Aqua man ghosted me 2 month now

Sun Aqua, Moon Cappy, 50 year old bloke, who cannot connect emotionally

Just read that over a few times ^^^

Posted by FutureSeeker
You are putting WAY too much energy into him and he isn't putting any into you. I'm sorry- you guys just aren't a match.

So much effort for someone she describes as 'self absorbed and selfish'. I mean...standards please.

He may like you, but there's prob someone else he's more interested in... It's common for them to like and flirt with multiple girls at the same time.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by FutureSeeker
You are putting WAY too much energy into him and he isn't putting any into you. I'm sorry- you guys just aren't a match.

So much effort for someone she describes as 'self absorbed and selfish'. I mean...standards please.

I know this sounds horrible but... to complain and put someone's character down on one hand and then on the other do a "woe is me but I just like them soooooo much" is one of my BIGGEST pet peeves.

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I'm scratching my head trying to understand what there is to like...?

Sounds to me like she's more 'in like' with the idea of them being together than him as an individual. i would've walked as soon as he initiated talk of his poor treatment of ex's on their first meeting. Huge red flag.

Just a reminder... no matter how attractive you are, there always was/is someone else more attractive, more fun, more interesting, etc etc than you. Do yourself a favor and let it go. You could have met someone over these past two months already.

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Posted by FutureSeeker

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by FutureSeeker
You are putting WAY too much energy into him and he isn't putting any into you. I'm sorry- you guys just aren't a match.

So much effort for someone she describes as 'self absorbed and selfish'. I mean...standards please.

I know this sounds horrible but... to complain and put someone's character down on one hand and then on the other do a "woe is me but I just like them soooooo much" is one of my BIGGEST pet peeves.

I'm scratching my head trying to understand what there is to like...?

Sounds to me like she's more 'in like' with the idea of them being together than him as an individual. i would've walked as soon as he initiated talk of his poor treatment of ex's on their first meeting. Huge red flag.

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I think OP wants this guy because he's unattenable. She wants to conquer him.

Sounds like he's full of shit. If he can brag about how poorly he treated his ex, how do you think he'll treat you? Theres a reason why this chap is still single.

Why is it so important for you to make it work with him? Have you already invested so much of yourself emotionally in the last 2 months?

Why excuse his actions as him 'sparing' you? "He didn't have sex with me because he doesn't want to hurt me. He stopped calling me because he doesn't want to hurt me".

Maybe if you slept with him you would get this out of your system and be able to move on..,

Run girl run..aquarius sun capricorn moon...he is an eternal bachelor. The only reason you're hung up on him is the fact that he knocked your socks off in the bedroom. He will never be able to give you the intimacy and love you deserve. Once you find someone else with the magic touch he will be a thing of the past.

The fact you went out of your way to block him or he could think you deleted your fb says you don't want anything to do with him so why would he then contact you. Also it makes you look clingy cause it obviously has a big impact over you.