! Very organized and structured". I'm sure he meant it as a compliment.
I protested I'm not like that really, but he continued: "You seem very focused though, baby. I've never thought that you weren't organized and in control. I've only ever seen you calm and relaxed, haven't I ?"
Oh dear! We are together since March only. What is it going to happen when he discovers that I'm actually a last minute, chaotic mess?
*sigh* Do Aquas get easily disappointed?

Posted by Undine
Hellllllllllllp!!!!!! My Aqua thinks I'm a Capricorn!!!! And I'm a Pisces!!!
Not in astrological terms, because he knows little about stars. But look what he said to me: "You always seem very much in control in whatever you do! Very organized and structured". I'm sure he meant it as a compliment.
I protested I'm not like that really, but he continued: "You seem very focused though, baby. I've never thought that you weren't organized and in control. I've only ever seen you calm and relaxed, haven't I ?"
Oh dear! We are together since March only. What is it going to happen when he discovers that I'm actually a last minute, chaotic mess?
*sigh* Do Aquas get easily disappointed?

Posted by cunninglinguistPosted by lisabethur8
and?
what of it? You bring up those two so to tell me that I said it's your life.
But honestly, i dont agree in my own way of thinking. that's how I live my life. If you're gonna post it openly, some of us are not gonna enable your DESIRES for wanting both.
But still, it's your life. Even if you walk away with all these advices from people...
who are you gonna listen to?
Yourself? Or us?
If you need to come to a public forum and ask for this kind of help while being in a SOLID relationship what do you think?
This is a forum. It's all about opinions. And obviously you're entitled to yours, but I'm also entitled to think that a different approach to relationships is healthier - one that's a little more similar to the OP.
Just putting in my vote is all. Because for all the Aquas I know, the OP is spot on.click to expand


Posted by james tate
AQUAS HAVE TO ALWAYS BE RIGHT, is that in the handbook...?
PAGE 14 PARAGRAPH 3 AQUA'S ARE ALWAYS RIGHT ACORDING TO AQUA'S

Posted by james tate
AQUAS HAVE TO ALWAYS BE RIGHT, is that in the handbook...?
PAGE 14 PARAGRAPH 3 AQUA'S ARE ALWAYS RIGHT ACORDING TO AQUA'S
Posted by BlueSandCacoonPosted by james tate
AQUAS HAVE TO ALWAYS BE RIGHT, is that in the handbook...?
PAGE 14 PARAGRAPH 3 AQUA'S ARE ALWAYS RIGHT ACORDING TO AQUA'S
Aquarius are always right.
It's one of our known "negative" traits.click to expand


Posted by krysrenee7
The "DO NOT" list during sex with an Aquarian:
Do NOT:
1. Sit there with a straight face like you're constipated. Make a face dammit! Say something! Make a noise, a sound, something!
2. Talk a bunch of sh*t but not measure up. Don't tease us beforehand about how wild, crazy & creative you'd be in the bedroom if you're really just like the person who does #1 on this list. Not only will we be annoyed at such bad sex, but we'll be extra pissed off b/c of your false advertisement!
3. Don't tell us when we're gonna do it or how we're gonna do it. Surprise me! Just grab me & push me onto the bed dammit! It's already bad enough when someone is too predicable in the moment. It's even worse when someone is giving us a heads-up that they're about to be predictable lol
4. Don't smother me with affection afterwards. A high-five or a few kisses and hugs afterwards is fine, but if you expect for me to be happy falling asleep with your entire sweaty body wrapped around me to the point of suffocation, you're mistaken!

Posted by krysrenee7
What matters the MOST to Aquarians:
1. Individuality. B/c we're always ourselves regardless of who approves, we have a huge appreciation for anyone else who dares to be their true selves too
2. Communication. Your looks & sexual abilities can only get you so far. We'd most likely settle down or be the closest to those who we can sit up all night & talk about everything with as opposed to the person who is the most attractive (looks) or skilled sexually.
3. Loyalty. If we mess up, fine, stand your ground. But if you cut us off from your loyalty over something small, our loyalty is something you'll lose as well. We like to invest in the things/people who can outlast/stand a little earthquake every now & then.
What matters LEAST to an Aquarian:
1. Looks. Yes, physical appearance matters, but we're probably the least shallow in this area. 99% of the time, you'll hear an Aquarians saying they love you most b/c of some inner quality you have
2. Status. We don't care that you graduated from Harvard, are the most popular at school or have 7 degrees. I'd more than likely be dying to give my friendship to the broke humble but person as opposed to the close-minded & shallow wealthy person.
3. Gifts. You can't buy an Aquarian's respect or love. Sure, we appreciate a gift here & there, but even then, we'd hope the gift would be personalized. Show us you love us through your actions & your loyalty, not through things that only money can buy

Posted by truecapPosted by krysrenee7
The "DO NOT" list during sex with an Aquarian:
Do NOT:
4. Don't smother me with affection afterwards. A high-five or a few kisses and hugs afterwards is fine, but if you expect for me to be happy falling asleep with your entire sweaty body wrapped around me to the point of suffocation, you're mistaken!
Lol @ high five! The first time finished simultaneously, he wanted to high five! It threw me off at first. I was like "what are you doing? Oh, I get it... heck yeah!!!"
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Posted by krysrenee7
Wasn't trying to excuse our flaws. It's just that so many people are confused by some of the things we do & just as interested in how we think so I figured I'd explain things from the AQUA'S point of view for once
Doesn't mean that every Aqua is just like my handbook, no different than every Aqua doesn't necessarily agree with 100% of the "descriptions" from actual astrologers
Just figured that learning the best way to "deal" with us Aquas is best advised from an actual Aqua!
B/c Aquas are so used to thinking outside of the box & are comfortable with things that are "different" than what they may be used to, we automatically expect for others to be "outside of the box" thinkers too, which is why we get so annoyed when people act like our actions (or lack thereof) are rocket-science. Maybe if others were open to the fact that we tick to a different drum (not necessarily a better one, but a different one), we wouldn't be so hard to figure out
It's like the minute people see something that is different, they automatically assume it's either wrong or that it must be some hard complex puzzle. No, sometimes something isn't hard if only you try looking at it with a different perspective!
If you try dealing with us Aquas in the way you're used to dealing with Libras or Cancer's (for example), of course we'll seem like the most confusing MF's in the world! But if you know how we tick & how we think, you'll start noticing that we are actually quite simple lol
I think us Aquas are pretty cool =) =)



Posted by mooconfusion
I find something quite ironic about Aquarians...they need space and I'm happy to give that, but when you need space and disappear off, they freak out. That's true of friends, exes and partners. I just find it so odd, because they're supposed to be detached and logical.

Posted by pennystealing123Posted by mooconfusion
I find something quite ironic about Aquarians...they need space and I'm happy to give that, but when you need space and disappear off, they freak out. That's true of friends, exes and partners. I just find it so odd, because they're supposed to be detached and logical.
Yes, they do freak out- and a lot of times I'm like "dude, chill. You do it all the time."
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Posted by krysrenee7
I'm very sarcastic so don't get offended lol
How to turn us on:
1. Use your intellect to stimulate us. We're aware that some people prefer their friends/partners to be stupid, but we don't, k?!
2. Calm the hell down! We'll get to the emotional stuff later but in the mean time, just talk, open up & leave the mushiness for later! In the beginning, just relax, be yourself & have a F'ing conversation. Focus more on the "in the moment" convo as opposed to freaking out that we didn't call you back the next day lol
3. Show us how you're "different." There are billions of people on earth. Surely, if you think you should get the #1 spot in our lives, show us why we should pick YOU, as opposed to the other 500,000 people we could have choosen. No arrogance here, just saying, if you want me to think you stand out, well, you have to ACTUALLY stand out
How to turn us off:
1. Send me a 6 page-long text calling me inconsistent, aloof or accusing me of leading you on all b/c I didn't call you today. If we haven't made it official, don't expect "official" status in our lives. Don't expect "girlfriend" or "wife" treatment if you're just his "new associate"
2. Try too hard to impress us. Yes, we like looking at impressive things, but if it's not authentic, not even $ 1 million bucks would get us to buy it, let alone respect it. If your best is not what we may like, who knows, the mere fact that you have the confidence to admit that might be the reason we choose you & completely forget that you weren't necessarily what he had in mind. Confidence goes a long way people!
3. Kiss my azz. If you disagree with me, who cares. Know it alls like us Aquarians are actually always secretly wishing to meet people who challenge our thinking. Trust me, we have no problem challenging your thinking.

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but i am guessing you are just being mean and cruel.