aquas born on Feb 14th make your way to this post.

describe yourself in a relationship please and thanks.

Posted by aquaboy84
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lmao. thats too much info . i might read it later when i have time. thanks though. ahah

2 of my Aqua friends have this birthday and they are POLAR opposites. one born in 88, the other in 89. the one born in 88 has his Venus in Aries and Mars in Sag, so he's fiery, quick to fall in and out of love. he crushes on everyone lmao. he's kind of abrasive sometimes....not much of a filter but he never means it. I have the same Mars as him so we both talk out of our ass occasionally not thinking of the repercussions. he's not settling down yet....even though he's 27 lol. he's very much living the single life and enjoying indulging in all company that floats his way. not really wanting to be tied down...not that anyone could tie him down lol!

now my friend born in 89 has an Aquarius Venus and a Taurus Mars. he is ALL earth besides his moon (Gemini) and his Pluto (Scorpio). everything else is Cap & Taurus. he even has Cap Mercury. he's VERY ready to settle down. it's kind of adorable lol! he is constantly posting on Facebook about how he wants the perfect woman and how he's in distress because he wants something serious and is sick of games. he has a big heart and is sensitive. he's cautious about getting his heart broken and cautious regarding women and others emotions. hes begging to be tied down and is excited about finding someone who will be a good woman to him. he doesn't always need to be around his woman physically but he keeps on contact and always wants to find ways to keep his woman happy. he recently broke up with his ex who was terrible! manipulative, used him. he loved her with all his heart. she was at college 3 hours away and he'd order food to be delivered to her door as a surprise for dinner and everything.

POLAR OPPOSITES LOL!!! but they're both wonderful friends and people.

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
2 of my Aqua friends have this birthday and they are POLAR opposites. one born in 88, the other in 89. the one born in 88 has his Venus in Aries and Mars in Sag, so he's fiery, quick to fall in and out of love. he crushes on everyone lmao. he's kind of abrasive sometimes....not much of a filter but he never means it. I have the same Mars as him so we both talk out of our ass occasionally not thinking of the repercussions. he's not settling down yet....even though he's 27 lol. he's very much living the single life and enjoying indulging in all company that floats his way. not really wanting to be tied down...not that anyone could tie him down lol!

now my friend born in 89 has an Aquarius Venus and a Taurus Mars. he is ALL earth besides his moon (Gemini) and his Pluto (Scorpio). everything else is Cap & Taurus. he even has Cap Mercury. he's VERY ready to settle down. it's kind of adorable lol! he is constantly posting on Facebook about how he wants the perfect woman and how he's in distress because he wants something serious and is sick of games. he has a big heart and is sensitive. he's cautious about getting his heart broken and cautious regarding women and others emotions. hes begging to be tied down and is excited about finding someone who will be a good woman to him. he doesn't always need to be around his woman physically but he keeps on contact and always wants to find ways to keep his woman happy. he recently broke up with his ex who was terrible! manipulative, used him. he loved her with all his heart. she was at college 3 hours away and he'd order food to be delivered to her door as a surprise for dinner and everything.

POLAR OPPOSITES LOL!!! but they're both wonderful friends and people.

Thanks for the info!. I have a question, do you think any of them would start a relationship w their brothers ex fiance? Just curious lol

A relationship with the wrong person is awful,however with the right person it's beautiful. I don't really date much after two failed relationships. I've found when I do date there's a hidden curiosity to unravel the personality and being of the person : spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. I don't like unbalanced situations, if someone's giving more than I am I'm either suffocating or that means I'm backing out of a prefailing relationship. If I'm giving more it's not a problem at first until I see there's no more fighting for me and my attention. I dislike to be bored and always initiating conversation. I dislike when a man gets comfortable, I don't like feeling like a trophy won to be sat on a display case and that's all (why I felt compelled to leave a libra). Hanging out is cool for bonding but it can become smothering so once a week becomes ok unless this person is everything to me.

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
A relationship with the wrong person is awful,however with the right person it's beautiful. I don't really date much after two failed relationships. I've found when I do date there's a hidden curiosity to unravel the personality and being of the person : spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. I don't like unbalanced situations, if someone's giving more than I am I'm either suffocating or that means I'm backing out of a prefailing relationship. If I'm giving more it's not a problem at first until I see there's no more fighting for me and my attention. I dislike to be bored and always initiating conversation. I dislike when a man gets comfortable, I don't like feeling like a trophy won to be sat on a display case and that's all (why I felt compelled to leave a libra). Hanging out is cool for bonding but it can become smothering so once a week becomes ok unless this person is everything to me.

So if im ever in a relationship w one, i should kinda wait for the sign to go more or less affectionate? Like follow his rhythm type of thing? give as much as he does all the time? ... that kinda sucks.

I know the Aqua with earth placements would NEVER do that. he wouldn't even date a girl that his friend likes or anything, so he'd never do anything like that. he wouldn't even try to hit it and quit it. he's sensitive and cares about others and their feelings too much to do anything remotely close to that.

the Aqua with fire... I think if it was his brother's ex, he would never betray his brother like that but if he DID pursue her it would be solely for sex and nothing more than that. he definitely wouldn't have a relationship with her. he loves his brothers and values them very highly. even if he was the one originally in love with this girl I don't see him ever fully pursuing her because of his love and respect for his family. but he loves his sex so that may be potential....however I don't see him doing that to his brother either...but you never know I suppose.

I always tell people keep it lite. Proportion is everything. Like you would load tons of ketchup on fries because ketchup is not desired now cheese and chilli is what people want. Haha this reminds me of my best friends wedding where she says you can never be jello. Crazy. But yes give out what he gives out. Follow his rhythm. Occasionally if you know what he likes as far as food or outdoor activities (because we love those two combinations) treat him to it. However don't overdo anything unless it unconditionally comes from the heart because we'll know you're trying to hard and it comes off as not being genuine. I tell people if it takes more than 5-10 seconds to say it or do it just don't because you thought to long on it trying to tailor to me to impress instead of giving me honesty felt from your heart. So let things flow naturally look for playfulness on his end and extra special treatment before concluding he likes you because aquas are friendly with many make sure the signs are interpreted right. Then proportion what you do to show him how special he is to you. Secretly everyone wants to be loved just have to know how to express that love but on a go with the flow type.

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
I always tell people keep it lite. Proportion is everything. Like you would load tons of ketchup on fries because ketchup is not desired now cheese and chilli is what people want. Haha this reminds me of my best friends wedding where she says you can never be jello. Crazy. But yes give out what he gives out. Follow his rhythm. Occasionally if you know what he likes as far as food or outdoor activities (because we love those two combinations) treat him to it. However don't overdo anything unless it unconditionally comes from the heart because we'll know you're trying to hard and it comes off as not being genuine. I tell people if it takes more than 5-10 seconds to say it or do it just don't because you thought to long on it trying to tailor to me to impress instead of giving me honesty felt from your heart. So let things flow naturally look for playfulness on his end and extra special treatment before concluding he likes you because aquas are friendly with many make sure the signs are interpreted right. Then proportion what you do to show him how special he is to you. Secretly everyone wants to be loved just have to know how to express that love but on a go with the flow type.

food and outdoor activities are some of my fav too. lol and i can never pretend, i dont know how to do it and i dont intend to learn. I feel like one should do things only if they come from the heart. But i might feel scared to be myself cause im constantly being told aquas are this and that. So i feel like i have to watch out my every move. I even had a nightmare once, when i was rubbing something off his face and he stormed off and started to talk to other girls infront of me telling them he was single. LMFAO gosh i get so paranoid.

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I know the Aqua with earth placements would NEVER do that. he wouldn't even date a girl that his friend likes or anything, so he'd never do anything like that. he wouldn't even try to hit it and quit it. he's sensitive and cares about others and their feelings too much to do anything remotely close to that.

the Aqua with fire... I think if it was his brother's ex, he would never betray his brother like that but if he DID pursue her it would be solely for sex and nothing more than that. he definitely wouldn't have a relationship with her. he loves his brothers and values them very highly. even if he was the one originally in love with this girl I don't see him ever fully pursuing her because of his love and respect for his family. but he loves his sex so that may be potential....however I don't see him doing that to his brother either...but you never know I suppose.

Thank you so much for your time!

I understand quite often I find it hard to be myself wait well I'm always myself but in front of certain people I like I'll compromise to let them get the stage or try not to be so brash or weird or anti social. You may notice he has more female friends than male friends or equal friends but girls talk to him more than his male buddies. I am female so I find men befriend me quicker than females. It often takes hurting their feelings rudely to get them to understand their position on my life as nothing more than a friend. But valentine aquas are very special. If you've found one you got your eye on you'll find you became friends quickly. Are you guys mutual on dating one day or are you both in different places in your lives? If he wants you out the friend zone he'll show you unless he's spending time unraveling you. Buy just know when the time is right he won't waste time asking you out to know more about you.

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Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
I understand quite often I find it hard to be myself wait well I'm always myself but in front of certain people I like I'll compromise to let them get the stage or try not to be so brash or weird or anti social. You may notice he has more female friends than male friends or equal friends but girls talk to him more than his male buddies. I am female so I find men befriend me quicker than females. It often takes hurting their feelings rudely to get them to understand their position on my life as nothing more than a friend. But valentine aquas are very special. If you've found one you got your eye on you'll find you became friends quickly. Are you guys mutual on dating one day or are you both in different places in your lives? If he wants you out the friend zone he'll show you unless he's spending time unraveling you. Buy just know when the time is right he won't waste time asking you out to know more about you.

honestly, i dont even know him that well. basically, (i know this is gonna be like wth) but hes my exes brother. Idk why, i always knew there was something there, but im a loyal person and didnt pay much attention to it. My ex told me once he randomly came upto him and told him he found me attractive. After breaking up w my ex, i contacted the guy asking about his brother, & at the end of the convo i let him know i only needed an excuse to talk to him. to which he didnt respond ofcourse. i wasnt expecting him to either. After i messged him, he deleted comments from his public pics of him replying to random girls comments and unliked them too. I dont know why, but hes so intriguing i feel like i can wait cause i really want to get to know him on a personal level. Just to find out if i was right about him

I normally erase certain things if I see an interest that someone may have just because I know they scan my page. If your ex is ok with you dating his brother then I guess that's an opportunity for you to go with the flow to see where it goes. I have fire and air placements mostly as the other user mentioned about her friend. So I'm not for dating someone whom someone else I'm close to has dated but with guys it'll be slightly different. If he's been watching you this whole time intrigued of you he'll try to slow unravel the mystery of you. Who knows he probably was even secretly jealous that he brother had snagged you first. Aquarius are shy they rarely make the first move unless you have an outgoing one. They normally just flirt and end up losing a good thing but others are different. What's your sign by the way?

Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
I normally erase certain things if I see an interest that someone may have just because I know they scan my page. If your ex is ok with you dating his brother then I guess that's an opportunity for you to go with the flow to see where it goes. I have fire and air placements mostly as the other user mentioned about her friend. So I'm not for dating someone whom someone else I'm close to has dated but with guys it'll be slightly different. If he's been watching you this whole time intrigued of you he'll try to slow unravel the mystery of you. Who knows he probably was even secretly jealous that he brother had snagged you first. Aquarius are shy they rarely make the first move unless you have an outgoing one. They normally just flirt and end up losing a good thing but others are different. What's your sign by the way?

hahaha. but whats the point of doing that? i mean, they wernt bad comments. dyou guys get paranoid?. and im a cancer sun virgo ascendant. But when i read about compatibility between these two signs, they always mention that the cancer ladys clingy ways and her deep emotion is a prob. thing is, im no where near clingy, and im not 100% feelings, i also take my sweet time to analyze things so id say maybe 50 50. btw thanks for replying to me, its hard to get hold of an aqua man on these pages -_-. so selfish when it comes to sharing their nature lool they wont even bother replying

Yeah, it's like most of it can be innocent other times we know certain people on that page can start trouble when and if they get wind you're interested in someone or talking to someone. Most of the time I just don't want people to think I'm involved just by a comment. Well I've dated a cancer when I was in my teens things meshed very well. But he was a cheaper we tried three times but I was foolish in my early twenty year old stage a met another cancer very clingy didn't follow the warning signs but he was convinced to pursue anyway. The last cancer I met was just too pushy to meet me and I wasn't on the same page as him in life. But it can be possible with compromise and not overthinking. And lol they are probably just not sure if they want to reply or they skim the board or the response they started to type they got lazy halfway through and erased it.

born feb 14 here
in a relationship i am really loyal and kind of a push over lol i tend to give my gfs a whole lot of freedom.
i am a spoiler i usually always give my gf their way even when i dont want to
not really affectionate but i do enjoy cuddling and kissing
but im not the type to walk around holding hands n stuff like that....honestly i am a little embarrassed by PDA lol i feel like it attracts attention. i like to be reserved in public and wild in private

its really hard for me not to flirt with other girls! idk why it is just in my nature.... but i dont mean anything by it but it always fucks up my relationships so i would say that is a big flaw
and i am very moody and require a lot of alone time so there will be spells where i do not communicate so much
i am also very slow to commit i will drag on the "talking" stage or the pre dating phase as long as i can. relationships are not something i push for but when it happens it happens...i only got with my last gf because she threatened to leave me if i did not lolol

Posted by WaterBearerer
born feb 14 here
in a relationship i am really loyal and kind of a push over lol i tend to give my gfs a whole lot of freedom.
i am a spoiler i usually always give my gf their way even when i dont want to
not really affectionate but i do enjoy cuddling and kissing
but im not the type to walk around holding hands n stuff like that....honestly i am a little embarrassed by PDA lol i feel like it attracts attention. i like to be reserved in public and wild in private

its really hard for me not to flirt with other girls! idk why it is just in my nature.... but i dont mean anything by it but it always fucks up my relationships so i would say that is a big flaw
and i am very moody and require a lot of alone time so there will be spells where i do not communicate so much
i am also very slow to commit i will drag on the "talking" stage or the pre dating phase as long as i can. relationships are not something i push for but when it happens it happens...i only got with my last gf because she threatened to leave me if i did not lolol

Wooo ðŸ‘👠lmao finally . I find this quite relatable and im a cancer. Okay i have a q, have you ever been attracted to a cancer/virgo? Do you know any? And hows the relationship w them. Sorry for the whole load of q. I know i said just one but i need to know these things so if youre willing might as well use this opportunity (: lol

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Posted by WaterBearerer
born feb 14 here
in a relationship i am really loyal and kind of a push over lol i tend to give my gfs a whole lot of freedom.
i am a spoiler i usually always give my gf their way even when i dont want to
not really affectionate but i do enjoy cuddling and kissing
but im not the type to walk around holding hands n stuff like that....honestly i am a little embarrassed by PDA lol i feel like it attracts attention. i like to be reserved in public and wild in private

its really hard for me not to flirt with other girls! idk why it is just in my nature.... but i dont mean anything by it but it always fucks up my relationships so i would say that is a big flaw
and i am very moody and require a lot of alone time so there will be spells where i do not communicate so much
i am also very slow to commit i will drag on the "talking" stage or the pre dating phase as long as i can. relationships are not something i push for but when it happens it happens...i only got with my last gf because she threatened to leave me if i did not lolol

Wooo ðŸ‘👠lmao finally . I find this quite relatable and im a cancer. Okay i have a q, have you ever been attracted to a cancer/virgo? Do you know any? And hows the relationship w them. Sorry for the whole load of q. I know i said just one but i need to know these things so if youre willing might as well use this opportunity (: lol

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lolol no problem i only know a few cancer girls and they are all like crush/friends. one of them though i really like and we have had crushes on eachother since we were little and we both know it and talk about it but we have never dated or anything.
its kinda weird but our friendship is really cute.
i dont know if we could date though i am a little too wacky for her probably lol i have to hide my wild side from her or she will think im crazy
we have very different outlooks on life

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Posted by WaterBearerer
born feb 14 here
in a relationship i am really loyal and kind of a push over lol i tend to give my gfs a whole lot of freedom.
i am a spoiler i usually always give my gf their way even when i dont want to
not really affectionate but i do enjoy cuddling and kissing
but im not the type to walk around holding hands n stuff like that....honestly i am a little embarrassed by PDA lol i feel like it attracts attention. i like to be reserved in public and wild in private

its really hard for me not to flirt with other girls! idk why it is just in my nature.... but i dont mean anything by it but it always fucks up my relationships so i would say that is a big flaw
and i am very moody and require a lot of alone time so there will be spells where i do not communicate so much
i am also very slow to commit i will drag on the "talking" stage or the pre dating phase as long as i can. relationships are not something i push for but when it happens it happens...i only got with my last gf because she threatened to leave me if i did not lolol

Wooo ðŸ‘👠lmao finally . I find this quite relatable and im a cancer. Okay i have a q, have you ever been attracted to a cancer/virgo? Do you know any? And hows the relationship w them. Sorry for the whole load of q. I know i said just one but i need to know these things so if youre willing might as well use this opportunity (: lol

lolol no problem i only know a few cancer girls and they are all like crush/friends. one of them though i really like and we have had crushes on eachother since we were little and we both know it and talk about it but we have never dated or anything.
its kinda weird but our friendship is really cute.
i dont know if we could date though i am a little too wacky for her probably lol i have to hide my wild side from her or she will think im crazy
we have very different outlooks on life

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So you dont think theyre too emotional/sweet/mushy/soft as some aquas have mentioned before? Lol ok here goes another q. If your bruva screwed up w her fiance , and the girl wanted to get to know yo

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Posted by WaterBearerer
born feb 14 here
in a relationship i am really loyal and kind of a push over lol i tend to give my gfs a whole lot of freedom.
i am a spoiler i usually always give my gf their way even when i dont want to
not really affectionate but i do enjoy cuddling and kissing
but im not the type to walk around holding hands n stuff like that....honestly i am a little embarrassed by PDA lol i feel like it attracts attention. i like to be reserved in public and wild in private

its really hard for me not to flirt with other girls! idk why it is just in my nature.... but i dont mean anything by it but it always fucks up my relationships so i would say that is a big flaw
and i am very moody and require a lot of alone time so there will be spells where i do not communicate so much
i am also very slow to commit i will drag on the "talking" stage or the pre dating phase as long as i can. relationships are not something i push for but when it happens it happens...i only got with my last gf because she threatened to leave me if i did not lolol

Wooo ðŸ‘👠lmao finally . I find this quite relatable and im a cancer. Okay i have a q, have you ever been attracted to a cancer/virgo? Do you know any? And hows the relationship w them. Sorry for the whole load of q. I know i said just one but i need to know these things so if youre willing might as well use this opportunity (: lol

lolol no problem i only know a few cancer girls and they are all like crush/friends. one of them though i really like and we have had crushes on eachother since we were little and we both know it and talk about it but we have never dated or anything.
its kinda weird but our friendship is really cute.
i dont know if we could date though i am a little too wacky for her probably lol i have to hide my wild side from her or she will think im crazy
we have very different outlooks on life

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Bloody hell the message got cut. Lmfao so i was saying if the ex fiance wanted to get to know you would you give it a shot ? Make your answer as detailed as possible please ¬😋

they are a little mushy lol but i wouldnt mind it its just not ideal for me, id rather be with someone that more affectionate than me but not "mushy".
as far as dating my brothers ex of any kind HELL NO lol me and my brother are way too close for that i could never betray my family just for a relationship
i dont really even like dating exes of my boys its weird but if i felt like it was true love or something i would give it a shot but never by real blood bro no way

i already know my paranoid ass would think she was just doin it for revenge lmao u gotta watch these mfs

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i already know my paranoid ass would think she was just doin it for revenge lmao u gotta watch these mfs

Well these are just the stereotypes. I have deep feelings , but i hate showing them (but i guess thats just me idk)
& oh well, thats a shame, i was really interested in getting to know the lad . Youre probably right & theres no chance. What to do . Thanks anyway (:

Posted by DwellingOnMove
My Aqua gf was shortly married to a Scorpio. From another continent.

Then she had a relationship where she prayed to God to get her a child. And she got a daughter. But they did not stay in that relationship. The man was an Aqua. She found him complicated. The father of her daughter still cares for his child. Specially when the daughter moved from the big city to a village and started studying at the university. There the father helped a lot to set the house. It was a historical place. They had to renew it.

Meanwhile my gf had have a long disctance relationship with aother man whose face was burned by fire (or was it a disease?). For more than a decade. When she got retired she stayed in the same city. He became sad and married his nurse. After five years he died.

When he married she talked to him and said that she felt hurt to hear too late that he'd married. He said you did not want to move to my city. She told you never told me that you wanted this.

My gf has Pisces somewhere in her chart.

I didnt get the whole picture , but what i got was enough to make me go like wth?! Thats crazy lol

You have got to be joking me. I have so much to say, but I'm not even going to waste my time.

Posted by AquaMermaid
notafollower, I just wanted to ask if "helenthelion" is your account because the story is very similar.

Ive enough with one account lol thanks. & whats her story?

Posted by degenerate_ingenue
You have got to be joking me. I have so much to say, but I'm not even going to waste my time.

Im sorry did I say something wrong?.
You shouldnt hold back , your point of view might be beneficial and i wont get but hurt or anything.

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notafollower, I just wanted to ask if "helenthelion" is your account because the story is very similar.

Ive enough with one account lol thanks. & whats her story?

Cancer lady crushing on fiance/boyfriend's Aquarius cousin. Even both of your writing styles match.

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Haha well she is a cancer. I mean if you wanna think its me go ahead. Lmao ive no problem , though i dont understand why id pretend to be two people— As i think im quite straight forward?? Lol

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notafollower, I just wanted to ask if "helenthelion" is your account because the story is very similar.

Ive enough with one account lol thanks. & whats her story?

Cancer lady crushing on fiance/boyfriend's Aquarius cousin. Even both of your writing styles match.

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Ps : she better spell properly if youre comparing me to her .