How do I emotionally detach myself from Aquarius friend?

I was doing so well and 4 weeks later he messages me telling me that I’m beautiful and he just felt like letting me know.

So we spoke, and of course didn’t last long — I’m convinced it’s not me now because I’m not doing ANYTHING wrong for him to keep running away once he feels like he’s getting too close. I get that he probably doesn’t want a relationship and I know he has strong feelings for me but this is just ridiculous now.

He dissapeared after mentioning he wants to come and keep me company, of course I know how he is so I just replied “when you’re ready” he then asked how far I lived now (I moved) and I replied “2 hours from you x” which he just decided not to open the message and completely ignore me because of course he’s probably regretted saying that and I’ve probably overwhelmed him and he’s thinking that I’m expecting him to see me now which I know what he’s like and really don’t expect anything.

I just wish I knew how I could detach myself I don’t know why I allow him to keep putting me on this emotional rollercoaster and I’m so frustrated with it all but if I tell him he runs away like I literally can’t do anything except probably be formal and give him one word answers that will probably be great communication enough for him to stick around

Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

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Oh! Maybe that's why you like them better! 😛

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Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Oh! Maybe that's why you like them better! 😛

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No idea what you're talking about 😜

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Oh! Maybe that's why you like them better! 😛

No idea what you're talking about 😜

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Lol. 😢😢😤😭

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Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Oh! Maybe that's why you like them better! 😛

No idea what you're talking about 😜

Lol. 😢😢😤😭

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

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Well I was going to say that but I walk on egg shells around him because anything I say scares him off

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Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Oh! Maybe that's why you like them better! 😛

No idea what you're talking about 😜

Lol. 😢😢😤😭

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😆 I'm gonna get you back for this when I'm at work in the morning! Lol.

I can't post gifs from my phone lol.

So I'm saving my spot!

I'm gonna have to get a good one! Hahahaha.

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Well I was going to say that but I walk on egg shells around him because anything I say scares him off

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Stop saying anything then 😂

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Oh! Maybe that's why you like them better! 😛

No idea what you're talking about 😜

Lol. 😢😢😤😭

😆 I'm gonna get you back for this when I'm at work in the morning! Lol.

I can't post gifs from my phone lol.

So I'm saving my spot!

I'm gonna have to get a good one! Hahahaha.

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I named that gif saggurl.gif 😂

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Well I was going to say that but I walk on egg shells around him because anything I say scares him off

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But he keeps coming back so who cares lol. He called you beautiful for a reason.

Try it and see but then you might have to deal with him changing his mind once plans are made.

That's annoying too. Lol.

😂right I’m just going to start ignoring him

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Oh! Maybe that's why you like them better! 😛

No idea what you're talking about 😜

Lol. 😢😢😤😭

😆 I'm gonna get you back for this when I'm at work in the morning! Lol.

I can't post gifs from my phone lol.

So I'm saving my spot!

I'm gonna have to get a good one! Hahahaha.

I named that gif saggurl.gif 😂

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You like it huh!?? 😄😄😄😘😘😘😘

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Posted by Klh1203

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Well I was going to say that but I walk on egg shells around him because anything I say scares him off

But he keeps coming back so who cares lol. He called you beautiful for a reason.

Try it and see but then you might have to deal with him changing his mind once plans are made.

That's annoying too. Lol.

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Frustrated 😩

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Oh! Maybe that's why you like them better! 😛

No idea what you're talking about 😜

Lol. 😢😢😤😭

😆 I'm gonna get you back for this when I'm at work in the morning! Lol.

I can't post gifs from my phone lol.

So I'm saving my spot!

I'm gonna have to get a good one! Hahahaha.

I named that gif saggurl.gif 😂

You like it huh!?? 😄😄😄😘😘😘😘

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Yes 😄😂😄😂😄😂

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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

Well I was going to say that but I walk on egg shells around him because anything I say scares him off

But he keeps coming back so who cares lol. He called you beautiful for a reason.

Try it and see but then you might have to deal with him changing his mind once plans are made.

That's annoying too. Lol.

Frustrated 😩

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Never a dull moment with these lovely men! 😄😄😄

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Do you want him to stick around or do you want him to go away?

I want him to stick around but I want him to go away as well he’s leaving me so much confusion

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Do you want him to stick around or do you want him to go away?

This is good advice.

Really try to figure out what you're willing to deal with - what you really want.

That wasn't advice. I was trying to clarify because I didn't even know what the question was 😕

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Question is in the title though. How do I detach myself. The rest is in the description of just how I’ve been feeling about the situation, a little rant

Posted by Klh1203

Posted by Leo188881
Do you want him to stick around or do you want him to go away?

I want him to stick around but I want him to go away as well he’s leaving me so much confusion

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Just tell him to stop being so confusing.

Be straight.

Do you want me or not. And make sure that he knows that if he doesn’t give you what you need, it is not point for you to be with him.

He needs to be more consistent. If not you are going to get crazy.

Don’t be scared. Tell him. He is not making you happy now anyway.

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sleep with him...text him saying ' i want to fuck you so hard mwahahahahaha lets sext'

shrug ...see what happens.

Best advice ever.

How to detach from sombody?

Sleep with him.

How didnt i come up with that genuis idea earlier.

it will work ...she is too tense around him...

i have a feeling he won't though...

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I agree. If she is to intense, he will hide from her.

She needs to keep it light too

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

With scorpio emotions tho. And scorps can be even more blunt than sags.

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And I’m Aries Venus and we can be so fast moving and too up front in relationships

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Posted by Cvurkoo

Posted by SpaceBird
sleep with him...text him saying ' i want to fuck you so hard mwahahahahaha lets sext'

shrug ...see what happens.

Best advice ever.

How to detach from sombody?

Sleep with him.

How didnt i come up with that genuis idea earlier.

it will work ...she is too tense around him...

i have a feeling he won't though...

I agree. If she is to intense, he will hide from her.

She needs to keep it light too

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I was intense. I’m very laid back with him now, I literally pussyfoot around him

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Posted by Cvurkoo

Posted by SpaceBird
sleep with him...text him saying ' i want to fuck you so hard mwahahahahaha lets sext'

shrug ...see what happens.

Best advice ever.

How to detach from sombody?

Sleep with him.

How didnt i come up with that genuis idea earlier.

it will work ...she is too tense around him...

i have a feeling he won't though...

I agree. If she is to intense, he will hide from her.

She needs to keep it light too

I would tempted to scare the shit out of him...i wouldn't be able to resist!

in a funny way ..i have a quirky sense of humour

Being weird and awkward is what makes them like you more. That won't scare them

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I am weird and awkward 😂😂

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Posted by Cvurkoo

Posted by SpaceBird
sleep with him...text him saying ' i want to fuck you so hard mwahahahahaha lets sext'

shrug ...see what happens.

Best advice ever.

How to detach from sombody?

Sleep with him.

How didnt i come up with that genuis idea earlier.

it will work ...she is too tense around him...

i have a feeling he won't though...

I agree. If she is to intense, he will hide from her.

She needs to keep it light too

I was intense. I’m very laid back with him now, I literally pussyfoot around him

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Don’t pussyfoot around him.

He is the one that should make an effort now.

Posted by Klh1203
I was doing so well and 4 weeks later he messages me telling me that I’m beautiful and he just felt like letting me know.

So we spoke, and of course didn’t last long — I’m convinced it’s not me now because I’m not doing ANYTHING wrong for him to keep running away once he feels like he’s getting too close. I get that he probably doesn’t want a relationship and I know he has strong feelings for me but this is just ridiculous now.

He dissapeared after mentioning he wants to come and keep me company, of course I know how he is so I just replied “when you’re ready” he then asked how far I lived now (I moved) and I replied “2 hours from you x” which he just decided not to open the message and completely ignore me because of course he’s probably regretted saying that and I’ve probably overwhelmed him and he’s thinking that I’m expecting him to see me now which I know what he’s like and really don’t expect anything.

I just wish I knew how I could detach myself I don’t know why I allow him to keep putting me on this emotional rollercoaster and I’m so frustrated with it all but if I tell him he runs away like I literally can’t do anything except probably be formal and give him one word answers that will probably be great communication enough for him to stick around

Date other men. Enjoy the time you spend with him, expect nothing more nothing less. Live your life. Never tell him your emotions. Chill out if he's contacting you he likes you.

Posted by Klh1203
I was doing so well and 4 weeks later he messages me telling me that I’m beautiful and he just felt like letting me know.

So we spoke, and of course didn’t last long — I’m convinced it’s not me now because I’m not doing ANYTHING wrong for him to keep running away once he feels like he’s getting too close. I get that he probably doesn’t want a relationship and I know he has strong feelings for me but this is just ridiculous now.

He dissapeared after mentioning he wants to come and keep me company, of course I know how he is so I just replied “when you’re ready” he then asked how far I lived now (I moved) and I replied “2 hours from you x” which he just decided not to open the message and completely ignore me because of course he’s probably regretted saying that and I’ve probably overwhelmed him and he’s thinking that I’m expecting him to see me now which I know what he’s like and really don’t expect anything.

I just wish I knew how I could detach myself I don’t know why I allow him to keep putting me on this emotional rollercoaster and I’m so frustrated with it all but if I tell him he runs away like I literally can’t do anything except probably be formal and give him one word answers that will probably be great communication enough for him to stick around

Sweetie it’s not prob bcoz hes keeping you on the loop to boost his ego when he’s lonely and the other women are not giving him what he needs. or want. I believe if an Aqua like or love u , or into u. They will not really give that much of a mixed signal. u have to be blunt and give it to him straight. B direct. If u feel like he’s playing game with u then just express that and how it makes u feel. And also say u rather him let u be . etc etc. action action. Aqua is all about words. They will know how to bring u back in. and when they know they still have u somehow they will keep doing the same thing over n over again. if I allow it. He sounds immature. How old is he anyway?

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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't you just respond again and say "I don't know why you even ask, I know you're not gonna come see me anyways! "

See if it's enough of a challenge for him to go against it 😆.

He has to open it eventually. Lol.

Shes pisces not sagittarius.

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lol

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Be like, feck off outta ma life c unt.

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😂 im assuming your British?

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Posted by Klh1203
I was doing so well and 4 weeks later he messages me telling me that I’m beautiful and he just felt like letting me know.

So we spoke, and of course didn’t last long — I’m convinced it’s not me now because I’m not doing ANYTHING wrong for him to keep running away once he feels like he’s getting too close. I get that he probably doesn’t want a relationship and I know he has strong feelings for me but this is just ridiculous now.

He dissapeared after mentioning he wants to come and keep me company, of course I know how he is so I just replied “when you’re ready” he then asked how far I lived now (I moved) and I replied “2 hours from you x” which he just decided not to open the message and completely ignore me because of course he’s probably regretted saying that and I’ve probably overwhelmed him and he’s thinking that I’m expecting him to see me now which I know what he’s like and really don’t expect anything.

I just wish I knew how I could detach myself I don’t know why I allow him to keep putting me on this emotional rollercoaster and I’m so frustrated with it all but if I tell him he runs away like I literally can’t do anything except probably be formal and give him one word answers that will probably be great communication enough for him to stick around

Date other men. Enjoy the time you spend with him, expect nothing more nothing less. Live your life. Never tell him your emotions. Chill out if he's contacting you he likes you.

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Not enough to f uck the s h i t out of me though 🙃

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Posted by Klh1203
I was doing so well and 4 weeks later he messages me telling me that I’m beautiful and he just felt like letting me know.

So we spoke, and of course didn’t last long — I’m convinced it’s not me now because I’m not doing ANYTHING wrong for him to keep running away once he feels like he’s getting too close. I get that he probably doesn’t want a relationship and I know he has strong feelings for me but this is just ridiculous now.

He dissapeared after mentioning he wants to come and keep me company, of course I know how he is so I just replied “when you’re ready” he then asked how far I lived now (I moved) and I replied “2 hours from you x” which he just decided not to open the message and completely ignore me because of course he’s probably regretted saying that and I’ve probably overwhelmed him and he’s thinking that I’m expecting him to see me now which I know what he’s like and really don’t expect anything.

I just wish I knew how I could detach myself I don’t know why I allow him to keep putting me on this emotional rollercoaster and I’m so frustrated with it all but if I tell him he runs away like I literally can’t do anything except probably be formal and give him one word answers that will probably be great communication enough for him to stick around

Sweetie it’s not prob bcoz hes keeping you on the loop to boost his ego when he’s lonely and the other women are not giving him what he needs. or want. I believe if an Aqua like or love u , or into u. They will not really give that much of a mixed signal. u have to be blunt and give it to him straight. B direct. If u feel like he’s playing game with u then just express that and how it makes u feel. And also say u rather him let u be . etc etc. action action. Aqua is all about words. They will know how to bring u back in. and when they know they still have u somehow they will keep doing the same thing over n over again. if I allow it. He sounds immature. How old is he anyway?

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He’s very immature he’s 22 lol and I’m 24 but very mature

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Posted by Cvurkoo

Posted by SpaceBird
sleep with him...text him saying ' i want to fuck you so hard mwahahahahaha lets sext'

shrug ...see what happens.

Best advice ever.

How to detach from sombody?

Sleep with him.

How didnt i come up with that genuis idea earlier.

it will work ...she is too tense around him...

i have a feeling he won't though...

I agree. If she is to intense, he will hide from her.

She needs to keep it light too

I would tempted to scare the shit out of him...i wouldn't be able to resist!

in a funny way ..i have a quirky sense of humour

Being weird and awkward is what makes them like you more. That won't scare them

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Arghhhh just be yourself with an Aqua. Seriously. Crazy, intense, upset, happy, sad. lol. As long as u r being true to u. and learn to improve urself more too. 🙂 that will be good. Don’t change u or walk on egg shells with him. Don’t b scare if. It pushes him away or not. Just do or say what feels right for you

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Posted by Klh1203
I was doing so well and 4 weeks later he messages me telling me that I’m beautiful and he just felt like letting me know.

So we spoke, and of course didn’t last long — I’m convinced it’s not me now because I’m not doing ANYTHING wrong for him to keep running away once he feels like he’s getting too close. I get that he probably doesn’t want a relationship and I know he has strong feelings for me but this is just ridiculous now.

He dissapeared after mentioning he wants to come and keep me company, of course I know how he is so I just replied “when you’re ready” he then asked how far I lived now (I moved) and I replied “2 hours from you x” which he just decided not to open the message and completely ignore me because of course he’s probably regretted saying that and I’ve probably overwhelmed him and he’s thinking that I’m expecting him to see me now which I know what he’s like and really don’t expect anything.

I just wish I knew how I could detach myself I don’t know why I allow him to keep putting me on this emotional rollercoaster and I’m so frustrated with it all but if I tell him he runs away like I literally can’t do anything except probably be formal and give him one word answers that will probably be great communication enough for him to stick around

Sweetie it’s not prob bcoz hes keeping you on the loop to boost his ego when he’s lonely and the other women are not giving him what he needs. or want. I believe if an Aqua like or love u , or into u. They will not really give that much of a mixed signal. u have to be blunt and give it to him straight. B direct. If u feel like he’s playing game with u then just express that and how it makes u feel. And also say u rather him let u be . etc etc. action action. Aqua is all about words. They will know how to bring u back in. and when they know they still have u somehow they will keep doing the same thing over n over again. if I allow it. He sounds immature. How old is he anyway?

He’s very immature he’s 22 lol and I’m 24 but very mature

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a teenager Aqua! Oh my god.. that explains it. There u go. Live ur self . Cut him off. Maybe u might have a chance with him again when he’s 35. I’m serious lol

His birthday is in a few days Ive been waiting so long for this now I can get to finally read his chart and figure him out like a weirdo😌

Update: he’s revealed to me he isn’t ready for a relationship, I didn’t even ask him about it and I already knew this but this time he explained why he’s not ready and he said he’s trying to progress in life and it’s all a headache. He admitted that there’s a girl who I assume he’s just sleeping with but she’s mad and that he isn’t with her and has told her this (explains the time he went on a date) then I said he had to stop leading girls on then they wouldn’t think they are with you but he said there isn’t any “girls” he’s just not ready to be in a serious relationship... so I understand why he runs hot and cold now, he definitely does like me but when he thinks it’s getting too serious he dissapears again it’s made me feel so much better now and I can definitely just be his friend and hang out with him without getting in to a relationship if it ever changes then great but if not I don’t mind....

His birthday is around 26 Jan 1994, so if Anyone can give me some sort of birth chart reading that would be cool 🙂

Aqua

Cancer moon

Aquarius Venus

Aquarius Mercury

Capricorn Mars