can you be honest w/ an aquarius?

Like can you tell them: "you are a great person when you aren't moody and haven't isolated yourself from the world"
Its like the person i met isn't the one i see now: pessimistic, selfish, and no fun. How can someone have 2 such complete different personalities? Hell, I'm moody...but i can snap out of it w/ a talk from a good friend. This aqua man will stay there and wallow...meanwhile the people that really care get pushed away. Do they "snap out of it" eventually? I don't think I have ever met someone so needy, yet so unwilling to return the favor if you are in need...unless he feels like it.

thats hilarious! i guess it would make anyone react in a negative way. but why always the walking on eggshells with aquas? i can take a hard hit w/ out hiding. in fact i welcome a little self-enlightenment.

its not necessarily annoying. i just find it very high maintenance for someone who is so aloof and gives very little back. (i'm generalizing here).

aguaaqi, i appreciate your response. being a cancer...although no crybaby! i respond best to reciprocation, so its tough. i guess in the end i just need to know enough that if i left i would be missed and it wasn't all in vain. i find it to be a very good relationship b/c it lets me think on a more logical level, rather than emotional when i put myself in his shoes.