im a 24 f Aries and the guy I was dating is a 24 m Aquarius. We started dating in march. Then in mid June he started being weird and said he can't handle a relationship right now but he loves me and doesn't want to let me go. He said he just has a lot going on, and it's not that he thinks he'll lose his freedom or wants to hook up with other girls, he just is trying to get his life to where he wants it and can't handle the stress of a relationship and having to check in with someone. Since mid June he has flip flopped from saying that to how he loves me and wants me 100% . Well this past Sunday, my daughter and I went to spend the day with him. An "argument" came up and he said he's done, etc, and he wishes I could understand where he's coming from. We were in the car and he was holding my hand and told me multiple times that he does love me. Once we got back to his house and were saying our goodbyes, I told him I'll miss him and he said don't cry, don't be sad. and I said how can I not? I'm going to miss you so much and I'm never going to see you again. He said "I know you think I don't have any emotions but this is going to hurt me way more than it's going to hurt you" and I was basically on the verge of crying and he said "look if you want to ride it out and see what happens then that's up to you". The on Tuesday he texted me "hey I hope you're doing good", I responded on Thursday "thanks, I hope you are too" and he put "thanks for the delayed response" and I put"what do you expect from me?You tell me you don't want a relationship, that you don't want me right now but then text, keep me hanging on. I am confused so im sorry if it took me a minute to get my thoughts together to text you". he then put the ok emoji and said "nvm". I texted back "if you want to talk then talk. It was pointless even texting me if you're going to act that way. This is why I took so long to reply. Because I knew this would happen. I was better off ignoring you. You say you're not stringing me along, then please explain what you're doing". So before all of this happened, he got mad at me and Took me off snapchat. Well I added him and went all day without him adding me back. So I texted him last night "if you're gonna ignore me and not add em back on snapchat id rather you tell me so that way I don't feel stupid and can unadd you". well shortly after he did add me on Snapchat but never texted me back. SO my question is, is it over for good? Should I just leave him alone? I have gone through a couple breakups in serious relationships and this one has by far been the hardest for me to cope with. Should I reach out periodically? I just want to text him goodbye and a thanks for all the memories, but idk if he'd think that's pathetic or not. I am just very very heartbroken.
