seezythescorpion
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How old are you both? My aqua did that with his ex. Dated for 10 years but he said he was very comfortable with her but didn't have a desire for her. So he cheated as told her he isn't happy and feels nothing....
But maybe your situation is different. Have you guys fought? Are you clingy?
But maybe your situation is different. Have you guys fought? Are you clingy?
Damn...I was wondering if you guys were still seeing each other. I hadn't seen you in a while.
Sorry to hear what happened. Have you gotten NO sense that he had lost feelings or what? Were you being so detached that you might have missed something?
What he did was pretty cold. Gotta hand it to Uranus (and Saturn) to cold cock you like that.
Sorry to hear what happened. Have you gotten NO sense that he had lost feelings or what? Were you being so detached that you might have missed something?
What he did was pretty cold. Gotta hand it to Uranus (and Saturn) to cold cock you like that.
Posted by Capricorngirl1111Im 27 and he is 32. Im not a clingy type at all. I never really smothered him but always gave him attention the same way he gave me.
How old are you both? My aqua did that with his ex. Dated for 10 years but he said he was very comfortable with her but didn't have a desire for her. So he cheated as told her he isn't happy and feels nothing....
But maybe your situation is different. Have you guys fought? Are you clingy?
We didnt fight. In fact everything seemed to be going really nice actually. He did say this in his speach. I dont know how he came up with this.
Always expect the unexpected with Aquas
Posted by sultrykittyIm blown. He talked to me all day everyday. Called me everyday. We go out we have fun we talk about our day it was going smooth Sultrykitty. He never made me sense this chat was coming. Like i was going there to watch a movie.
Damn...I was wondering if you guys were still seeing each other. I hadn't seen you in a while.
Sorry to hear what happened. Have you gotten NO sense that he had lost feelings or what? Were you being so detached that you might have missed something?
What he did was pretty cold. Gotta hand it to Uranus (and Saturn) to cold cock you like that.
I cant believe he came up with this.
Posted by seezythescorpionPosted by Capricorngirl1111Im 27 and he is 32. Im not a clingy type at all. I never really smothered him but always gave him attention the same way he gave me.
How old are you both? My aqua did that with his ex. Dated for 10 years but he said he was very comfortable with her but didn't have a desire for her. So he cheated as told her he isn't happy and feels nothing....
But maybe your situation is different. Have you guys fought? Are you clingy?
We didnt fight. In fact everything seemed to be going really nice actually. He did say this in his speach. I dont know how he came up with this.
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I say completely stop contacting him and see if he reaches out.. appear happy and keep yourself busy. That is crazy. Wow. No signs??
Posted by MyStarsShineIt really hurt me that i went to his place to hear all of this and just leave like that.
Always expect the unexpected with Aquas
That wasnt nice. He could have spoken to me somewhere outside his house about all this.
I feel pretty sad to be honest.
Posted by seezythescorpionHE sounds coldPosted by MyStarsShineIt really hurt me that i went to his place to hear all of this and just leave like that.
Always expect the unexpected with Aquas
That wasnt nice. He could have spoken to me somewhere outside his house about all this.
I feel pretty sad to be honest.click to expand
You had a lucky escape
Let him go ....
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI have noticed aquas like it crazy a little.. my man loves that I'm silly and make him laugh. We are also good together and only fought once. But being silly is key. He might be boredPosted by seezythescorpionSounds very boring.Posted by Capricorngirl1111Im 27 and he is 32. Im not a clingy type at all. I never really smothered him but always gave him attention the same way he gave me.
How old are you both? My aqua did that with his ex. Dated for 10 years but he said he was very comfortable with her but didn't have a desire for her. So he cheated as told her he isn't happy and feels nothing....
But maybe your situation is different. Have you guys fought? Are you clingy?
We didnt fight. In fact everything seemed to be going really nice actually. He did say this in his speach. I dont know how he came up with this.
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Posted by Capricorngirl1111I have the strenght. I wont let him see how it got to me. But im not really in the mood to fake it and appear happy right now. Ill most likely close off completely.Posted by seezythescorpionPosted by Capricorngirl1111Im 27 and he is 32. Im not a clingy type at all. I never really smothered him but always gave him attention the same way he gave me.
How old are you both? My aqua did that with his ex. Dated for 10 years but he said he was very comfortable with her but didn't have a desire for her. So he cheated as told her he isn't happy and feels nothing....
But maybe your situation is different. Have you guys fought? Are you clingy?
We didnt fight. In fact everything seemed to be going really nice actually. He did say this in his speach. I dont know how he came up with this.
I say completely stop contacting him and see if he reaches out.. appear happy and keep yourself busy. That is crazy. Wow. No signs??click to expand
He really hurt my pride.
Posted by Capricorngirl1111Trust me the way i made him laugh i dont think he would deny that. There was 0 problems here. We were doing really good. Like i put my name on it. Our convos were always fun and silly.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI have noticed aquas like it crazy a little.. my man loves that I'm silly and make him laugh. We are also good together and only fought once. But being silly is key. He might be boredPosted by seezythescorpionSounds very boring.Posted by Capricorngirl1111Im 27 and he is 32. Im not a clingy type at all. I never really smothered him but always gave him attention the same way he gave me.
How old are you both? My aqua did that with his ex. Dated for 10 years but he said he was very comfortable with her but didn't have a desire for her. So he cheated as told her he isn't happy and feels nothing....
But maybe your situation is different. Have you guys fought? Are you clingy?
We didnt fight. In fact everything seemed to be going really nice actually. He did say this in his speach. I dont know how he came up with this.
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He never for once ignored or stopped talking to me. He couldnt go 1 hour without msging me all at his own will.
If this is being bored and i didnt pick up on it then ill take the blame.
Aquas are trash.
They have no feelings, they are weak, they will use you and toss you away like snot filled tissue.
Good ridance I say.
They have no feelings, they are weak, they will use you and toss you away like snot filled tissue.
Good ridance I say.
Posted by ScorpinoThats also crazy. For real.
I just don't know how can aquarius peeps be so detached! It could be 3-4 year relationship and they leave you like it's nothing!
About 8 months ago, my aqua friend of 4 years left every single one of their friends!
I'm not talking about her saying goodbye then part ways, she left all of her friends (including me), changed her number, blocked them from all of her previous accounts and made new ones.
I was the closest person to her so that felt weird, we used to skype everyday for hours doing our chores, watching movies together, etc....
I had to ask her colleagues to know that she's alive and well.. I feel so sad sometimes she left us that way. She just disappeared like it doesn't matter.... ?
I think they go thru these phases and think it gets better when they run away from people? That alone time makes feel better. believe me i know them well..
I just never saw it coming as i was invited there for a movie. Not to say goodbye. Thats why im gutted.
Posted by justagirlI thought cancer moon would balance his sun. He was even clingy unlike ur streiotype aquas.
Aquas are trash.
They have no feelings, they are weak, they will use you and toss you away like snot filled tissue.
Good ridance I say.
Its just crazy, he was calling me baby beautiful and all that on the phone 10 mins before i got there.
Posted by seezythescorpionOh cancer moon just makes shit worse, crybabies.Posted by justagirlI thought cancer moon would balance his sun. He was even clingy unlike ur streiotype aquas.
Aquas are trash.
They have no feelings, they are weak, they will use you and toss you away like snot filled tissue.
Good ridance I say.
Its just crazy, he was calling me baby beautiful and all that on the phone 10 mins before i got there.
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Posted by sultrykittyI am so very sorry for OPs feelings hurt.
Damn...I was wondering if you guys were still seeing each other. I hadn't seen you in a while.
Sorry to hear what happened. Have you gotten NO sense that he had lost feelings or what? Were you being so detached that you might have missed something?
What he did was pretty cold. Gotta hand it to Uranus (and Saturn) to cold cock you like that.
However I want to ask - if man had lost his feelings - is there way to end with no hurt feelings of another person?
No!
So...every person ending is going to look bad no matter what, right?
I think that's why people dissapear without saying a word...
There is no good way. And I am so sorry for it. ❤️
Maybe he has an std
Posted by justagirlPosted by seezythescorpionOh cancer moon just makes shit worse, crybabies.Posted by justagirlI thought cancer moon would balance his sun. He was even clingy unlike ur streiotype aquas.
Aquas are trash.
They have no feelings, they are weak, they will use you and toss you away like snot filled tissue.
Good ridance I say.
Its just crazy, he was calling me baby beautiful and all that on the phone 10 mins before i got there.
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Unbelievable. Im not the reason for him to be feeling some type of way. N neither is our relationship. He never was cold towards me otherwise i would have sensed it.
Im out of words. Well wishes though.
Seems to me he got bored,aquas like some challenge in a relationship,and people who aint always availble to us makes the person more desirable,most of the aquas i think
Give it some time. He may have thought it through completely and truly has decided that's it, or he may be in that phase where you tend to take a relationship for granted.
Don't know what you've got till it's gone and all that.
Take time for yourself to heal. No one knows what tomorrow will bring.
Don't know what you've got till it's gone and all that.
Take time for yourself to heal. No one knows what tomorrow will bring.
Posted by seezythescorpionDon't take anybblames!Posted by Capricorngirl1111Trust me the way i made him laugh i dont think he would deny that. There was 0 problems here. We were doing really good. Like i put my name on it. Our convos were always fun and silly.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI have noticed aquas like it crazy a little.. my man loves that I'm silly and make him laugh. We are also good together and only fought once. But being silly is key. He might be boredPosted by seezythescorpionSounds very boring.Posted by Capricorngirl1111Im 27 and he is 32. Im not a clingy type at all. I never really smothered him but always gave him attention the same way he gave me.
How old are you both? My aqua did that with his ex. Dated for 10 years but he said he was very comfortable with her but didn't have a desire for her. So he cheated as told her he isn't happy and feels nothing....
But maybe your situation is different. Have you guys fought? Are you clingy?
We didnt fight. In fact everything seemed to be going really nice actually. He did say this in his speach. I dont know how he came up with this.
He never for once ignored or stopped talking to me. He couldnt go 1 hour without msging me all at his own will.
If this is being bored and i didnt pick up on it then ill take the blame.
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You aren't his clown!
Sometimes 2 good people just don't click or something else. Maybe he has something going on that he needs to retreat and be alone.
Just thank God that he didn't leave you with a child or haven't waited for 10 years.
Good luck healing. ?
Posted by Scorpino
I just don't know how can aquarius peeps be so detached! It could be 3-4 year relationship and they leave you like it's nothing!
About 8 months ago, my aqua friend of 4 years left every single one of their friends!
I'm not talking about her saying goodbye then part ways, she left all of her friends (including me), changed her number, blocked them from all of her previous accounts and made new ones.
I was the closest person to her so that felt weird, we used to skype everyday for hours doing our chores, watching movies together, etc....
I had to ask her colleagues to know that she's alive and well.. I feel so sad sometimes she left us that way. She just disappeared like it doesn't matter.... ?
I decided to do that a couple of weeks ago.
Move on from my friends...i feel like they got stuck in a rut of things that don't take you anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I need to leave everyone behind and take off.
Only bring with me the people who are willing to step it up.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by sultrykittyI am so very sorry for OPs feelings hurt.
Damn...I was wondering if you guys were still seeing each other. I hadn't seen you in a while.
Sorry to hear what happened. Have you gotten NO sense that he had lost feelings or what? Were you being so detached that you might have missed something?
What he did was pretty cold. Gotta hand it to Uranus (and Saturn) to cold cock you like that.
However I want to ask - if man had lost his feelings - is there way to end with no hurt feelings of another person?
No!
So...every person ending is going to look bad no matter what, right?
I think that's why people dissapear without saying a word...
There is no good way. And I am so sorry for it. ❤️click to expand
He wasnt talking like his feelings were gone. He was attached type of person.
Man its hard to explain to u guys how weird it makes me feel. I would bet my left toe on it that this guy enjoyed our relationship in every sense.
There was no sign whatsoever that he didnt. Understand why im baffled.
Posted by sultrykittyAre you suggesting she goes back if his mood will change?
Give it some time. He may have thought it through completely and truly has decided that's it, or he may be in that phase where you tend to take a relationship for granted.
Don't know what you've got till it's gone and all that.
Take time for yourself to heal. No one knows what tomorrow will bring.
Posted by seezythescorpionCould that be that he wanted you to show emotions and act on it like crying or throwing that cup in his face?Posted by GemitatiPosted by sultrykittyI am so very sorry for OPs feelings hurt.
Damn...I was wondering if you guys were still seeing each other. I hadn't seen you in a while.
Sorry to hear what happened. Have you gotten NO sense that he had lost feelings or what? Were you being so detached that you might have missed something?
What he did was pretty cold. Gotta hand it to Uranus (and Saturn) to cold cock you like that.
However I want to ask - if man had lost his feelings - is there way to end with no hurt feelings of another person?
No!
So...every person ending is going to look bad no matter what, right?
I think that's why people dissapear without saying a word...
There is no good way. And I am so sorry for it. ❤️
He wasnt talking like his feelings were gone. He was attached type of person.
Man its hard to explain to u guys how weird it makes me feel. I would bet my left toe on it that this guy enjoyed our relationship in every sense.
There was no sign whatsoever that he didnt. Understand why im baffled.
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Like...common! We need a fight!!!
Idk....
Posted by GemitatiI'm suggesting that his mood might change. What she decides to do is up to her.Posted by sultrykittyAre you suggesting she goes back if his mood will change?
Give it some time. He may have thought it through completely and truly has decided that's it, or he may be in that phase where you tend to take a relationship for granted.
Don't know what you've got till it's gone and all that.
Take time for yourself to heal. No one knows what tomorrow will bring.click to expand
Posted by AerazoAnd so he did it to the person that was by his side thru all the good and bad.Posted by Scorpino
I just don't know how can aquarius peeps be so detached! It could be 3-4 year relationship and they leave you like it's nothing!
About 8 months ago, my aqua friend of 4 years left every single one of their friends!
I'm not talking about her saying goodbye then part ways, she left all of her friends (including me), changed her number, blocked them from all of her previous accounts and made new ones.
I was the closest person to her so that felt weird, we used to skype everyday for hours doing our chores, watching movies together, etc....
I had to ask her colleagues to know that she's alive and well.. I feel so sad sometimes she left us that way. She just disappeared like it doesn't matter.... ?
I decided to do that a couple of weeks ago.
Move on from my friends...i feel like they got stuck in a rut of things that don't take you anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I need to leave everyone behind and take off.
Only bring with me the people who are willing to step it up.click to expand
This guy was in the army when i met him. His friends of 10 years werent there when i was encouraging him for the better days to come.
He cried on my shoulders when his father passed 2 months ago.
I got pregnant by him and he never ran. It was both our decision to have an abortion. And after all we were having fun hang out with friends goin to beach parties out for drinks for all u can think of. 6 months doesn't sound like a lot. But we had been thru it all.
I cant put my head around it. He had his freedom when he wanted it. No questions asked no nagging no trips.
Ive been cool. Its sad man. That was ice cold.
Posted by justagirl
Aquas are trash.
They have no feelings, they are weak, they will use you and toss you away like snot filled tissue.
Good ridance I say.
OP, listen to this guy...
he said he's an Aquarius.
maybe it will help.
Posted by GemitatiAnd u also hate the drama. I dont wear my heart on my sleeve. Im a scorp remember?Posted by seezythescorpionCould that be that he wanted you to show emotions and act on it like crying or throwing that cup in his face?Posted by GemitatiPosted by sultrykittyI am so very sorry for OPs feelings hurt.
Damn...I was wondering if you guys were still seeing each other. I hadn't seen you in a while.
Sorry to hear what happened. Have you gotten NO sense that he had lost feelings or what? Were you being so detached that you might have missed something?
What he did was pretty cold. Gotta hand it to Uranus (and Saturn) to cold cock you like that.
However I want to ask - if man had lost his feelings - is there way to end with no hurt feelings of another person?
No!
So...every person ending is going to look bad no matter what, right?
I think that's why people dissapear without saying a word...
There is no good way. And I am so sorry for it. ❤️
He wasnt talking like his feelings were gone. He was attached type of person.
Man its hard to explain to u guys how weird it makes me feel. I would bet my left toe on it that this guy enjoyed our relationship in every sense.
There was no sign whatsoever that he didnt. Understand why im baffled.
Like...common! We need a fight!!!
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He knew how i felt and i think thats even better i kept cool. It was his decision. I can only respect that. U tell me u have no feelings after all. Cool babe. Im not gona cry. Not in front of u.
Posted by Capmercury87Cant say i dont appreciate it. But u dont do that to the person u was calling baby 10 mins ago.
Honesty is the best policy
Posted by Capmercury87Not me though. And if 6 months of all that was with 0 feelings. Dont bother urself.Ill open the door for you to walk out. I wont stop u. I wont beg you. I will not disrespect you. Good bye n take care.Posted by seezythescorpionWere Aquarian, we could call a stranger baby, but it don't mean anything if our hearts not in it.Posted by Capmercury87Cant say i dont appreciate it. But u dont do that to the person u was calling baby 10 mins ago.
Honesty is the best policy
He probably kept it up to keep you calm, most people overreact when we leave em.click to expand
Posted by Capmercury87So you can go 'baby...you are so beautiful and it makes me wonder - why don't I feel anything for you?' - right?Posted by seezythescorpionWere Aquarian, we could call a stranger baby, but it don't mean anything if our hearts not in it.Posted by Capmercury87Cant say i dont appreciate it. But u dont do that to the person u was calling baby 10 mins ago.
Honesty is the best policy
He probably kept it up to keep you calm, most people overreact when we leave em.click to expand
Posted by seezythescorpionI am just curious.Posted by Capmercury87Not me though. And if 6 months of all that was with 0 feelings. Dont bother urself.Ill open the door for you to walk out. I wont stop u. I wont beg you. I will not disrespect you. Good bye n take care.Posted by seezythescorpionWere Aquarian, we could call a stranger baby, but it don't mean anything if our hearts not in it.Posted by Capmercury87Cant say i dont appreciate it. But u dont do that to the person u was calling baby 10 mins ago.
Honesty is the best policy
He probably kept it up to keep you calm, most people overreact when we leave em.click to expand
What would be an acceptable break up scenario for you.
Or hownwould YOU break up with someone?
Posted by exoThanks from me too🙂Posted by lisabethur8i needed that. thanks lisa! 🙂Posted by justagirl
Aquas are trash.
They have no feelings, they are weak, they will use you and toss you away like snot filled tissue.
Good ridance I say.
OP, listen to this guy...
he said he's an Aquarius.
maybe it will help.
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Posted by seezythescorpionHe had his freedom to do whatever? Was it an open relationship?Posted by AerazoAnd so he did it to the person that was by his side thru all the good and bad.Posted by Scorpino
I just don't know how can aquarius peeps be so detached! It could be 3-4 year relationship and they leave you like it's nothing!
About 8 months ago, my aqua friend of 4 years left every single one of their friends!
I'm not talking about her saying goodbye then part ways, she left all of her friends (including me), changed her number, blocked them from all of her previous accounts and made new ones.
I was the closest person to her so that felt weird, we used to skype everyday for hours doing our chores, watching movies together, etc....
I had to ask her colleagues to know that she's alive and well.. I feel so sad sometimes she left us that way. She just disappeared like it doesn't matter.... ?
I decided to do that a couple of weeks ago.
Move on from my friends...i feel like they got stuck in a rut of things that don't take you anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I need to leave everyone behind and take off.
Only bring with me the people who are willing to step it up.
This guy was in the army when i met him. His friends of 10 years werent there when i was encouraging him for the better days to come.
He cried on my shoulders when his father passed 2 months ago.
I got pregnant by him and he never ran. It was both our decision to have an abortion. And after all we were having fun hang out with friends goin to beach parties out for drinks for all u can think of. 6 months doesn't sound like a lot. But we had been thru it all.
I cant put my head around it. He had his freedom when he wanted it. No questions asked no nagging no trips.
Ive been cool. Its sad man. That was ice cold.
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Posted by GemitatiI would have done the same thing. But i would make sure i let them know that it was coming. I wouldnt invite u over for a movie and end up like this.. I would have told u i would like to see you for a chat that is important to me.Posted by seezythescorpionI am just curious.Posted by Capmercury87Not me though. And if 6 months of all that was with 0 feelings. Dont bother urself.Ill open the door for you to walk out. I wont stop u. I wont beg you. I will not disrespect you. Good bye n take care.Posted by seezythescorpionWere Aquarian, we could call a stranger baby, but it don't mean anything if our hearts not in it.Posted by Capmercury87Cant say i dont appreciate it. But u dont do that to the person u was calling baby 10 mins ago.
Honesty is the best policy
He probably kept it up to keep you calm, most people overreact when we leave em.
What would be an acceptable break up scenario for you.
Or hownwould YOU break up with someone?click to expand
Posted by justagirlNot an open relationship. I meant that in a way that he wasnt being smothered. If he wanted to have lone time or hang with friends i never questioned it. I told him have fun and left him to chill.Posted by seezythescorpionHe had his freedom to do whatever? Was it an open relationship?Posted by AerazoAnd so he did it to the person that was by his side thru all the good and bad.Posted by Scorpino
I just don't know how can aquarius peeps be so detached! It could be 3-4 year relationship and they leave you like it's nothing!
About 8 months ago, my aqua friend of 4 years left every single one of their friends!
I'm not talking about her saying goodbye then part ways, she left all of her friends (including me), changed her number, blocked them from all of her previous accounts and made new ones.
I was the closest person to her so that felt weird, we used to skype everyday for hours doing our chores, watching movies together, etc....
I had to ask her colleagues to know that she's alive and well.. I feel so sad sometimes she left us that way. She just disappeared like it doesn't matter.... ?
I decided to do that a couple of weeks ago.
Move on from my friends...i feel like they got stuck in a rut of things that don't take you anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I need to leave everyone behind and take off.
Only bring with me the people who are willing to step it up.
This guy was in the army when i met him. His friends of 10 years werent there when i was encouraging him for the better days to come.
He cried on my shoulders when his father passed 2 months ago.
I got pregnant by him and he never ran. It was both our decision to have an abortion. And after all we were having fun hang out with friends goin to beach parties out for drinks for all u can think of. 6 months doesn't sound like a lot. But we had been thru it all.
I cant put my head around it. He had his freedom when he wanted it. No questions asked no nagging no trips.
Ive been cool. Its sad man. That was ice cold.
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U know like normal people in a relationship should do.
Posted by seezythescorpionI gotcha.Posted by justagirlNot an open relationship. I meant that in a way that he wasnt being smothered. If he wanted to have lone time or hang with friends i never questioned it. I told him have fun and left him to chill.Posted by seezythescorpionHe had his freedom to do whatever? Was it an open relationship?Posted by AerazoAnd so he did it to the person that was by his side thru all the good and bad.Posted by Scorpino
I just don't know how can aquarius peeps be so detached! It could be 3-4 year relationship and they leave you like it's nothing!
About 8 months ago, my aqua friend of 4 years left every single one of their friends!
I'm not talking about her saying goodbye then part ways, she left all of her friends (including me), changed her number, blocked them from all of her previous accounts and made new ones.
I was the closest person to her so that felt weird, we used to skype everyday for hours doing our chores, watching movies together, etc....
I had to ask her colleagues to know that she's alive and well.. I feel so sad sometimes she left us that way. She just disappeared like it doesn't matter.... ?
I decided to do that a couple of weeks ago.
Move on from my friends...i feel like they got stuck in a rut of things that don't take you anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I need to leave everyone behind and take off.
Only bring with me the people who are willing to step it up.
This guy was in the army when i met him. His friends of 10 years werent there when i was encouraging him for the better days to come.
He cried on my shoulders when his father passed 2 months ago.
I got pregnant by him and he never ran. It was both our decision to have an abortion. And after all we were having fun hang out with friends goin to beach parties out for drinks for all u can think of. 6 months doesn't sound like a lot. But we had been thru it all.
I cant put my head around it. He had his freedom when he wanted it. No questions asked no nagging no trips.
Ive been cool. Its sad man. That was ice cold.
U know like normal people in a relationship should do.
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Posted by seezythescorpionI had written a long response to this explaining the many reasons he decided to part ways but I deleted it by accident.Posted by AerazoAnd so he did it to the person that was by his side thru all the good and bad.Posted by Scorpino
I just don't know how can aquarius peeps be so detached! It could be 3-4 year relationship and they leave you like it's nothing!
About 8 months ago, my aqua friend of 4 years left every single one of their friends!
I'm not talking about her saying goodbye then part ways, she left all of her friends (including me), changed her number, blocked them from all of her previous accounts and made new ones.
I was the closest person to her so that felt weird, we used to skype everyday for hours doing our chores, watching movies together, etc....
I had to ask her colleagues to know that she's alive and well.. I feel so sad sometimes she left us that way. She just disappeared like it doesn't matter.... ?
I decided to do that a couple of weeks ago.
Move on from my friends...i feel like they got stuck in a rut of things that don't take you anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I need to leave everyone behind and take off.
Only bring with me the people who are willing to step it up.
This guy was in the army when i met him. His friends of 10 years werent there when i was encouraging him for the better days to come.
He cried on my shoulders when his father passed 2 months ago.
I got pregnant by him and he never ran. It was both our decision to have an abortion. And after all we were having fun hang out with friends goin to beach parties out for drinks for all u can think of. 6 months doesn't sound like a lot. But we had been thru it all.
I cant put my head around it. He had his freedom when he wanted it. No questions asked no nagging no trips.
Ive been cool. Its sad man. That was ice cold.
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My thoughts on this is this,
I'm an Aquarius and our emotions don't unfold the same way as other people's, my voice will speak what my mind thinks rationally, even if im feeling another way but whatever my mind sees the best option is, that's what it will go with.
in terms of emotions sometimes I see as I get delayed feelings, later I'll be overthinking what I did, what I said and I will rationalize taking into account what my feelings are.
I see that his father's passing is probably what is affecting him the most right now. Whatever you did for him in sure he definitely appreciates that you were there and many times we need someone that will help us open our emotions and feelings when we can't and all the partying and going out took his mind away from things and getting into touch with his emotions.
He needs this time alone, he needs to think, feel, balance.
I advice you that he might come back, he might realize that he can have you as part of his life again but right now he needs his time alone.
That's if hes an aqua like me.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeYes but not when someone you spent so much time with tells u he has 0 feels. U cant argue that if u have some pride. Sorry. It is what it is.Posted by ShadowcatYa but people like tension arguments once in awhilePosted by CaramelizedCoffeeYes I think that was it. Although stability shouldn't be boring tbhPosted by seezythescorpionSounds very boring.Posted by Capricorngirl1111Im 27 and he is 32. Im not a clingy type at all. I never really smothered him but always gave him attention the same way he gave me.
How old are you both? My aqua did that with his ex. Dated for 10 years but he said he was very comfortable with her but didn't have a desire for her. So he cheated as told her he isn't happy and feels nothing....
But maybe your situation is different. Have you guys fought? Are you clingy?
We didnt fight. In fact everything seemed to be going really nice actually. He did say this in his speach. I dont know how he came up with this.
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Posted by seezythescorpion
I got pregnant by him and he never ran. It was both our decision to have an abortion. .
Have you considered that this could have affected him more than he let on? Not in a moralistic way but on a more emotional level?
Posted by sultrykittyI was thinking along those lines as well, then his father passed. it could be triggers.Posted by seezythescorpion
I got pregnant by him and he never ran. It was both our decision to have an abortion. .
Have you considered that this could have affected him more than he let on? Not in a moralistic way but on a more emotional level?
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeOnly control my life.Posted by Aerazo—?Posted by Scorpino
I just don't know how can aquarius peeps be so detached! It could be 3-4 year relationship and they leave you like it's nothing!
About 8 months ago, my aqua friend of 4 years left every single one of their friends!
I'm not talking about her saying goodbye then part ways, she left all of her friends (including me), changed her number, blocked them from all of her previous accounts and made new ones.
I was the closest person to her so that felt weird, we used to skype everyday for hours doing our chores, watching movies together, etc....
I had to ask her colleagues to know that she's alive and well.. I feel so sad sometimes she left us that way. She just disappeared like it doesn't matter.... ?
I decided to do that a couple of weeks ago.
Move on from my friends...i feel like they got stuck in a rut of things that don't take you anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I need to leave everyone behind and take off.
Only bring with me the people who are willing to step it up.
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Idc about other people's life.
why do I sound like a control freak?
Posted by AerazoI also feel that may play a huge role to his mood being down and maybe he wants to close off n he didnt wanna do it without telling me.. He tried to stand so strong its eating at him. I know. It isnt easy.Posted by seezythescorpionI had written a long response to this explaining the many reasons he decided to part ways but I deleted it by accident.Posted by AerazoAnd so he did it to the person that was by his side thru all the good and bad.Posted by Scorpino
I just don't know how can aquarius peeps be so detached! It could be 3-4 year relationship and they leave you like it's nothing!
About 8 months ago, my aqua friend of 4 years left every single one of their friends!
I'm not talking about her saying goodbye then part ways, she left all of her friends (including me), changed her number, blocked them from all of her previous accounts and made new ones.
I was the closest person to her so that felt weird, we used to skype everyday for hours doing our chores, watching movies together, etc....
I had to ask her colleagues to know that she's alive and well.. I feel so sad sometimes she left us that way. She just disappeared like it doesn't matter.... ?
I decided to do that a couple of weeks ago.
Move on from my friends...i feel like they got stuck in a rut of things that don't take you anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I need to leave everyone behind and take off.
Only bring with me the people who are willing to step it up.
This guy was in the army when i met him. His friends of 10 years werent there when i was encouraging him for the better days to come.
He cried on my shoulders when his father passed 2 months ago.
I got pregnant by him and he never ran. It was both our decision to have an abortion. And after all we were having fun hang out with friends goin to beach parties out for drinks for all u can think of. 6 months doesn't sound like a lot. But we had been thru it all.
I cant put my head around it. He had his freedom when he wanted it. No questions asked no nagging no trips.
Ive been cool. Its sad man. That was ice cold.
My thoughts on this is this,
I'm an Aquarius and our emotions don't unfold the same way as other people's, my voice will speak what my mind thinks rationally, even if im feeling another way but whatever my mind sees the best option is, that's what it will go with.
in terms of emotions sometimes I see as I get delayed feelings, later I'll be overthinking what I did, what I said and I will rationalize taking into account what my feelings are.
I see that his father's passing is probably what is affecting him the most right now. Whatever you did for him in sure he definitely appreciates that you were there and many times we need someone that will help us open our emotions and feelings when we can't and all the partying and going out took his mind away from things and getting into touch with his emotions.
He needs this time alone, he needs to think, feel, balance.
I advice you that he might come back, he might realize that he can have you as part of his life again but right now he needs his time alone.
That's if hes an aqua like me.click to expand
If he wants to be alone he can be. Thats why i didnt say a word. I didnt react aggresively. Believe me i could have.. but I know it isnt me and i know it isnt the way the relationship was going that makes.him feel the way he does.
He maybe realisez or not. I have no hard feelings. Im sure the throwing the cup or blaming him and all that kind of tensional reaction wasnt what he was looking for when he told me this
He was looking for understanding. Sometimes its just brutal when it comes out of nowhrre. Thats why im shocked.. suprised.. but not mad. My concious is clear.
I hope he finds his peace. I will leave him to it.
Posted by seezythescorpionI know you are a Scorpio.Posted by GemitatiI would have done the same thing. But i would make sure i let them know that it was coming. I wouldnt invite u over for a movie and end up like this.. I would have told u i would like to see you for a chat that is important to me.Posted by seezythescorpionI am just curious.Posted by Capmercury87Not me though. And if 6 months of all that was with 0 feelings. Dont bother urself.Ill open the door for you to walk out. I wont stop u. I wont beg you. I will not disrespect you. Good bye n take care.Posted by seezythescorpionWere Aquarian, we could call a stranger baby, but it don't mean anything if our hearts not in it.Posted by Capmercury87Cant say i dont appreciate it. But u dont do that to the person u was calling baby 10 mins ago.
Honesty is the best policy
He probably kept it up to keep you calm, most people overreact when we leave em.
What would be an acceptable break up scenario for you.
Or hownwould YOU break up with someone?
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And it seems like you hanged up on him being 'nice' at breaking up point. And frigging movie...
Let's imagine...he broke a leg and inviting you for a coffee. You come and see his leg broken. He didn't tell you so you wouldn't go crazy extra 30min while driving because you will find out anyway but he spared you 30min of your nerves!
Or you are in vacation and your sister is calling you that your parent is sick. Like not life threatening sick. Wouldn't you prefer they keeping it to themselves and take care of parent and let you have your long awaited break at the beach—
To me it is all natural! Don't call me with bad news IF I can't do nothing about it!!!
You as a Scorpio saying - this is how YOU would do it.
He is not YOU - so he did it the way he did. Which isn't nasty or anything. He just didn't tell you 'come for movie and break up!'
And to me it would be a point in his favor.
Though he could dissapear and block you everywhere and then your post would look like 98% of posts here that come up daily.
Posted by GemitatiU asked me how i would do it and i told u how i would do it. I didnt at no point say he should have done it that way.Posted by seezythescorpionI know you are a Scorpio.Posted by GemitatiI would have done the same thing. But i would make sure i let them know that it was coming. I wouldnt invite u over for a movie and end up like this.. I would have told u i would like to see you for a chat that is important to me.Posted by seezythescorpionI am just curious.Posted by Capmercury87Not me though. And if 6 months of all that was with 0 feelings. Dont bother urself.Ill open the door for you to walk out. I wont stop u. I wont beg you. I will not disrespect you. Good bye n take care.Posted by seezythescorpionWere Aquarian, we could call a stranger baby, but it don't mean anything if our hearts not in it.Posted by Capmercury87Cant say i dont appreciate it. But u dont do that to the person u was calling baby 10 mins ago.
Honesty is the best policy
He probably kept it up to keep you calm, most people overreact when we leave em.
What would be an acceptable break up scenario for you.
Or hownwould YOU break up with someone?
And it seems like you hanged up on him being 'nice' at breaking up point. And frigging movie...
Let's imagine...he broke a leg and inviting you for a coffee. You come and see his leg broken. He didn't tell you so you wouldn't go crazy extra 30min while driving because you will find out anyway but he spared you 30min of your nerves!
Or you are in vacation and your sister is calling you that your parent is sick. Like not life threatening sick. Wouldn't you prefer they keeping it to themselves and take care of parent and let you have your long awaited break at the beach—
To me it is all natural! Don't call me with bad news IF I can't do nothing about it!!!
You as a Scorpio saying - this is how YOU would do it.
He is not YOU - so he did it the way he did. Which isn't nasty or anything. He just didn't tell you 'come for movie and break up!'
And to me it would be a point in his favor.
Though he could dissapear and block you everywhere and then your post would look like 98% of posts here that come up daily.
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Am not mad at him.. im just shocked by it as it wasnt what i was expecting.
I understand where u coming from. And i said above i cant say i don't appreciate what he did. It just took be by surprise.
He must care enough to have given me an explanation. N that 0 feels is maybe more about him loosing his father that his heart turned into ice.
Its all still fresh. I will let him take his time. Some people hold on to closest to find strenght. Some cant open up to the one closest to them and run lock themselves in a room nd let it all out and come out like nothing happened.
Im the type that runs in to the room not wanting to be around people. So i understand. If it isnt about me i know he will come back when the phase is over.
All good either way. Like i said my concious is clear.
Posted by sultrykittyIt may have. And it has its affects on me too. But it was both our responsibility and i believe we both handled it ok emotionally. None of us seen the other overly upset over it. Eventho i know it may have affected us more individually than we both let on..Posted by seezythescorpion
I got pregnant by him and he never ran. It was both our decision to have an abortion. .
Have you considered that this could have affected him more than he let on? Not in a moralistic way but on a more emotional level?
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Posted by seezythescorpionYeah...it's weird. However you look at it.Posted by GemitatiU asked me how i would do it and i told u how i would do it. I didnt at no point say he should have done it that way.Posted by seezythescorpionI know you are a Scorpio.Posted by GemitatiI would have done the same thing. But i would make sure i let them know that it was coming. I wouldnt invite u over for a movie and end up like this.. I would have told u i would like to see you for a chat that is important to me.Posted by seezythescorpionI am just curious.Posted by Capmercury87Not me though. And if 6 months of all that was with 0 feelings. Dont bother urself.Ill open the door for you to walk out. I wont stop u. I wont beg you. I will not disrespect you. Good bye n take care.Posted by seezythescorpionWere Aquarian, we could call a stranger baby, but it don't mean anything if our hearts not in it.Posted by Capmercury87Cant say i dont appreciate it. But u dont do that to the person u was calling baby 10 mins ago.
Honesty is the best policy
He probably kept it up to keep you calm, most people overreact when we leave em.
What would be an acceptable break up scenario for you.
Or hownwould YOU break up with someone?
And it seems like you hanged up on him being 'nice' at breaking up point. And frigging movie...
Let's imagine...he broke a leg and inviting you for a coffee. You come and see his leg broken. He didn't tell you so you wouldn't go crazy extra 30min while driving because you will find out anyway but he spared you 30min of your nerves!
Or you are in vacation and your sister is calling you that your parent is sick. Like not life threatening sick. Wouldn't you prefer they keeping it to themselves and take care of parent and let you have your long awaited break at the beach—
To me it is all natural! Don't call me with bad news IF I can't do nothing about it!!!
You as a Scorpio saying - this is how YOU would do it.
He is not YOU - so he did it the way he did. Which isn't nasty or anything. He just didn't tell you 'come for movie and break up!'
And to me it would be a point in his favor.
Though he could dissapear and block you everywhere and then your post would look like 98% of posts here that come up daily.
Am not mad at him.. im just shocked by it as it wasnt what i was expecting.
I understand where u coming from. And i said above i cant say i don't appreciate what he did. It just took be by surprise.
He must care enough to have given me an explanation. N that 0 feels is maybe more about him loosing his father that his heart turned into ice.
Its all still fresh. I will let him take his time. Some people hold on to closest to find strenght. Some cant open up to the one closest to them and run lock themselves in a room nd let it all out and come out like nothing happened.
Im the type that runs in to the room not wanting to be around people. So i understand. If it isnt about me i know he will come back when the phase is over.
All good either way. Like i said my concious is clear.click to expand
And it's good that you believe in positive outcome. Will you take him back?
Posted by tizianiHe atleast cared enough to give me an explanation.. i cant be mad that. What kind of good is holding a grudge gonna give me?Posted by seezythescorpionPosted by AerazoI also feel that may play a huge role to his mood being down and maybe he wants to close off n he didnt wanna do it without telling me.. He tried to stand so strong its eating at him. I know. It isnt easy.Posted by seezythescorpionI had written a long response to this explaining the many reasons he decided to part ways but I deleted it by accident.Posted by AerazoAnd so he did it to the person that was by his side thru all the good and bad.Posted by Scorpino
I just don't know how can aquarius peeps be so detached! It could be 3-4 year relationship and they leave you like it's nothing!
About 8 months ago, my aqua friend of 4 years left every single one of their friends!
I'm not talking about her saying goodbye then part ways, she left all of her friends (including me), changed her number, blocked them from all of her previous accounts and made new ones.
I was the closest person to her so that felt weird, we used to skype everyday for hours doing our chores, watching movies together, etc....
I had to ask her colleagues to know that she's alive and well.. I feel so sad sometimes she left us that way. She just disappeared like it doesn't matter.... ?
I decided to do that a couple of weeks ago.
Move on from my friends...i feel like they got stuck in a rut of things that don't take you anywhere. Sometimes I feel like I need to leave everyone behind and take off.
Only bring with me the people who are willing to step it up.
This guy was in the army when i met him. His friends of 10 years werent there when i was encouraging him for the better days to come.
He cried on my shoulders when his father passed 2 months ago.
I got pregnant by him and he never ran. It was both our decision to have an abortion. And after all we were having fun hang out with friends goin to beach parties out for drinks for all u can think of. 6 months doesn't sound like a lot. But we had been thru it all.
I cant put my head around it. He had his freedom when he wanted it. No questions asked no nagging no trips.
Ive been cool. Its sad man. That was ice cold.
My thoughts on this is this,
I'm an Aquarius and our emotions don't unfold the same way as other people's, my voice will speak what my mind thinks rationally, even if im feeling another way but whatever my mind sees the best option is, that's what it will go with.
in terms of emotions sometimes I see as I get delayed feelings, later I'll be overthinking what I did, what I said and I will rationalize taking into account what my feelings are.
I see that his father's passing is probably what is affecting him the most right now. Whatever you did for him in sure he definitely appreciates that you were there and many times we need someone that will help us open our emotions and feelings when we can't and all the partying and going out took his mind away from things and getting into touch with his emotions.
He needs this time alone, he needs to think, feel, balance.
I advice you that he might come back, he might realize that he can have you as part of his life again but right now he needs his time alone.
That's if hes an aqua like me.
If he wants to be alone he can be. Thats why i didnt say a word. I didnt react aggresively. Believe me i could have.. but I know it isnt me and i know it isnt the way the relationship was going that makes.him feel the way he does.
He maybe realisez or not. I have no hard feelings. Im sure the throwing the cup or blaming him and all that kind of tensional reaction wasnt what he was looking for when he told me this
He was looking for understanding. Sometimes its just brutal when it comes out of nowhrre. Thats why im shocked.. suprised.. but not mad. My concious is clear.
I hope he finds his peace. I will leave him to it.
C'mon, how could you not have hard feelings? I would.
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Were not kids. So many assholes around that would have done it without a word.
Im only upset the way it come out was cold and it hit me unexpectedly.
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