Aquarius Man is confusing the heck out of me!!

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Dealing with this Aquarius male is starting to drive me crazy. I really do like him and I believe he likes me too but sometimes he can just be so hot and cold. Sometimes I have to even just ask him certain things to see where his mind is as far as us and it's like he picks and chooses which statement he'll respond to and leaves the deeper questions up in the air. It's like in the beginning he was much more vocal about things but now , I just don't understand what he feels. He tells me he's still into me and when we see each other his actions show it but when we're apart I just don't know. It's frustrating.
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Alwayssss go by people's actions!
So you think that even tho things are how they are when we're apart , I should take into consideration how his actions are with me when we're together ?
Actions when he's with and without you.

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His actions are just so contradicting. With me he's amazing , apart he's hot & cold. Im so confused.
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Posted by goldrockett
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Alwayssss go by people's actions!
So you think that even tho things are how they are when we're apart , I should take into consideration how his actions are with me when we're together ?
Actions when he's with and without you.


His actions are just so contradicting. With me he's amazing , apart he's hot & cold. Im so confused.

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http://nevertoolate.biz/2011/08/15/mixed-signals-what-his-inconsistency-tells-you/
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Posted by goldrockett
Dealing with this Aquarius male is starting to drive me crazy. I really do like him and I believe he likes me too but sometimes he can just be so hot and cold. Sometimes I have to even just ask him certain things to see where his mind is as far as us and it's like he picks and chooses which statement he'll respond to and leaves the deeper questions up in the air. It's like in the beginning he was much more vocal about things but now , I just don't understand what he feels. He tells me he's still into me and when we see each other his actions show it but when we're apart I just don't know. It's frustrating.
"It's like in the beginning he was much more vocal about things but now , I just don't understand what he feels."

Im in the exact situation... Im a Taurus, she's the Aqua and things were just fcking amazing, except for the weekly backing out a bit, which would take 1-2 days. But lately (last couple of weeks) everything suddenly changed... She's much more colder, she built up walls (her words), she doesn't feel secure with her emotions. And yes, its driving me crazy!!!

Maybe its something in the stars... My advice: be patient, very patient, and don't show him that he is driving you nuts, it will scare him. And step by step maybe he will come back. Im in this process right now.. lol
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Maybe he's just not that into you 😢 as blunt as it sounds, it might be time to re-evaluate what you're seeing and feeling from him. Sometimes when you like someone so much.. you think in your mind that feelings are mutual and everything is going fine... when instead you're the one giving effort and hes just holding you on his fingertips. Realize who you are girl! You're better than short-ended responses. Also another rule is to not communicate with him for 3 days. If he doesn't reach out to you.. Girl, give it up. Find someone better.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Okay let's us know.
He just responded and I'm honestly blown away by his response. He was very sweet and admitted to a lot of things that ensure he's very much so into, enjoys spending time and wants to continue to know each other more. He also admitted his mess up in communication and is going to show me that he can do better so I won't think he isn't interested in me. I'm in shock but that gave me so much peace.
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And you are going to keep at this, but this time you have to watch and listen to his action and words to match. K. Because you are giving him a chance this is it.
I'm going to give him the chance to show me more. I wear my heart on my sleeve so I think I'll stop doing that for a bit with him, just until I see him start to show more and be more proactive. But yes this is it. I put EVERYTHING on the table and he didn't get defensive and blow me off. So I'm being very aware of everything right now
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This is really typical of textbook Aqua guys. He'll try, but if he goes back to his ways, just understand that's how they are. If I had listened to everyone else's advice regarding my Aquaman, I would have missed out on a lot of good stuff.

Aquas don't respond to women like any other guy of another sign does. They just don't. That's why they're hard to keep and often stay single well into their 30's or older.
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And you are going to keep at this, but this time you have to watch and listen to his action and words to match. K. Because you are giving him a chance this is it.
I'm going to give him the chance to show me more. I wear my heart on my sleeve so I think I'll stop doing that for a bit with him, just until I see him start to show more and be more proactive. But yes this is it. I put EVERYTHING on the table and he didn't get defensive and blow me off. So I'm being very aware of everything right now
Well if you put everything on the table and you got an open response and acknowledgement from him, why would you change your approach? Getting someone even to acknowledge how you feel and see things from your point of view is like four fifths of the battle alone. I don't think this is the time to close off or hold back a bit, especially if it comes when he's being more proactive. It's up to you both though.

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No you're right about that. He did tell me in the beginning he likes that about women , not holding back and keeping it real , I just fear me being more proactive in this than him. But I'll go with the wind and see how it goes, especially now that we both got that cleared up
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This is really typical of textbook Aqua guys. He'll try, but if he goes back to his ways, just understand that's how they are. If I had listened to everyone else's advice regarding my Aquaman, I would have missed out on a lot of good stuff.

Aquas don't respond to women like any other guy of another sign does. They just don't. That's why they're hard to keep and often stay single well into their 30's or older.


That's good to know. I'll keep it in mind, I've never dealt with an aquaman before so I have no idea how they are. But even through his distance he would still reach out to me everyday. We just have a bit more learning to do about one another
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And you are going to keep at this, but this time you have to watch and listen to his action and words to match. K. Because you are giving him a chance this is it.
I'm going to give him the chance to show me more. I wear my heart on my sleeve so I think I'll stop doing that for a bit with him, just until I see him start to show more and be more proactive. But yes this is it. I put EVERYTHING on the table and he didn't get defensive and blow me off. So I'm being very aware of everything right now
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In the mean time you keep active with your own activities too. Don't hold back for nothing. Go eat something or go do something laid back, and relax by your self. You got to keep an independent streak going for you and stuff ya know.
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And you are going to keep at this, but this time you have to watch and listen to his action and words to match. K. Because you are giving him a chance this is it.
I'm going to give him the chance to show me more. I wear my heart on my sleeve so I think I'll stop doing that for a bit with him, just until I see him start to show more and be more proactive. But yes this is it. I put EVERYTHING on the table and he didn't get defensive and blow me off. So I'm being very aware of everything right now
In the mean time you keep active with your own activities too. Don't hold back for nothing. Go eat something or go do something laid back, and relax by your self. You got to keep an independent streak going for you and stuff ya know.
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Yes you're right and I will. I have a lot going for myself and I don't want to lose sight of it. Thank you soooo sooo much for the advice , really I appreciate it
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Posted by goldrockett
Dealing with this Aquarius male is starting to drive me crazy. I really do like him and I believe he likes me too but sometimes he can just be so hot and cold. Sometimes I have to even just ask him certain things to see where his mind is as far as us and it's like he picks and chooses which statement he'll respond to and leaves the deeper questions up in the air. It's like in the beginning he was much more vocal about things but now , I just don't understand what he feels. He tells me he's still into me and when we see each other his actions show it but when we're apart I just don't know. It's frustrating.
Anyways one giving advice is just doing that regardless you can listen or not. We're stubborn anyways well figure it out.
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I have a question for you aquarians because i am slightly confused...

I have an aquarius man I met and started dating....everything was explosive his intelligence and mind lured me in...we spend hours on the phone...when I say hours 7 to 8 hours...when we spend time together it's amazing...but as of late the past few days he's been off and I thought it had to do with his ex and although we have been talking everyday it's nowhere near as deep and connecting as before...today he texts me and says he will be going off the grid for a few days because he is off center and needs to realign...said he didn't want me to think he was distancing himself or avoiding me and I told him I understand because I can be the same way...I told him I understood because he is an artist but I like clarity and asked should I put my feelings I have developed to the side he asked what I meant by that and said the interest is still there on his end and he has developed feelings too...it's just they aren't as "there" to me as before...he's already expressed STRONG feelings but I just want to know what does he mean by this and should I just cut my losses because I do like him...
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Well... what did he say when you asked him?




He responded yesterday " He just responded and I'm honestly blown away by his response. He was very sweet and admitted to a lot of things that ensured he's very much so into, enjoys spending time with me and wants to continue to know each other more. He also admitted his mess up in communication and is going to show me that he can do better so I won't think he isn't interested in me. I'm in shock but that gave me so much peace. "