Going cold

I'm an Aquarian I have a shitload of air and almost equal parts water and fire, I'm not as cold and detached as most Aquarians and I'm definately not as unemotional and ineffective but I will say that when I'm cold, I'm cold and I don't mean cold hearted just my feelings go numb for people and I just don't care about them anymore. I've spent a good chunk of my life giving a fuck about what people think of me and into my late 20s I've been caring less and less what people think of me and even more so now that I'm 30, if someone doesn't give a fuck about me I am well aware that I am in a world filled with millions of people who are capable of giving me what I need and I am more than willing and able to give them my energy. But those that are close to me who take my warmth for granted have yet to understand what it's like when I've reached my point and I don't have anymore love for them...

I've read a lot into some of the topics on this site, I don't believe in mixed signals anymore, I can read them loud and clear and when I see with my own eyes that someone doesn't love me the way I need to be well then I guess it's time to move on.

Couldn't agree more. I have also, as I've aged, been as willing to put up with peoples crap....especially friends. It's hard to find people that genuinely love and appreciate you for the person you are. I have very few friends because I don't deal with people that can't appreciate how awesome I am 🙂 Plus, Aquarians make the best friends. It's says a lot about the "friends" we choose that deny/reject our loyalty.

I also love me some "Me Time"