
Gem0620
@Gem0620
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Posted by STILLSame sex. Female.Posted by AerialView
@STILL
Hey @AerialView.
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Posted by AerialViewlolPosted by STILLPosted by AerialView
@STILL
Hey @AerialView.
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Same sex. Female.
In general Aquarius women are enigma to me.
How to win STILL back for example? Give us insight (: click to expandclick to expand

Posted by STILLK lol take your time.Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialView
@STILL
Hey @AerialView.
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Same sex. Female.
In general Aquarius women are enigma to me.
How to win STILL back for example? Give us insight (: click to expand
lol
I'm usually very stubborn, but there are some exceptions. Let me read. I'll be back later. click to expandclick to expand


Posted by Gem0620She's seeing someone else and still keep an eye on you as a back up plan.
Can a Aquarius explain why she still has me on snapchat and watches my stories. That's what's throwing me off. I know when I'm done with someone I delete them off of social media and don't waste my time looking at their stuff.
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallowlol i dunno about other aquas...Posted by lisabethur8
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
so interesting cause,
there's this guy who i remembered talked about an aquarius woman he was interested in
she had a temper and was soooo jealous.
finally she said to him that he stalked her too much xd
and cut him cold.
but in truth, she was contemplating other guys on her list, she was seeing. and she seemed to have liked the other guys better to her taste.
which is really COLD. just cut off like that. lol
anyway, i wouldn't worry about this gal anyway OP
just move on with ur life.
The trick with fixed signs esp aqua is, if you want to get rid of them give them the upper hand. Make them believe it's them who are quitting on you. Otherwise they keep popping up and they can be whiney too.
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Posted by Gem0620she likes ur stuff and maybe u are talented..
Can a Aquarius explain why she still has me on snapchat and watches my stories. That's what's throwing me off. I know when I'm done with someone I delete them off of social media and don't waste my time looking at their stuff.

Posted by melisaWOWThis makes much more sense to me.
I am an Aquarius and with the little information I got from your post...I am wondering if she is not guarding herself. If I were her I was probably thinking that she is afriad of being vulnerable and would rather just distance herself and claim her independence instead of making you feel like you have something over her. She doesn't want to "belong" to someone but wants to maintain her freedom. Maybe the level of intimacy that night was too real for her.
It's not that she doesn't like you- maybe she is feeling it too intense and doesn't want to fall prey to heart break. Once our hearts have been broken badly before, our walls become thicker so we distance ourselves because it's easier to deal with that.

Posted by OrGasMeI'm afraid if I keep leaving her be, it might indicate I've moved on or I'm okay with things not working out and that I don't care. Which is the complete opposite.
Leave her be and if she likes you, she will come back into your life in a creative way.

Posted by Gem0620I had an Aqua do that to me when I didn't contact him for a while. (he was out of town and I knew that, so I didn't want to bother him) Maybe she was hurt over you giving her unneeded space. Just hit her up again and say hi casually. Let it go if she doesn't respond. Honestly, it is totally up the Aqua whether they feel you are worth it. You can't really depend on the advice of other cause they love contradiction. Aquas are so different, that know one can tell you exactly whats going on, only she can. You could've asked why though, and she may have told you.
Can a Aquarius explain why she still has me on snapchat and watches my stories. That's what's throwing me off. I know when I'm done with someone I delete them off of social media and don't waste my time looking at their stuff.
Posted by Gem0620Similar thing happened to me. I would say, leave her alone. No contact. If she wants u, she’ll find her way. ma crush blocked me on instagram but still has me on other instagram (i have two) n all i know he stalks.
I was seeing and talking with an Aquarius for about four months and everything seemed to be fine from what I understood. Then one night she introduced me to her friends and invited me stay over her place for the first time, everything was fine that night and the morning afterwards, we texted, with her being the one to initiate the texts after our night together. But then she just stopped responding to me a few days afterwards, after I asked her if she wanted to hang out again.
I let her be for a couple of days, as being a Gemini I know how sometimes I want my space... then I hit her back up again asking her how she's been and that's when she responded back stating she didn't think it was working out between us.
I felt it came out of left field as when we were together the last time, everything was fine. So I had to ask her if it was something I did that night, but she never responded back...
It's been a few weeks now and what I realized is, she hasn't cut me off completely, she still has me on Snapchat and watches my stories.
So now I'm not sure if she pulled away because things got serious for the first time that night between us, like me meeting her friends and then later us getting much more personal in the sense that I spent the night over her place for the first time (no sex, just talking, cuddling and kissing).
Or is it possible she pulled away because she finally realized she wasn't truly feeling me?
I've been beating myself up over this for the past few weeks, as it takes a lot for me to like someone and just would like to know if there's any way of winning her back or there's no turning back with an Aquarius after they make up their minds on someone?
All my friends keep advising me to leave it alone and not waste my time, but I feel like that's the easy answer.
By the way, full discloser this was a same sex relationship.

Posted by Gem0620My aqua ex checks every single story of mine..... and i post 5+ times a day no clue why when we don’t talk anymore. Even random friends will at least make a casual comment every once in awhile. Not him. He just enjoys looking I guess
Can a Aquarius explain why she still has me on snapchat and watches my stories. That's what's throwing me off. I know when I'm done with someone I delete them off of social media and don't waste my time looking at their stuff.

Posted by swagnotforsaleWorked like a charm how? I ask because I have no interest in knowing she's "stalking" me, in other words looking at my Snapchat everyday, which she's still doing as recently as yesterday.
I followed what everybody told me here in this forum, leave him alone, ignore him, get a life, no contact, it works like a charm. lol at least he still stalks me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Who ended the relationship between the both of you? Or was it mutual? Because she's the one who stopped our relationship from progressing and she's now the one still looking at my stories everyday.
My aqua ex checks every single story of mine..... and i post 5+ times a day no clue why when we don’t talk anymore. Even random friends will at least make a casual comment every once in awhile. Not him. He just enjoys looking I guess click to expand

Posted by Gem0620Same as you. He ended it. Doesn’t make sense why he still looks. He knows how I feel about him too. And how it makes me feel when he looks. But it doesn’t stop him. Why do you think she looks?Posted by pinkbird03
My aqua ex checks every single story of mine..... and i post 5+ times a day no clue why when we don’t talk anymore. Even random friends will at least make a casual comment every once in awhile. Not him. He just enjoys looking I guess click to expand
Who ended the relationship between the both of you? Or was it mutual? Because she's the one who stopped our relationship from progressing and she's now the one still looking at my stories everyday. click to expandclick to expand



Posted by pinkbird03
Same as you. He ended it. Doesn’t make sense why he still looks. He knows how I feel about him too. And how it makes me feel when he looks. But it doesn’t stop him. Why do you think she looks?

Posted by LadyNeptuneThe literal title of this thread is "Is there anyway of winning back an Aquarius?", I've accepted that she made up her mind and ended things, that's why I'm here.
Why don’t you trust her to know her own mind? She said to you it’s not working out and ended it. Stop looking for hidden meaning and accept that she changed her mind. People are allowed to do that. That’s what dating is about...seeing if they are a good fit for you.
Right now your just torturing yourself with imagined senerios to support your wistful thinking. She gone.

Posted by STILLShe was the first to initiate the first text after our night together, correct... but I followed up the days afterwards, until she just stopped replying, then finally repined by ending it.
Maybe she thought you were taking her for granted. If she was initiating the text, she must’ve saw that you showed enthusiasm for her in another area. She may have been coming out of her usual character to show you interest. Until recently, I never initiated in my relationships of any kind. So I’m guessing that she got tired of you not putting forth effort with contacting her.
That's my best guess.

Posted by Gem0620Yes that’s true. I sometimes avoid looking at certain guys stories because I don’t want to give them the wrong impression that I’m interested. So it definitely makes me wonder why they look.Posted by pinkbird03
Same as you. He ended it. Doesn’t make sense why he still looks. He knows how I feel about him too. And how it makes me feel when he looks. But it doesn’t stop him. Why do you think she looks?
That's crazy to me for someone to do that after ending something with them. For me, if I wasn't friends with you prior to us dating I won't keep following you and if I am still following you, I for sure wouldn't look at your snaps everyday, because I don't even do that to some of my friends, I pick and choose who's stories I watch and it's not daily.
I honestly have no clue why she looks, like clock work I can post any random thing and she looks at it. Once I posted a snap of my female friend and I at dinner one night and she was the first one to look at it! Which made me feel weird, because I was afraid she would get the wrong impression. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Gem0620You can’t win back something that was never yours 🤷♀️Posted by LadyNeptune
Why don’t you trust her to know her own mind? She said to you it’s not working out and ended it. Stop looking for hidden meaning and accept that she changed her mind. People are allowed to do that. That’s what dating is about...seeing if they are a good fit for you.
Right now your just torturing yourself with imagined senerios to support your wistful thinking. She gone.
The literal title of this thread is "Is there anyway of winning back an Aquarius?", I've accepted that she made up her mind and ended things, that's why I'm here.
All I have is assumptions from those who are replying as to why she may have ended things, because I can't come up with a reason myself as I don't have one, hence why I'm asking other like minded Aquarius to shine some light of what they think may have happened.
I never once said she wasn't allowed to change her mind on me, I just wish I had a reason behind it.
I haven't contacted her since the day she sent me that text, that day is the last day I texted her, so I'm not harassing her in any way. She could very well think I'm okay and moved on... which clearly is not true. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by pinkbird03I too don't look at certain people's stories simply because I just don't want to give them the wrong impression or that care too much. Just how I am personally. The only people I look at all the time are my real close friends or family members.
Yes that’s true. I sometimes avoid looking at certain guys stories because I don’t want to give them the wrong impression that I’m interested. So it definitely makes me wonder why they look.
You probably pissed her off with the snap of the other girl. I believe that happened when I did something similar. But I’m now dating around and I believe he assumes that. So him being curious has outweighed his feelings of being upset. So it’s actually good. For me anyhow. The more tention the better. I think. I’m hoping he will react but who knows. Aquas are confusing.
So wait are you even trying to get her back?? click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneIf you're not sure as to what I mean when it comes to winning her back, I want to win back the affection she once had for me. Please lets not pretend people don't come back together again, after once ending. It happens.
You can’t win back something that was never yours 🤷♀️ click to expand

Posted by Gem0620Ok good luck with that. Awfully invested for 4 months but it’s your life to livePosted by LadyNeptune
You can’t win back something that was never yours 🤷♀️ click to expand
If you're not sure as to what I mean when it comes to winning her back, I want to win back the affection she once had for me. Please lets not pretend people don't come back together again, after once ending. It happens.
People go to the extremes of going through the process of divorcing and then getting back together and remarrying. Not saying I'm remotely in that position now, but it's not unheard of people being able to win back the affection of another person who once wanted it to end. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by LadyNeptune Ok good luck with that. Awfully invested for 4 months but it’s your life to live click to expandWhy are you so condescending?

Posted by Gem0620It definitely affected her. Like it would affect anyone seeing someone you like(d) with someone else. I think Aquarius is the most stubborn sign. Did you do anything to wrong her? She might be trying to teach you a lesson.Posted by pinkbird03
Yes that’s true. I sometimes avoid looking at certain guys stories because I don’t want to give them the wrong impression that I’m interested. So it definitely makes me wonder why they look.
You probably pissed her off with the snap of the other girl. I believe that happened when I did something similar. But I’m now dating around and I believe he assumes that. So him being curious has outweighed his feelings of being upset. So it’s actually good. For me anyhow. The more tention the better. I think. I’m hoping he will react but who knows. Aquas are confusing.
So wait are you even trying to get her back?? click to expand
I too don't look at certain people's stories simply because I just don't want to give them the wrong impression or that care too much. Just how I am personally. The only people I look at all the time are my real close friends or family members.
Not sure if I pissed her off after that snap, as she hasn't stopped watching my stores. But she may believe I've moved on and started dating again.
I would love to try to get her back, but not sure how to go about it... hence why I'm here. At times I just want to call her and see if she'll pick up. But at the same time, I want to be respectful to her and her decision, I'm so torn. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by pinkbird03If I did something to her, I honestly don't know what it was. Again, she never replied back when I asked her if it was something I did that night.Posted by Gem0620Posted by pinkbird03
Yes that’s true. I sometimes avoid looking at certain guys stories because I don’t want to give them the wrong impression that I’m interested. So it definitely makes me wonder why they look.
You probably pissed her off with the snap of the other girl. I believe that happened when I did something similar. But I’m now dating around and I believe he assumes that. So him being curious has outweighed his feelings of being upset. So it’s actually good. For me anyhow. The more tention the better. I think. I’m hoping he will react but who knows. Aquas are confusing.
So wait are you even trying to get her back?? click to expand
I too don't look at certain people's stories simply because I just don't want to give them the wrong impression or that care too much. Just how I am personally. The only people I look at all the time are my real close friends or family members.
Not sure if I pissed her off after that snap, as she hasn't stopped watching my stores. But she may believe I've moved on and started dating again.
I would love to try to get her back, but not sure how to go about it... hence why I'm here. At times I just want to call her and see if she'll pick up. But at the same time, I want to be respectful to her and her decision, I'm so torn. click to expand
It definitely affected her. Like it would affect anyone seeing someone you like(d) with someone else. I think Aquarius is the most stubborn sign. Did you do anything to wrong her? She might be trying to teach you a lesson.
Hmm to get an aqua back?? Well first off find out if she will still talk to you. Text her hey and see if she responds. If she does, then be friendly. Not awkward or emotional or show any romantic interest click to expandclick to expand

Posted by bumboklattWhat do you mean Geminis last option is honestly?
these aqua threads never get old
yeah its what it sounds like
shes keeping options open, i would just be honest with her
geminis last option is honesty lol

Posted by Gem0620Do you remember saying anything and then she reacted funny?Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Gem0620Posted by pinkbird03
Yes that’s true. I sometimes avoid looking at certain guys stories because I don’t want to give them the wrong impression that I’m interested. So it definitely makes me wonder why they look.
You probably pissed her off with the snap of the other girl. I believe that happened when I did something similar. But I’m now dating around and I believe he assumes that. So him being curious has outweighed his feelings of being upset. So it’s actually good. For me anyhow. The more tention the better. I think. I’m hoping he will react but who knows. Aquas are confusing.
So wait are you even trying to get her back?? click to expand
I too don't look at certain people's stories simply because I just don't want to give them the wrong impression or that care too much. Just how I am personally. The only people I look at all the time are my real close friends or family members.
Not sure if I pissed her off after that snap, as she hasn't stopped watching my stores. But she may believe I've moved on and started dating again.
I would love to try to get her back, but not sure how to go about it... hence why I'm here. At times I just want to call her and see if she'll pick up. But at the same time, I want to be respectful to her and her decision, I'm so torn. click to expand
It definitely affected her. Like it would affect anyone seeing someone you like(d) with someone else. I think Aquarius is the most stubborn sign. Did you do anything to wrong her? She might be trying to teach you a lesson.
Hmm to get an aqua back?? Well first off find out if she will still talk to you. Text her hey and see if she responds. If she does, then be friendly. Not awkward or emotional or show any romantic interest click to expand
If I did something to her, I honestly don't know what it was. Again, she never replied back when I asked her if it was something I did that night. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by AerialViewPosted by Gem0620
Can a Aquarius explain why she still has me on snapchat and watches my stories. That's what's throwing me off. I know when I'm done with someone I delete them off of social media and don't waste my time looking at their stuff.
She's seeing someone else and still keep an eye on you as a back up plan.
Just a theory. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by KittykitkatMe too lolPosted by AerialViewI m still watching the stories and liked the post of the guy I just recently into, but it does not mean I'm still interested to him. click to expandPosted by Gem0620
Can a Aquarius explain why she still has me on snapchat and watches my stories. That's what's throwing me off. I know when I'm done with someone I delete them off of social media and don't waste my time looking at their stuff.
She's seeing someone else and still keep an eye on you as a back up plan.
Just a theory. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by AerialViewwhat is your sign AerialViewPosted by KittykitkatPosted by AerialViewPosted by Gem0620
Can a Aquarius explain why she still has me on snapchat and watches my stories. That's what's throwing me off. I know when I'm done with someone I delete them off of social media and don't waste my time looking at their stuff.
She's seeing someone else and still keep an eye on you as a back up plan.
Just a theory. click to expand
I m still watching the stories and liked the post of the guy I just recently into, but it does not mean I'm still interested to him. click to expand
Me too lol click to expandclick to expand

Posted by KittykitkatAquarius sun (:Posted by AerialViewPosted by KittykitkatPosted by AerialViewPosted by Gem0620
Can a Aquarius explain why she still has me on snapchat and watches my stories. That's what's throwing me off. I know when I'm done with someone I delete them off of social media and don't waste my time looking at their stuff.
She's seeing someone else and still keep an eye on you as a back up plan.
Just a theory. click to expand
I m still watching the stories and liked the post of the guy I just recently into, but it does not mean I'm still interested to him. click to expand
Me too lol click to expand
what is your sign AerialView click to expandclick to expand

Posted by AerialViewCap sun Gemini moonPosted by KittykitkatPosted by AerialViewPosted by KittykitkatPosted by AerialViewPosted by Gem0620
Can a Aquarius explain why she still has me on snapchat and watches my stories. That's what's throwing me off. I know when I'm done with someone I delete them off of social media and don't waste my time looking at their stuff.
She's seeing someone else and still keep an eye on you as a back up plan.
Just a theory. click to expand
I m still watching the stories and liked the post of the guy I just recently into, but it does not mean I'm still interested to him. click to expand
Me too lol click to expand
what is your sign AerialView click to expand
Aquarius sun (:
U? click to expandclick to expand

Posted by KittykitkatYayPosted by AerialViewPosted by KittykitkatPosted by AerialViewPosted by KittykitkatPosted by AerialViewPosted by Gem0620
Can a Aquarius explain why she still has me on snapchat and watches my stories. That's what's throwing me off. I know when I'm done with someone I delete them off of social media and don't waste my time looking at their stuff.
She's seeing someone else and still keep an eye on you as a back up plan.
Just a theory. click to expand
I m still watching the stories and liked the post of the guy I just recently into, but it does not mean I'm still interested to him. click to expand
Me too lol click to expand
what is your sign AerialView click to expand
Aquarius sun (:
U? click to expand
Cap sun Gemini moon click to expandclick to expand

Posted by STILLDid you ever answer this?? I want to know too 😄Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialView
@STILL
Hey @AerialView.
click to expand
Same sex. Female.
In general Aquarius women are enigma to me.
How to win STILL back for example? Give us insight (: click to expand
lol
I'm usually very stubborn, but there are some exceptions. Let me read. I'll be back later. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Lol It's nothing prolific! think it's on the last pgPosted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialView
@STILL
Hey @AerialView.
click to expand
Same sex. Female.
In general Aquarius women are enigma to me.
How to win STILL back for example? Give us insight (: click to expand
lol
I'm usually very stubborn, but there are some exceptions. Let me read. I'll be back later. click to expand
Did you ever answer this?? I want to know too click to expandclick to expand

Posted by STILLI’ll take a look. I clicked on your name and was stalking your posts. Lol. I will jump back to the thread and see! Thanks! 😘😘😛Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialView
@STILL
Hey @AerialView.
click to expand
Same sex. Female.
In general Aquarius women are enigma to me.
How to win STILL back for example? Give us insight (: click to expand
lol
I'm usually very stubborn, but there are some exceptions. Let me read. I'll be back later. click to expand
Did you ever answer this?? I want to know too click to expand
Lol It's nothing prolific! think it's on the last pg click to expandclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Miss me huh? 😁😘😘Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialView
@STILL
Hey @AerialView.
click to expand
Same sex. Female.
In general Aquarius women are enigma to me.
How to win STILL back for example? Give us insight (: click to expand
lol
I'm usually very stubborn, but there are some exceptions. Let me read. I'll be back later. click to expand
Did you ever answer this?? I want to know too click to expand
Lol It's nothing prolific! think it's on the last pg click to expand
I’ll take a look. I clicked on your name and was stalking your posts. Lol. I will jump back to the thread and see! Thanks! 😘😘😛 click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Wineaux15I swear, I love how open you are!! 💞💞
I’m going through this with a Gem guy. I really liked him. We talked a lot and created a strong bond and intimacy. Then he disappeared for a few days. Don’t get me wrong I love my freedom, but check in on me those few days you disappear. If you don’t, I’ll think you’re not interested if it’s something I did wrong to make you respond in that way. To guard myself I’ll cut you off, but I don’t have to delete you from social media. That’s childish in my opinion. I can move on without all of that.

Posted by STILLYeah I did. It’s been a minute. I didn’t see no info on winning you back though!!! Where’s the deets— 😄Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialView
@STILL
Hey @AerialView.
click to expand
Same sex. Female.
In general Aquarius women are enigma to me.
How to win STILL back for example? Give us insight (: click to expand
lol
I'm usually very stubborn, but there are some exceptions. Let me read. I'll be back later. click to expand
Did you ever answer this?? I want to know too click to expand
Lol It's nothing prolific! think it's on the last pg click to expand
I’ll take a look. I clicked on your name and was stalking your posts. Lol. I will jump back to the thread and see! Thanks! 😘😘😛 click to expand
Miss me huh? 😁😘😘 click to expandclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88First entry, 3rd pgPosted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialView
@STILL
Hey @AerialView.
click to expand
Same sex. Female.
In general Aquarius women are enigma to me.
How to win STILL back for example? Give us insight (: click to expand
lol
I'm usually very stubborn, but there are some exceptions. Let me read. I'll be back later. click to expand
Did you ever answer this?? I want to know too click to expand
Lol It's nothing prolific! think it's on the last pg click to expand
I’ll take a look. I clicked on your name and was stalking your posts. Lol. I will jump back to the thread and see! Thanks! 😘😘😛 click to expandclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Lol too many variables. Depends on what the problem is? If you pissed me off and I know I'm just being a brat, go into overdrive trying to win me back. 😄Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialView
@STILL
Hey @AerialView.
click to expand
Same sex. Female.
In general Aquarius women are enigma to me.
How to win STILL back for example? Give us insight (: click to expand
lol
I'm usually very stubborn, but there are some exceptions. Let me read. I'll be back later. click to expand
Did you ever answer this?? I want to know too click to expand
Lol It's nothing prolific! think it's on the last pg click to expand
I’ll take a look. I clicked on your name and was stalking your posts. Lol. I will jump back to the thread and see! Thanks! 😘😘😛 click to expand
Miss me huh? 😁😘😘 click to expand
Yeah I did. It’s been a minute. I didn’t see no info on winning you back though!!! Where’s the deets— click to expandclick to expand
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I let her be for a couple of days, as being a Gemini I know how sometimes I want my space... then I hit her back up again asking her how she's been and that's when she responded back stating she didn't think it was working out between us.
I felt it came out of left field as when we were together the last time, everything was fine. So I had to ask her if it was something I did that night, but she never responded back...
It's been a few weeks now and what I realized is, she hasn't cut me off completely, she still has me on Snapchat and watches my stories.
So now I'm not sure if she pulled away because things got serious for the first time that night between us, like me meeting her friends and then later us getting much more personal in the sense that I spent the night over her place for the first time (no sex, just talking, cuddling and kissing).
Or is it possible she pulled away because she finally realized she wasn't truly feeling me?
I've been beating myself up over this for the past few weeks, as it takes a lot for me to like someone and just would like to know if there's any way of winning her back or there's no turning back with an Aquarius after they make up their minds on someone?
All my friends keep advising me to leave it alone and not waste my time, but I feel like that's the easy answer.
By the way, full discloser this was a same sex relationship.