I might be single tomorrow...

Spilt how i felt to my gf just then on msn, i didn't want to because she's at work. Reason why i told her i didnt't trust her was because i found this msn convo on my computer between her and a friend about 2 weeks ago talking about how her and her boss are "just going to go with it and piss off his girlfriend soon" so i'm wasting my time.

ill talk to her tonight and we'll see what happens.

friggin air signs, jesus

Awww - Poor u 😢

I know its aweful finding things like that

Seems like they were trying to piss you off as well.

Well, lets here what she has to say to redeem herself.

my chest hurts.

Why would the boyfriend want to piss off his girlfriend? Can think of a variety of explanations. some competetion? a pratical joke? maybe a suprise party?

i'll see what she has to say about her boss before i bring up the msn convo.
why would you bother being with someone when your not 100% committed. i wish she just told me instead of finding out like this. i feel so used! uggghhh!

sorry you feel that way, Tauro. unless you're holding back info from that msn convo, it seems you could be jumping the gun as to what she meant by "just going to go with it and piss off his girlfriend soon"- yes, it sounds as if she's messing around, BUT it could also mean a few other things.

i never understand arguments or break ups via messenger or text or email. why not just confront her once you have SOLID proof of what's going on? Still seems to me that you don't have anything solid.

but whatever you decide, just stick to your convictions. you're a taurus like me - once you make up your mind, don't change it! we're legendary for that. 😉

it sucked!

The Horns defense was all over the field and the offense couldn?t even cover the QB. I still have faith, though?I bleed orange.

ok here is her exact words from the convo...

friend 1) oh yeah that;s right1 was it awesome?? how come aaron didn't go??

gf) He is on the coast with his chick.....he is so confused about everything....he really didn't want to go with her...but he felt like he should. He doesn't know what to do about her.

friend 1) f* her off

gf)I think he really likes me..but is scared of what might happen and how serious it might get.
gf) Him and I had a massive chat on the phone last night
gf)The attraction is out of control....it is a weird feeling and I don't think either of us really know how to handle it!!!

friend 1) your so funny. Just go with it, it's not life or death.

gf) Yeah I know....thats what we said last night....we are just going to go with it and see what happens!!

go figure.

OH MY, I AM SO SORRY TAURO...she isnt into you at all, she wants someone else.

MOVE ON! No other advise is necessary.

let her go....

you don't even need to bring up the conversation.

just let her go...don't worry about her feelings; she's not worried about yours or any investment you've put into her.

i deserve better. I just want to be happy 😢

what is wrong with people?

Oh god - I would be devoed!!! That nasty cow!! Get drunk & shagg someone else Tauro!! and don't tell her about it

see what happens tonight, she just tried calling me 5 times in a row and i didnt pick up. so now she knows im serious. i have SO much uni work to do and other work and i can't focus. She must be stupid to think 21 year olds are so blind! shes 24 btw

No pisces ...he said he just wants to be happy...thats just temporary happiness.

Oh what the hell...go for it.

do you want to talk to her? if you do, don't avoid her call. you sent that message to her, so you have to face up to her calls. you were strong enough to send that message to her, so now be strong enough to be confident in sticking to your decision by talking to her.

avoiding her calls right now are just going to hurt you; not her.

I dont know, she might have been using you from the start, I dont think aqua females really go for younger guys (I dont, your age could turn me off in a heart beat).

Tauro, how long were you dating this chic?

2 months but she hired me in january and left work in june then we hooked up.

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=14151080

You gotta walk away, Tauro.

Listen to MY WISH...it's sappy but the words are strong.

It hurts me to hear that stuff - But you know you are lucky you are getting out no - better than finding out this stuff in 2 years hey. Don't let a stupid cow like that ruin your confidence either - I have seen that happen to guys - at the end of the day she will end up lonely with an STD if she keeps it up - wish her luck & fuck her off!!

And in all honesty when I have had things like that happen to me the quickest way to get over it is to get really kinky with someone else! Sad but true

" the quickest way to get over it is to get really kinky with someone else! "

I disagree.

Plus, do you really want him to end up just like her with an STD? No - Tauro will come out on top, without stooping to what she's doing.

i think i'm cursed with chicks. i've only been in 2 relatsionhips before this one and they ended very badly too, both to do with unfaithfulness on their part. i'm kind of starting to give up on finding that special person. think i might stay single for a long while now...i'm not the person to fuck around or do the one night stands, i don't see the point, sure the sex might be good but it's not for me.

Tauro, both Taurus men and women want stability and neither can deal with one night stands very well. as much as we think we can do the casual thing or sleep around, deep down, we can't...it's not who we are. The sex is good, but it won't be what will help you move on; if you're lucky, it will only satisfy you for a brief moment.

The way to rise above this is to move beyond it. Yes, it's hard because we Taurus have a hard time letting go...but you will overcome the hurt you're feeling at the moment.

COncentrate on your studies or your work, hang out with your buddies, anything to keep you from dwelling on what she did. she's not worth it - you need to accept this and stick to it. if you have not yet accepted this, then you won't move on until you do.

yeah good advice peach, thanks.

guess i misunderstood.. had my hopes though. Sounds like a relationship lesson was just bestowed upon you! if it helps, "no pain,no gain".