How to tell if an Aqua likes you?

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Here is his chart and mine what do you think?

Sun Aquarius 29.46 Ascendant Scorpio 14.47
Moon Pisces 21.26 II Sagittarius 14.26
Mercury Aquarius 13.55 R III Capricorn 18.52
Venus Aries 11.23 IV Aquarius 25.09
Mars Sagittarius 27.50 V Pisces 27.31
Jupiter Aries 26.24 VI Aries 23.43
Saturn Capricorn 0.26 VII Taurus 14.47
Uranus Capricorn 0.10 VIII Gemini 14.26
Neptune Capricorn 9.28 IX Cancer 18.52
Pluto Scorpio 12.35 R Midheaven Leo 25.09
Lilith Leo 20.30 XI Virgo 27.31
Asc node Pisces 23.22 XII Libra 23.43



Sun Libra 27.48 Ascendant Leo 9.34
Moon Cancer 23.58 II Virgo 1.45
Mercury Libra 14.23 III Virgo 28.25
Venus Sagittarius 13.55 IV Scorpio 0.31
Mars Libra 20.41 V Sagittarius 5.48
Jupiter Cancer 10.46 VI Capricorn 9.37
Saturn Capricorn 8.35 VII Aquarius 9.34
Uranus Capricorn 2.03 VIII Pisces 1.45
Neptune Capricorn 9.52 IX Pisces 28.25
Pluto Scorpio 14.27 Midheaven Taurus 0.31
Lilith Libra 28.27 XI Gemini 5.48
Asc node Aquarius 23.20 XII Cancer 9.37


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Holy crap....he has the same sun, moon, and venus as me.

So I'm not a guy, but here it is. Have lots of patience (#1), and don't get too emotional in the beginning no matter what. If he's reaching out that's a good thing. Also, if you guys are communicating frequently that's a good thing. He will be slow to truly open up, and needs reassurance on how you feel to do so. Don't try to play games. Keep it fun and light and treat it like a friendship. Find ways to do different things for dates, bring up topics away from the norm, and be spontaneous.

He does emotions, they are just buried deep inside. But they will eventually come out once he starts to get more comfortable and trusting around you. Good luck.
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Posted by thisismylife2015
Holy crap....he has the same sun, moon, and venus as me.

So I'm not a guy, but here it is. Have lots of patience (#1), and don't get too emotional in the beginning no matter what. If he's reaching out that's a good thing. Also, if you guys are communicating frequently that's a good thing. He will be slow to truly open up, and needs reassurance on how you feel to do so. Don't try to play games. Keep it fun and light and treat it like a friendship. Find ways to do different things for dates, bring up topics away from the norm, and be spontaneous.

He does emotions, they are just buried deep inside. But they will eventually come out once he starts to get more comfortable and trusting around you. Good luck.
Thanks so much he is talking, but I feel likt I might be coming on strong he is saying I am not though
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Posted by SubtleStorm
What are your birth years? I find Chinese astrology has a strong role to play in determining compatibility. Your charts seem compatible to me, and so I wouldn't stress over whether he likes you or not; instead, be patient, and be his friend - friendship is of value to Aquarians, and so is freedom. I share his Sun and Moon, so I can relate to your prospective lover; if he is interested in you, I believe he would initiate contact with you. He is a man after all, and if he speaks to you on his own accord, he undoubtedly finds you interesting. I suggest you give him more space than you'd prefer, but simultaneously show him that you're interested in as subtle a fashion as possible, and see what happens.
Thanks that sounds like sound advice! I was born in 1989 he was born in 1988.
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Are you serious? Look in the mirror you are stunning. I found this answer from a thread from 5 years ago. from krysrenee7
"Well every Aqua is different; hell every guy is different. BUT, generally there are a few things you could look for that Aquas usually & only do when they really like someone:

1. They'll start opening up about themselves more. Usually Aquas prefer for others to open up the cans of worms 1st. They want the other person to reveal the inner sides of their personality 1st so they can 1st see if they're even interested and/or to see if they admire where that person's head is/where they stand. If an Aqua actually starts openly volunteering things about themselves that the average person wouldn't discuss unless there was some admiration there, that's usually a good sign that the Aqua feels you are worth seeing their emotional side. And TRUST me, Aquas will do everything they can to keep as many people as possible away from this side of them.

2. If they start hanging with you alot more than usual. Aquas love having their space. And granted, even once they love someone, they'll STILL want their space. BUT for example, if your Aqua normally stays at home to themselves and/or goes & hangs with other friends other than you on certain days, BUT YET all of the sudden starts wanting to include you into the times they'd normally be to themselves, that's a good thing. That means an Aqua is okay with you occupying their space/time; and trust me, most people can never understand the whole "space" thing about Aquas b/c their personal space is something they usually don't let others into. So if they let you in and/or have an increased urge to see/talk to you, that's a GOOD sign!

3. They'll literally tell you. Aquas may not be big on showing lots of affection in the beginning, BUT if they like you, you'll be able to tell b/c how much they do for you/how much time they spend with you and what they share with you will dramatically increase! Sometimes it'll increase so much, the other person is literally left questioning their Aqua's intentions b/c of the random & sudden change. If they start showing you more affection, fitting you into their schedule (where they otherwise wouldn't have before), showing you off to their friends & family members, that's almost ALWAYS a good sign
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4. If they start testing you, that's actually a good thing. If an Aqua starts randomly throwing out serious but yet suspicious comments/remarks, it's b/c they're testing you. And honey they're testing you b/c you've gotten their attention. Sometimes they just want to be 100% sure they're not crushing on you off of pere emotion alone so they'll do a few more little tests just to make sure that they're not imagining things...yes they really do like you. If an Aqua didn't care and/or had already made up their minds not to see you as long-term potential, they would have no need to test you at all or spend much time with you.

5. As with some men in general, when Aquas start to suddenly demand more of your time, energy & affection, it's b/c at that point, they literally need it from you. And they need it from you b/c you've got their full undivided attention. Some may see this as Aquas all of the sudden becoming possessive and/or clingy, but it's moreso that Aquas will literally start to open up & be their true selves once they feel comfortable & safe with you. Aquas don't mind doing all the chasing & giving you the world BUT they have to trust you 1st & like you hard enough. They take dating very seriously"
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/how-do-you-know-if-when-an-aqua-man-likes-you-2147211/
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Posted by SubtleStorm
I have a feeling that his Venus will determine how he will 'make a move', as I feel that mine does. I think in general Aquarians can be a little shy, but his Aries Venus should make him more direct than most.
He finally asked me to come watch Rock of Ages with him last night! We were talking about it because it's the next play that is coming up and he said I should audition. He was like would they be something you would want to do and I was like sure he was like you don't sound sure lol. I just give nonchalant answers because I'm really jumping up and down inside but I don't want to seem desperate smh I am a complicated person,
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@ladylibra21 awww 🙂 I think he likes you. How long have you known him? I think with a Pisces moon, he will approach more lightly despite his Aries Venus/Sag Mars. The guy I know with this placement has a Cap moon, so he's more serious/direct/closed-off sometimes. He has a soft side but he buries it so deep that almost nobody knows it's there. I would say (in my experience with any Aqua I've dated) it is a slow start. Kind of like you have this "sense" that something might be there, but you play aloof. That's how I do it anyways. Mainly because I don't want to embarrass myself if my "sense" is wrong LOL.

The Aqua guy I know doesn't have pleasant Venus aspects, so I think that goes into play for him. The only positive aspect is potentially Venus trine Ascendant.

As a person, he has this charismatic personality. He has a way with people that is borderline incredible. Everybody likes him. We worked retail together, and his people skills amazed me. People would just tell him things, personal things. Then he would talk about what he learned from them, and I remember once saying "What? They told you that? I wonder why they would tell you something like that." His response (which still makes me laugh thinking about it): "Customers are open books. They're screaming, 'read me', so I do. It's simple. Can't you read?" I remember his sarcastic spark in his eyes and smirk, and I laughed and told him to shut up.

Another day I was putting something away, and I noticed him out of the corner of my eye doing something with his hands but I ignored it. He got up and came over to me and started mimicking my hand movements, and when I told him to stop he mimicked my voice pitch and repeated me. Then I was like "will you stop" and lightly hit him and laughed and his face turned pink and he walked away.

I would say he has child-like humor and he's fascinated by everything. One time a customer came in and did magic tricks, and he was like "what?! how did you do that?!" his whole face was filled with awe and when the magician did the trick again, he was still baffled at how it was done and his whole face turned pink and he hit his hand down on the desk lightly and spun around.

One time when we got in a fight over something (he yelled at me publicly over something dumb), I told him I felt like he had no respect or care for me even as a friend if he could do that. His rebuttal: "I do care. Remember that time I bought you tacos when you were hungry and had no money?" LOL. I was like "wut". Not relevant to the current situation, but I got his point and was fine afterwards.

He's a good friend with the occasional fiery rage. It's kind of unsettling, but normally as fast as his anger flares, it dissolves and he gets confused as to why people are offended when he gets upset. He considers it "water under the bridge" (his own words used once when he flared up at me), and he says people should never take what he says seriously because he speaks impulsively someti
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I love it! This guy is pretty child like too, but he seems very stable as well. He has opened up to me a bit about his family life about how he wishes his relationship with his brother was better, but he could just be making conversation, we spontaneously hung out last night and did karaoke after practice his suggestion. I really really wanted to kiss him last night but I know that wont come for a while. That urge was so strong though I am gonna fight it!
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Posted by ladylibra21
I love it! This guy is pretty child like too, but he seems very stable as well. He has opened up to me a bit about his family life about how he wishes his relationship with his brother was better, but he could just be making conversation, we spontaneously hung out last night and did karaoke after practice his suggestion. I really really wanted to kiss him last night but I know that wont come for a while. That urge was so strong though I am gonna fight it!
i dont know many aquarius men in real life but i dont know what happened, but there aren't anymore aquarius men on this site.

besides, i thought you were with a Scorpio venus man?

aquanoz has somewhat similar chart as the guy you like.

i dont get the feeling that this guy is really serious with you, though.
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I love it! This guy is pretty child like too, but he seems very stable as well. He has opened up to me a bit about his family life about how he wishes his relationship with his brother was better, but he could just be making conversation, we spontaneously hung out last night and did karaoke after practice his suggestion. I really really wanted to kiss him last night but I know that wont come for a while. That urge was so strong though I am gonna fight it!
i dont know many aquarius men in real life but i dont know what happened, but there aren't anymore aquarius men on this site.

besides, i thought you were with a Scorpio venus man?

aquanoz has somewhat similar chart as the guy you like.

i dont get the feeling that this guy is really serious with you, though.
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I was with a Sag with a Scorpio Venus for 5 year we broke up in April.
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um i was with an aries venus/sag mars guy -- my last ex. And they dont' wishy washy around either. If he likes you and wants you, you wouldn't be here.
Its not that he is wishy washy we haven't known each other but a month. We talk pretty much everyday. I am just not sure how to read him when we are around each other like there is an inkling of something there but I am not for certain he could just want to be friends. Last night he was more warm and made lots of eye contact and hugged me where as the other night we hugged for the first time and it was kind of an awkward hug. LOL So I don't know he might not be serious about me I cant tell, but he has only known me for a month.
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um i was with an aries venus/sag mars guy -- my last ex. And they dont' wishy washy around either. If he likes you and wants you, you wouldn't be here.
Its not that he is wishy washy we haven't known each other but a month. We talk pretty much everyday. I am just not sure how to read him when we are around each other like there is an inkling of something there but I am not for certain he could just want to be friends. Last night he was more warm and made lots of eye contact and hugged me where as the other night we hugged for the first time and it was kind of an awkward hug. LOL So I don't know he might not be serious about me I cant tell, but he has only known me for a month.
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only a month??!! O__O

girl, why are you here worrying to death. ENJOY yourself out there, and it's Friday, have fun.
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besides, the guys you are involved with have a strong Mars energy, and they aren't wishy washy.

Always keep in mind, that guys want to have FUN.

if they aren't interested in having a LONG TERM family relationship, or just LONG TERM relationship with you and live together, or and marriage,

then it' all fun.
Very very true, he says he is ready for a relationship, but I honestly am not sure if I would be stable enough for him anyway. We will see what happens lol
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um i was with an aries venus/sag mars guy -- my last ex. And they dont' wishy washy around either. If he likes you and wants you, you wouldn't be here.
Its not that he is wishy washy we haven't known each other but a month. We talk pretty much everyday. I am just not sure how to read him when we are around each other like there is an inkling of something there but I am not for certain he could just want to be friends. Last night he was more warm and made lots of eye contact and hugged me where as the other night we hugged for the first time and it was kind of an awkward hug. LOL So I don't know he might not be serious about me I cant tell, but he has only known me for a month.
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Aqua guy and I have been friends for years...
for years we'd go cinema etc walk in the fcuking park like you lots of eye contact but seemed all awkward physically, turns out he liked me something stupid all those years... But he's shy

Took him 5 years to kiss me

No joke 🙂

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Ok so we got into an argument on Saturday because a girl who is in the same show as us pulled me aside and said that he had been trying to get at her and her best friend. This is a girl he liked last year and she started a whole bunch of drama saying he creeped her out. After that I saw him setting up his instrument and I pointed a stage gun at him joking and he laughed and said that is rude. I said you dont want me to tell you why you are rude and he laughed then looked at me and said what did I do? I shruged and walked away he texted me and asked what he did wrong and I told him I would tell him after the show. I know it was shity of me to do to him right before our show and that I cant be mad because he isn't mine, but i didn't think about that until afterwards because I wasn't really mad I was just curious about his side of things. Later that night we all went out for a cast party I talked to him at the bar then I broched the subject saying that his boo pulled me aside earlier and he was like who is my boo and I was like really you don't know? Who else in the cast have you been involved with that we have talked about before? Then when I left I texted him and asked him if he still really liked her and he was like what the hell did she say to you and got really upset and said he wasn't going to play anymore musicals because of all the drama. He was like im done don't talk to me I just want to get through tomorrow and then im done playing musicals. I was soo upset because to me I read it as don't talk to me anymore. He was like I didn't do anything, nothing I just played my music and minded my own business I am done being nice to people! I was like can we please just talk about this so are you saying you don't want to hang out with me anymore and he said Why would you want to hang out with me? I told him he seemed like a beautiful person and I am just getting to know him and I want to ecperience more of him and that we had fun together and that I thought he was really talented why wouldn't I want to hang out.
He ignored that text then I saw him the next day at our last performance we kept looking at each other out of the corner of our eyes. I talked to our mutual Libra friend and he was at the bar with him and saw how upset he was and told me to wait and let him come to me. He stopped me after the show and said did you get my text I told him no my phone was dead and he said he wanted to send me an email of his favorite scene of me from the show. I walked him to his car when he left and said am I allowed to talk to you now and he said that didn't mean leave him alone forever just until the show was over and he said that is why he doesn't like text and I asked him again so are we still gonna hang out and he said of course he hugged me then left. As soon as he left he said text me when your phone is charged I want to meet up with you so we can talk.
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We met up that night and talked about the show for about 10 mins then out of no where he abruptly said ok do you want to know my hesitation and I was like yeah what's up. He told me that he doenst mind that I have a kid, but he has a problem that the father is still around because he feels like it is dating both of us. Honestly we switch out at daycare and I only see him once a week for 10 mins we never cross for the most part. and He apparently got out of a situation where he dated a coworker who was broken up with her fiancé for 6 months and she said she was over it then got back with him. He has major trust issues, but says he really wants a relationship, but I guess not with me. He was like so can we be friends for a little while and see what happens and I said yeah that is fine. He walked me to my car and gave me the longest hug he has ever given me then said text me when your home like always. I cant tell if he doesn't like me and is letting me down easy or if he really just want to see what happens.
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He isn't letting you down easy, he's being honest and showing vulnerability. That's a very good sign. If and when he feels like your ex is truly out of your heart, he'll likely do something to let you know he's ready.

The miscommunication between you, him, and the other girl is pretty typical. Aquas either flirt, then backpedal when they realize they went too far, or are friendly and then get bent when the other person takes it as flirting. Sometimes the difference is only in the Aqua's mind.

Sounds like you have a good start, albeit a rocky one.