Are you ever * ontime ?* (Page 2)

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol yes

You aren't Aqua...

And of course!!! ?

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol yes

You r a scorpio lol

lol does it matter? ? I'm always late tho lol

Interesting lol

Lol once on a date I was late for 2hrs picking her up lol

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And she sat there waiting quietly and said 'thanks for showing up'?

I wouldn't proceed with THAT!

?

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We're always late. I end up standing around waiting for him for 15-20 minutes after he says he's ready (which is whenever the thing is we're going to starts). I'm sort of used to it though, my Virgo sun/Aqua moon dad was notorious for it. Except he demanded that everyone pile into the car NOW, while it took him 30 minutes to do whatever it was. But don't anyone DARE get out of the car while he's doing it. 😐

Hahaha !!! Yeah so it must b something about the Aqua being stuck in the moment. I sometimes get late too now that I think about i lolz but I at least let them know. I am known to be late for events birthdays or functions... hahaha oooopsss thanns for the reminder

But his Sag sister is worse, lol. Me, I'm always on time or a little early.

Yike ! Yes sag. They r not very good with time !! I feel like I just have to accept this part about him n if he says what time I will just say ok that means 1 hour after lol. I allowed it to bug me last night which in my head ruined our night.. I care more about this than the fact that he said he loves me... mmmm lol...

Yep. A few minutes can be anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour. I usually compensate and remind him an hour ahead, or if it's not an outing, just find something to do for a while and remind again 30 minutes later.

Yeah sounds like a good plan ! Thank you... random question, do u guys look into each other's eyes while having sex? He was almost passionately force me to look into his eyes while doing it like * babe look into my eyes... stare at me * he kept saying it during sex man I found that strange lol I always close my eyes during sex to feel the senses... I could c the hidden side of him the protective n the controlling side... does ur aqua the same?

No, he watches me with my eyes closed. He insists that I kiss him during. When we weren't seeing each other exclusively, there wasn't a lot of kissing during. Once he committed, it had to happen all the time.

Now there's a lot of kissing and he almost want that all the time which I love though the staring into the eyes thing was diffent. I wonder what that means... I think his inner controlling side is slowly coming out... yesterday I told him I was bringing my laptop to one of my guys friend to check out and to help me fix it and he's like * have u asked me to do that? * and I'm like no I havnt and he's like. * why didn't u ask me? * and I'm like * coz I know u r busy ! * and he's like * mmm*... wasn't so happy about that ... wow these were all new traits... is ur man the same? He told me for the first time he used to very very controlling but not anymore.. I think it's still hiding in there somewhere with him.... wow... not sure if I'm ready for this lol.... my Aqua moon is saying ... run run run .... he's been so * serious *

He's very possessive in a passive-agressive way. 8th house moon, very suspicious, but he won't ever tell me not to do something. He'll sulk or ask lots of questions, or just say, "hm", like yours. If I'm not doing anything that should make him wonder, then I don’t respond or react. Let him deal with his own insecurity.

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Mmm sounds alot like mine

Posted by saweetz1988
That's for Aqua sun. sorry it posted early I didn't have a chance to fix things up properly .. like do you sometimes making false promises of meeting friends and all and can't keep your words? Do you cancel plans or change plans alot? And lastly are you almost always late?

YES. YES. YES.

It usually happens because I don't like to be rushed to places, I like taking my time getting ready, and I tell this to everyone.

Don't rush me! I get cranky.

I do change plans a lot but it's because I'm very curious so if there is one thing happening and there might be something else I go into details to find out which one is worth going.

Cancel yes, I tell my friends I'm going and I might not go. They know me by now.

BUT BUT BUT... I never cancel on the guy I like unless something actually happens. if I don't like him then possibly.

Yeah, my Aqua doesn't like to make plans in advance or to make forced promises. But when he makes those plans, he sticks to them and he always keeps the promises he voluntarily makes. Late? Never! He always arrives on time or a few minutes earlier. Unless it is a leisure visit to my place, I am at home and he can be late up to 30 minutes, which nobody minds, since we only spend time at home and the visits are many hours long.

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol yes

You r a scorpio lol

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so there's never been a late scorpio?

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Posted by lisabethur8
well I worked for an insurance company for 7 years straight full time. and 4 years full time at a restaurant, even assistant manager.

sooooo someone kept me for that long. I quit too, I never got fired. only quit because I moved.

never got warnings, nothing.

Yeah.. well if it's work related I thin Aqua r pretty good. But when it comes to punctuality with friendships or lovers I'm not so sure. They seem to get caught up in the moment or something. Though maybe it's not a sign related

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i'd rather be in the moment kind of gal anyway.

the other day we were all hiking and we're in a group, and aweing at alot of scenery and beauty of nature,

and someone mentioned to me, "you're lucky you're so so in the moment. not many wives and mothers are like that...they are always bitching and whining and can't really enjoy life...and go with the flow"

living in the moment and loving life.

alot of people have alot of misery and they are hard to be around for sure. misery loves company and life is too short!!! we could die anytime.

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Posted by saweetz1988
That's for Aqua sun. sorry it posted early I didn't have a chance to fix things up properly .. like do you sometimes making false promises of meeting friends and all and can't keep your words? Do you cancel plans or change plans alot? And lastly are you almost always late?

YES. YES. YES.

It usually happens because I don't like to be rushed to places, I like taking my time getting ready, and I tell this to everyone.

Don't rush me! I get cranky.

I do change plans a lot but it's because I'm very curious so if there is one thing happening and there might be something else I go into details to find out which one is worth going.

Cancel yes, I tell my friends I'm going and I might not go. They know me by now.

BUT BUT BUT... I never cancel on the guy I like unless something actually happens. if I don't like him then possibly.

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Hahah you sound a lot like him.. esp the curious part and the taking the time to get ready IMAo.. he's never canceled on me though. Pffff... fear of missing out hey?

Posted by lisabethur8

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well I worked for an insurance company for 7 years straight full time. and 4 years full time at a restaurant, even assistant manager.

sooooo someone kept me for that long. I quit too, I never got fired. only quit because I moved.

never got warnings, nothing.

Yeah.. well if it's work related I thin Aqua r pretty good. But when it comes to punctuality with friendships or lovers I'm not so sure. They seem to get caught up in the moment or something. Though maybe it's not a sign related

i'd rather be in the moment kind of gal anyway.

the other day we were all hiking and we're in a group, and aweing at alot of scenery and beauty of nature,

and someone mentioned to me, "you're lucky you're so so in the moment. not many wives and mothers are like that...they are always bitching and whining and can't really enjoy life...and go with the flow"

living in the moment and loving life.

alot of people have alot of misery and they are hard to be around for sure. misery loves company and life is too short!!! we could die anytime.

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I do love love love love living in the moment but when I cud b sleeping coz he said he was coming and was running late now that wasn't cool... I do enjoy my sleeping beauty moment.. though now I know what the deal is.... LoL

Posted by compy
Yeah, my Aqua doesn't like to make plans in advance or to make forced promises. But when he makes those plans, he sticks to them and he always keeps the promises he voluntarily makes. Late? Never! He always arrives on time or a few minutes earlier. Unless it is a leisure visit to my place, I am at home and he can be late up to 30 minutes, which nobody minds, since we only spend time at home and the visits are many hours long.

Yeb this is visiting my home maybe that's why .. 😉

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Posted by lisabethur8
well I worked for an insurance company for 7 years straight full time. and 4 years full time at a restaurant, even assistant manager.

sooooo someone kept me for that long. I quit too, I never got fired. only quit because I moved.

never got warnings, nothing.

Yeah.. well if it's work related I thin Aqua r pretty good. But when it comes to punctuality with friendships or lovers I'm not so sure. They seem to get caught up in the moment or something. Though maybe it's not a sign related

i'd rather be in the moment kind of gal anyway.

the other day we were all hiking and we're in a group, and aweing at alot of scenery and beauty of nature,

and someone mentioned to me, "you're lucky you're so so in the moment. not many wives and mothers are like that...they are always bitching and whining and can't really enjoy life...and go with the flow"

living in the moment and loving life.

alot of people have alot of misery and they are hard to be around for sure. misery loves company and life is too short!!! we could die anytime.

I do love love love love living in the moment but when I cud b sleeping coz he said he was coming and was running late now that wasn't cool... I do enjoy my sleeping beauty moment.. though now I know what the deal is.... LoL

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no one has time for that.



if you can't be on time OR at least around 5 mins/ before or after, i'll even give 15 mins lee-way for traffic and stuff....

no one can be super on time all the time, due to traffic and stuff.

we have a best friend who is consistently late, and we dont care cause...well...

so what??

it's not like it's an important event.

if we have to get to a film/movie that starts at a certain time, then he better be there, which he has consistently. so he is on time with that stuff.

however just to hang out and chill....

we dont care if he's 15-20 late...we already know he's gonna be over and chill and i'm already making dinner.

(like a dinner plan , barbeque ect.

my husband isn't anal retentive about that stuff either,

he IS ...ONLY if we do have to go to a film, (because there is a SET TIME) or we have a dinner meeting, with someone else who we dont want to DISRESPECT.....

but if it's just "us"...we're pretty chill.

cause we aren't anal retentive about that stuff. but with other pepple's time, we are not gonna squander it..becuase it's disrespectful.



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however if you are an HOUR late....

or even 45 mins..



we expect some phone call, like you got into an accident or there is TRAFFIC.

cause that's just too damn long to wait...and it is bordering on disrespectful to us...even though we are chill.

we are NOT that chill.....we have a limit.