Help with Aquarius man

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Kobelover41196 on Monday, November 21, 2022 and has 19 replies.

Understanding Aquarius Men and Their Communication Patterns

Aquarius men are known for their independence and emotional distance at times. They value honesty and space, which can cause them to withdraw if they feel uncertain or overwhelmed. It is important to communicate openly and give them time to process their feelings. Patience and clarity can help improve your connection and understand their behavior better.

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@Kobelover41196
3 Years

Could you please give insight on a Aquarius man. I have been talking to this Aquarius man for a month he is really sweet and initiates everything (all conversation and hangouts). He is pretty consistent and would talk at least 6 times out of the week. But last weekend we hung out and he stayed the night and saw a message on my phone saying “good morning babe” he then called me a player and ignored my text and calls the remainder of the day. I reached out to him again after giving him a day break and he responded a few times but was very distant and has been distant. Do you think he is done with me and gonna cut me off or is there still a chance to fix it. He then text me his new number and asked how i was doing but he is still very distant. Since i have his new number i have reached out to him and he usually responds each time but the conversation is short. I text him Friday when i was drunk and he was responsive and also asked why I didn’t come see him and he said he would call me but he didn’t ever call. Should i just give up or what should i do?

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@Kobelover41196
3 Years

@bumboklaat he doesn’t initiate anything anymore but i text him like once a week, is there anyway to get things back more consistent like they use to be?

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@Kobelover41196
3 Years

@laLueur I haven’t done anything to show i am trustworthy, i am not sure how to do that when we don’t talk like we used to talk. He never initiates conversation other then when he text me he new number but he use to initiate everything.

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@GemiMay
4 Years1,000+ Posts

Is this re-birth of the same thread that reached 1000 replies not so long ago and OP didn’t buy into one advise? 🤔

OP’s ex had texted her and Aqua called her a ‘player’ and dumped her ass and she is back with Volume.2

It was fun. Let’s do it again…🤦‍♀️

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@GemiMay
4 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Kobelover41196

@laLueur I haven’t done anything to show i am trustworthy, i am not sure how to do that when we don’t talk like we used to talk. He never initiates conversation other then when he text me he new number but he use to initiate everything.

Sooo find another man!

You started same thread about this one like he is last man standing. Maybe THATS WHY he is away. He saw you are obsessive…

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@GemiMay
4 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by Kobelover41196

@laLueur I haven’t done anything to show i am trustworthy, i am not sure how to do that when we don’t talk like we used to talk. He never initiates conversation other then when he text me he new number but he use to initiate everything.

Well yeah, you're getting good morning texts from other dudes calling you babe. You're lucky he is talking to you at all after that shit. Maybe block the other dudes you are talking to if you found one you wanna keep? You blew this one, he won't ever trust you.

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In old same thread I told her there is no ‘babe’ and no ‘good mornings’ when you in bed with another man!

No! She started same thread AGAIN!!!

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@GemiMay
4 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by Kobelover41196

@laLueur I haven’t done anything to show i am trustworthy, i am not sure how to do that when we don’t talk like we used to talk. He never initiates conversation other then when he text me he new number but he use to initiate everything.

Well yeah, you're getting good morning texts from other dudes calling you babe. You're lucky he is talking to you at all after that shit. Maybe block the other dudes you are talking to if you found one you wanna keep? You blew this one, he won't ever trust you.

In old same thread I told her there is no ‘babe’ and no ‘good mornings’ when you in bed with another man!

No! She started same thread AGAIN!!!

About the same dude or a different one?

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Exactly the same post! I think might be her name changed. This ‘good morning baby’ text and everything is THE SAME!

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@GemiMay
4 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by Kobelover41196

@laLueur I haven’t done anything to show i am trustworthy, i am not sure how to do that when we don’t talk like we used to talk. He never initiates conversation other then when he text me he new number but he use to initiate everything.

Well yeah, you're getting good morning texts from other dudes calling you babe. You're lucky he is talking to you at all after that shit. Maybe block the other dudes you are talking to if you found one you wanna keep? You blew this one, he won't ever trust you.

In old same thread I told her there is no ‘babe’ and no ‘good mornings’ when you in bed with another man!

No! She started same thread AGAIN!!!

About the same dude or a different one?

Exactly the same post! I think might be her name changed. This ‘good morning baby’ text and everything is THE SAME!

I don't know why people do that. They expecting a different response or what..

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I’ll say - young, nobody to talk to about it and most likely in love and really really denying it but doesn’t understand that people aren’t stupid and see thought the BS 😂😂😂

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

I don't think he's hurt. He's not done with you, he just isn't being as assertive. He's just treating you with less priority than before because he now knows your entertaining other options.

Instead on relying on him to initiate everything why don't you initiate? Show him he's worth the effort and you like the dude, if you do. A bit of reciprocity goes a long way.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

According to your posting history, this took place about three weeks ago.

If he hasn't contacted you since, I think it's fair to say that he moved on?

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@BaeMaxx
4 Years

Posted by Kobelover41196

Could you please give insight on a Aquarius man. I have been talking to this Aquarius man for a month he is really sweet and initiates everything (all conversation and hangouts). He is pretty consistent and would talk at least 6 times out of the week. But last weekend we hung out and he stayed the night and saw a message on my phone saying “good morning babe” he then called me a player and ignored my text and calls the remainder of the day. I reached out to him again after giving him a day break and he responded a few times but was very distant and has been distant. Do you think he is done with me and gonna cut me off or is there still a chance to fix it. He then text me his new number and asked how i was doing but he is still very distant. Since i have his new number i have reached out to him and he usually responds each time but the conversation is short. I text him Friday when i was drunk and he was responsive and also asked why I didn’t come see him and he said he would call me but he didn’t ever call. Should i just give up or what should i do?

I call bs on this. Why would someone text you good morning babe if nothing was going on? In your previous thread you said it was your ex who messaged you. Lol. Aqua men will sense bs a mile away. I don't think he will put all his eggs in your basket seeing that message pop up. He's gonna try and find someone that he can trust better.

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@GemiMay
4 Years1,000+ Posts

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@laLueur I haven’t done anything to show i am trustworthy, i am not sure how to do that when we don’t talk like we used to talk. He never initiates conversation other then when he text me he new number but he use to initiate everything.

Well yeah, you're getting good morning texts from other dudes calling you babe. You're lucky he is talking to you at all after that shit. Maybe block the other dudes you are talking to if you found one you wanna keep? You blew this one, he won't ever trust you.

In old same thread I told her there is no ‘babe’ and no ‘good mornings’ when you in bed with another man!

No! She started same thread AGAIN!!!

About the same dude or a different one?

Exactly the same post! I think might be her name changed. This ‘good morning baby’ text and everything is THE SAME!

I don't know why people do that. They expecting a different response or what..

I’ll say - young, nobody to talk to about it and most likely in love and really really denying it but doesn’t understand that people aren’t stupid and see thought the BS 😂😂😂

Can't be too in love if she hasn't done damage control and blocked the other dudes tryna msg her..

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You right…I don’t k ow why I said that…I am loosing my teeth 😂😂😂

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@Agua_Aqi_
3 Years

You need to explain why your brother is texting you, right? Either that, or maybe he doesn't want a freaky three way.