@piya12
7 Years
Is he testing me?
Understanding Aquarius Men and Their Testing Behaviors
Aquarius men often test emotional boundaries to gauge your feelings and independence. Their behavior may include pulling back or creating jealousy to see how you respond. Their actions can also be influenced by personal issues, such as family problems. Recognizing these signs can help you interpret his intentions and determine if he genuinely cares.
Don’t make him jealous even if he makes you jealous. He will stop when he sees you’ve stopped completely.
does it matter, the jealousy, I'd say is an ego thing going, that leo/aqua axis is strong 😆 I have seen some aqua being very territorial when they like someone, like is a competition.
I think is a coincidence, that he doesn't call you cuz is mom and the jealousy thing, I'd think you should call him, so he knows you care about him and his family.
don't bother overthinking why he does things, maybe if you're more straightforward he start being it too.
Been saying this lot as an Aqua I've never purposely make someone jealous.
I've never ever wanted someone to jealous for what I do or say. Infact I was annoyed by it.
Mia after intimacy... what’s new ? 😂
I feel they get like that when they r not so sure about you n how u feel though.
No testing.
He is probably not doing it on purpose. He just needs some time to collect his thoughts.
Just don’t take it personally and follow his lead and everything will be ok
men don't know how to test
That's the way he is. Get used to it or get an upgrade 😄
we both know this is something more the just friendship
Be careful with that. If its an unspoken thing then thats you assuming.
Also hes dealing with a dying parent. Thats a lot of stress and sadness right there. Its entirely possible he kissed you in a non-romantic way seeking comfort from a good friend in a moment of weakness. Don't read too much into a kiss at this moment in time.
No testing.
He is probably not doing it on purpose. He just needs some time to collect his thoughts.
Just don’t take it personally and follow his lead and everything will be ok
my aqua doesnt test me. And we are talking about marriage. I honestly dont understand all this testing bs or disappearing after intimacy. Aquas dont do that to me. I dont understand where this idea of the man testing a woman came from.
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I agree with you. They never behave like that with me. Quite the opposite. Always reliable and communicating well.
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I am a pisces but not the very clingy type. My aqua and I are very good friends ( we still keep it that way though we both know this is something more the just friendship ). He is very caring towards me, but then again aquas care for everyone, right ? I am the one he shares everything with. Lately since last week he hasn't been calling me. This happened after we cuddled and kissed for the first time. He was absolutely fine when he left. Though when I call he speaks but he doesn't sound his usual self sometimes, so I can't say he has pulled the disappearing act totally. I know he is going through personal issues with his mother being terminally ill. Lately he has been trying to make me feel jealous by talking about other women who have a crush on him. I don't react much and turn it into a joke. I have noticed him getting jealous when I speak about other guys. Though he too makes a joke about it.
I need help in understanding this situation. Does he like/love me? Do aqua men test the people they are interested in? Why does he try to make me feel jealous ? Do they stop calling and contacting to see reaction ? Please I need insights to understand this man.