I have a query :)

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by saggurl88 on Thursday, January 11, 2018 and has 14 replies.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

I want to know why some Aquas tell a person to give up and don't put any effort into certain relationship issues but then when it comes to themselves, they say the person didn't wait for them and just wasn't patient enough.

Do you guys just like things as unpredictable as you are, or what?

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@Aquaviper
10 Years

I've never told anyone to "give up" and never would. I've been in a situation where there was a lack of understanding (moons and mercuries were square). After a while I got tired of not being able to get each other after many times trying to be understood. I tried to make it understood that if they didn't try to better understand my feelings then it was never going to work.

I don't wait around if I don't see it going anywhere or if I believe the situation won't improve. We definitely like quality over quantity. I'd rather be alone then with people that didn't "get" me.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Aquaviper
I've never told anyone to "give up" and never would. I've been in a situation where there was a lack of understanding (moons and mercuries were square). After a while I got tired of not being able to get each other after many times trying to be understood. I tried to make it understood that if they didn't try to better understand my feelings then it was never going to work.

I don't wait around if I don't see it going anywhere or if I believe the situation won't improve. We definitely like quality over quantity. I'd rather be alone then with people that didn't "get" me.

This makes a ton of sense. At least your communication was good enough to express this to the other person. What is your mercury sign?

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Thanks for these answers. I meant more of when giving advice to someone else. Not really for your selves though. I don't think anyone would ever tell someone to just give up lol

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@AerialView
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Women in general here are love to tell posters to give up.

Red flags, are you a doormat? and i wouldnt waste anymore time if i were you are the common advises ive seen.

Smh.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by AerialView
Women in general here are love to tell posters to give up.

Red flags, are you a doormat? and i wouldnt waste anymore time if i were you are the common advises ive seen.

Smh.

Lmao I know, right!? Thats why I was wondering.

You have anything to add to maybe my last question? πŸ˜„

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by saggurl88
I want to know why some Aquas tell a person to give up and don't put any effort into certain relationship issues but then when it comes to themselves, they say the person didn't wait for them and just wasn't patient enough.

Do you guys just like things as unpredictable as you are, or what?

give up what?

if you want a relationshp badly you will never give up.

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@AerialView
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by AerialView
Women in general here are love to tell posters to give up.

Red flags, are you a doormat? and i wouldnt waste anymore time if i were you are the common advises ive seen.

Smh.

Lmao I know, right!? Thats why I was wondering.

You have anything to add to maybe my last question? πŸ˜„

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Unpredictable? Yes to a certain doze lol.

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

I usually give the advise of time to move on when it's thread 10193938132 from the same person trying to figure " their x,y z sign out" but people are going to do what they are going to do regardless of what is said to them here or elsewhere tbh.

I try not to give advise really, because I'm brutally blunt lol