He wants exclusiveness

Should I seal the deal, or breeze through this blissful summer?

Um can you see yourself being with him?

If not, don't waste his time. If you waste his, you're ultimately wasting yours too.

If you do like him & want to see where things go, seal the deal. There's a lot of fish in the sea. A good man who knows his worth isn't gonna stick around for too long when he's dealing with a female that may not know his worth or that may not appreciate his efforts.

Go get em! :-)

So be exclusive. See where it goes. Doesn't mean it has to be permanent. Just a trial run.

🙂

Krys very much so, and geez your right I guess I should see where the wind blows me in this. Thanks!

Cap!!! I guess I will give this a try.

Oh my gosh guys like I am so like ahhh emotions everywhere right now. He so caught me off guard, he said: "I need to know where I stand, I want to be your boyfriend. Do you want me to be? and how close or how far away am I from this opportunity?"

Not used to men being direct, going after what they want & taking the initiative to do the very things women wish they would, huh??! LOL

It's true. Some women are so used to men being afraid of commitment, playing a bunch of mind games beforehand, or making women do all the work/chasing, that when they finally find a man who doesn't have time for any of that, they don't know what to do with him lol

Yep, you found a good one.

He put his money where his mouth was. When they say that if a man truly wants you, he'll open up to you, tell you his intentions, snatch you up & do what he's gotta do to get/keep you, it's TRUE. And you've just found 'that guy' that a lot of women wish they could find.

Ya know, the guy who doesn't allow a woman to over-analyze everything b/c he's too busy answering her questions & allowing his actions to speak for him before she even has the chance to question or wonder where he stands.

He's laid the cards out on the table. If you like him enough, go get him. The grass isn't always gonna be greener on the other side.

However, if you're not yet ready for a commitment, don't jump into it. You don't have to accept every single offer given to you by a man. Yes yes women want/love commitment, but not all are exactly 100% ready when it's finally offered to them. And that's ok. Men know that scenario all too well.

If you're ready for it, if he's proven himself worthy of you & if you're really into him, go be with him. If you ever expect to find lasting love, you're gonna have to take risks & hope for the best anyways, so why not start now?! Who knows, the next guy may not be so direct, or be the kind of go getter this guy is.

you have to ask us? 😕

does your life decisions depend on us?

and he is even questioning you how he wants to be your boyfriend too. You're both indecisive. 😆

I love hearing advice from you always in the forums krys Thanks I'll take the chance of it.

And lol lisa not exactly just relationship wise advice isn't so bad well for those who know the situation which would be about 4. However you right I should be deciding and not seeking reinforcement, there's more behind it but that would take hours to explain.
Lol yes indeed doesn't help that I have mercury in libra and he's a libra himself.

Or just a plain ole' people's problem haha

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I love hearing advice from you always in the forums krys Thanks I'll take the chance of it.

And lol lisa not exactly just relationship wise advice isn't so bad well for those who know the situation which would be about 4. However you right I should be deciding and not seeking reinforcement, there's more behind it but that would take hours to explain.
Lol yes indeed doesn't help that I have mercury in libra and he's a libra himself.

oh ok. that may explain it.