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Aquarius fuck buddy...should I leave him alone or just chill out?
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Posted by aquanibTrue. I just don't want him to feel like I'm annoying or clingy. And yeah, it is a little fast to make assumptions, but that first time left a really good impression on me. I'll be honest with him and more than likely, he's going to tell me the same things again, but it's worth a try
"The first time I went to his place" visit #1
"The next time I came over" visit #2
"because he usually walks me to the door" usually would denote that one time you were at his place? Rather quick to make such an assessment if what you say is true.
Be honest in telling him what you didn't like in the way he treated you. He will probably say it's because you came unannounced, while it's not a big deal, it literally impedes on his feeling of freedom if he has to expect unannounced parachutists at 3 AM.
You're probably smothering him a bit. He IS an Aqua after all, similar to Virgos in the way they don't like uninvited guests.
Showing up unannounced is VERY annoying if you haven't crossed the "comfort zone" threshold yet. They don't like to feel like they're being tethered to someone so soon.
OH NO I just noticed! Sag sun AND Cancer moon— Double the crazy lol!
Give him some breathing space quicksmart.
Showing up unannounced is VERY annoying if you haven't crossed the "comfort zone" threshold yet. They don't like to feel like they're being tethered to someone so soon.
OH NO I just noticed! Sag sun AND Cancer moon— Double the crazy lol!
Give him some breathing space quicksmart.
probably this will bother your moon but i'd say don't bring up about his act on your last visit.
i'ts just one of those aqua cold days. he probably don't remember it.
you'll be a happy fuck buddy again.
i'ts just one of those aqua cold days. he probably don't remember it.
you'll be a happy fuck buddy again.
Posted by aquanibPosted by Chelsey07IMO he is most worried that you're not trying to goad him into a relationship through the back end (fwb arrangement).
True. I just don't want him to feel like I'm annoying or clingy. And yeah, it is a little fast to make assumptions, but that first time left a really good impression on me. I'll be honest with him and more than likely, he's going to tell me the same things again, but it's worth a try
In his mind he is probably " Ou yeeee, i got me a swaggy saggy lady, sex is da bomb and the best thing is that's all she wants" then ding dong at 3 AM 😆
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I can't deal with you!!! That's how I really am though. I want it when I want it. And it just happened to be 3AM when I wanted him 😉.
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You're probably smothering him a bit. He IS an Aqua after all, similar to Virgos in the way they don't like uninvited guests.
Showing up unannounced is VERY annoying if you haven't crossed the "comfort zone" threshold yet. They don't like to feel like they're being tethered to someone so soon.
OH NO I just noticed! Sag sun AND Cancer moon— Double the crazy lol!
Give him some breathing space quicksmart.
I'm thinking about giving him space, but when dick calls...I gotta hop on it (pun intended).
And yeah, I'm pretty crazy?
Posted by Chelsey07Posted by aquanibPosted by Chelsey07IMO he is most worried that you're not trying to goad him into a relationship through the back end (fwb arrangement).
True. I just don't want him to feel like I'm annoying or clingy. And yeah, it is a little fast to make assumptions, but that first time left a really good impression on me. I'll be honest with him and more than likely, he's going to tell me the same things again, but it's worth a try
In his mind he is probably " Ou yeeee, i got me a swaggy saggy lady, sex is da bomb and the best thing is that's all she wants" then ding dong at 3 AM 😆
I can't deal with you!!! That's how I really am though. I want it when I want it. And it just happened to be 3AM when I wanted him 😉.
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That is crazy!! However I'm sensing u sound more like u want him more than a F buddy! Am I right? If that's the case , I don't know if rocking up at 3 am un announced is going to work ... though I will leave the Aqua to respond better ...
Posted by AerialViewI really hope so because I like him and the bibe that we have. It's great sex and good pillow talk afterwards.
probably this will bother your moon but i'd say don't bring up about his act on your last visit.
i'ts just one of those aqua cold days. he probably don't remember it.
you'll be a happy fuck buddy again.
Posted by saweetz1988Posted by Chelsey07Posted by aquanibPosted by Chelsey07IMO he is most worried that you're not trying to goad him into a relationship through the back end (fwb arrangement).
True. I just don't want him to feel like I'm annoying or clingy. And yeah, it is a little fast to make assumptions, but that first time left a really good impression on me. I'll be honest with him and more than likely, he's going to tell me the same things again, but it's worth a try
In his mind he is probably " Ou yeeee, i got me a swaggy saggy lady, sex is da bomb and the best thing is that's all she wants" then ding dong at 3 AM 😆
I can't deal with you!!! That's how I really am though. I want it when I want it. And it just happened to be 3AM when I wanted him 😉.
That is crazy!! However I'm sensing u sound more like u want him more than a F buddy! Am I right? If that's the case , I don't know if rocking up at 3 am un announced is going to work ... though I will leave the Aqua to respond better ...
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I mean, I am kinda feeling him, but I wouldn't say it's a crush. It's more so I look forward to our weekends together. Netflix and chill situation, fucking and pillow talk until we fall asleep.
Posted by Chelsey07isn't that we all searching for 😛Posted by AerialViewIt's great sex and good pillow talk afterwards.
probably this will bother your moon but i'd say don't bring up about his act on your last visit.
i'ts just one of those aqua cold days. he probably don't remember it.
you'll be a happy fuck buddy again.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewAt one point in our lives...yes.Posted by Chelsey07isn't that we all searching for 😛Posted by AerialViewIt's great sex and good pillow talk afterwards.
probably this will bother your moon but i'd say don't bring up about his act on your last visit.
i'ts just one of those aqua cold days. he probably don't remember it.
you'll be a happy fuck buddy again.
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Posted by Chelsey07Hey you're preaching to the choir, coming from someone who has been involuntarily made into a Virgo's booty call who has his own key to my place lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI'm thinking about giving him space, but when dick calls...I gotta hop on it (pun intended).
You're probably smothering him a bit. He IS an Aqua after all, similar to Virgos in the way they don't like uninvited guests.
Showing up unannounced is VERY annoying if you haven't crossed the "comfort zone" threshold yet. They don't like to feel like they're being tethered to someone so soon.
OH NO I just noticed! Sag sun AND Cancer moon— Double the crazy lol!
Give him some breathing space quicksmart.
And yeah, I'm pretty crazy?click to expand
Maaaaaaaaaaybe an Aqua is not an ideal fuck buddy for ya. They need too much breathing space and blow hot or cold way too often. You need someone more spontaneous, someone who LOVES the attention rather than dreads it. Like a Leo or another Sag, or even a Cancer........no wait, forget I said Cancer. He'll probably show up at YOUR door at 3am!
Posted by aquanibI'm not trying to play stupid or anything, but are you saying that I'm killing the situationship before it even has a chance? Is that what the noose reference is for?Posted by Chelsey07The noose you are weaving around this poor guys neck just became visible in all it's hempy rope glory. 😄
I really hope so because I like him and the bibe that we have. It's great sex and good pillow talk afterwards.
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Posted by HarukkaYes. To close friends, I'd be straight up and say he's my fuck buddy. To family and acquaintances, I'd just say he's a friend.
What's the difference between fk body and boyfriend?
Is it when someone ask you who is this? You tell them he is my fk body ?
I'm not kidding.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI've dated a Cancer before and it was hell! Clingy as fuck!!!! I couldn't take it, but as for Aquarius, I'm keeping my emotions in check.Posted by Chelsey07Hey you're preaching to the choir, coming from someone who has been involuntarily made into a Virgo's booty call who has his own key to my place lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI'm thinking about giving him space, but when dick calls...I gotta hop on it (pun intended).
You're probably smothering him a bit. He IS an Aqua after all, similar to Virgos in the way they don't like uninvited guests.
Showing up unannounced is VERY annoying if you haven't crossed the "comfort zone" threshold yet. They don't like to feel like they're being tethered to someone so soon.
OH NO I just noticed! Sag sun AND Cancer moon— Double the crazy lol!
Give him some breathing space quicksmart.
And yeah, I'm pretty crazy?
Maaaaaaaaaaybe an Aqua is not an ideal fuck buddy for ya. They need too much breathing space and blow hot or cold way too often. You need someone more spontaneous, someone who LOVES the attention rather than dreads it. Like a Leo or another Sag, or even a Cancer........no wait, forget I said Cancer. He'll probably show up at YOUR door at 3am!click to expand
Posted by Chelsey07You're gonna keep your emotions in check?.......easier said than done. I can see you twitching 😄Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI've dated a Cancer before and it was hell! Clingy as fuck!!!! I couldn't take it, but as for Aquarius, I'm keeping my emotions in check.Posted by Chelsey07Hey you're preaching to the choir, coming from someone who has been involuntarily made into a Virgo's booty call who has his own key to my place lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI'm thinking about giving him space, but when dick calls...I gotta hop on it (pun intended).
You're probably smothering him a bit. He IS an Aqua after all, similar to Virgos in the way they don't like uninvited guests.
Showing up unannounced is VERY annoying if you haven't crossed the "comfort zone" threshold yet. They don't like to feel like they're being tethered to someone so soon.
OH NO I just noticed! Sag sun AND Cancer moon— Double the crazy lol!
Give him some breathing space quicksmart.
And yeah, I'm pretty crazy?
Maaaaaaaaaaybe an Aqua is not an ideal fuck buddy for ya. They need too much breathing space and blow hot or cold way too often. You need someone more spontaneous, someone who LOVES the attention rather than dreads it. Like a Leo or another Sag, or even a Cancer........no wait, forget I said Cancer. He'll probably show up at YOUR door at 3am!
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Chelsey07You're gonna keep your emotions in check?.......easier said than done. I can see you twitching 😄Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI've dated a Cancer before and it was hell! Clingy as fuck!!!! I couldn't take it, but as for Aquarius, I'm keeping my emotions in check.Posted by Chelsey07Hey you're preaching to the choir, coming from someone who has been involuntarily made into a Virgo's booty call who has his own key to my place lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI'm thinking about giving him space, but when dick calls...I gotta hop on it (pun intended).
You're probably smothering him a bit. He IS an Aqua after all, similar to Virgos in the way they don't like uninvited guests.
Showing up unannounced is VERY annoying if you haven't crossed the "comfort zone" threshold yet. They don't like to feel like they're being tethered to someone so soon.
OH NO I just noticed! Sag sun AND Cancer moon— Double the crazy lol!
Give him some breathing space quicksmart.
And yeah, I'm pretty crazy?
Maaaaaaaaaaybe an Aqua is not an ideal fuck buddy for ya. They need too much breathing space and blow hot or cold way too often. You need someone more spontaneous, someone who LOVES the attention rather than dreads it. Like a Leo or another Sag, or even a Cancer........no wait, forget I said Cancer. He'll probably show up at YOUR door at 3am!
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N showing up @3 am is that ? Just teasing. She has venus in Scorpio too! I thought they don't do fwb?
Posted by aquanibPosted by Chelsey07I'm saying you might have given off some vibes to him that you are interested in something more, during the pillow talks. If i could maybe sense this halfway across the world, the guy probably felt it too, considering he was laying there with you, right after coitus when all the mushiness in the brain is still in charge.
I'm not trying to play stupid or anything, but are you saying that I'm killing the situationship before it even has a chance? Is that what the noose reference is for?
Now, if he doesn't want this to go into anything more, showing up at 3AM unnannounced is proof you do want something more, proof of things getting slightly more serious, meaning he feels he has to have some sort of obligation to you which in turn causes an aneurysm in aqua brains. (if he was coming from a wanting to be with you angle, he'd be happy for this, but he isn't coming from that angle, he is coming from bootie call, let's have fun angle)
All in all, nothing is lost though.
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Ahhh okay got it. I did text him saying: "Hey I'm coming over" and he replied: "come on", it just takes me forever to get prepared and he fell asleep waiting on me.
Posted by Happy_AquaPosted by Chelsey07He has told you right here what the problem is. Just re-read. I would get annoyed too if someone I was only casual with, would blow up my phone and show up at my doorstep in the middle of the night and waking me up.
The next time I came over, he seemed annoyed with me but it was mostly because I came over at 3AM and he was asleep. I apologized to him and he snapped and said "I don't mind you coming over. I like when you come over, but you're blowing up my phone and coming here super late and shit. It's annoying. You know I wouldn't blow up your phone like that. I'd text you first."
He wants this relationship to be casual but it seems you are starting to act like the two of you are in a relationship already.
Seems that's not what he wants. Did you ever discuss how far this FWB should go? Seems like you both have different expectations and need to set some boundaries. Give him some space.....
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We didn't talk much about how things should go between us, but showing up at 3AM wasn't the best idea. I should've waited until later that day and we'd both be happy.
Posted by narayana*blows your negative vibes in the opposite direction*
I don't think this is going to end well
Posted by Chelsey07but honestly with your venus in Scorpio.... sex means a lot more to you... fwb... really?Posted by narayana*blows your negative vibes in the opposite direction*
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Posted by saweetz1988Posted by Chelsey07but honestly with your venus in Scorpio.... sex means a lot more to you... fwb... really?Posted by narayana*blows your negative vibes in the opposite direction*
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Yeah...I have a high sex drive :/.
Posted by saweetz1988She is the perfect storm. Think Fatal Attraction......poor bunny rabbit!Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Chelsey07You're gonna keep your emotions in check?.......easier said than done. I can see you twitching 😄Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI've dated a Cancer before and it was hell! Clingy as fuck!!!! I couldn't take it, but as for Aquarius, I'm keeping my emotions in check.Posted by Chelsey07Hey you're preaching to the choir, coming from someone who has been involuntarily made into a Virgo's booty call who has his own key to my place lol.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI'm thinking about giving him space, but when dick calls...I gotta hop on it (pun intended).
You're probably smothering him a bit. He IS an Aqua after all, similar to Virgos in the way they don't like uninvited guests.
Showing up unannounced is VERY annoying if you haven't crossed the "comfort zone" threshold yet. They don't like to feel like they're being tethered to someone so soon.
OH NO I just noticed! Sag sun AND Cancer moon— Double the crazy lol!
Give him some breathing space quicksmart.
And yeah, I'm pretty crazy?
Maaaaaaaaaaybe an Aqua is not an ideal fuck buddy for ya. They need too much breathing space and blow hot or cold way too often. You need someone more spontaneous, someone who LOVES the attention rather than dreads it. Like a Leo or another Sag, or even a Cancer........no wait, forget I said Cancer. He'll probably show up at YOUR door at 3am!
N showing up @3 am is that ? Just teasing. She has venus in Scorpio too! I thought they don't do fwb?
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That cancer moon and Scorpio Venus will soon make you clingy enough, you sound dickmatized.. as for the aqua man he will drop you in a heart beat if you keep that up and he won't look back.
Here's an ex;
How do you feel about him having more than one fuck buddy? This includes you.
I'm an aqua woman
Basically if we agreed on only fwb, I'll fix my word on it and live my own life. I had to drop a Pisces recently cuz he got crazy clingy on me, thank goodness I didn't sleep with him. So it makes sense that he was irritated with you, damn 3am?!
We talked about that (in reference to having more than 1 fuck buddy) and I told him that we should tell each other if we're sleeping with other people. He was fine with it and said something like: "I have no reason to lie to you. It's not like we're in a committed relationship or anything."
I told him that I said that because there's too much going around not because I thought that he was my man and I'm his girl or something.
And yeah, I didn't originally just wake up and think "it's 3AM and I want him" it was more so like 1AM when he asked me if I was coming by and I said yeah, but it takes me forever to get ready so 1 turns to 2, 2 turns to 3 and viola!
Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Don't stay over everytime.
Yeah I don't plan on making that a habit. We both need our space and I don't want him to feel that I'm clingy or needy.
I'd be very pissed off if I was him....3am ?
Crazy stuff
Crazy stuff
Posted by MyStarsShineIf you look through my posts, you'll see how it turned into me coming over at 3AM. I didn't intentionally choose that time.
I'd be very pissed off if I was him....3am ?
Crazy stuff
Posted by Chelsey07You still showed up at 3Posted by MyStarsShineIf you look through my posts, you'll see how it turned into me coming over at 3AM. I didn't intentionally choose that time.
I'd be very pissed off if I was him....3am ?
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Posted by Chelsey07Yes you did. You chose to take 2 hours to get readyPosted by MyStarsShineIf you look through my posts, you'll see how it turned into me coming over at 3AM. I didn't intentionally choose that time.
I'd be very pissed off if I was him....3am ?
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Posted by MyStarsShineYeah yeah ?Posted by Chelsey07You still showed up at 3Posted by MyStarsShineIf you look through my posts, you'll see how it turned into me coming over at 3AM. I didn't intentionally choose that time.
I'd be very pissed off if I was him....3am ?
Crazy stuff
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Posted by -Flo-Posted by Chelsey07Amen to that, getting cute ain't fast and easy.. lolPosted by -Flo-
That cancer moon and Scorpio Venus will soon make you clingy enough, you sound dickmatized.. as for the aqua man he will drop you in a heart beat if you keep that up and he won't look back.
Here's an ex;
How do you feel about him having more than one fuck buddy? This includes you.
I'm an aqua woman
Basically if we agreed on only fwb, I'll fix my word on it and live my own life. I had to drop a Pisces recently cuz he got crazy clingy on me, thank goodness I didn't sleep with him. So it makes sense that he was irritated with you, damn 3am?!
We talked about that (in reference to having more than 1 fuck buddy) and I told him that we should tell each other if we're sleeping with other people. He was fine with it and said something like: "I have no reason to lie to you. It's not like we're in a committed relationship or anything."
I told him that I said that because there's too much going around not because I thought that he was my man and I'm his girl or something.
And yeah, I didn't originally just wake up and think "it's 3AM and I want him" it was more so like 1AM when he asked me if I was coming by and I said yeah, but it takes me forever to get ready so 1 turns to 2, 2 turns to 3 and viola!
I'm telling you this because some aqua men tend to be a bit colder than aqua women. So this is to watch out for putting yourself out there too much for a fuck buddy. If push comes to shove, that guy has the tendency to become an ice king on you. Just ghost, no explanation, no apology.. he will just leave. Aqua men work on their terms, and at times they don't care who they hurt, being very blunt as well. This is a man who's ego is internal but definitely there, secretly he thinks he's the shit regardless of admitting his insecurities to you. Our confidence comes out in actions not always words.
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You're right. I know for a fact that he's gonna want me to come by this weekend, but I'm gonna decline. Besides, the responses I'm getting are killing my horniness. Keep it up y'all 😄
Posted by -Flo-True. I don't *think* I'm laying my heart out on my sleeve, but the pillow talk afterwards is what's having me conflicted. It's not just random chit chat...we talk about how our week was, the things going on in our lives, and in his case his kids. The last time I was over, he was telling me about his daughter and my heart melted a little hearing how involved he is in her life.Posted by Chelsey07You can Still meet him up for the D but don't lay your heart on your sleeves for him, it's not worth it if he just wants sex. Know how to find balance so your not heart broken in the end.Posted by -Flo-Posted by Chelsey07Amen to that, getting cute ain't fast and easy.. lolPosted by -Flo-
That cancer moon and Scorpio Venus will soon make you clingy enough, you sound dickmatized.. as for the aqua man he will drop you in a heart beat if you keep that up and he won't look back.
Here's an ex;
How do you feel about him having more than one fuck buddy? This includes you.
I'm an aqua woman
Basically if we agreed on only fwb, I'll fix my word on it and live my own life. I had to drop a Pisces recently cuz he got crazy clingy on me, thank goodness I didn't sleep with him. So it makes sense that he was irritated with you, damn 3am?!
We talked about that (in reference to having more than 1 fuck buddy) and I told him that we should tell each other if we're sleeping with other people. He was fine with it and said something like: "I have no reason to lie to you. It's not like we're in a committed relationship or anything."
I told him that I said that because there's too much going around not because I thought that he was my man and I'm his girl or something.
And yeah, I didn't originally just wake up and think "it's 3AM and I want him" it was more so like 1AM when he asked me if I was coming by and I said yeah, but it takes me forever to get ready so 1 turns to 2, 2 turns to 3 and viola!
I'm telling you this because some aqua men tend to be a bit colder than aqua women. So this is to watch out for putting yourself out there too much for a fuck buddy. If push comes to shove, that guy has the tendency to become an ice king on you. Just ghost, no explanation, no apology.. he will just leave. Aqua men work on their terms, and at times they don't care who they hurt, being very blunt as well. This is a man who's ego is internal but definitely there, secretly he thinks he's the shit regardless of admitting his insecurities to you. Our confidence comes out in actions not always words.
You're right. I know for a fact that he's gonna want me to come by this weekend, but I'm gonna decline. Besides, the responses I'm getting are killing my horniness. Keep it up y'all 😄
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But nonetheless, I'm going to chill out and put the ball back in his court.
Posted by Chelsey07Prepared? Like what you gonna wear at 3am? —Posted by aquanibPosted by Chelsey07I'm saying you might have given off some vibes to him that you are interested in something more, during the pillow talks. If i could maybe sense this halfway across the world, the guy probably felt it too, considering he was laying there with you, right after coitus when all the mushiness in the brain is still in charge.
I'm not trying to play stupid or anything, but are you saying that I'm killing the situationship before it even has a chance? Is that what the noose reference is for?
Now, if he doesn't want this to go into anything more, showing up at 3AM unnannounced is proof you do want something more, proof of things getting slightly more serious, meaning he feels he has to have some sort of obligation to you which in turn causes an aneurysm in aqua brains. (if he was coming from a wanting to be with you angle, he'd be happy for this, but he isn't coming from that angle, he is coming from bootie call, let's have fun angle)
All in all, nothing is lost though.
Ahhh okay got it. I did text him saying: "Hey I'm coming over" and he replied: "come on", it just takes me forever to get prepared and he fell asleep waiting on me.
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Posted by Chelsey07So he basically said he does not feel obliged to tell you if he is seeing others ??♀️Posted by -Flo-
That cancer moon and Scorpio Venus will soon make you clingy enough, you sound dickmatized.. as for the aqua man he will drop you in a heart beat if you keep that up and he won't look back.
Here's an ex;
How do you feel about him having more than one fuck buddy? This includes you.
I'm an aqua woman
Basically if we agreed on only fwb, I'll fix my word on it and live my own life. I had to drop a Pisces recently cuz he got crazy clingy on me, thank goodness I didn't sleep with him. So it makes sense that he was irritated with you, damn 3am?!
We talked about that (in reference to having more than 1 fuck buddy) and I told him that we should tell each other if we're sleeping with other people. He was fine with it and said something like: "I have no reason to lie to you. It's not like we're in a committed relationship or anything."
I told him that I said that because there's too much going around not because I thought that he was my man and I'm his girl or something.
And yeah, I didn't originally just wake up and think "it's 3AM and I want him" it was more so like 1AM when he asked me if I was coming by and I said yeah, but it takes me forever to get ready so 1 turns to 2, 2 turns to 3 and viola!
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Sounds messy and also risky to health
Just ??♀️ For girls who want to date a guy but settle for FWB.
Posted by MoonbutterNo, like grooming and prepping.Posted by Chelsey07Prepared? Like what you gonna wear at 3am? —Posted by aquanibPosted by Chelsey07I'm saying you might have given off some vibes to him that you are interested in something more, during the pillow talks. If i could maybe sense this halfway across the world, the guy probably felt it too, considering he was laying there with you, right after coitus when all the mushiness in the brain is still in charge.
I'm not trying to play stupid or anything, but are you saying that I'm killing the situationship before it even has a chance? Is that what the noose reference is for?
Now, if he doesn't want this to go into anything more, showing up at 3AM unnannounced is proof you do want something more, proof of things getting slightly more serious, meaning he feels he has to have some sort of obligation to you which in turn causes an aneurysm in aqua brains. (if he was coming from a wanting to be with you angle, he'd be happy for this, but he isn't coming from that angle, he is coming from bootie call, let's have fun angle)
All in all, nothing is lost though.
Ahhh okay got it. I did text him saying: "Hey I'm coming over" and he replied: "come on", it just takes me forever to get prepared and he fell asleep waiting on me.
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Posted by AquariusBeauty
First rule in Aquarian male dating is 'NEVER BECOME A FUCK BUDDY'
Is it because they're detached?
Posted by AquariusBeauty
OP got herself in a pickle. She has a FWB situation going on with an Aqua, caught feelings, and now is expecting something more when the signs are as clear as day.
Aquarius males are the hardest to pin down, next to Virgo males. They are not like Pisces or Cancers. They will not grow into attachment like other men born under feminine signs.
The worst thing you can do is have sex with him and expect anything else. This does NOT work with an Aquarius man! Believe it or not, when it comes to dating they can be the most sexist and traditional of all the signs. More so than Leos, Libras, and Aries.
They are ruled by logic and he only sees in you a woman who gave it up too easily, with no standards (relationship/commitment) and is now beginning to show psychotic behavior (showing up at 3am in the morning).
It's clear he's dating other women and most likely sleeping around. And quite frankly is more than welcome to because he is NOT your partner. You can't be mad at him for putting yourself in this situation.
You asked for a sex buddy and that's exactly what you got and WILL get. Because while you're over here sleeping around with him and lowering your standards, he's out there looking for a woman who isn't.
I'm not going to say that I caught feelings because I haven't. I just like the sex.
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Just ??♀️ For girls who want to date a guy but settle for FWB.
I did not settle. I just wanted sex and so does he.
Posted by AquariusBeauty
OP got herself in a pickle. She has a FWB situation going on with an Aqua, caught feelings, and now is expecting something more when the signs are as clear as day.
Aquarius males are the hardest to pin down, next to Virgo males. They are not like Pisces or Cancers. They will not grow into attachment like other men born under feminine signs.
The worst thing you can do is have sex with him and expect anything else. This does NOT work with an Aquarius man! Believe it or not, when it comes to dating they can be the most sexist and traditional of all the signs. More so than Leos, Libras, and Aries.
They are ruled by logic and he only sees in you a woman who gave it up too easily, with no standards (relationship/commitment) and is now beginning to show psychotic behavior (showing up at 3am in the morning).
It's clear he's dating other women and most likely sleeping around. And quite frankly is more than welcome to because he is NOT your partner. You can't be mad at him for putting yourself in this situation.
You asked for a sex buddy and that's exactly what you got and WILL get. Because while you're over here sleeping around with him and lowering your standards, he's out there looking for a woman who isn't.
So true
The two I were with hated women that slept around. Both very moralistic and old fashioned in some ways
The worst thing you can do is have sex with him and expect anything else. This does NOT work with an Aquarius man! Believe it or not, when it comes to dating they can be the most sexist and traditional of all the signs. More so than Leos, Libras, and Aries.
They are ruled by logic and he only sees in you a woman who gave it up too easily, with no standards (relationship/commitment) and is now beginning to show psychotic behavior (showing up at 3am in the morning).
It's clear he's dating other women and most likely sleeping around. And quite frankly is more than welcome to because he is NOT your partner. You can't be mad at him for putting yourself in this situation.
You asked for a sex buddy and that's exactly what you got and WILL get. Because while you're over here sleeping around with him and lowering your standards, he's out there looking for a woman who isn't.
I'm not going to say that I caught feelings because I haven't. I just like the sex.
K then be prepared when he doesn't.
I'm preparing myself and I do have standards. I'm not easy whatsoever. I just wanted the sex.
Posted by AquariusBeautyPosted by Chelsey07Yes and sexist.Posted by AquariusBeauty
First rule in Aquarian male dating is 'NEVER BECOME A FUCK BUDDY'
Is it because they're detached?click to expand
So are you saying he thinks I'm a hoe?
Posted by DwellingOnMoveNo he didn't lie about me blowing up his phone. I called 2-3 times earlier that night (9-10PM) and once he answered, he told me that he was out with his friends and that he'd talk to me later. He ended up texting me around 1 asking me if I was still coming over and I said yes. And with me taking forever to get prepared, I didn't get to his place until 3AM. It was a bad idea and I may just end it. I'm starting to feel really bad.
Chelsey07: "... you're blowing up my phone... I wouldn't blow up your phone like that. I'd text you first."
Happy_Aqua: "He has told you right here what the problem is. Just re-read."
Chelsey07: "... I did text him ... it just takes me forever to get prepared"
This thread is calling for P-Angel. :-)
So did he lie when he said you were blowing his phone up?
Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by Chelsey07Posted by DwellingOnMoveNo he didn't lie about me blowing up his phone. I called 2-3 times earlier that night (9-10PM) and once he answered, he told me that he was out with his friends and that he'd talk to me later. He ended up texting me around 1 asking me if I was still coming over and I said yes. And with me taking forever to get prepared, I didn't get to his place until 3AM. It was a bad idea and I may just end it. I'm starting to feel really bad.
Chelsey07: "... you're blowing up my phone... I wouldn't blow up your phone like that. I'd text you first."
Happy_Aqua: "He has told you right here what the problem is. Just re-read."
Chelsey07: "... I did text him ... it just takes me forever to get prepared"
This thread is calling for P-Angel. :-)
So did he lie when he said you were blowing his phone up?
ah, I see. I have now another picture of the scenary.
At 3 AM he wanted to clarify that being late is far less of a problem for him than multiple calls. It's just giving info on "how to handle me". He was still cool. Coincidentally this is my philosophy too.
- one text and wait : ok
- one call and wait: ok
- one of each combined and wait: ok
- any combinations more than two: pressure/hecticness/illogical/desparate.click to expand
Yeah, I think I'm going to end this. My feelings aren't in check (even though I'm trying) and someone says that he thinks I'm a hoe for sleeping with him and I don't want him to think of me that way. Or anyone for that matter. I feel really shitty now 😢.
Posted by AquariusBeautyPosted by Chelsey07... sexist.Posted by AquariusBeauty
First rule in Aquarian male dating is 'NEVER BECOME A FUCK BUDDY'
Is it because they're detached?click to expand
I disagree totally. not the ones that I know.
I don't think he thinks you're a hoe (Aquas don't generally judge like that), but just that you're a girl he sleeps with, and who might sleep with other guys. That probably doesn't bother him, but it doesn't set you apart or make you more special than anyone else.
If that's what you're after then great. But if you think you might be working up to something, if even eventually, chances are low.
Aquas are dichotomies. They seem progressive and egalitarian, but it's really just in theory. For themselves and the women they eventually end up with, the rules are pretty much old fashioned.
If that's what you're after then great. But if you think you might be working up to something, if even eventually, chances are low.
Aquas are dichotomies. They seem progressive and egalitarian, but it's really just in theory. For themselves and the women they eventually end up with, the rules are pretty much old fashioned.
Posted by infires
if he is a fuck buddy why would it matter, if feelings aren't involved. Unless you are starting to have feelings for him. it's easier for him to come around if you are dating, but it should not matter since you are not
Aquas have temper, so just leave him alone for now. then just be normal and cheerful, make him happy
I would be lying to myself if I said that I wasn't starting to have feelings for him and that's why I think it'll be for the best if I end it. I'm not made out to have a fuck buddy. That, and I don't want him or anyone to think I'm a hoe.
Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by Chelsey07
...
someone says that he thinks I'm a hoe for sleeping with him...
someone? heh!
I think your problem is being unstable. I have six mutable placements. I am unstable too.
but listen. there are people who think bad of fwb. and people who romantize it. the truth is in between. you are not a ho and an Aquaruis man is the last man on the earth that would have that impression.
the problem is elsewhere: it is simply not an easy game to catch Aquarius. catch&release? yes. catch and marry? rarely.
another thing is: how high is the probability that fwb lead to love&commitment? statistically not that high (still possible)
don't force yourself to suffer when you can enjoy. be just realistic. and stable.click to expand
I am unstable. This is making me realize that this isn't the best thing for me. I think I'm gonna come clean and be honest with him.
Posted by sultrykitty
I don't think he thinks you're a hoe (Aquas don't generally judge like that), but just that you're a girl he sleeps with, and who might sleep with other guys. That probably doesn't bother him, but it doesn't set you apart or make you more special than anyone else.
If that's what you're after then great. But if you think you might be working up to something, if even eventually, chances are low.
Aquas are dichotomies. They seem progressive and egalitarian, but it's really just in theory. For themselves and the women they eventually end up with, the rules are pretty much old fashioned.
I'm going to be honest with him and end it. Why do I have to have emotions? 😢
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