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Honesty is the best policy
but what do you call honesty?

the sky is blue, the table is table, it was yesterday, a year ago, it will be a chair 2 years after...

but emotional truth? feelings truth? there is no honesty, because one day you may feel some way, 2 years later other way... so beeing honest with negative emotions aka "I dont feel anything" is just plain brutal or manipulative or..... its not honesty, honestly 🙂 it is just waiting for a reaction or ego-boosting, revenge...etc (under the cover of: I dont want to hurt you or something... can we talk about it? can we stay friends? etc., the usual bullshit)...

I mean, why would anybody willingly talk about, listen to how the other person doesnt want you? who is a masochist enough to sit throu some unnecessary confessions like this?

I mean, if you dont feel anything, just leave me alone, dont invite me, dont call me and I will get the hint eventually.... dont offend my pride and genuine feelings for you with: we need to talk about it, come for a dinner, can we stay friends? basically: can I talk to you about HOW I DONT LOVE YOU?

I dont think so 🙂


So you prefer ghosting?
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It's actually a shoker after so many pleads for closure to see someone who doesn't need nor want a closure and rather to be ghosted.

I think secretly it's her way of saying 'if you didn't tell me - I could fool myself into thinking you are terminally sick or make up something to soothe my ego'...

NOW I have to live with 'I have no feelings for you...'

However it could be that he IS lied about having no feelings just because he is having a secret he doesn't want to disclose...

So now all guys will think 'no closure...fk them women with their moodiness! Ghosting is way to go...'

Hmmmm
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he told you he felt nothing? i'd give him the hell of his life right there so he could feel something. and no. please don't be a friend lol


i don't understand why we have to approach everything from the ego. maybe the person that hurt you is hurting too and just doesn't know how to communicate that.


i have an aqua moon so it shouldn't be from the ego. it's about finding out the real truth behind his words and give back 10x lol


ahh isn't that vengeful? hence not a good thing?


well i'm no gandhi obviously lol

some emotionally selfish people would try everything they can to avoid drama while completely disregard others feelings in the process. don't you think it's cruel and inconsiderate to tell anyone that you have been seeing for months that you feel NOTHING? why is it necessary??

i think he needs to learn a lesson. an emotional tsunami is good for this type once a while lol
Nothing = no desire, passion.
U wouldnt believe what u were saying if u saw us together.. i wouldnt be so shocked if it was anything like u said.. No passion.?No desire.? Hell no.

Impossible🙂




Then where did the nothing come from?

Some men create the illusion of passion to sweep you off your feet so you feel love for them.

Then they re-evaluate if their feelings were real for u or he just wanted you to feed his ego and like him.

If they realise they "don't feel anything" they move on...

Read this:

http://made2shine.com/psychology-in-love-understanding-the-way-men-fall-in-love/
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That's crap written by a theoretic.
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he told you he felt nothing? i'd give him the hell of his life right there so he could feel something. and no. please don't be a friend lol


i don't understand why we have to approach everything from the ego. maybe the person that hurt you is hurting too and just doesn't know how to communicate that.


i have an aqua moon so it shouldn't be from the ego. it's about finding out the real truth behind his words and give back 10x lol


ahh isn't that vengeful? hence not a good thing?


well i'm no gandhi obviously lol

some emotionally selfish people would try everything they can to avoid drama while completely disregard others feelings in the process. don't you think it's cruel and inconsiderate to tell anyone that you have been seeing for months that you feel NOTHING? why is it necessary??

i think he needs to learn a lesson. an emotional tsunami is good for this type once a while lol
Nothing = no desire, passion.
U wouldnt believe what u were saying if u saw us together.. i wouldnt be so shocked if it was anything like u said.. No passion.?No desire.? Hell no.

Impossible🙂




Then where did the nothing come from?

Some men create the illusion of passion to sweep you off your feet so you feel love for them.

Then they re-evaluate if their feelings were real for u or he just wanted you to feed his ego and like him.

If they realise they "don't feel anything" they move on...

Read this:

http://made2shine.com/psychology-in-love-understanding-the-way-men-fall-in-love/
That's crap written by a theoretic.


It's better than your fantasy life
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Keep reading this crap...

You could write some of same and start believing in it...oh! You do already. Sorry.

Got that now.

I'll go back to my fantasies...it's so much real...
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How old are you both? My aqua did that with his ex. Dated for 10 years but he said he was very comfortable with her but didn't have a desire for her. So he cheated as told her he isn't happy and feels nothing....

But maybe your situation is different. Have you guys fought? Are you clingy?
Im 27 and he is 32. Im not a clingy type at all. I never really smothered him but always gave him attention the same way he gave me.

We didnt fight. In fact everything seemed to be going really nice actually. He did say this in his speach. I dont know how he came up with this.

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Everytime the same age as my Aqua (ex) comes as I'm like. Omg is it the same guy? lol. Aqua is so unpredictable ...
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Posted by Arielle83
It's good you didn't give him anything when he said all that to you.

I'll bet he'll try the chase again in a few weeks. Don't give in. Holdback.

The first 6 months of any relationship is a lie. Don't say I love you because its infatuation.

Love takes longer.
I never told him i loved him. But i of course wasnt empty. I couldnt spend 6 months with a person i felt nothing for.
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he told you he felt nothing? i'd give him the hell of his life right there so he could feel something. and no. please don't be a friend lol


i don't understand why we have to approach everything from the ego. maybe the person that hurt you is hurting too and just doesn't know how to communicate that.


i have an aqua moon so it shouldn't be from the ego. it's about finding out the real truth behind his words and give back 10x lol


ahh isn't that vengeful? hence not a good thing?


well i'm no gandhi obviously lol

some emotionally selfish people would try everything they can to avoid drama while completely disregard others feelings in the process. don't you think it's cruel and inconsiderate to tell anyone that you have been seeing for months that you feel NOTHING? why is it necessary??

i think he needs to learn a lesson. an emotional tsunami is good for this type once a while lol
Nothing = no desire, passion.
U wouldnt believe what u were saying if u saw us together.. i wouldnt be so shocked if it was anything like u said.. No passion.?No desire.? Hell no.

Impossible🙂




Then where did the nothing come from?

Some men create the illusion of passion to sweep you off your feet so you feel love for them.

Then they re-evaluate if their feelings were real for u or he just wanted you to feed his ego and like him.

If they realise they "don't feel anything" they move on...

Read this:

http://made2shine.com/psychology-in-love-understanding-the-way-men-fall-in-love/
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Thats probably a question that he should answer. I also would like to know myself. Thats the shit thats shocking to me.

I wouldnt in million years have thought that he felt nothing. Cuz thats not what he was showing.

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I went out to a friends bday party last night. It was all mutual group of friends that were there. Then my aquas closes mate came. He is also a very good friend of mine. Then they left. I heard he was goin to go pick aqua up.

When they came back. They went to another bar that was very close to where we went. His friend came back to where we was but aqua didn't. Thats how i know.

After some time i left. Walking down to my car i walked passed from where they were. I didnt look at him or said hi to anybody else. I just walked.

Ive seen his car parked right opposite mine. So as i drove i seen that they were walking. On my way ive seen a dead kitten in the street and the mother was there just looking at his killed baby

I have a cat. So it broke my heart. I pulled aside. I put the kitten somewhere else from the middle of the road.

Then i stood up and saw him driving down. . I walked back to my car. He stopped to check but i didnt want it. I was already in my car so i kinda told him with my hands nothing to worry about u can drive. So he did.
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he told you he felt nothing? i'd give him the hell of his life right there so he could feel something. and no. please don't be a friend lol


i don't understand why we have to approach everything from the ego. maybe the person that hurt you is hurting too and just doesn't know how to communicate that.


i have an aqua moon so it shouldn't be from the ego. it's about finding out the real truth behind his words and give back 10x lol


ahh isn't that vengeful? hence not a good thing?


well i'm no gandhi obviously lol

some emotionally selfish people would try everything they can to avoid drama while completely disregard others feelings in the process. don't you think it's cruel and inconsiderate to tell anyone that you have been seeing for months that you feel NOTHING? why is it necessary??

i think he needs to learn a lesson. an emotional tsunami is good for this type once a while lol
Nothing = no desire, passion.
U wouldnt believe what u were saying if u saw us together.. i wouldnt be so shocked if it was anything like u said.. No passion.?No desire.? Hell no.

Impossible🙂




Then where did the nothing come from?

Some men create the illusion of passion to sweep you off your feet so you feel love for them.

Then they re-evaluate if their feelings were real for u or he just wanted you to feed his ego and like him.

If they realise they "don't feel anything" they move on...

Read this:

http://made2shine.com/psychology-in-love-understanding-the-way-men-fall-in-love/
Thats probably a question that he should answer. I also would like to know myself. Thats the shit thats shocking to me.

I wouldnt in million years have thought that he felt nothing. Cuz thats not what he was showing.


A man only feels like a man in the presence of a woman.
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Can i ask what do u mean by that statement please?
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It's good you didn't give him anything when he said all that to you.

I'll bet he'll try the chase again in a few weeks. Don't give in. Holdback.

The first 6 months of any relationship is a lie. Don't say I love you because its infatuation.

Love takes longer.
I never told him i loved him. But i of course wasnt empty. I couldnt spend 6 months with a person i felt nothing for.


But a man can as long as he gets sex
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He didnt need to me in a rship for sex. This was no fwb situation..

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Women are boring, they should all be left at the worst times by the men they love the most!

Serves em right for rejecting the rest of us 99.9999% of the time.

Think we care about you?

Ha!

?
Some women marry men you know...

...I guess you don't...sorry! Keep wallowing in your misery. And do yourself a favor...just analyze why you are so miserable all the time?

Maybe change your hand or something...it's pathetic what you saying!
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Posted by bricklemark
Women are boring, they should all be left at the worst times by the men they love the most!

Serves em right for rejecting the rest of us 99.9999% of the time.

Think we care about you?

Ha!

?
I would really like to know who made u so bitter, buddy?? Its a shame u havent come across a real woman or been rejected by the ones u liked. So much hatred and hurt is hidden behind ur post. Misery is a desease. Get well soon.
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Women are boring, they should all be left at the worst times by the men they love the most!

Serves em right for rejecting the rest of us 99.9999% of the time.

Think we care about you?

Ha!

?
I would really like to know who made u so bitter, buddy?? Its a shame u havent come across a real woman or been rejected by the ones u liked. So much hatred and hurt is hidden behind ur post. Misery is a desease. Get well soon.
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Not bitter, just observant, and 100% of dudes agree with me.
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Always expect the unexpected with Aquas
It really hurt me that i went to his place to hear all of this and just leave like that.

That wasnt nice. He could have spoken to me somewhere outside his house about all this.

I feel pretty sad to be honest.
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Hugs girl...I can imagine how you feel. That's was so cold of him.

I hope you feel better soon and find real love ❤️
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Women are boring, they should all be left at the worst times by the men they love the most!

Serves em right for rejecting the rest of us 99.9999% of the time.

Think we care about you?

Ha!

?
I would really like to know who made u so bitter, buddy?? Its a shame u havent come across a real woman or been rejected by the ones u liked. So much hatred and hurt is hidden behind ur post. Misery is a desease. Get well soon.
Not bitter, just observant, and 100% of dudes agree with me.
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Observing is one thing and wishing such bad wish on women is another. Some of us dont deserve that, no human being deserves that. And % 80 of ladies would agree with me. At least that percentage is more realistic.
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Always expect the unexpected with Aquas
It really hurt me that i went to his place to hear all of this and just leave like that.

That wasnt nice. He could have spoken to me somewhere outside his house about all this.

I feel pretty sad to be honest.
Hugs girl...I can imagine how you feel. That's was so cold of him.

I hope you feel better soon and find real love ❤️

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Thansk bella. So dissapointed though. After all the mofos ive come across. I really could tell without a doubt this one was different. Its like He showed me what real love should be like. And then told me there is no love. Does that make sense..

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Always expect the unexpected with Aquas
It really hurt me that i went to his place to hear all of this and just leave like that.

That wasnt nice. He could have spoken to me somewhere outside his house about all this.

I feel pretty sad to be honest.
Hugs girl...I can imagine how you feel. That's was so cold of him.

I hope you feel better soon and find real love ❤️


Thansk bella. So dissapointed though. After all the mofos ive come across. I really could tell without a doubt this one was different. Its like He showed me what real love should be like. And then told me there is no love. Does that make sense..




makes you doubt yourself, doesn't it?

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Very much so eventho i keep reminding myself ive done nothing wrong and the problem can not be me.

He dropped me from the top of the hills. Im truly broken.