Do any other air signs suffer from asexual tendencies?

I'm not an Aquarius sun but I have several inner planets in Aquarius (including Venus and Mars conjunct) residing in a stellium and I've noticed over the years that the thought of sex is way more desirable to me than the actual act of sex. It got to a point where I thought something was wrong with me because I could really get going thinking anout having sex but when I finally hooked up with the girl, it paled in comparison to my own thoughts simply because it didn't feel as good.

I was wondering if any other Air Venus or Mars signs suffer from this too. I've read that Gemini Mars also doesn't have sex but then I've also heard Geminis can be very open with their sexuality and disloyalty in relationships (Might only apply to the Venus idk).

Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

I want to try new things. I find that if we do the same thing all the time, I get bored. I usually don't say anything though because I don't want to be selfish. I want to try something new, spontaneous, and crazy. I want to wear costumes, try new places in the house, swing from things, do the forbidden (maybe outside or in a car?). I do need mental stimulation as well! I like it hot with verbal sounds and mental flirting. I like when we start foreplay through a text message during the day. I like when we tease each other all day. I like the fun and light heartedness of flirting. I think that's a gemini trait. Anyways, this is too TMI! Basically, this is my personal experience being an air mars. I think it also depends on the other aspects in your chart. libra venus is also very mental. they likes the verbal banter just as much as I do.

ah nice, I just need to trim that a little to my liking.... and perfect that's my answers to this topic 😆

@Jarax

"I've read that Gemini Mars also doesn't have sex"

gemini mars here, I don't NEED sex, but I would have sex with anyone that provide the right mental stimulation, like right here and now lmao

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Posted by Jarax

I'm not an Aquarius sun but I have several inner planets in Aquarius (including Venus and Mars conjunct) residing in a stellium and I've noticed over the years that the thought of sex is way more desirable to me than the actual act of sex. It got to a point where I thought something was wrong with me because I could really get going thinking anout having sex but when I finally hooked up with the girl, it paled in comparison to my own thoughts simply because it didn't feel as good.

I was wondering if any other Air Venus or Mars signs suffer from this too. I've read that Gemini Mars also doesn't have sex but then I've also heard Geminis can be very open with their sexuality and disloyalty in relationships (Might only apply to the Venus idk).

Okay, my answer may be a little raunchy! yes, to an extent. I find that I have a very high libido and I don't really know why. I think it may be my virgo placements though... Anyways, I am a Gemini stellium (mars, venus, and mercury) and I find that I crave novelty. Now, I do not mean novelty in a person. Thanks to my water and earth placements, I am absolutely very monogamous and am only in love/ want one person. However, I crave sitational novelty during relations. I want to try new things (BUT OH NO! Not with other people). I find that if we do the same thing all the time, I get bored. I usually don't say anything though because I don't want to be selfish. My boyfriend has his mars in virgo... so, I don't know if that has anything to do with it. Anyways, he's content and wants to just have fun in the bed while I want to try something new, spontaneous, and crazy. I want to wear costumes, try new places in the house, swing from things, do the forbidden (maybe outside or in a car?).

I think my gemini venus makes me kind of wild and crazy when it comes to these things but I would never consider being disloyal in my relationship. However, I do need mental stimulation as well! I like it hot with verbal sounds and mental flirting. I like when we start foreplay through a text message during the day. I like when we tease each other all day. I like the fun and light heartedness of flirting. I think that's a gemini trait. Anyways, this is too TMI! Basically, this is my personal experience being an air venus/ mars. I think it also depends on the other aspects in your chart. My boyfriend is a libra venus and he is also very mental. He likes the verbal banter just as much as I do.

Is there anything you can do to make your sex life like your mental fantasies? I actually think this is a very normal aquarian energy to be asexual. Aquarians are very very mental and more so detach to be able to help the world on a grand scheme. Maybe you're just too advanced for this world? : )! I mean, you guys are the Humanitarians of the zodiac.. These are just my assumptions

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Thank you for sharing such intimate details lmaoooo. I've thought about what I'd have to do to bring my reality in line with my fantasies and a deeper connection might really be the answer. I've never had a serious gf so I feel like I've never had real sex. It's disappointing because the girl always tells me how much fun she had or how enjoyable it was ( During sex, I tend to put their needs before my own. I'm always afraid of being that shitty lay that so many girls have told me about durong conversation.) and I'm left feeling pretty unsatisfied. I suppose this is what most girls go through when the guy gets off and she doesn't.

I've definitely thought about local and global volunteer work. The world needs it now more than ever with the crazy shit going on. I just have a huge problem with procrastination so I'd have to force myself to do it.

For a deeper insight into my chart:

http://imgur.com/PvXjNoY

Nope, I'm a Sapiosexual- not that romance and emotions aren't considered..its just intelligence trumps all.

This doesn't mean just being book smart and spitting out facts. At times I think im also a Demisexual-means that someone falls halfway between sexual and asexual. They can feel sexual attraction, but only after they have already formed an emotional bond with someone. So Guess im ultimately a - sapio-demisexual? haha

LOL. I’m just like you and I’m Aqua stellium.