Aquarius Guy Serious Manipulator?

Recently started seeing an aquarius, I'm a gemini. It started off cool, light laughter and alot of promises. Unlike what I have read we argue A LOT for a Gem&Aqua, mainly because his temper is SHORT. Really short! He can be mad and yelling one minute and less than two minutes later back to normal.

It's only been a month and he's already said "I'M IN LOVE WITH YOU." "I FELL FOR YOU TOO FAST" blah blah blah. I was pissed when he said it because he waited until we got into an argument and I was about to end it completely to childishly throw out I Love You! Days later I asked what was that all about and of course got another story along the lines of "what I meant to say was... I'm not IN love with you. I do love you as a person, but what I was saying is I would hate to lose you." . CHILDISH GAMES. This is just one example.

Am I overreacting by calling him a manipulator or is that what he's trying to do. Is this some push and pull game to keep me around until he's done? He is a pretty straight forward person but I have noticed he lives by a don't ask don't tell policy. So I find myself having to ask three leading questions to one just to get the real truth. He likes to say things and the heat of the moment and then apologize like nothing happened. He does say things like you're beautiful and I like you alot and he has been open about the fact he IS NOT looking for a relationship. Yet again, his actions says otherwise.

Of course this isn't the entire story of what's going on. But based off what I said can anyone, preferably aqua's elaborate?!

Wow that's a serious accusation.

You gems are never wrong eh.

@AerialView well again, like I stated that isn't the entire story of what's happening.

I don't know about being wrong, but one thing I don't do is play games for the sake of playing them.