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Posted by aquarius09Some people are just like that, when you treat them like nothing special instead they appreciate you more. I have read that virgo guys are a people that dislikes attention. You treat them worse & they are more interested?
I'll talk from my perspective and what these aqua placements evoke in a person, irrespective of what astrology says. The anonymity factor will allow me to articulate what I am in my truest, without any facades or diplomacy.
I am intensely loving and romantic. I am ridiculously sappy. In my head, I fantasize so much that if my fantasy doesn't come true in real life, it's okay because in my fantasy I already dated, married and had children with my romantic interest. LOL. I have a strong hold over my emotions. This restrain over my emotions is powerful and I feel invincible because of it. That self-restraint is what astrology talks about for aqua, which in turn portrays us as unfeeling and cold. It's not that we don't care, we do. We're probably crying inside, but we won't show it because we can control our emotions/reactions. It is a formidable trait to have which is why I think everyone should have at least one placement in aqua.
A while back I really liked this guy and I was threading carefully with him because I fear getting hurt like everyone else. I wasn't showing him interest the way most women do nowadays or what men are used to. I wasn't chasing him, constantly messaging him, I wasn't giggling, batting my eyelashes. I was very non chalant in my demeanor. I genuinely wanted to get to know him. I'd find excuses to go see him and I felt comfortable with him, talking to him. I was attracted to him (demeanour, mannerism, physically too). I don't know if he liked me, but what I do know is that he definitely did toy with me. I don't know why he toyed with me: wanted ego boost, self esteem issues, but he showed me that he wasn't a nice guy no matter how caring and soft he pretended to be on a surface level. Sugary sweet on the surface but a mean lil gnome inside. I took my aqua mask off and showed him feelings and he toyed with me. Now, I've put the aqua mask back on and suddenly he's salivating again. The aloofness has its charm and keeps me protected. It's my shield. It doesn't go down often and when it does, I usually end up regretting it.

Posted by AngmodurianInteresting. This guy had a Venus in Virgo like my ex.Posted by aquarius09Some people are just like that, when you treat them like nothing special instead they appreciate you more. I have read that virgo guys are a people that dislikes attention. You treat them worse & they are more interested?
I'll talk from my perspective and what these aqua placements evoke in a person, irrespective of what astrology says. The anonymity factor will allow me to articulate what I am in my truest, without any facades or diplomacy.
I am intensely loving and romantic. I am ridiculously sappy. In my head, I fantasize so much that if my fantasy doesn't come true in real life, it's okay because in my fantasy I already dated, married and had children with my romantic interest. LOL. I have a strong hold over my emotions. This restrain over my emotions is powerful and I feel invincible because of it. That self-restraint is what astrology talks about for aqua, which in turn portrays us as unfeeling and cold. It's not that we don't care, we do. We're probably crying inside, but we won't show it because we can control our emotions/reactions. It is a formidable trait to have which is why I think everyone should have at least one placement in aqua.
A while back I really liked this guy and I was threading carefully with him because I fear getting hurt like everyone else. I wasn't showing him interest the way most women do nowadays or what men are used to. I wasn't chasing him, constantly messaging him, I wasn't giggling, batting my eyelashes. I was very non chalant in my demeanor. I genuinely wanted to get to know him. I'd find excuses to go see him and I felt comfortable with him, talking to him. I was attracted to him (demeanour, mannerism, physically too). I don't know if he liked me, but what I do know is that he definitely did toy with me. I don't know why he toyed with me: wanted ego boost, self esteem issues, but he showed me that he wasn't a nice guy no matter how caring and soft he pretended to be on a surface level. Sugary sweet on the surface but a mean lil gnome inside. I took my aqua mask off and showed him feelings and he toyed with me. Now, I've put the aqua mask back on and suddenly he's salivating again. The aloofness has its charm and keeps me protected. It's my shield. It doesn't go down often and when it does, I usually end up regretting it.
Anyway the point is its true the shield protected us & i am always confident in it, Do not let some bad apples ruin its purpose lol, its mean to be taken down for the right people because we can only be our true selves when we put it down but also come at a terrible cost.click to expand
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Aquarius is an Air sign. It rules the 11th House, the house of hopes and dreams, and of service to those in far away lands. Aquarius is fixed Air. This means that Aqua is intellectual and stubborn, to put it in simple terms. The hallmark of Aqua is that he loves humanity, but does not like to get too close to living, breathing human beings. Cancer is the sign of the mother. It was made to nurture and nest build. Aqua is quincunx Cancer. This means that cancer and Aqua do not understand each other. They are like two separate species: a wolf and an alligator. The sign of Aqua finds mothering to be difficult. Aqua wants to be out feeding the poor and saving the whales, not wiping chins and kissing scraped knees. Aqua is a masculine sign, as are all the Air signs. However, Aqua seems the most aloof and the most removed. Aqua seems as if they spout wonderful aphorisms, but these aphorisms stay in the realm of their heads, not their hearts. Aqua seems to be shallow while espousing ersatz depth. I do have a personal bias here, as I have met many Aquas who fall into this mold. I know that many do not.
In Aqua’s defense, they will do action for your good. They will jump in and help you clean the house, burp the baby and make dinner. However, if you want a hug, they may stiffen. Emotions come hard to them, it seems. They are not comfortable in this realm. However, they were not made to be a warm fuzzy, smooch-smooch kind of person. They were made to be do-ers of acts. Those acts are how they serve, not by holding your hand. Certain signs do not go well with other signs. One must look at moons, here, as the moon is the most intimate part of oneself. Check the quincunx to your own moon. The quincunx is 150 degrees. It is the sign one side over from the opposition. For example, if your moon was Aries, Libra is the opposite sign. Bordering Libra are Virgo and Scorpio. These signs are quincunx Aries. You can look at the quincunxes to your moon( or your Sun, Mars, or Venus).
Back to Aqua. Aqua is different when it is the sign of the different planets. Aqua Sun and Aqua Moon seem to be the most aloof. Aqua Venus and Aqua Mars do not seem that way, to me. Perhaps, a different Sun or Moon colors the Aqua aloofness and makes it warmer.Aqua Ascendents seem to have a true passion to help in causes. I have found that to be the case. The Aqua Ascendant can get so upset about injustice that he will cry. He will go out of his way to help someone he does not know, who lives far away.Often, he will never meet the person. There is a quest to right wrongs that drives the Aqua Ascendant.
I am not sure who the Aqua is most compatible with. It’s opposite sign is Leo. One is, usually, attracted to one’s opposite sign. The opposite sign has traits which complete one. Leo is very different from Aqua. Leo is very warm and personal. Leo is very affectionate. Leo will hug and kiss you, with no shame that he is in public. Leo’s warm must be an attraction