aquarius guys - chase around??

just wanted to know if aquarius men like to chase people around or do they like people or their lovers chasing after them?? i want to hear some stories!!

I'm not a male but I am an Aquarius and the best I can tell you is I don't like the cat and mouse game at all. If there is any form of drama/chasing I just eliminate myself from the picture. Not worth the stress.

Im with you ladies.....do not like the cat/mouse game. I like to be persued, quietly and subtly 🙂 Emotions get toyed with and feelings get hurt when you play the cat/mouse game. Too much drama. And I also like to be friends first. 🙂

I also enjoy the friends first approach. It feels too unnatural to jump into a relationship and expect there to be feelings without a base. Although that is how most of my relationships have developed, it took quite a while before I could say "I love you."

Friends first is definitely tha way to go

Gazillionth the friends first approach...

My emotions for others dont develop on the spot and I have to be certain of your intentions before anything can ensue.

"My emotions for others dont develop on the spot and I have to be certain of your intentions before anything can ensue."
I second that notion

Don't make yourself too available to him. He'll like the challenge of chasing YOU. NOT you chasing him. It'll send him to the hills trust me.

In my Aqua experiences the more I put him off the more he came a running...and from what I hear about his past relationships the girls he dated chased after him and he felt very little for them. It's the ones he couldn't control that he loved.

Just some food for thought....you sound a little head over heels about this man. My advice is to back off and take it slow because believe me it's a long long long haul before he'll ever be yours and at this pace you'll just wear yourself out. Day by day and ever so casual...that's the way to an Aqua man's heart.

The Aqua men that I know like for things to be 50/50. In the beginning, they want to be chased, they want the other person to prove themselve's worthy & they believe that one of the only ways to test someone's patience, urge & loyalty to them is to sometimes see how long someone will chase or wait on/for them.

But usually after an Aqua is pleased with the person's persistance, they don't mind giving in & doing the chasing. They've got it made up in their minds that they will automatically be the perfect mate & give 100% of themselves if the right person comes along. But they want for you to chase them FIRST so that they can say the same about you. And once an Aquarian man chases you & sees that you haven't changed on him or taken his "chasing of you" to the head, the "chasing" thing will start to even out

But I will tell you this, Aquarian men don't necessarily like to play the "Hard to get" game either. They expect to be chased & sought after because to them, it shows how much the other person really wants & craves them. But if the other person starts showing their annoyance of chasing after an Aquarian man & almost turns things into a cat/mouse game, the Aquarian man will back out because he does not see his need to be chased first as a game. But instead he sees it as an "assurance" that the other person really wants & needs him & is okay with proving themselves worthy of his attention.

An Aqua men won't want someone he doesn't have interested in to chase him because there is no big pay off in the end. When an Aqua can sense that his partner wants to be chased & surrenders her "chasing liscense" it's very important to him that she stopped chasing because she feels she's done her part & not just because it's a game. Others may see the "chasing" thing as a game no matter how you put it, but from an Aquarian man's standpoint, there is a huge difference.