All of them are different. How they are has to do with their birth chart but also how they were raised/ their influences. Some are affectionate and some aren't. My ex was a mix. His birth chart is Aquarius, Taurus rising, Cancer moon. Mine is Cancer, Virgo rising, Gemini moon. When I first met him I had no idea we'd end up in a relationship. I met him through a friend and I and my friend noticed he took an interest in me. He would ask when I was coming over cause he was always at their house, offer me rides and we talked a bit over facebook/text but he took his time to ask me out and kiss me/initiate anything. I think it was because I am a small woman and he is a bigger man, maybe I appeared too innocent but I had wanted him to kiss me. We saw each other for 6 months and dated for about 5.We agreed no relationship to begin with but then I wanted more and he didn't seem interested at times or like he cared so I cut him off then 2 weeks later he'd message me to hook up which I didn't mind that much but I still felt I was worth more than that. We were good when just talking but when we started dating we would question each other, argue and just do stupid stuff. It was both of us I won't give him all the blame however the things he did, lied about were worse than I. I've never cheated on anyone and fear being cheated on so was insecure when he would have all these hot girls who were half naked on his instagram, I would express how I felt but nothing changed. I could deal with it though, it's just social media and I loved him but he would get disrespectful towards me sometimes, probably cause I told him things about my past cause I thought I could trust him and it wouldn't be thrown in my face but I was wrong. He's told me about his past too but no matter how mad I got I'd try to keep calm and not do the same to him. I only did about things that had to do with us, not before us. I've blown up at him once and regretted it and promised never to again and ever since that have remained calmer during arguments. The last straw was when we had a disagreement over different opinions and he made an ignorant comment to me that was about me so I said I'm out. He was surprised I broke it off over, what he told our mutual friends was a "joke" but I could tell in his tone it was anything but. He didn't even seem to care he hurt me but I was still sensitive toward his feelings and would never put him down even though I could have, I just never wanted him to feel insecure or depressed. I know he did care about me and love me but he loves himself more and has too much ego and pride for me. He would be affectionate sometimes but a lot of times I would have to ask for affection and attention cause I was second to his phone it seemed. He also didn't try to get to know me too much but would have me sleepover almost every night, his mom loved me and he treated me like family. Always make me food or give me rides if I needed them and he did have a sweet side...
