Aquarius the most difficult sign to be in a relationship with (Page 2)

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Destiny07
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Posted by lisabethur8
I agree with above.

I don't like to be away from my man. I need physical presence daily. I would never be able to marry an astronaut or traveling salesman.

I will just be very lonely and feel like i'm not in a relationship.

I need to feel him around me all the time, he must be by my side. even if we're in the same house working or studying or hobbying...he cannot be in a different room or upstairs. or outside in the garage kind of thing. no way.

I want him NEXT to me or close to me in the SAME room every fucking day.

it sounds clingy as hell but in my life I have noticed with my man.....and compared to my ex's...

this is the happiest and most REWARDING of my life ever. my man has shown me the true meaning of closeness and love and the deepest love ever. to be together...togetherness in the way that is soooooo beautiful.

other peeps may like that far away shit but no fucking way. it feels too much like being single.
You are completely derailing the topic. You have no emotion switch so your psychology is very different from the typical Aqua. Writing like that just throws people into even more confusion.
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I agree. I'm Leo with Aquarius rising and honestly I wouldn't want my partner around me all day and night 24/7, I get that togethernesss is great but that's just for the physical and bonding aspect. Even in my past relationship I constantly wanted space and I wasn't very affectionate. Indivuality is important too.

But in this case I just want to know where I stand with him instead of the " we will see" response. It's a lot harder long distance but he knew all this before he even agreed to do the distance with me! He didn't just waltz into this blindly.

Once again with any ldr it takes patience, effort, compromise and understanding. The way it's looking now it seems he won't put forth the effort so it's done.
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jc chasez 4ever
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Doesn't sound like a mature Aquarius to me. Yes, they can be difficult, secretly judgmental, hard to please at times but for the most part, if they're for real and value you as a person, they will pull their own weight and make absolutely sure that things are fair between the two of you. A true Aquariuan absolutely hates unfairness, absolutely without a doubt. Maybe your Aquarius has some Cancer influence if he's bent on making you feel guilty all the time?
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Destiny07
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Posted by RollergirlOrc
Doesn't sound like a mature Aquarius to me. Yes, they can be difficult, secretly judgmental, hard to please at times but for the most part, if they're for real and value you as a person, they will pull their own weight and make absolutely sure that things are fair between the two of you. A true Aquariuan absolutely hates unfairness, absolutely without a doubt. Maybe your Aquarius has some Cancer influence if he's bent on making you feel guilty all the time?


I agree he's immature and hes even told me he's immature lol. He sometimes says things then takes them back a day or so after. Last night he told me that I couldn't possibly understand what he feels for me and he's also said that he and I think way too alike and that we are the same. I know he has a Taurus moon and Capricorn rising. TBH I don't get along with capricorns much .. I just find them to be such difficult moody people.
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You don't trust him. He need you to trust him. He needs to feel free, uncontrolled, he needs to choose you because you will not be controlling. He needs his liberty. He needs to feel safe with you and not caged down. If you cannot provide that, he flees.

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I feel you're excusing unacceptable behaviours and linking them to Aquarius; trust is given and earned. One thing is to have freedom and another is to risk a relationship by doing dumb things and making it unstable, if someone is not ready or doesn't know his feelings he should be clear.

You always talk about what should a partner do for her aqua, but you seem like you can't expect or demand nothing of them but their "love". A relationship requires work, communication and honesty. If he cannot provide that, we flee.

To the OP, if you don't and can't trust him is better to be clear.


I agree. It's the little things that add up especially since I don't know where I stand with him and he won't give me a definite answer. I mean anyone can say sweet words but at the end of the day what does that say when he's following girls from his hometown and giving them a like on their photos. This one girl posted a photo of herself in her bikini sitting in a jacuzzi and I saw he liked it. Obviously his mind isn't on me or the relationship. Seems the attraction for other women are more interesting than his so called deep love for me.



Wait what do you mean by following girls! ? Is it just liking their fb posts? I thought he physically stalk then




Oh I mean following girls on Instagram that are from his hometown. Liking their pictures and even pictures of them sitting in the sauna
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If that's too case then you have to re consider if that's him being unreasonable or you are. Liking and stuff r not an indication that he's cheating on. Men like porn photos too. lol... easy it up a bit
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lisabeth
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Posted by thisisaquestionnaire
Posted by lisabethur8
I agree with above.

I don't like to be away from my man. I need physical presence daily. I would never be able to marry an astronaut or traveling salesman.

I will just be very lonely and feel like i'm not in a relationship.

I need to feel him around me all the time, he must be by my side. even if we're in the same house working or studying or hobbying...he cannot be in a different room or upstairs. or outside in the garage kind of thing. no way.

I want him NEXT to me or close to me in the SAME room every fucking day.

it sounds clingy as hell but in my life I have noticed with my man.....and compared to my ex's...

this is the happiest and most REWARDING of my life ever. my man has shown me the true meaning of closeness and love and the deepest love ever. to be together...togetherness in the way that is soooooo beautiful.

other peeps may like that far away shit but no fucking way. it feels too much like being single.
You are completely derailing the topic. You have no emotion switch so your psychology is very different from the typical Aqua. Writing like that just throws people into even more confusion.
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lol

ok.