aquarius and sex

i found this about aquarius sex dont know if its true what do u think?

"AQUARIUS - Jan. 20 to Feb. 19: Even sober, you can't keep your hands from wandering to your best friend's crotch. You are prone to faking orgasms. You were also the one who created the line "Of COURSE I'll respect you in the morning." If you are male, your rubbers tend to break, assuming you bothered to put one on in the first place. If female, you tend to get embarrassingly, repeatedly pregnant because you have never troubled yourself to learn how to take precautions properly.

"If you are male, your rubbers tend to break, assuming you bothered to put one on in the first place"

That line sounds exactly like my Sag x-husband!!!

As far as this Aqua is concerned that doesn't sound like an Aqua description at all.

the aquarius attitude to having sex is "i can take it or leave it". they enjoy having sex, but it certainly isn't everything to them. and i think they are the type to only engage in sexual matters with someone who they are dating or seriously dating.

"We don't have sex, ever, we just spontaneously spawn."

So you grow it on your arse?

Wow! The Aquarius male I know is up for sex all the time lol he can't get enough of it. But I think as Aquarians are so intellectual they prefer talking about sex and all its details rather than actually doing it lol.

wow... my aqua doesn't like talking about it, he would rather just do it. but sex isn't the most important thing to him either. he likes having sex bu the is not a sex freak...like me!

We just want our partners to have fun, what's wrong with sex? It's not the best thing in the world, but it's just another way to say "I Love You" even though they get tired of it later on, and just want to go out and talk, or do other things together. Attention is more important than sex. (this coming from a guy, is very odd but YES sex isn't everything)

It's cause your a girl. you wouldn't understand. What do people do after they get married? do they just kiss and hug? wow(sarcastic) Sex and love are seperate? but don't they go together after marriage. People disrespect their bodies so people think sex is wrong! 😛

So Primegen,

You are using your heritage to physically attack people. That's an abuse. Goverment gonna put you into jail for that. Lol.

GeminiLover
So has a guy refused having sex with you? How would you react if your partner refused?

When I refused mine she just stopped talking to me...


question aside from that, why does sex complicate everything?

haffo:

""We don't have sex, ever, we just spontaneously spawn."

So you grow it on your arse?"


Hahahaha!

I like sex and I don't like sex. (there's my aquarian condradictory nature showing!).
By that I mean that if I fancy a guy of course I'd like to be sexual with him and to be a total smooch. But I'm not that highly sexed in that once I orgasm I don't want to jump into it at least for an hour afterwards. It's like one orgasm is plenty thanx. But I'm also prudish in that outside of the sexual arena, eg in the work place, out on the street, I don't do very well flirty and making sexual innuendos. Perhaps I should do in my own romantic interests but I don't.

Completely off the topic for a moment. I've decided I fancy this Leo guy who's 26 and a hlf (ie nearly 3 years younger than me). Of course I'm not doing a great job of wooing him so far since he never replied to my voice message asking him would he like to go to the cinema sometime but anywayz.....kris you were saying that the fire signs are all highly sexed.....you're referring to Leo men there as well?? Any tips on how to seduce one? 😉

So I'm an aqua lady and I'm sure I sound like a perv as per the above paragraph. So to conclude, I'd say I'm a pretty sexual person in the right atmosphere with the right person.

Sex with clothes on? sounds like a porno, but true new things turn me on LOL
(like weird haircuts)
Yeah I heard about the leg thing before but I think no girl likes legs as much as guys do.

kris never had sex in his life he's a virgin 😛

Sex isn't everything, just one way to express love, not the best though...

I dont agree with that article,..Sex is an expression of love at least for me anyways, I cant just have sex because i'm in the mood I have to have feelings for my man. But I always look at long-term and not casual when Im dating. For me sex its a way to be physically as close as possible to him. My aqua females friends loves sex. Are they consumed with it? No. They are all multi o including myself HAHAHA! TMI

'..Sex is an expression of love at least for me anyways..'

tottally agree wid ya blueaqua...sex is gr8 n we aquaz love it... but i have 2 have strong feelingz for the guy.. i really have to b emotinally attached to him.. cant juz have sex for da sake of it...have 2 b in love 🙂

My man can take it or leave it.Once a week he's good.My firesign Leo needs al;ot of sex but surprisingly we are so connected I've gotten to where I'm in tune with his once a week routine and ok with it.Because when an Aqua does give it to you you can bet it was worth the wait:🙂

i'm leo...with an aqua and i'm lost!
cuz today we started to talk about sex and he started...but somehow he was quiet from nothing.
I mean...i went to bathroom and when i back he was turned off!
lol

I'm reallyyyyy kinky when someone turns me on... and its hard to do it...but he did.
i thought I scared him so I just froze too and then he was cuteeeeeee saying he was just sleepy ( i'm in Brazil right now and he's in South Africa, so he's 5 hours plus than me!)

So.. Was 3am to him and he asked me why i was so quiet and I said:
- ok i'm not a 'first step' person cuz i need to be flattered and feel you wanting me but I notice you wont take that step too so I was attempted to try. But I think I scared you or something. So...i wont talk about it anymore. feel free to talk to me anytime you want but I wont start this subject. i dont want to change you but about that...you'll need to start! lol

we were laughing...he said was cute me being shy and said: - anything for you baby girl!
( he's 27 and i'm 20 ) and he said he would back tomorrow so evil that i would regret to ask that!

THEN he surprised me and I LOVE THAT KIND OF SURPRISE!
Leo's love to say 'we are bossy' but we loveeeeeee to be catched!!!
believe me!!

😛

so...lets see what will happen next chat!
😄
i'm sooooo anxious! hahahaha he's so shy and cute and that what makes me go crazy thinking what is a 'evil' side of an aqua man!

I've been involved with a couple Aquas, and their attitude towards sex was always somewhat detached unless they were drunk and then they would develop a hard-on for almost every female in the room. One describe sex to me as a physical release. I knew right then that it was over. I am a Scorpio after all.

BabyLeo...ha ha I'm Leo with Aqua too...let me give you some advice...when he mention sex...even the slightest thinga about sex...HE WANTS IT AND HE ISN'T GOING TO SAY IT OUTRIGHT - he expects you to pick up on his intentions and then make the next move - he HATES making all the moves. Mine is continously moaning that I don't initiate...see Leo and Aqua are opposites...they lean towards the mental side of things whilst us Leos the more physical side of things...e.g. the night before last I fell asleep on the couch, he asked if I was sleeping I answered yes (duh!)...the following morning he made some comment about him trying to initiate and me not wanting anything...he'll say let's have a bath, I'll say oh I've already bathed...the following day he'll say but I just wanted us to be naked together...well duh you should've said it...but he won't. It's just how we're different. So I think he's learning to be more direct and physical when he wants it and I've learnt to read his words...

We're in South Africa too by the way 🙂

As for Aqua's and sex...touchy subject...

In my experience...they can either sleep with someone they hardly know and have no feelings for whatsoever, or with someone they truly care about and love...nothing in between and sex with a friend unsettles them.
I say this because when we iniatially met we didn't wait too long before having sex, and then we sort of cooled off and although we spent a lot of time together it was more of a friend stage...a kind of getting to know each other stage - there was lots of flirting and small inimate gestures during this time but no sex...hell I even posted on here about 7 months into our relationship about the lack of it!! However, once we moved from friendship to relationship and once there was a mutual respect, love and care the sex just blossomed along with the relationship. It's now a big part of our relationship. It happens at least 4-5 times a week and he probably wouldn't complain about more! In fact he still says it isn't enough! He has an incrediably high sex drive (I would never have thought) and we talk about it often...we'll talk about it over the phone during the day, or send emails back and forth from the office...he most certainly does enter it through the mind...

So in conclusion I think that with an Aqua unless they absolutely don't care about the person yes they'll sleep with you once or twice, when they think they care they'll hold back but when they know they care there's no stopping them.

Oh and it's raining cats and dogs today........baby making weather. So let's discuss this again tomorrow 😉

Aquarians are very sexual, but we are careful about who sees that side!



Can you elaborate on this? I dont understand, careful about what? And what side, the intimate one that cares or the flat out sexual one that is "its on" ? Cause I seen both and I don't see where the Aqua was really "careful" then I did see a side he was hiding. Help me understand, this is supposedly the best sign for me to end up w/so u can see my interest into the insight! thanks 😉

---It's kinda like that, even though I'm with someone I am in love with but if we don't have sex for a while, I start to get so grumpy lol Aquarians are very sexual, but we are careful about who sees that side!

SPOT ON OFA!! My Aqua gets nasty grumpy if it's been too long. We had a week without it (shit sometimes things happen and I don't know what he was expecting me to do about it??. So yesterday morning (I never saw him on Monday eve) he starts saying things over the phone and getting a little nasty about it during the day...so after work I go round to him and he's in a mood from hell and fighting with me because it's been a whole week. This isn't the first time....this man needs it every day like! I don't mind I enjoy it too but when it's impossible it's impossible. Considering when we first started getting serious sex was a taboo subject we never brought up or practised!
Needless to say he's entire mood changed (just like that) because I got up, went home and put on a sexy little nurses outfit (I bought it ages ago but it was too cold to wear it in winter), returned to his place (managed to not get pulled over in the car by the police on the corner of my road - my heart!)and said voila!
He's now a happy chappy again....it's like he doesn't function well without it. I think it may be a form of expression for him. Also, he's never been a kisser, always said that he doesn't really like kissing and finds this more intimate than sex itself. For the longest time we'd kiss hello and goodbye (peck on the cheek) and rarely anything else - even during sex! Now however, he just doesnt' stop kissing during sex!! He's a big kisser now! I love it 😉

"Aqua and Pisces sex is SO hot. So hot."
ooh sounds nice lol

OFA, I missed that, can you send it too me?

mine learns with an almost unnerving speed what I like and what I REALLY really like. He is very vocal and unabashed about anything. Loves teaching me new things and will be patient until its taught correctly. There are times when it seems like he disconnects emotionally and just watches me with hooded eyes taking all of me and my reactions in and breaking it all down bit by bit in his mind (which can be very unnerving as well). Most people lose themselves in sex he seems to stabilize. He has this odd habit of cooly commenting on something that happens like a scientist making an observation HA! as for being grumpy when he goes too long with out sex absolutly! But I am the same way. There is no doubt he leaves me with my legs literally like jello and unable to think clearly. PLUS he is a complete freak of nature and can go as many times as either of us want.
I have been with a scorpio I always thought if he could have sex with himself that would make him happiest
Pisces very very emotional too much for my gemini mind to connect fully with he always said he wished could crawl inside of my skin to be as close to me as possible.
Gemini fun silly we played lots of games but always stayed on the superficial side .
I like the aquarius the best shhhhh!
Sorry might be too much information but...

We aim to please. 🙂

"They expect YOU, wearing a french maid outfit (or costume of your choice), to turn on some striptease music, and do a dance, to interrupt whatever they are doing, regardless of their attitude or whether they say they are busy or not, while they pretend to not notice, and have you drag him into the bedroom...they what he expects"

Best turn on ever, best turn on ever !! It's called confidence and maturity. I'll never forget my ex-cancer waking me up at 5am demanding it. I like it of course but hey woman give me a few minutes just came out of a dream ! And basically that summarizes the aqua-sex relationship: we don't think/looking for it all the time but when we want it/it comes we expect your shyness to go out of the window. And why not try sthg new (well nothing kinky, not for me at least :p)

Aqua men are total progenerators. They dont want to settle so much as they want to spread their seed. Some aqua mixes with other prevalent zodiac influences are not so much that way, but the more typical aqua mentality is..I dont mind having at least one copy of my genes around.

Okay, i failed........HELP!

Seen Aqua and he rocked my world again yesterday, yes they do aim to please in the sex dept.

Ummmm, not trying to TMI, he confusing me to no end, yet not.
I may have messed up, I don't fit into the "dream box" he has, I am done w/kids and he wants kids, I am ready to work towards retirement and calm, he is ready to engage in the American dream so to speak, LOL, so, I don't "fit" into "his" idea of his future. This is the problem, I got it finally, I got that is his problem, he wants me, I fit, most of what he wants, and the connection and feelings are there, he literally has to "put me out" or "be less than admirable" to make himself continue to think of me in a way that he can deal with ignoring what he is feeling. Does that make sense to you guys?
Two freaking years of this, two years, months of me stating the same thing over and over and finally, I got that he wants me forever, thus his "forever friends" yet, he cant find that relationship that is topping his feelings, Me? maybe? IDK exactly how to describe it........HELP? Course his huge ego would never let him say these things. I sure put it in his face yesterday, I hope i didn't mess up any of the hard work i have put in to either engaging into this further or leave me out of what he is doing and allow me to move on as i keep attempting to do......I am so freaking weak to this man, I HATE IT! I am in a really vulnerable position right now, very bad bad bad situation, and man did i fall for all my own reasons, makes me feel weak, even though, i am really not a weak person, and not as weak to he as he will say or thinks......did i make any sense?

Well that's the wierd thing...my Aqua is very careful about pregnancy and contraception etc. Recently we spoke about this because we've been a little careless (dumb asses us both) of late. So he tells me that he finds a woman who has had a child a real turn off. He tried to explain it and what I got was that not only in a physical sense (apparently woman who've had kids don't quite feel the same after childbirth), but also that if she's had another man's child what is the point for him? It grosses him out. I then said but if she'd had your kid—?? He said he supposed that then it would be different but the kid would've had to have been planned and he'd had to have been married preferrably. I find this rather strange....Any Aqua's happy to explain to me in layman's terms—?

Were traditional people in some ways. You must go about things the 'right way' or dont do it at all. i.e. no kids out of wedlock and marrying someone who has no permanent baggage like children; especially if we, the aquas, are bringing the same to the table.

LA,

Similar sentiments can be found not only in Aquas but yes, from my dealings with some Aquas - there can be a traditional outlook somewhat similar to Capricorn.

This sometimes it's to do with the fixedness of the beliefs of sign...I've seen Aquas have kids out of wedlock, date people with kids, etc.

Again like LM says, whatever the code for living, they try to live by them like other fixed Leos, Scorps and Tauruses.

I suppose for what it's worth he is just being traditional (considering he's 37, never been married and most DEFINATELY NOT A VIRGIN!!! IN FACT HE MAY ACTUALLY PUT JULIO IGLESIAS to SHAME!!!). Just seems wierd that this would physically turn him off a woman - he literally pulled a grimace just talking about being intitmate with a woman who has had a child already....
Well, bless my cotton socks I've never given birth to a child then....

lol @ Contradiction eh.

We're only human afterall